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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The usual replies to these messages are:
1. Talk to her....if you actually have a proper relationship it should be easy.
2. Show her your profile ....and duck. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am interested in swinging with bi guy or couple. Had some meets with guys only. How do I go about getting the wife interested. "
You talk to her about it, and more importantly, you respect her decision whichever way it falls.
It's not rocket science. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"It's my wife that I want to swing. "
In all honesty what you want doesn't come in to it - it's what your wife wants that counts. In our experience a reluctant partner being encouraged to swing is a disaster for all concerned.
Simply ask if she's ever been interested in the idea of swinging. If she says no, forget it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am interested in swinging with bi guy or couple. Had some meets with guys only. How do I go about getting the wife interested. "
You should gauge her interest before you join a swinger's site. |
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"The truth is, if you want your wife to swing, it's only her who can decide. She can't be made, or calouled into doing it."
I actually think that in some couples one of the partners is more willing than the other .... so there is always the underlying feeling that the person may be doing it to please the other or has been cajoled. Are every couple into it to exactly the same degree? |
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"The truth is, if you want your wife to swing, it's only her who can decide. She can't be made, or calouled into doing it.
I actually think that in some couples one of the partners is more willing than the other .... so there is always the underlying feeling that the person may be doing it to please the other or has been cajoled. Are every couple into it to exactly the same degree?"
Couldn't agree more. We have had social meets and two "interesting" play meets with couples where its plain one of them really didn't want to do it and it isn't always the woman. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Before I started to come on fab I went through details with my wife even took me while to convince her which to make sure there is no pressure on her. Eventually worked and that's why we are on here now and so far she loves it. |
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