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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Anyone advice on how to me last longer I Cum to quick first time during sex but can go again sometimes for ages second time but hate it Cumming early so ruins the mood help |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone advice on how to me last longer I Cum to quick first time during sex but can go again sometimes for ages second time but hate it Cumming early so ruins the mood help"
Stop worrying .....
We love the fact a guy can cum quick , it'sa ccompliment.
And if he can go again .... bonus  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Try doing mathematics in your head when you think you are getting too exited. Concentrate - 9x17?, 5x23? etc. That should distract you enough to lessen the cum urge but not lose the erection.
Failing that read a book, discreetly of course. The ultimate method is get yourself circumcised.  |
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"Try doing mathematics in your head when you think you are getting too exited. Concentrate - 9x17?, 5x23? etc. That should distract you enough to lessen the cum urge but not lose the erection.
Failing that read a book, discreetly of course. The ultimate method is get yourself circumcised. "
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Feedback I hear often is that guys cant cum again, or at least, don't give it chance to. And circumcision doesn't make a huge difference.. Try the pinch technique: if you feel you are about to cum, stop activity, and squeeze the base of your penis quite hard, until it subsides, then carry on. If you catch it late, dont worry and try to continue. The 2nd orgasm can be more enjoyable, and yield more cum if thats what you're in to |
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"Try doing mathematics in your head when you think you are getting too exited. Concentrate - 9x17?, 5x23? etc. That should distract you enough to lessen the cum urge but not lose the erection.
Failing that read a book, discreetly of course. The ultimate method is get yourself circumcised.
153 and 115"
And did you cum?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP embrace it...it's not a negative thing at all. And like an earlier post...your partner will most likely be thrilled that they've given that pleasure to you.
If you can go again after then bridge the gap after you've cum with pillow talk or something sensual and erotic like touching and kissing or more likely both.
Giving away all my secrets  but we're all different. Use it for you and your partners advantage! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You have to embrace that cum..
I tend to exercise my pelvic muscles 4 times a week.
Helps with erections, lasting longer, more pleasure and strong ejaculations.
When you're hard just get a damp flannel or small towel place it on your dick and try and use your muscle to lift it. Do this for 30 seconds five times that day helps.
Along with the pinch technique when you masterbate or during sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Worst you can do is worry about it, then you get it in your head and it will just make everything worse. My wife loves me to come on her ass then we have sex - if you can achieve this I think there are plenty of women out there who will love you! Also nothing wrong with that, as long as you don't roll over and fall asleep as soon as you have shot your load, lols!
You could try cock rings, but tbh never really felt a difference (not that I had any problems though). You could focus on just getting the girl nearly there and then pushing her over the edge through penetration - that way your not feeling like you've left her wanting!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The next time I see the word M A S T E R BATE again, I am going to kick up a huge fuss. 
The word is M A S T U ......."
Peepul spel wurds how thair sed so wot do you expekt? I no itsiritatung but yewell get yoused twit. |
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"The next time I see the word M A S T E R BATE again, I am going to kick up a huge fuss.
The word is M A S T U .......
Peepul spel wurds how thair sed so wot do you expekt? I no itsiritatung but yewell get yoused twit. "
Y u wan tak lyk dat? Me kaan wiet til me see dis ina a dikshinari.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The next time I see the word M A S T E R BATE again, I am going to kick up a huge fuss.
The word is M A S T U .......
Peepul spel wurds how thair sed so wot do you expekt? I no itsiritatung but yewell get yoused twit.
Y u wan tak lyk dat? Me kaan wiet til me see dis ina a dikshinari. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The next time I see the word M A S T E R BATE again, I am going to kick up a huge fuss.
The word is M A S T U .......
Peepul spel wurds how thair sed so wot do you expekt? I no itsiritatung but yewell get yoused twit.
Y u wan tak lyk dat? Me kaan wiet til me see dis ina a dikshinari. "
Yew ees edumacated tooo, no wurds liek "dikshinari"! Bet u cun spel antidisestablishmentarianism too!! |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
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"Anyone advice on how to me last longer I Cum to quick first time during sex but can go again sometimes for ages second time but hate it Cumming early so ruins the mood help
Stop worrying .....
We love the fact a guy can cum quick , it'sa ccompliment.
And if he can go again .... bonus "
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By (user no longer on site)
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I had that trouble yrs ago and I had a wank at home stopped before I came then did it again and again and again but never let myself cum its hard to control but stick with it and you will find a difference.
And also getting off the nest b4 you cum helps play around till feeling gone start over.
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"Anyone advice on how to me last longer I Cum to quick first time during sex but can go again sometimes for ages second time but hate it Cumming early so ruins the mood help"
Control your breathing. Try holding your breath while performing your "sturdies" see (see Roger Mellie c.1989).
Seriously, it works. I mean not until you pass out - that's going too far. But instead of breathing on every pump like a terrier in heat, take a big deep breath, hold it, and then breath out when you need to. Get the hang of it and you'll last for ages. Try it, it really works.
Just remember to breathe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone advice on how to me last longer I Cum to quick first time during sex but can go again sometimes for ages second time but hate it Cumming early so ruins the mood help
Stop worrying .....
We love the fact a guy can cum quick , it'sa ccompliment.
And if he can go again .... bonus "
My my you seem fun x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If something really turns me on and I don't want to cum right away I just gnash down on my inside lip and think of the girlfriends father giving me an arse-to-face lapdance. It's so offputting and painful you have no choice but carry on! |
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"Anyone advice on how to me last longer I Cum to quick first time during sex but can go again sometimes for ages second time but hate it Cumming early so ruins the mood help
Stop worrying .....
We love the fact a guy can cum quick , it'sa ccompliment.
And if he can go again .... bonus "
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"Anyone advice on how to me last longer I Cum to quick first time during sex but can go again sometimes for ages second time but hate it Cumming early so ruins the mood help
Stop worrying .....
We love the fact a guy can cum quick , it'sa ccompliment.
And if he can go again .... bonus "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone advice on how to me last longer I Cum to quick first time during sex but can go again sometimes for ages second time but hate it Cumming early so ruins the mood help
Stop worrying .....
We love the fact a guy can cum quick , it'sa ccompliment.
And if he can go again .... bonus
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I had gone without for a while when my wife suprised me buy getting in to bed naked - impossible to resist! When I kissing my way down to her pussy I was totally aroused. As she came on my mouth I simply orgasm ed. Don't worry I recovered quickly and gave her what she likes after oral. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's all about energy and intent, make a conscious decision not to orgasm too soon or if you do then hold the ejaculate inside you so you can stay hard.
Reaffirm to yourself.."i will last longer during sex" not " I will not cum so quickly" . Only positives!
It's all in the mind, don't acknowledge the problem!
Probably not traditional advice... But give it a shot and be a late shooter!!
Peace!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone advice on how to me last longer I Cum to quick first time during sex but can go again sometimes for ages second time but hate it Cumming early so ruins the mood help"
Wear a condom , that should reduce the sensation a bit |
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By *onnie55Man
over a year ago
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"Anyone advice on how to me last longer I Cum to quick first time during sex but can go again sometimes for ages second time but hate it Cumming early so ruins the mood help
Wear a condom , that should reduce the sensation a bit"
Or even 2 condoms? That really does reduce the sensation and make you last longer.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone advice on how to me last longer I Cum to quick first time during sex but can go again sometimes for ages second time but hate it Cumming early so ruins the mood help
Wear a condom , that should reduce the sensation a bit
Or even 2 condoms? That really does reduce the sensation and make you last longer.."
2 Condoms?  , you might as well wank man |
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By *onnie55Man
over a year ago
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"Anyone advice on how to me last longer I Cum to quick first time during sex but can go again sometimes for ages second time but hate it Cumming early so ruins the mood help
Wear a condom , that should reduce the sensation a bit
Or even 2 condoms? That really does reduce the sensation and make you last longer..
2 Condoms? , you might as well wank man "
Not if you're with a horny woman and want the action to last as long as possible.. |
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"Anyone advice on how to me last longer I Cum to quick first time during sex but can go again sometimes for ages second time but hate it Cumming early so ruins the mood help"
I have exactly the same problem 
I hate it too, you cum before even the lady had started to get in the mood. So unfair to her, and that's what annoys me most. Had she been a "working girl" I wouldn't have cared, but that's a woman who wants to enjoy her time with me and I let her down.
And as you say, the second time takes forever , possibly because of age in my case and the beta blocker I'm on.
I remember when I was in my teens, I'd get a one hour VHS tape (remember those!), and I would've come three times before it's even half way through. Now re-loading the gun takes to eternity and then some |
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"I had that trouble yrs ago and I had a wank at home stopped before I came then did it again and again and again but never let myself cum its hard to control but stick with it and you will find a difference.
And also getting off the nest b4 you cum helps play around till feeling gone start over.
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I was told the repeated holding of cumming causes prostate hypertrophy in the long run. Don't know how true this is though. |
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