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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

I send out loads of messages to women and couples. They are always polite messages never crude. Most get deleted and the rest get read. I have never had a reply what am I doing wrong..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Cos women get inundated with msgs, they cant reply to every one.

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By *ustcutieWoman  over a year ago

edinburgh

I always read the profile before I open a message...... Maybe that's where your problem lies..... Women notice things

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By *etty McBJWoman  over a year ago

Maybe near you it all depends

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By *etty McBJWoman  over a year ago

Maybe near you it all depends


"I always read the profile before I open a message...... Maybe that's where your problem lies..... Women notice things "

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By *.Man1510Man  over a year ago

Manchester

Always nice to get a reply, even a polite 'no thanks', but never expect a reply.... People don't have to reply.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I always read the profile before I open a message...... Maybe that's where your problem lies..... Women notice things

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Assuming you mean the fact he says straight but his veri is from a man

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

So how can I improve my profile

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I send out loads of messages to women and couples. They are always polite messages never crude. Most get deleted and the rest get read. I have never had a reply what am I doing wrong.."

Your profile I would say is very basic and one of the things that I look for is a profile picture. Now you have no profile picture at all yet have a face picture within your photos. Why not use that instead as your profile picture.

As said before, women do spend time checking out profiles and if they get inundated with messages, they will be looking for something that really stands out. Why not try revising your profile a little?.

Good luck. xx

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By *ustcutieWoman  over a year ago

edinburgh


"I always read the profile before I open a message...... Maybe that's where your problem lies..... Women notice things

Assuming you mean the fact he says straight but his veri is from a man "

Definitely part of it

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple  over a year ago

near cardiff


"I send out loads of messages to women and couples. They are always polite messages never crude. Most get deleted and the rest get read. I have never had a reply what am I doing wrong.."

Maybe they're not attracted to you...sexual attraction is important to a lot of people

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I always read the profile before I open a message...... Maybe that's where your problem lies..... Women notice things

Assuming you mean the fact he says straight but his veri is from a man

Definitely part of it "

A big part of it! Your profile is immediately a contradiction - sometimes that's enough for bells to ring and women to move on!

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By *irtyGirlWoman  over a year ago

Edinburgh


"So how can I improve my profile"

You could start by getting shot of the shadow and inject some personality into your profile. Think of it as your shop window... as a window shopper I'd move onto the one next door pretty quickly as it stands. Humour is good. Use it to your advantage. There are zillions of single men here, you need to make people want to come into your shop.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Change the bit where it says straight to bi

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By *ustcutieWoman  over a year ago

edinburgh

Bloody hell the first time he gets replies and now he's gone

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

lol that was a quick unlos, he will be back.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Maybe he's listened to comments & decided to do a completely new profile.

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By *LCCCouple  over a year ago

Cambridge

I love it when they go unlos before you can even post on the thread.

We had a message the other day from someone who went unlos before we even had a chance to read it!

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By *harpDressed ManMan  over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"I love it when they go unlos before you can even post on the thread.

We had a message the other day from someone who went unlos before we even had a chance to read it! "

I've had that once, although judging by th level o abuse it included, I think it might have been a short term profile anyway!

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