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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi ladies and gentlemen
Just need some tip and head up, what is the best option for first meet? At own place or hotel the guy has more than 14 verifications from couple and most are recent. Also as we are new and first timer please any advice what to do or not to do? Many thanks |
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We would choose the hotel so that you can leave when you want to. Our first time was like that and we met in the hotel bar. Only do what you feel comfortable with. If it ends up being a social only that's fine. Enjoy yourselves. |
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"We would choose the hotel so that you can leave when you want to. Our first time was like that and we met in the hotel bar. Only do what you feel comfortable with. If it ends up being a social only that's fine. Enjoy yourselves. "
Thank you, is it best to have a drink and chat in the bar before making it to the room? |
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We are having our first 121 meet soon with a single man. We have chosen to meet at the hotel but have a drink in bar first to make sure we are all right for each other. Depends what you want from the meet and if what he is like will make a difference to sexy fun? If yes then meet mutual first X have fun! X |
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"We are having our first 121 meet soon with a single man. We have chosen to meet at the hotel but have a drink in bar first to make sure we are all right for each other. Depends what you want from the meet and if what he is like will make a difference to sexy fun? If yes then meet mutual first X have fun! X"
That's what we thinking is the best option. The guy has a very good verifications from couple. |
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Definitely meet in bar first to make sure you are all happy to proceed and also make clear what expectations you all have. Set your boundaries as a couple and stick to what you agree between yourselves.
Have fun! |
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"Definitely meet in bar first to make sure you are all happy to proceed and also make clear what expectations you all have. Set your boundaries as a couple and stick to what you agree between yourselves.
Have fun!"
Thank you |
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"All sounds like great advice and there's the simple question....would you invite a stranger from the internet into your home? I know that we wouldn't.
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We weren't but always ask. |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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It's always good advice to meet people outside your home for the first time.
Having said that, on one occasion a lady came straight to ours without a social first...and a most wonderful time was had by all. She was lovely, and so were we, so it's not always a recipe for disaster!  |
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"It's always good advice to meet people outside your home for the first time.
Having said that, on one occasion a lady came straight to ours without a social first...and a most wonderful time was had by all. She was lovely, and so were we, so it's not always a recipe for disaster! "
Lucky you |
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By *dwalu2Couple
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"It's always good advice to meet people outside your home for the first time.
Having said that, on one occasion a lady came straight to ours without a social first...and a most wonderful time was had by all. She was lovely, and so were we, so it's not always a recipe for disaster!
Lucky you "
Lucky indeed! Although we don't rush into meeting, and get to know someone by phone first before we meet, so we get a feel for them. But yes, luck plays a big part. |
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If the hotel has a bar, I'd suggest meeting an a different one within walking distance of the hotel. Makes it easier to get away without them knowing where you're staying if they turn out to be a creep.  |
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"If the hotel has a bar, I'd suggest meeting an a different one within walking distance of the hotel. Makes it easier to get away without them knowing where you're staying if they turn out to be a creep. "
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"If the hotel has a bar, I'd suggest meeting an a different one within walking distance of the hotel. Makes it easier to get away without them knowing where you're staying if they turn out to be a creep. "
Well he is booking the hotel so we should be fine |
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"Hi ladies and gentlemen
Just need some tip and head up, what is the best option for first meet? At own place or hotel the guy has more than 14 verifications from couple and most are recent. Also as we are new and first timer please any advice what to do or not to do? Many thanks "
Our strategy is simple. We always swap face pictures first so that we know that there is a possibility of attraction. We meet in public to check there is a spark. If there is no spark or they are weird (which has happened) then we politely decline and leave. If we like them, we invite them to our chosen venue. We don't get on terribly well with a club/orgy environment so prefer a private meet. Our routine works for us and can't really see a more sensible approach. |
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