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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm probably being daft but is there such a thing as swingers block??
I just can't seem to be able to actually meet someone, even for a social.....nerves some of you might say, and understandable, but its not that; I was on here a few years ago and met people, both socially and otherwise and all was goooood  but this time around, although i'm talking to some great people who i know i could have some amazing fun with, i just cant seem to be able to take that next step.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Perhaps you are not in the 'right place' emotionally/mentally to actually meet people?
I joined the site previously and didn't meet anyone, found a reason to not meet or chat to whoever messaged me and realised that I was just not in the right place to get what I wanted from the site.
So I left for a while, and rejoined in a completely different frame of mind and now meet and have fun and chat.....all good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd take the pressure off, meet someone for a social only. Tell them there will be absolutely no play on that meet.
See if a social gets you back into the mindset.
If it doesn't, this possibly means like others have said, you're not in the right place emotionally x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Oh i dunno.....i thought i was ready to be back, but maybe i'm not.....just annoys me cos i didnt have a problem before and i can't figure out why i do now lol. Perhaps i'm just older and wiser and more aware.............we shall see.
thanks everyone x |
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