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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all, me and my fuck buddy are going to try pegging tomorrow as she told me she has a strapon. Any advice as to positions that are good for a guy? I've only had straight seX before so it is a bit new to us both |
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"Hi all, me and my fuck buddy are going to try pegging tomorrow as she told me she has a strapon. Any advice as to positions that are good for a guy? I've only had straight seX before so it is a bit new to us both"
Part of the fun is to explore for yourselves, surely?  |
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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago
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Only you will really know or rather find out what is the best position for YOU!!
Just a couple of pointers from my experience ..
If the guy is on his back first (this can tend to be more relaxing for him and also maintains eye contact), bear in mind it is quite tricky for us to be on top and entering gracefully - so a couple of pillows under your hips will help quite a bit. Unless the dildo is quite long (as in more than say 5 inches), it may slip out quite a bit - as obv we have no sensation feedback to feel how deep we are in. or not.
If you are on all 4's (my fave, as when he is used to it this is where he usually tells me 'faster! harder! deeper! MORE!!) you may find you have to spread your knees quite wide to drop your arse down. Else it just ends up looking like a chihuaha trying to mount a rottweiler. so a few pillows under your belly might help take some pressure off your thighs trying to maintain position.
oh and would advise against a curry and a few pints of guinness beforehand
Enjoy!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only you will really know or rather find out what is the best position for YOU!!
Just a couple of pointers from my experience ..
If the guy is on his back first (this can tend to be more relaxing for him and also maintains eye contact), bear in mind it is quite tricky for us to be on top and entering gracefully - so a couple of pillows under your hips will help quite a bit. Unless the dildo is quite long (as in more than say 5 inches), it may slip out quite a bit - as obv we have no sensation feedback to feel how deep we are in. or not.
If you are on all 4's (my fave, as when he is used to it this is where he usually tells me 'faster! harder! deeper! MORE!!) you may find you have to spread your knees quite wide to drop your arse down. Else it just ends up looking like a chihuaha trying to mount a rottweiler. so a few pillows under your belly might help take some pressure off your thighs trying to maintain position.
oh and would advise against a curry and a few pints of guinness beforehand
Enjoy!! "
Id like a bit iff that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My wife loves reverse cowgirl or is that cowboy? She just likes to sit on sofa and have me ride her strap-on although I do love it when she pounds me hard from behind whilst I'm usually bent over the arm of the sofa or over the dining room table  |
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Depends on your height differences....
And is your arse used to being penetrated?
Doggy - either all fours - or just arse up / face down...
On your back with a pillow or two under your bum...
Or you riding her cow girl style - (at least then you can control the speed and depth of penetration).
IME
(Obviously the usual - douche / prep / lube / relax!)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on choice of strapon as well.. the wife and i have tried 4 before we got it right.. too hard..too wide straps not correct..not fitting her etc etc.. but good luck..its so worth it..
P.s we settled on a doc johnson detachable with few different cock sizes.. doggie works for us best.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you back into it first to ease your self in its much easier for the first time. Maybe squat into it as you can have more control and then relinquish control over to her and hold on for dear life.
You will live it though feels amazing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all, me and my fuck buddy are going to try pegging tomorrow as she told me she has a strapon. Any advice as to positions that are good for a guy? I've only had straight seX before so it is a bit new to us both"
Popper's good quality lube and spoon position  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd have to say for a first time cowgirl is good...you're in complete control...I've found can take it deeper too that way...might just be me...as others have said...lots of lube...you really can't use too much...good luck and enjoy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Positions vary on both your heights, sizes and flexibility just try them and see. My only advice if it's your first time is take it slow to start. Slide in then stop, hold that position for a few seconds before carrying on. Each time you enter for a new position do the same thing. You'll find the muscles relax while you are holding that position enough to make penetration loads easier x |
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