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Here I am. what do you think?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm a single going through a dry spell here on Fabs and wanted to get some feedback on my profile and what might need changing. Also, what you would like to see in a message from a single guy? The polite, get to know you approach just keeps getting deleted.
BK |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I genuinely don't understand why anyone could possibly need, or take, any 'advice' on writing their own profile!  "
You know I'm actually not not looking for feedback exactly, more like "would you like to get to know this person"
I think I posed the question wrong. That's the kind of feedback i'm after
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You just have to stick with it, you think you are having a dry spell, I have had one meet in 9 months of being on here.
There will be someone out there for you.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"message the ladies with fancy a fuck.. ull find u have to prod em away with a pointy stick.. they just love it ..
Meow.....!!!!!"
Oh I don't know...it made me laugh!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a single going through a dry spell here on Fabs and wanted to get some feedback on my profile and what might need changing. Also, what you would like to see in a message from a single guy? The polite, get to know you approach just keeps getting deleted.
BK"
Yea I'm beginning to wonder what kind of message people are after.
More than one line-check
Polite and well written-check
Pics on profile-check
Made sure you are within the boundaries of what they are looking for-check
Put the the word they want you to in the mail subject so they can see you've read profile-check
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I must say the content of messages is not that important to me, the fact that someone has clearly read my profile and is within my choosen criteria will result in a reply.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a single going through a dry spell here on Fabs and wanted to get some feedback on my profile and what might need changing. Also, what you would like to see in a message from a single guy? The polite, get to know you approach just keeps getting deleted.
BK
Yea I'm beginning to wonder what kind of message people are after.
More than one line-check
Polite and well written-check
Pics on profile-check
Made sure you are within the boundaries of what they are looking for-check
Put the the word they want you to in the mail subject so they can see you've read profile-check
Mail-deleted! "
You don't appeal perhaps?!!
We'll not float everyone's boat - fact, just have to accept that and keep trying!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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aint looked at your profile !!!
all I can say is be polite.
make them laugh.
be polite.
try and get to some socials and mingle.
and be polite it works for me !!!
Andy
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a single going through a dry spell here on Fabs and wanted to get some feedback on my profile and what might need changing. Also, what you would like to see in a message from a single guy? The polite, get to know you approach just keeps getting deleted.
BK
Yea I'm beginning to wonder what kind of message people are after.
More than one line-check
Polite and well written-check
Pics on profile-check
Made sure you are within the boundaries of what they are looking for-check
Put the the word they want you to in the mail subject so they can see you've read profile-check
Mail-deleted!
You don't appeal perhaps?!!
We'll not float everyone's boat - fact, just have to accept that and keep trying! "
I totally agree-different strokes
for different folks etc etc
However when you've taken the trouble to make sure you fit into someone's criteria then I think it's rude to not even send a no thanks back.
And as for the old 'unsolicited messages' some people moan about-you're on a swingers site-you put an ad up so you can get sex!
I never send a message to someone who isn't looking for something that isn't me-tho I guess plenty do.
I guess couples and females are lucky that there are a disproportionate amount of guys willing to send messages as some of the attitude you get from some of them is shocking(even if you've done everything right!)... |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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However when you've taken the trouble to make sure you fit into someone's criteria then I think it's rude to not even send a no thanks back."
Maybe they don't think you match their criteria as well as you think you do? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm a single going through a dry spell here on Fabs and wanted to get some feedback on my profile and what might need changing. Also, what you would like to see in a message from a single guy? The polite, get to know you approach just keeps getting deleted.
BK
Yea I'm beginning to wonder what kind of message people are after.
More than one line-check
Polite and well written-check
Pics on profile-check
Made sure you are within the boundaries of what they are looking for-check
Put the the word they want you to in the mail subject so they can see you've read profile-check
Mail-deleted! "
Too Funny.
The situation is crazy. I'd love to be a fly on the wall at the elimination process of single guys. I might learn something!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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However when you've taken the trouble to make sure you fit into someone's criteria then I think it's rude to not even send a no thanks back.
Maybe they don't think you match their criteria as well as you think you do?"
Absolutely,and everyone is free to say no-but a no thanks would be nice...
If I've taken the trouble to type out a nice message then it's not too much to expect a message back-even a no thanks,is it?
Couples and females say they are sick of one-liners from guys who don't meet their criteria-I don't do that... |
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