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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why is it so often a cock pic? 
Even more pointless when that's all you have on your profile too.
Come on guys; if you're going to send a message and attach a pic attach a nice body shot or face pic. I'll get you a lot further than the cock pic.
Same goes for you ladies! Save them for your gynaecologist!  |
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Totally agree with you. Some individuals on there have no shame (or an exhibition fetish?) and it is defo a turn off to see vulval and arsehole shots ALL THE TIME!! Like it is something attractive?! The expectations and level on this website are really low...
Even single gents have better pics than couples but it is true that some pics of them fucking other women is appalling (as dumb blond said on an update, that is just so true)
It is maybe our European way to see things but swinging shall not be just all about what seems to be plain porn.
The doudous |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
"Or why even insist on pics? Why not meet up for a social, the only true way of knowing what someone looks like! "
Because this isn't blind date and I'm not wasting my time meeting someone on the off chance!
No face pics? Not interested in the slightest  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Or why even insist on pics? Why not meet up for a social, the only true way of knowing what someone looks like!
Because this isn't blind date and I'm not wasting my time meeting someone on the off chance!
No face pics? Not interested in the slightest "
Too bloody right!  |
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I just had to block someone after the 6th or 7th hi message.. He has two cock pics on his profile, which are like spot the difference pictures, they are that similar (answer: in one his boxers are pulled down lower  )
He attaches both of these to every hi message.. Why?! |
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Totally agree! I've asked for face pics and no cock pics but it hasn't made much difference. And sometimes when they do send face pics they're very dark so still can't see what they look like. Men moan they can't get a meet but they don't give themselves much of a chance do they..?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Totally agree! I've asked for face pics and no cock pics but it hasn't made much difference. And sometimes when they do send face pics they're very dark so still can't see what they look like. Men moan they can't get a meet but they don't give themselves much of a chance do they..? "
I do the same on my profile. Same with asking for local men only, I still get messages from hundreds of miles away. They seem surprised when I decline them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Totally agree! I've asked for face pics and no cock pics but it hasn't made much difference. And sometimes when they do send face pics they're very dark so still can't see what they look like. Men moan they can't get a meet but they don't give themselves much of a chance do they..? "
Nope. They seem to think the sight of their erect member will have my knickers around my ankles and me gagging for it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or why even insist on pics? Why not meet up for a social, the only true way of knowing what someone looks like! "
Cause I'm not wasting hours of my time on a social when a clear picture clears 90% of problems |
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By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago
Bury/Bolton |
"Totally agree! I've asked for face pics and no cock pics but it hasn't made much difference. And sometimes when they do send face pics they're very dark so still can't see what they look like. Men moan they can't get a meet but they don't give themselves much of a chance do they..?
I do the same on my profile. Same with asking for local men only, I still get messages from hundreds of miles away. They seem surprised when I decline them "
Ahhh you are making the mistake of assuming they have read your profile, in our experience 95% barely get past your status before thinking "do I send cock pic number 2 or number 9, oh sod it i'll send both, doubles my chances"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Before I learned how to block single guys I had one guy send me 4 pics of diffrent cocks
I stupidly asked him why he sent 4 pics and he said they were his mates and they all wanted to gangbang me :/
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or why even insist on pics? Why not meet up for a social, the only true way of knowing what someone looks like!
Because this isn't blind date and I'm not wasting my time meeting someone on the off chance!
No face pics? Not interested in the slightest "
Well I've seen too many fake pics to want to see any more. Meeting is the only true way of knowing what someone looks like. Hardly a blind date if you're on a swinging site! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Before I learned how to block single guys I had one guy send me 4 pics of diffrent cocks
I stupidly asked him why he sent 4 pics and he said they were his mates and they all wanted to gangbang me :/
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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
I have to agree i know guys are proud of their anatomy, but do they have to thrust in in pics oh look here is my genitals lol im sure us fems know what it looks like lol
i wish guys would use imagination
sexy pics some effort
what makes me take notice of a guy more if he makes an effort sexy pose in a pic, the clothes
sexy pants not oh look look at my cock in naked photos
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
Cambridge |
"Nothing worse than a ugly looking pussy pic  "
Why would you say something like that? To make women feel even more self conscious about their bodies and make them less likely to feel sexually empowered?
A community like fab should try to be sex positive and promote female sexual empowerment. Obviously that would be a fantastic achievement in its own right, but if you want a simple reason to support it, tgen how about this:
Female sexual empowerment = more sex for everyone |
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"Nothing worse than a ugly looking pussy pic
Why would you say something like that? To make women feel even more self conscious about their bodies and make them less likely to feel sexually empowered?
A community like fab should try to be sex positive and promote female sexual empowerment. Obviously that would be a fantastic achievement in its own right, but if you want a simple reason to support it, tgen how about this:
Female sexual empowerment = more sex for everyone"
Agreed at the end of the day our genitals serve a purpose but also are suppose to draw us to each other xxx Personally i prefer to see a pussy in its natural slit design than held open gaping as thats not what attracts me more the woman herself her face, personality and body in that order xxx Women should be proud of what they have and not feel forced to conform to any body shapes just because they are seen to be more attractive to men xxxx Given the choice i would choose a woman with a natural figure anyday xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Totally agree! I've asked for face pics and no cock pics but it hasn't made much difference. And sometimes when they do send face pics they're very dark so still can't see what they look like. Men moan they can't get a meet but they don't give themselves much of a chance do they..?
I do the same on my profile. Same with asking for local men only, I still get messages from hundreds of miles away. They seem surprised when I decline them
Ahhh you are making the mistake of assuming they have read your profile, in our experience 95% barely get past your status before thinking "do I send cock pic number 2 or number 9, oh sod it i'll send both, doubles my chances" "
True but I can tell if they haven't read it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or why even insist on pics? Why not meet up for a social, the only true way of knowing what someone looks like!
Because this isn't blind date and I'm not wasting my time meeting someone on the off chance!
No face pics? Not interested in the slightest
Well I've seen too many fake pics to want to see any more. Meeting is the only true way of knowing what someone looks like. Hardly a blind date if you're on a swinging site!"
Could you explain please? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or why even insist on pics? Why not meet up for a social, the only true way of knowing what someone looks like!
Because this isn't blind date and I'm not wasting my time meeting someone on the off chance!
No face pics? Not interested in the slightest
Well I've seen too many fake pics to want to see any more. Meeting is the only true way of knowing what someone looks like. Hardly a blind date if you're on a swinging site!
Could you explain please?"
Sure, I've seen too many fake pics to want to see any more. Meeting is the only true way of knowing what someone looks like. And a blind date goes on to being a date and a blind meet for a swinging site goes to possibly being a shag. I prefer to see who I am shagging and not lying about what they look like. And it's far too dangerous these days to have pics on the internet and floating in cyberspace. Revenge porn is now illegal. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing worse than a ugly looking pussy pic
Why would you say something like that? To make women feel even more self conscious about their bodies and make them less likely to feel sexually empowered?
A community like fab should try to be sex positive and promote female sexual empowerment. Obviously that would be a fantastic achievement in its own right, but if you want a simple reason to support it, tgen how about this:
Female sexual empowerment = more sex for everyone"
Wait but it's OK to have threads deriding guys ugly cocks or sending cockt pics?
But pussy is off limits because women are some how more fragile and should be babied and lied to as that will lead to them sleeping with more men?
That's actually creepily manipulative kudos
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or why even insist on pics? Why not meet up for a social, the only true way of knowing what someone looks like!
Because this isn't blind date and I'm not wasting my time meeting someone on the off chance!
No face pics? Not interested in the slightest
Well I've seen too many fake pics to want to see any more. Meeting is the only true way of knowing what someone looks like. Hardly a blind date if you're on a swinging site!
Could you explain please?
Sure, I've seen too many fake pics to want to see any more. Meeting is the only true way of knowing what someone looks like. And a blind date goes on to being a date and a blind meet for a swinging site goes to possibly being a shag. I prefer to see who I am shagging and not lying about what they look like. And it's far too dangerous these days to have pics on the internet and floating in cyberspace. Revenge porn is now illegal."
Still a blind date though |
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"Why is it so often a cock pic?
Even more pointless when that's all you have on your profile too.
Come on guys; if you're going to send a message and attach a pic attach a nice body shot or face pic. I'll get you a lot further than the cock pic.
Same goes for you ladies! Save them for your gynaecologist! "
Maybe they think its a way of getting theo message read - they don't have a face pic, because they are …..ahem… 'shy' and if they don't attached a pic, the small icon won't appear next to the message to show an attachment, so th message is likely to be deleted. Hence they send any pic, in the hope that it means the message will be read and the message entices the object of their affections, regardless of the picture…..
For the record, this isn't my approach, I don't have cock pics and send face pics  |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
Cambridge |
"Nothing worse than a ugly looking pussy pic
Why would you say something like that? To make women feel even more self conscious about their bodies and make them less likely to feel sexually empowered?
A community like fab should try to be sex positive and promote female sexual empowerment. Obviously that would be a fantastic achievement in its own right, but if you want a simple reason to support it, tgen how about this:
Female sexual empowerment = more sex for everyone
Wait but it's OK to have threads deriding guys ugly cocks or sending cockt pics?
But pussy is off limits because women are some how more fragile and should be babied and lied to as that will lead to them sleeping with more men?
That's actually creepily manipulative kudos
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I think you well and truely missed the point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing worse than a ugly looking pussy pic
Why would you say something like that? To make women feel even more self conscious about their bodies and make them less likely to feel sexually empowered?
A community like fab should try to be sex positive and promote female sexual empowerment. Obviously that would be a fantastic achievement in its own right, but if you want a simple reason to support it, tgen how about this:
Female sexual empowerment = more sex for everyone
Wait but it's OK to have threads deriding guys ugly cocks or sending cockt pics?
But pussy is off limits because women are some how more fragile and should be babied and lied to as that will lead to them sleeping with more men?
That's actually creepily manipulative kudos
I think you well and truely missed the point. "
What makes you think women need more sexual empowerment?
Do you think sex is some kind of new thing?
Women have always held the power when it comes to sex.
Contrary to what some men think |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nothing worse than a ugly looking pussy pic
Why would you say something like that? To make women feel even more self conscious about their bodies and make them less likely to feel sexually empowered?
A community like fab should try to be sex positive and promote female sexual empowerment. Obviously that would be a fantastic achievement in its own right, but if you want a simple reason to support it, tgen how about this:
Female sexual empowerment = more sex for everyone
Wait but it's OK to have threads deriding guys ugly cocks or sending cockt pics?
But pussy is off limits because women are some how more fragile and should be babied and lied to as that will lead to them sleeping with more men?
That's actually creepily manipulative kudos
I think you well and truely missed the point.
What makes you think women need more sexual empowerment?
Do you think sex is some kind of new thing?
Women have always held the power when it comes to sex.
Contrary to what some men think"
It's pretty empowering seeing it from this side.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nothing worse than a ugly looking pussy pic
Why would you say something like that? To make women feel even more self conscious about their bodies and make them less likely to feel sexually empowered?
A community like fab should try to be sex positive and promote female sexual empowerment. Obviously that would be a fantastic achievement in its own right, but if you want a simple reason to support it, tgen how about this:
Female sexual empowerment = more sex for everyone
Wait but it's OK to have threads deriding guys ugly cocks or sending cockt pics?
But pussy is off limits because women are some how more fragile and should be babied and lied to as that will lead to them sleeping with more men?
That's actually creepily manipulative kudos
I think you well and truely missed the point. "
What point were you trying to make. |
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