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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

I had a nice time in Chams. I met a lot of new people even if the club was very empty.

Worth mentioning the Sex in the Jacuzzi while everyone was watching us

...I liked that

She was good and very nice.

Sex session was pretty short also this time as I understood this is normal practice in clubs for Couples MF

...but I enjoyed it! Brief but intense: if I can have 20-30 nice girls for a 10-15min session in a night it is perfect ahahahahah

I can have fun in a Swinger Club, but I need definetely more playing girls to be there

...otherwise money spent are not worth...

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Are we going to get a blow by blow account of every time you go to a club?

Apart from that, having the attitude of 'I pay to get in, I should get sex' is not very attractive.

But its good you enjoyed yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Are we going to get a blow by blow account of every time you go to a club?

Apart from that, having the attitude of 'I pay to get in, I should get sex' is not very attractive.

But its good you enjoyed yourself."

Very unattractive

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

1) Well yes. Hotel plus taxi plus the train plus the entry fee

It was good in two times in a club I had at least a short or a very short "Sex" session even if the clubs were very empty

This means that they are worth when they have more people

Nope this is only for my first times no worries

...and I promised I would have done it to keep them updated ahahahah

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Didn't think sex in the hut tub was allowed; although I know it happens! Why would you expect sex purely because you pay to get in? I regularly attend clubs but don't go with an 'I'm going to get it' approach! But then I love the social side

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Apart from that, having the attitude of 'I pay to get in, I should get sex' is not very attractive."

Agree with this lady, i think lots of people dont get the opportunity to play everytime they visit, you might end up disappointed if thats the be all and end all of it for you

lol. Glad you had a great time though, ive been twice now too x

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By *ohnkezCouple over a year ago

shefiield

"Didn't think sex in the hut tub was allowed; although I know it happens! Why would you expect sex purely because you pay to get in? I regularly attend clubs but don't go with an 'I'm going to get it' approach! But then I love the social side

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Please keep us updated with which clubs you will be attending next OP - so I can avoid them! Maybe The Private Club would be more your scene. You would be guaranteed a fuck in there from the working girls.

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

"Agree with this lady, i think lots of people dont get the opportunity to play everytime they visit, you might end up disappointed if thats the be all and end all of it for you

lol. Glad you had a great time though, ive been twice now too x"

If you see it this way it is a whole different thing

. I can understand what you are saying

However I disagree. It is good to chat to new people, but if I wanted only that I would have gone in another less expensive places and nearer my home (to avoid hotel). If you are a single guy it is expensive. Easy to say that when it is free

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Please keep us updated with which clubs you will be attending next OP - so I can avoid them! Maybe The Private Club would be more your scene. You would be guaranteed a fuck in there from the working girls."

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

In Chams it is allowed

as far as I know. In Xtasia it is not

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By *adybee77Woman over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Oh dear, you pay to get in so you must get sex...? Its guys with that kind of attitude that put many people off going to clubs.

Respect, manners and its as much about the social side as the action.

And sex in the Jacuzzi - have you no thought for others who would use the facilities? Who wants to be in water with your bodily fluids. Yuck

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In Chams it is allowed

as far as I know. In Xtasia it is not "

Really ? That does surprise me!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Good to see a single guy having a positive time at a club

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

It seems I have a guaranteed (short, maybe enjoable) fuck* in all the clubs I was in at moment

*note this term. This is really UNATTRACTIVE

Good mantain a 100m distance please

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

In Chams it is allowed

as far as I know. In Xtasia it is not

Really ? That does surprise me! "

I was not instructed differently. As far as I know you can have sex on the table of the bar

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had a nice time in Chams. I met a lot of new people even if the club was very empty.

Worth mentioning the Sex in the Jacuzzi while everyone was watching us

...I liked that

She was good and very nice.

Sex session was pretty short also this time as I understood this is normal practice in clubs for Couples MF

...but I enjoyed it! Brief but intense: if I can have 20-30 nice girls for a 10-15min session in a night it is perfect ahahahahah

I can have fun in a Swinger Club, but I need definetely more playing girls to be there

...otherwise money spent are not worth..."

At least your penis survived unscathed this time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have you considered it was only a short time because they didn't want to continue playing with you

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

"Oh dear, you pay to get in so you must get sex...? Its guys with that kind of attitude that put many people off going to clubs.

Respect, manners and its as much about the social side as the action.

And sex in the Jacuzzi - have you no thought for others who would use the facilities? Who wants to be in water with your bodily fluids. Yuck"

My bodily fluids where inside a condom (I did mot cum btw). People came inside the jacuzzi when we started. So it was attractive for them

I agree I would go away if someone would do that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In Chams it is allowed

as far as I know. In Xtasia it is not

Really ? That does surprise me!

I was not instructed differently. As far as I know you can have sex on the table of the bar"

Sorry I'm not wishing to appear argumentative but I for one do not wish to exoerience/be inflicted to other people's body fluid whilst in a jacuzzi.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You do realise swingers clubs are not brothels right ? Your attitude towards having to pay and then expecting sex because of this are appalling. I don't think you understand swinging at all. It's a lifestyle not prostituion

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In Chams it is allowed

as far as I know. In Xtasia it is not

Really ? That does surprise me!

I was not instructed differently. As far as I know you can have sex on the table of the bar

Sorry I'm not wishing to appear argumentative but I for one do not wish to exoerience/be inflicted to other people's body fluid whilst in a jacuzzi. "

*experience

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman over a year ago

Deviant City

"Oh dear, you pay to get in so you must get sex...? Its guys with that kind of attitude that put many people off going to clubs.

Respect, manners and its as much about the social side as the action.

And sex in the Jacuzzi - have you no thought for others who would use the facilities? Who wants to be in water with your bodily fluids. Yuck"

How many ladies use Jacuzzis with spunk filled pussies? Fair few I'd imagine, that's why I tend to go in first thing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh dear, you pay to get in so you must get sex...? Its guys with that kind of attitude that put many people off going to clubs.

Respect, manners and its as much about the social side as the action.

And sex in the Jacuzzi - have you no thought for others who would use the facilities? Who wants to be in water with your bodily fluids. Yuck

How many ladies use Jacuzzis with spunk filled pussies? Fair few I'd imagine, that's why I tend to go in first thing."

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

Seems clubs are always empty when you go op

Why on earth you think your going to "get it" must cause you paid is beyond me.

Oh and I have to pay for trains, accommodation, new outfit, but then I go to socialise and have a fun night and anything else is a bonus. If I was going just for sex there's easier and cheaper ways to get it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh dear, you pay to get in so you must get sex...? Its guys with that kind of attitude that put many people off going to clubs.

Respect, manners and its as much about the social side as the action.

And sex in the Jacuzzi - have you no thought for others who would use the facilities? Who wants to be in water with your bodily fluids. Yuck

How many ladies use Jacuzzis with spunk filled pussies? Fair few I'd imagine, that's why I tend to go in first thing."

How about the 'shower before getting in' rule?

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman over a year ago

Deviant City

"Oh dear, you pay to get in so you must get sex...? Its guys with that kind of attitude that put many people off going to clubs.

Respect, manners and its as much about the social side as the action.

And sex in the Jacuzzi - have you no thought for others who would use the facilities? Who wants to be in water with your bodily fluids. Yuck

My bodily fluids where inside a condom (I did mot cum btw). People came inside the jacuzzi when we started. So it was attractive for them

I agree I would go away if someone would do that

Are you aware that latex and chlorine are a bad mix? A condom can disintegrate. Pretty much like going bareback.

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By *expuss2015Woman over a year ago

Planet Sex

I never saw you around last night unless I wasn't attractive enough to have caught your eye lol

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman over a year ago

Deviant City

"Oh dear, you pay to get in so you must get sex...? Its guys with that kind of attitude that put many people off going to clubs.

Respect, manners and its as much about the social side as the action.

And sex in the Jacuzzi - have you no thought for others who would use the facilities? Who wants to be in water with your bodily fluids. Yuck

How many ladies use Jacuzzis with spunk filled pussies? Fair few I'd imagine, that's why I tend to go in first thing.

How about the 'shower before getting in' rule? "

Seen many that don't bother! Even those with fake tan ignore signs and get in, very selfish. Turn up on next visit and hot tub fucked.

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

"At least your penis survived unscathed this time

Yes this is why I enjoyed! Fun stopped when the boyfriend wanted to play. But I can understand.

So to reply to a comment above. We stopped after 10-15 min because:

1) she enjoyed it already...a few times I think

2) he did not like her girl to have sex for more without any other interaction (she was totally focused on having sex with me...nice girl

)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love how a single guy as a positive time at a club and gets shot down for it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You do realise swingers clubs are not brothels right ? Your attitude towards having to pay and then expecting sex because of this are appalling. I don't think you understand swinging at all. It's a lifestyle not prostituion "

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

"Oh dear, you pay to get in so you must get sex...? Its guys with that kind of attitude that put many people off going to clubs.

Respect, manners and its as much about the social side as the action.

And sex in the Jacuzzi - have you no thought for others who would use the facilities? Who wants to be in water with your bodily fluids. Yuck

My bodily fluids where inside a condom (I did mot cum btw). People came inside the jacuzzi when we started. So it was attractive for them

I agree I would go away if someone would do that

Are you aware that latex and chlorine are a bad mix? A condom can disintegrate. Pretty much like going bareback."

I need to inform myself then. I used Thicker condoms anyway.

It was intact I checked a few times

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman over a year ago

Deviant City

"Love how a single guy as a positive time at a club and gets shot down for it.

Think what has got most people's backs up, is the fact he thinks he is guaranteed sex, just because he's paid to get in.

I often get hotels, new outfit, taxi, entrance to club, I've never expected to get sex.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman over a year ago

Deviant City

"Oh dear, you pay to get in so you must get sex...? Its guys with that kind of attitude that put many people off going to clubs.

Respect, manners and its as much about the social side as the action.

And sex in the Jacuzzi - have you no thought for others who would use the facilities? Who wants to be in water with your bodily fluids. Yuck

My bodily fluids where inside a condom (I did mot cum btw). People came inside the jacuzzi when we started. So it was attractive for them

I agree I would go away if someone would do that

Are you aware that latex and chlorine are a bad mix? A condom can disintegrate. Pretty much like going bareback.

I need to inform myself then. I used Thicker condoms anyway.

It was intact I checked a few times

Doesn't matter how thick they are. Just be careful.

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

Checked: chlorine is harmful for latex only in high concentrations. No problem then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Glad you enjoyed yourself .... Just maybe next time don't go with the 'it's a swinging club, I paid to get in so I have to have sex' outlook ! The social side and making friends in the lifestyle us also very good ! Have a great weekend

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

Yes it matters. Thicher means stronger...

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

"Love how a single guy as a positive time at a club and gets shot down for it.

Think what has got most people's backs up, is the fact he thinks he is guaranteed sex, just because he's paid to get in.

I often get hotels, new outfit, taxi, entrance to club, I've never expected to get sex."

As said hotel, entry fee, taxi, train.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

OP, how much dosh did you pay out in total?

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

"Glad you enjoyed yourself .... Just maybe next time don't go with the 'it's a swinging club, I paid to get in so I have to have sex' outlook ! The social side and making friends in the lifestyle us also very good ! Have a great weekend

Well I go in Swinger Club to swing. Of course meeting new people is a very important and nice part.

You know my first meet on this site was a real date. So I am the last person who thinks to Sex only

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

"Seems clubs are always empty when you go op

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman over a year ago

Deviant City

"Yes it matters. Thicher means stronger..."

the cholorine in chams jacuzzis is out of this world, my eyes water just walking past. Just saying be careful.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman over a year ago

Deviant City

"Love how a single guy as a positive time at a club and gets shot down for it.

Think what has got most people's backs up, is the fact he thinks he is guaranteed sex, just because he's paid to get in.

I often get hotels, new outfit, taxi, entrance to club, I've never expected to get sex.

As said hotel, entry fee, taxi, train. "

I live further away, so fuel will cost me the same as your entrance fee. I don't always have sex, but I always have a great time in Chams and have made some great friends there, which is an important aspect of swinging to me, but hey, we're all different.

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Love how a single guy as a positive time at a club and gets shot down for it.

Think what has got most people's backs up, is the fact he thinks he is guaranteed sex, just because he's paid to get in.

I often get hotels, new outfit, taxi, entrance to club, I've never expected to get sex.

As said hotel, entry fee, taxi, train. "

Have you thought about booking one of the rooms at Chams? Can work out cheaper than a hotel, and you get breakfast.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Are we going to get a blow by blow account of every time you go to a club?

Apart from that, having the attitude of 'I pay to get in, I should get sex' is not very attractive.

But its good you enjoyed yourself.

Very unattractive

This

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

"Have you thought about booking one of the rooms at Chams? Can work out cheaper than a hotel, and you get breakfast."

Yeah they told me about this. Hotel price would have been similar anyway. I would have saved a little bit of money for the taxi though

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"OP, how much dosh did you pay out in total? "

£17.56 doesn't seem too bad.

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

"Yes it matters. Thicher means stronger...

the cholorine in chams jacuzzis is out of this world, my eyes water just walking past. Just saying be careful."

No the chlorine level is very low compared to other jacuzzi or pools I went.

I will bring not-latex condoms next time now that I know the light danger. Thanks

Just to let you know the concentration cannot be high enough to seriously damage the condom in a short time. It is mainly water of course. It is not a bath of chlorine!?

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

"OP, how much dosh did you pay out in total? "

Well much less than a date in London

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

"Are we going to get a blow by blow account of every time you go to a club?

Apart from that, having the attitude of 'I pay to get in, I should get sex' is not very attractive.

But its good you enjoyed yourself.

Very unattractive

This

...?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Youre obviously getting sex when you visit clubs because your body looks good. Your attitude is awful :/ Have never met anybody at a club who "expected" to get sex. Oh and no, i may not have to pay when i visit but that doesnt mean i have any obligation to provide sex to anyone!!

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"OP, how much dosh did you pay out in total?

Well much less than a date in London

£17.56

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple over a year ago

near cardiff

"I had a nice time in Chams. I met a lot of new people even if the club was very empty.

Worth mentioning the Sex in the Jacuzzi while everyone was watching us

...I liked that

She was good and very nice.

Sex session was pretty short also this time as I understood this is normal practice in clubs for Couples MF

...but I enjoyed it! Brief but intense: if I can have 20-30 nice girls for a 10-15min session in a night it is perfect ahahahahah

I can have fun in a Swinger Club, but I need definetely more playing girls to be there

...otherwise money spent are not worth..."

Glad you enjoyed yourself,and good to see the self righteous jumping down your throat

How dare you hope for more girls to be there who want to play!you chauvinistic pig

leave all hope and expectation at the door please.these normal human traits are disgusting,especially for a single guy in the swinging world.just be grateful to all the fat,old wheezy men you get to speak to(funny story there about chams in Newport)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had a nice time in Chams. I met a lot of new people even if the club was very empty.

Worth mentioning the Sex in the Jacuzzi while everyone was watching us

...I liked that

She was good and very nice.

Sex session was pretty short also this time as I understood this is normal practice in clubs for Couples MF

...but I enjoyed it! Brief but intense: if I can have 20-30 nice girls for a 10-15min session in a night it is perfect ahahahahah

I can have fun in a Swinger Club, but I need definetely more playing girls to be there

...otherwise money spent are not worth...

Glad you enjoyed yourself,and good to see the self righteous jumping down your throat

How dare you hope for more girls to be there who want to play!you chauvinistic pig

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

"Youre obviously getting sex when you visit clubs because your body looks good. Your attitude is awful :/ Have never met anybody at a club who "expected" to get sex. Oh and no, i may not have to pay when i visit but that doesnt mean i have any obligation to provide sex to anyone!!"

Did I offend you? Do you know me to judge my attitude?

...only good?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP, how much dosh did you pay out in total? "

Did you get your money's worth ??

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By *expuss2015Woman over a year ago

Planet Sex

I was in the Jacuzzi Friday eve and the chlorine was ok. I have read that the only reason chlorine levels can get high and effect peoples eyes are the fact that when people don't shower before going into a jacuzzi over time sweat, perfume, fake tan etc can react with the chlorine. Thats why at swimming pools it is advised you shower before going in the pool.

I have to add that I know I don't pay to go to Chams but for me its more of the social side to chat to people and make great friends. I don't expect sex with guys overtime I go - if I do have sex its a bonus. I feel more comfortable there than going to a 'normal' club up town.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had a nice time in Chams. I met a lot of new people even if the club was very empty.

Worth mentioning the Sex in the Jacuzzi while everyone was watching us

...I liked that

She was good and very nice.

Sex session was pretty short also this time as I understood this is normal practice in clubs for Couples MF

...but I enjoyed it! Brief but intense: if I can have 20-30 nice girls for a 10-15min session in a night it is perfect ahahahahah

I can have fun in a Swinger Club, but I need definetely more playing girls to be there

...otherwise money spent are not worth..."

I read this and thought you had learnt something from your last post.

But then read the last paragraph and realised that your arrogance appears to be matched by your sense of entitlement

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

"Glad you enjoyed yourself,and good to see the self righteous jumping down your throat

What does it mean?

I have been spoilt to have sex with more girls. I can get one girl in a normal club sometimes. I am expecting to get more than 1 on swinger clubs sometimes

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Did I offend you? Do you know me to judge my attitude?

...only good?

"
You didnt offend me and no i don't know you but youre putting your attitude out there for everybody to judge lol. Its the sense of entitlement that offends me a little. "Ive paid, therefore I'm owed sex" And yes, its good. Am not a fan of little pants though

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

"I read this and thought you had learnt something from your last post.

But then read the last paragraph and realised that your arrogance appears to be matched by your sense of entitlement

Monkey hater. Have sex. Relax

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had a nice time in Chams. I met a lot of new people even if the club was very empty.

Worth mentioning the Sex in the Jacuzzi while everyone was watching us

...I liked that

She was good and very nice.

Sex session was pretty short also this time as I understood this is normal practice in clubs for Couples MF

...but I enjoyed it! Brief but intense: if I can have 20-30 nice girls for a 10-15min session in a night it is perfect ahahahahah

I can have fun in a Swinger Club, but I need definetely more playing girls to be there

...otherwise money spent are not worth...

I read this and thought you had learnt something from your last post.

But then read the last paragraph and realised that your arrogance appears to be matched by your sense of entitlement

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

Did I offend you? Do you know me to judge my attitude?

...only good?

You didnt offend me and no i don't know you but youre putting your attitude out there for everybody to judge lol. Its the sense of entitlement that offends me a little. "Ive paid, therefore I'm owed sex" And yes, its good. Am not a fan of little pants though

No one has to judge. Full stop.

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

Ahahah I will remove them next time

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

"OP, how much dosh did you pay out in total?

Well much less than a date in London

£17.56

Does not make any sense to me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Should try a party night next one being Halloween x

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Checked: chlorine is harmful for latex only in high concentrations. No problem then

Trust me, I ve never been anywhere with a higher chlorine concentration than the Jacuzzis at Chams...

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

They reduced it I think in the latest days. No bubbles too

Maybe for this

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"They reduced it I think in the latest days. No bubbles too

Maybe for this

When was I last there, you think?

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

My gym pool chlorine concentration is definetly much much higher anyway. You cough if you stay long

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I never saw you around last night unless I wasn't attractive enough to have caught your eye lol"

yes I'm thinking the same... or maybe his pictures give false assumption? I didn't think it was particularly empty either...from around 10pm. I've seen it a lot quieter!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Oh dear, you pay to get in so you must get sex...? Its guys with that kind of attitude that put many people off going to clubs.

Respect, manners and its as much about the social side as the action.

And sex in the Jacuzzi - have you no thought for others who would use the facilities? Who wants to be in water with your bodily fluids. Yuck

How many ladies use Jacuzzis with spunk filled pussies? Fair few I'd imagine, that's why I tend to go in first thing.

How about the 'shower before getting in' rule?

Seen many that don't bother! Even those with fake tan ignore signs and get in, very selfish. Turn up on next visit and hot tub fucked."

Before Chams electrical problem the power of the Jacuzzi was very good, but they're still working on it to get it back to how it originally was. The water is constantly filtered while on and the filter is cleaned regularly, ca't say the filter is too nice to clean though

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By *ighclassfunMan over a year ago

Cheshire

In Chams it is allowed

as far as I know. In Xtasia it is not

Really ? That does surprise me!

I was not instructed differently. As far as I know you can have sex on the table of the bar

Sorry I'm not wishing to appear argumentative but I for one do not wish to exoerience/be inflicted to other people's body fluid whilst in a jacuzzi.

*experience "

Not very classy

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

"I never saw you around last night unless I wasn't attractive enough to have caught your eye lol

yes I'm thinking the same... or maybe his pictures give false assumption? I didn't think it was particularly empty either...from around 10pm. I've seen it a lot quieter!"

I think I saw you instead. I was the guy with lots of condoms at the bar. Grey underwear.

You were wondering around the bar a few times. You could have said hi as many other a did instead of doing wrong assumptions

...and sorry it was the first reason.

But you should have said hi anyway. I do not consider only the exterior bits. I am not a girl. An like to talk tk new people

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

Just to underline I was not sure it was you. Otherwise I would have said hi anyway if you stayed still in a place

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I never saw you around last night unless I wasn't attractive enough to have caught your eye lol

yes I'm thinking the same... or maybe his pictures give false assumption? I didn't think it was particularly empty either...from around 10pm. I've seen it a lot quieter!

I think I saw you instead. I was the guy with lots of condoms at the bar. Grey underwear.

You were wondering around the bar a few times. You could have said hi as many other a did instead of doing wrong assumptions

...and sorry it was the first reason.

But you should have said hi anyway. I do not consider only the exterior bits. I am not a girl. An like to talk tk new people

I could have said hi? I spoke to many people throughout the night... Do you think I was looking at how many condoms people were carrying around or what they were wearing? No I wasn't.. I tend to look at faces. As I said I didn't see you there, so if you saw me you could have said hi. It was another females first time, I recognised her and went and spoke to her.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just to underline I was not sure it was you. Otherwise I would have said hi anyway if you stayed still in a place

I stayed still in many places... i was sat at the bar for many periods of time. When i go wonder, I'm alking about, therefore not sitting still

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just to underline I was not sure it was you. Otherwise I would have said hi anyway if you stayed still in a place

I stayed still in many places... i was sat at the bar for many periods of time. When i go wonder, I'm alking about, therefore not sitting still

You should have started the conversation. I was sat there for long. Maybe next time

Like I said....I didn't see you there, so to me you would have just been another random man there and I spoke to plenty that night... maybe you didn't catch my eye for me to start conversing with.. however your attitude toward clubs if rather naive, maybe next time you should stay local, as like it has previously been stated to you...ALL clubs are hit and miss

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

I tend to look at faces and bodies

Cool maybe next time

I would suggest to girls to speak with me or just stay still in place near me possibly for more than 2 min. I cannot tackle you if you are wondering around, and if you move a lot it means you just want to hook up with someone regardless of him/her. Swinger attitude I suppose, you cannot stay still

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This bloke has got to be a wind up

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

I deleted that message sorry. I was not clear.

Cool with me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I tend to look at faces and bodies

Cool maybe next time

no guess I can't stay still... all the people I spoke to on the night must have just been following me around all night to talk to me

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

If I wanted to speak with you I would have done it

This hit and miss thing is pretty bad...unless there are a lot of nice girls in the club where you can jump from one to another (as girls do with men...but again it seems that for them every man is ok

). Naughty naughty girls

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Reading some of the comments on here is like being in the school play ground again. Grow up and stop playing hard to get

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I wanted to speak with you I would have done it

). Naughty naughty girls

ever thought some people might not find you attractive?

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

"ALL clubs are hit and miss "

I try to hit when I want, I miss when I want

You did not catch my eye too obviously as I spoke with a very few girls on my initiative. But you felt the same so "friends" as before I hope

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

"ever thought some people might not find you attractive?"

I thought I deleted also that message sorry (I clicked back before sending it) XD

Well the question is sent back. I was called asshole because I did not like someone. And here I was put in questions because I did not start talking with someone. Girls are not that different from do you realize it right?

And yes I really do. Do you?

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"Reading some of the comments on here is like being in the school play ground again. Grow up and stop playing hard to get

actually i think it has a lot to do with attitude...

I hate to agree with the monkey bike fella... but my first thought upon reading this persons post was

" did he not learn anything from his first post/visit to the other club...... because to be honest it doesn't feel like it"

I cringed.... sorry.... I did!!!!

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

*from men

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman over a year ago

Deviant City

"Glad you enjoyed yourself,and good to see the self righteous jumping down your throat

What does it mean?

I have been spoilt to have sex with more girls. I can get one girl in a normal club sometimes. I am expecting to get more than 1 on swinger clubs sometimes

Well what we are saying, you shouldn't be EXPECTING to have any girls at a club.

I really do think you belong in a brothel with that attitude, I really do.

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

"no guess I can't stay still... all the people I spoke to on the night must have just been following me around all night to talk to me

Were you escaping?

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By *expuss2015Woman over a year ago

Planet Sex

When I go I like to wonder around as its nice to see who is around and if anything is going on. Its a lot better than proping the bar up or sitting down all night lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is it a cultural thing ?

This guy surely must be trying to wind us up ....

We were thinking of heading up to Chams soon after a break if almost a year , but if he's there we would rather give it a miss ......

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

"Well what we are saying, you shouldn't be EXPECTING to have any girls at a club.

I really do think you belong in a brothel with that attitude, I really do."

If you know any high-end brothel who needs some professional male performer let me know

I am not expecting. I am hoping in a good experience as in a normal club.

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

"Is it a cultural thing ?

This guy surely must be trying to wind us up ....

We were thinking of heading up to Chams soon after a break if almost a year , but if he's there we would rather give it a miss ......

Good stay home

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In Chams it is allowed

as far as I know. In Xtasia it is not "

Is it not? I've shagged in the jacuzzi in xtasia noone said it wasn't allowed

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By *adybee77Woman over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"Is it a cultural thing ?

This guy surely must be trying to wind us up ....

We were thinking of heading up to Chams soon after a break if almost a year , but if he's there we would rather give it a miss ......

Good stay home

Great attitude OP

The times I have been to clubs, both as a single female and as part of a couple, the only expectations I go with are to have a nice evening out... anything more is a bonus, going in with a sense of expectation is a real turn off.

And I do not sit still - the whole point is to mingle, chat and if anything develops then all well and good - if not, its still been fun.

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

In Chams it is allowed

as far as I know. In Xtasia it is not

Is it not? I've shagged in the jacuzzi in xtasia noone said it wasn't allowed "

I think I read it on the website

Naugthy naughty girl

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman over a year ago

Deviant City

"Well what we are saying, you shouldn't be EXPECTING to have any girls at a club.

I really do think you belong in a brothel with that attitude, I really do.

If you know any high-end brothel who needs some professional male performer let me know

I am not expecting. I am hoping in a good experience as in a normal club.

You are expecting, those were your own words and I quote (again) " I have been spoilt to have sex with more girls. I can get one girl in a normal club sometimes. I am expecting to get more than 1 on swinger clubs sometimes "

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman over a year ago

Deviant City

And I do not sit still - the whole point is to mingle, chat and if anything develops then all well and good - if not, its still been fun."

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

"Well what we are saying, you shouldn't be EXPECTING to have any girls at a club.

I really do think you belong in a brothel with that attitude, I really do.

If you know any high-end brothel who needs some professional male performer let me know

I am not expecting. I am hoping in a good experience as in a normal club.

Yes I am expecting it once in a while. Like I am expecting to fall in love someday

Maybe the english word is not used appropriately...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it a cultural thing ?

This guy surely must be trying to wind us up ....

We were thinking of heading up to Chams soon after a break if almost a year , but if he's there we would rather give it a miss ......

Good stay home

We certainly will . Hopefully your next club visit will be better - with a queue of lovely ladies awaiting your charm and Adonis like body .

We aren't worthy

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By *not69Man over a year ago

Lancashire

"Agree with this lady, i think lots of people dont get the opportunity to play everytime they visit, you might end up disappointed if thats the be all and end all of it for you

lol. Glad you had a great time though, ive been twice now too x

If you see it this way it is a whole different thing

. I can understand what you are saying

I go to clubs as a single guy all the time and I say the same thing. I go hoping to play but not expecting it. I go to meet new people and make new friends, if I get to play them that's a bonus. If those new friends don't want to play that's fine, the week after they may introduce me to someone that does.

you got the chance to play on a quiet night. think yourself lucky

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

"Is it a cultural thing ?

This guy surely must be trying to wind us up ....

We were thinking of heading up to Chams soon after a break if almost a year , but if he's there we would rather give it a miss ......

Good stay home

We certainly will . Hopefully your next club visit will be better - with a queue of lovely ladies awaiting your charm and Adonis like body .

We aren't worthy

Ladies* please get a number at the ticket machine outside the club

*LADIES = decent, clean, high sex drive

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

"Agree with this lady, i think lots of people dont get the opportunity to play everytime they visit, you might end up disappointed if thats the be all and end all of it for you

lol. Glad you had a great time though, ive been twice now too x

If you see it this way it is a whole different thing

. I can understand what you are saying

you got the chance to play on a quiet night. think yourself lucky"

I do really. And I think that if the clubs were busy I would not have been here complaining or discussing

hoping for the next future

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman over a year ago

Deviant City

"Is it a cultural thing ?

This guy surely must be trying to wind us up ....

We were thinking of heading up to Chams soon after a break if almost a year , but if he's there we would rather give it a miss ......

Good stay home

We certainly will . Hopefully your next club visit will be better - with a queue of lovely ladies awaiting your charm and Adonis like body .

We aren't worthy

Ladies* please get a number at the ticket machine outside the club

*LADIES = decent, clean, high sex drive

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By *iSTARessWoman over a year ago

London

"This bloke has got to be a wind up "

I know right

Reads like Alan Partridge went swinging.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If this was an airshow this would be about the time firetrucks start screaming across the airfield :p

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

"This bloke has got to be a wind up

I know right

Reads like Alan Partridge went swinging."

And the rationale would be...?

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

"If this was an airshow this would be about the time firetrucks start screaming across the airfield :p"

But it is not an airshow...

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By *ewcouplemidsCouple over a year ago

walsall

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By *ewcouplemidsCouple over a year ago

walsall

"Is it a cultural thing ?

This guy surely must be trying to wind us up ....

We were thinking of heading up to Chams soon after a break if almost a year , but if he's there we would rather give it a miss ......

Good stay home

Try a Saturday night it's couples and single ladies only so no idiots

We certainly will . Hopefully your next club visit will be better - with a queue of lovely ladies awaiting your charm and Adonis like body .

We aren't worthy

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"OP, how much dosh did you pay out in total?

Well much less than a date in London

£17.56

Does not make any sense to me

It's pounds sterling. What we buy things with in the UK.

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

"OP, how much dosh did you pay out in total?

Well much less than a date in London

£17.56

Does not make any sense to me

It's pounds sterling. What we buy things with in the UK.

Ahahah I meant the number. It is a random number!?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Surely most blokes would prefer there were lots of women playing at clubs? I'll admit the "money's worth" phrase is probably an unfortunate choice of words, but I'd be miffed if I went to a club and it were all women or couples just looking for men. Yes I'm sure the social side is important too blah blah, but if I was going to a club, quite frankly, I'd be going with the hope of sex.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is this guy serious. He makes himself sound like hes gods gift. Come on man, get your head out of your ass. Im sure you have now made many more enemies than friends and all the lovely women should call you what you really are if they see you in a club.

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

"Surely most blokes would prefer there were lots of women playing at clubs? I'll admit the "money's worth" phrase is probably an unfortunate choice of words, but I'd be miffed if I went to a club and it were all women or couples just looking for men. Yes I'm sure the social side is important too blah blah, but if I was going to a club, quite frankly, I'd be going with the hope of sex. "

Thank God a girl who says the truth

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

"Is this guy serious. He makes himself sound like hes gods gift. Come on man, get your head out of your ass. Im sure you have now made many more enemies than friends and all the lovely women should call you what you really are if they see you in a club."

A speaking cock from USA. Better the Monkey hater at this point ahahahah

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

So it seems not many people do...and if you say you are hoping to have sex that isn't right

We went to a club to have sex...shoot me now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it a cultural thing ?

This guy surely must be trying to wind us up ....

We were thinking of heading up to Chams soon after a break if almost a year , but if he's there we would rather give it a miss ......

I was there last night and I'm presuming it's more of a keyboard warrior thing as there was certainly noone there last night who came across so arrogant and cocky.. I spoke to many men there and clearly he wasn't one of them and with his attitude I'm quite glad really

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

OK if people are going to post please do so without getting personal

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You're a talking cock from the USA apparently, so I'll be a talking clown from the UK and agree that this talking torso from UK/Italy does seem to think he's Gods gift

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

"I was there last night and I'm presuming it's more of a keyboard warrior thing as there was certainly noone there last night who came across so arrogant and cocky.. I spoke to many men there and clearly he wasn't one of them and with his attitude I'm quite glad really "

I am not arrogant nor cocky. Only when having sex maybe...but I am usually very gentle too.

Well no one at the Chams said stupid things to me. Apart for a guy who said he had a bigger cock then me

maybe but I was conpletely at rest. We were at the bar ahahahah

If you judge people misreading Forum threads, I do not want to have any discussion with you.

Accept the rejection please. I was rejected once last night too. I am not bubbling on the Forum

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman over a year ago

Deviant City

there is a difference in hoping to get sex and expecting to get it.

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By *not69Man over a year ago

Lancashire

I always go to clubs with the hope of sex, but not an expectation, there is a difference.

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By *not69Man over a year ago

Lancashire

"there is a difference in hoping to get sex and expecting to get it. "

Haha PP you best be too it xx

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

"You're a talking cock from the USA apparently, so I'll be a talking clown from the UK and agree that this talking torso from UK/Italy does seem to think he's Gods gift"

Do you realize you are losing your dignity? See my post above please about rejection

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"there is a difference in hoping to get sex and expecting to get it. "

If you believe your thread is being misread by the majority reading it, then you may want to rethink your wording of what you write

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

"there is a difference in hoping to get sex and expecting to get it. "

Expecting might end up with people being disappointed but we wouldn't go to a club just to chat....I would expect / hope I would get what I went for. If I wanted to sit and socialise all night we would go out with friends

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

" If you believe your thread is being misread by the majority reading it, then you may want to rethink your wording of what you write"

If you look carefully not the majority. Only forum trolls and haters...normal practice nowadays

Additionally some of the comments, included yours, make no sense and are not related to the OP and are somehow offensive without any valid reason...again normal practice...

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

"there is a difference in hoping to get sex and expecting to get it.

THANKS FOR THE SUPPORT!? There are normal people on the Forum

They are not called Chatting Clubs...but Swinger Clubs!?!?... or Sex Clubs?

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

Maybe time to leave it there now

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" If you believe your thread is being misread by the majority reading it, then you may want to rethink your wording of what you write

If you look carefully not the majority. Only forum trolls and haters...normal practice nowadays

Additionally some of the comments, included yours, make no sense and are not related to the OP and are somehow offensive without any valid reason...again normal practice..."

Erm I'm neither a forum troll or a hater!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" If you believe your thread is being misread by the majority reading it, then you may want to rethink your wording of what you write

If you look carefully not the majority. Only forum trolls and haters...normal practice nowadays

Additionally some of the comments, included yours, make no sense and are not related to the OP and are somehow offensive without any valid reason...again normal practice..."

trust me I rejected you a while ago. But you post something in the forum, therefore anyone can comment. As for being away from your original post, I believe thats due to comments YOU have made, as in they're being responded to. Many of your responses haven't made sense, hence the reason for me not responding to them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A polite bow out I think is your best bet mate

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

see... but then fact if whether i played or not on any specific night doesn't then determine whether i have had a good night or night......

if i was the read again what the OP said about his first night at a club.... then followed it up with what he said about his second night at a club.... i would consider him to be lucky....

but i wouldn't go again what the majority of people have said in this thread......

do i think this thread if people in clubs knew exactly who he was, would help his chances...... probably not!

i would certainly hope he comes across better in person than he does in his writings.....

do you know when you read something and you think to yourself "the more the OP speaks... the deeper the hole is being dug"...... this is one of those time....

this is one of those were saying nothing would likely improve your chances rather than always wanting the last word

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

Might be time to leave it there now rather than keep butting heads

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"A polite bow out I think is your best bet mate"

amen to that.......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"see... but then fact if whether i played or not on any specific night doesn't then determine whether i have had a good night or night......

if i was the read again what the OP said about his first night at a club.... then followed it up with what he said about his second night at a club.... i would consider him to be lucky....

but i wouldn't go again what the majority of people have said in this thread......

do i think this thread if people in clubs knew exactly who he was, would help his chances...... probably not!

i would certainly hope he comes across better in person than he does in his writings.....

do you know when you read something and you think to yourself "the more the OP speaks... the deeper the hole is being dug"...... this is one of those time....

this is one of those were saying nothing would likely improve your chances rather than always wanting the last word

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

"Might be time to leave it there now rather than keep butting heads "

Yes I agree

. I stopped reading the comments of some trolls and haters...a sort of eyes' filters. Bored to reply

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

"Erm I'm neither a forum troll or a hater! "

Nope I was not referring to you. I forgot if you posted something nasty...so if you did it was not bad

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some ego's have taken a bashing on this thread lol

My hat goes off to you op...

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

"trust me I rejected you a while ago."

Good. Stop writing angry comments on my thread without any reason please

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"there is a difference in hoping to get sex and expecting to get it.

Couldn't agree more , that's how we see it too .

But , entitlement is a different ball game is it not ?

And as the op would prefer it if we stayed at home , that's fine with us

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

"And as the op would prefer it if we stayed at home , that's fine with us

In the unlikely case you change your mind and you decide to come, tell your miss to take a number at the ticket machine outside the club

No ticket, no party

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

"Some ego's have taken a bashing on this thread lol

My hat goes off to you op...

I suppose it is a compliment

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"see... but then fact if whether i played or not on any specific night doesn't then determine whether i have had a good night or night......

if i was the read again what the OP said about his first night at a club.... then followed it up with what he said about his second night at a club.... i would consider him to be lucky....

but i wouldn't go again what the majority of people have said in this thread......

do i think this thread if people in clubs knew exactly who he was, would help his chances...... probably not!

i would certainly hope he comes across better in person than he does in his writings.....

do you know when you read something and you think to yourself "the more the OP speaks... the deeper the hole is being dug"...... this is one of those time....

this is one of those were saying nothing would likely improve your chances rather than always wanting the last word

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"OP, how much dosh did you pay out in total?

Well much less than a date in London

£17.56

Does not make any sense to me

It's pounds sterling. What we buy things with in the UK.

Ahahah I meant the number. It is a random number!?"

Oh sorry, a random number?! No! The price of entry and a drink and stuff.

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

"OP, how much dosh did you pay out in total?

Well much less than a date in London

£17.56

Does not make any sense to me

It's pounds sterling. What we buy things with in the UK.

Ahahah I meant the number. It is a random number!?

Oh sorry, a random number?! No! The price of entry and a drink and stuff. "

Well I spent 5-6 times more in total...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well, for what it's worth i don't really get the reaction here.

Whether we'd want to play with this guy is another matter but here he is being fairly eloquent in his views and at times being something of a peace maker which (and I'm guessing here) is not bad in a second language.

He's new to swinging and given us a single guys view of clubs. Yes, the word 'entitled' probably wasn't best but see above. Seems like he's hoping to get lucky a number of times each time he goes. We've been followed round by a good many single guys and I never once thought they were thinking any different than this guy. It's why the majority are there for goodness sake. If you want single guys then really, let's not be deluded.

If what we are saying is that you expect the single guys to show some respect and charm while they're getting some NSA well that's fair. But, given his success rate (which seems well above average) I'm guessing he's worked out how to do that?

If he's not for or everyone then how is that different than anyone else? And if his conduct and comments on here has put some off, well maybe he's not the only one?

Just not seeing where the actual foul is here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well he is showing himself in a bad light tbh lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well, for what it's worth i don't really get the reaction here.

If he's not for or everyone then how is that different than anyone else? And if his conduct and comments on here has put some off, well maybe he's not the only one?

Just not seeing where the actual foul is here. "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well, for what it's worth i don't really get the reaction here.

If he's not for or everyone then how is that different than anyone else? And if his conduct and comments on here has put some off, well maybe he's not the only one?

Just not seeing where the actual foul is here. "

So you think it's ok for him to say he wants 20 to 30 girls for 10 minutes each to make it value for money ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well, for what it's worth i don't really get the reaction here.

If he's not for or everyone then how is that different than anyone else? And if his conduct and comments on here has put some off, well maybe he's not the only one?

Just not seeing where the actual foul is here.

So you think it's ok for him to say he wants 20 to 30 girls for 10 minutes each to make it value for money ?

I read that bit as a poorly-constructed joke.

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

"Well, for what it's worth i don't really get the reaction here.

If he's not for or everyone then how is that different than anyone else? And if his conduct and comments on here has put some off, well maybe he's not the only one?

Just not seeing where the actual foul is here. "

Thanks God other neutral people on here

I have two bullet points though:

1) never used "entitled"

2) I do not follow couples

3) looking to the guys behaviour there, I am pretty sure we think in different ways

For the rest I agree.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just not seeing where the actual foul is here.

So you think it's ok for him to say he wants 20 to 30 girls for 10 minutes each to make it value for money ?

I think he was giving his experience. That swinging in clubs can involve shorter sessions. Which seems a fair observation for a newbie.

I think he's saying that shorter sessions can be cool if there are several in a night. The number quoted seems to be tongue in cheek at the very least.

He makes the point that a club visit is only really worth it if there are several ladies willing to play. Again, not the most shocking revelation. We think that too.

Seems like if clubs aren't busy then he wonders at the value of going. For many of us who do our main socialising elsewhere that's perfectly true too.

So nope, still not getting it.

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

"So you think it's ok for him to say he wants 20 to 30 girls for 10 minutes each to make it value for money ?

Guys I was serious in the sense that I would like to do that. Money or not. It would be £1 per girl though if you to consider them

Still prefer to stay with 1-2 girls for the whole night though

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By *eonardoLove OP Man over a year ago

London

"I think he's saying that shorter sessions can be cool if there are several in a night. The number quoted seems to be tongue in cheek at the very least. "

Exactly! The numbers quoted would be realistic if a lot of girls were there

tbh honest 3 to 5 girls in one night seems already a lot to me considering the amount of people I saw in the clubs

If I go with 5 in one night I promise I will not complaint for the shorter sessions

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By *angbang junkieCouple over a year ago

Ilkeston

You guys really are just chucking fuel on the fire with this One, why keep doing it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You guys really are just chucking fuel on the fire with this One, why keep doing it?"

Cus it's fun

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"OP, how much dosh did you pay out in total?

Well much less than a date in London

£17.56

Does not make any sense to me

It's pounds sterling. What we buy things with in the UK.

Ahahah I meant the number. It is a random number!?

Oh sorry, a random number?! No! The price of entry and a drink and stuff.

Well I spent 5-6 times more in total..."

Ya pays ya moneys and ya takes ya chances.....

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"You guys really are just chucking fuel on the fire with this One, why keep doing it?"

I like your wicked witch photo!

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman over a year ago

B & M Bargains

"Well, for what it's worth i don't really get the reaction here.

If he's not for or everyone then how is that different than anyone else? And if his conduct and comments on here has put some off, well maybe he's not the only one?

Just not seeing where the actual foul is here.

Thanks God other neutral people on here

I have two bullet points though:

1) never used "entitled"

2) I do not follow couples

3) looking to the guys behaviour there, I am pretty sure we think in different ways

For the rest I agree. "

4) you're shit at maths

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If a couple said the same about single men in attendance no Butt hurt would be had.

Some off target humour by the OP granted.

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By *umpkinMan over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

"Love how a single guy as a positive time at a club and gets shot down for it.

Think what has got most people's backs up, is the fact he thinks he is guaranteed sex, just because he's paid to get in.

I often get hotels, new outfit, taxi, entrance to club, I've never expected to get sex."

Considering the distance I have to go to get to Chams, Dalaston, in comparison to the OP I should be expecting a full blown orgy every time I go!!!!!

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Love how a single guy as a positive time at a club and gets shot down for it.

Think what has got most people's backs up, is the fact he thinks he is guaranteed sex, just because he's paid to get in.

I often get hotels, new outfit, taxi, entrance to club, I've never expected to get sex.

Considering the distance I have to go to get to Chams, Dalaston, in comparison to the OP I should be expecting a full blown orgy every time I go!!!!!

I live so far away, I'd expect Chams to come to me.

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By *rishmocha2Couple over a year ago

Beds

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman over a year ago

Deviant City

let us know how your next club visit goes OP, hope you get a lady for the whole evening next time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well I'm off out to a local club where I love to dress as I like and socialise with like minded people! Anything else is a bonus! Have a great evening all of you xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well, for what it's worth i don't really get the reaction here.

If he's not for or everyone then how is that different than anyone else? And if his conduct and comments on here has put some off, well maybe he's not the only one?

Just not seeing where the actual foul is here. "

I've read through the whole thread so I could come back to your post and do this.......

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

"Well, for what it's worth i don't really get the reaction here.

If he's not for or everyone then how is that different than anyone else? And if his conduct and comments on here has put some off, well maybe he's not the only one?

Just not seeing where the actual foul is here.

I've read through the whole thread so I could come back to your post and do this.......

Plus one

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

Time to close this now with a reminder that if you are going to post please do it without abusing people or you might find you can't post for a while

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