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over a year ago
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"Can someone please tell me what a Greedy Girl is??? Need confirmation!! Thank you"
A lady that likes lots of guys , often a few at once. Some of my best friends are really gg  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm with the OP on this one. I find greedy girl parties a bit grim and the opposite to horny. The idea of fucking 4+ men at same time is gross(to me) and not at all sexy. |
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"I'm with the OP on this one. I find greedy girl parties a bit grim and the opposite to horny. The idea of fucking 4+ men at same time is gross(to me) and not at all sexy."
Yeh but it's not indicative of lack of self respect, is it? It's just something someone else enjoys.
Anyway - everyone here's on a swinging site, the OP's hardly virtuous. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm with the OP on this one. I find greedy girl parties a bit grim and the opposite to horny. The idea of fucking 4+ men at same time is gross(to me) and not at all sexy."
What about 3?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm with the OP on this one. I find greedy girl parties a bit grim and the opposite to horny. The idea of fucking 4+ men at same time is gross(to me) and not at all sexy."
And I'm sure there will be plenty that would say eeww at how many verifications you have.... ( btw it doesn't bother me ) but just because some ladies like to have their men in multiples , doesn't make them any better or worse than anyone else.. and certainly doesn't equal lack of respect in the ladies that choose to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm with the OP on this one. I find greedy girl parties a bit grim and the opposite to horny. The idea of fucking 4+ men at same time is gross(to me) and not at all sexy.
And I'm sure there will be plenty that would say eeww at how many verifications you have.... ( btw it doesn't bother me ) but just because some ladies like to have their men in multiples , doesn't make them any better or worse than anyone else.. and certainly doesn't equal lack of respect in the ladies that choose to. "
I never equated it with a lack of self respect. I never said that even once. I specifically said I find them gross. Not that everyone does. I chose my words carefully as not to offend but people love to act offended or outraged on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm with the OP on this one. I find greedy girl parties a bit grim and the opposite to horny. The idea of fucking 4+ men at same time is gross(to me) and not at all sexy.
What about 3? "
I prob wouldn't do three either. One on one is my preference I like to focus my attention on one guy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm with the OP on this one. I find greedy girl parties a bit grim and the opposite to horny. The idea of fucking 4+ men at same time is gross(to me) and not at all sexy.
And I'm sure there will be plenty that would say eeww at how many verifications you have.... ( btw it doesn't bother me ) but just because some ladies like to have their men in multiples , doesn't make them any better or worse than anyone else.. and certainly doesn't equal lack of respect in the ladies that choose to.
I never equated it with a lack of self respect. I never said that even once. I specifically said I find them gross. Not that everyone does. I chose my words carefully as not to offend but people love to act offended or outraged on here."
The OP did, and you said "I'm with the OP on this one" which infers you agree. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Somebodies bored, or on the booze already....live and let live my dear!!!!!! There are lots of people in the vanilla world that would think what you do is gross. Get over yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm with the OP on this one. I find greedy girl parties a bit grim and the opposite to horny. The idea of fucking 4+ men at same time is gross(to me) and not at all sexy.
And I'm sure there will be plenty that would say eeww at how many verifications you have.... ( btw it doesn't bother me ) but just because some ladies like to have their men in multiples , doesn't make them any better or worse than anyone else.. and certainly doesn't equal lack of respect in the ladies that choose to.
I never equated it with a lack of self respect. I never said that even once. I specifically said I find them gross. Not that everyone does. I chose my words carefully as not to offend but people love to act offended or outraged on here.
The OP did, and you said "I'm with the OP on this one" which infers you agree."
I meant I agreed as in no I wouldn't do one |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"I'm with the OP on this one. I find greedy girl parties a bit grim and the opposite to horny. The idea of fucking 4+ men at same time is gross(to me) and not at all sexy."
28 meets in 9 weeks? GROSS!!! 
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm with the OP on this one. I find greedy girl parties a bit grim and the opposite to horny. The idea of fucking 4+ men at same time is gross(to me) and not at all sexy.
What about 3?
I prob wouldn't do three either. One on one is my preference I like to focus my attention on one guy."
so much nicer one on one but I've met a few couples and quite enjoy that xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm with the OP on this one. I find greedy girl parties a bit grim and the opposite to horny. The idea of fucking 4+ men at same time is gross(to me) and not at all sexy.
28 meets in 9 weeks? GROSS!!!
/troll
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Its a lot less than 28 meets actually. Lots of veris are from the same event (a party) and some are from people spotting me at LC and of course some were just social. Actual number of sexual meets is less than half of that number |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm with the OP on this one. I find greedy girl parties a bit grim and the opposite to horny. The idea of fucking 4+ men at same time is gross(to me) and not at all sexy.
What about 3?
I prob wouldn't do three either. One on one is my preference I like to focus my attention on one guy.so much nicer one on one but I've met a few couples and quite enjoy that xx "
I like couples |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm with the OP on this one. I find greedy girl parties a bit grim and the opposite to horny. The idea of fucking 4+ men at same time is gross(to me) and not at all sexy.
What about 3?
I prob wouldn't do three either. One on one is my preference I like to focus my attention on one guy.so much nicer one on one but I've met a few couples and quite enjoy that xx "
See I disagree personally and only do one on one with Mr deviant... Otherwise I find it dull..
To the lady I commented to above... I commented as you said you agreed with the op... Hence seeming to say that you agreed it meant gg had no respect for themselves... My point was some may pick fault with multiple meets full stop..
Even at a gg event I got called a slut.. to which I thanked the lady for her complimentary comment... Gang bangs are not for all... But for those that enjoy it.. it's a small percentage that do it for any reason other than pleasure |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm with the OP on this one. I find greedy girl parties a bit grim and the opposite to horny. The idea of fucking 4+ men at same time is gross(to me) and not at all sexy.
28 meets in 9 weeks? GROSS!!!
/troll
Its a lot less than 28 meets actually. Lots of veris are from the same event (a party) and some are from people spotting me at LC and of course some were just social. Actual number of sexual meets is less than half of that number "
14 sexual meets my god xx  |
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There is a place near me that has a GG event on & Ive been told by several people it's like a free for all with guys lining up.....if that's what floats your boat & you call that respectful then that's your choice. I personally think being passed around is disrespectful & I have more respect for myself so get off your backs & step down from your soapbox Greedy Girls & lighten up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm with the OP on this one. I find greedy girl parties a bit grim and the opposite to horny. The idea of fucking 4+ men at same time is gross(to me) and not at all sexy.
What about 3?
I prob wouldn't do three either. One on one is my preference I like to focus my attention on one guy.so much nicer one on one but I've met a few couples and quite enjoy that xx
See I disagree personally and only do one on one with Mr deviant... Otherwise I find it dull..
To the lady I commented to above... I commented as you said you agreed with the op... Hence seeming to say that you agreed it meant gg had no respect for themselves... My point was some may pick fault with multiple meets full stop..
Even at a gg event I got called a slut.. to which I thanked the lady for her complimentary comment... Gang bangs are not for all... But for those that enjoy it.. it's a small percentage that do it for any reason other than pleasure "
I would never call another woman a slut or even think that of them. Everyone is different and just because something is grim to me doesn't mean it is to everyone. Many would describe anal as gross while others like it. My comment was how I personally feel about them. |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
Wherever the party is! |
"I'm with the OP on this one. I find greedy girl parties a bit grim and the opposite to horny. The idea of fucking 4+ men at same time is gross(to me) and not at all sexy.
28 meets in 9 weeks? GROSS!!!
/troll
Its a lot less than 28 meets actually. Lots of veris are from the same event (a party) and some are from people spotting me at LC and of course some were just social. Actual number of sexual meets is less than half of that number "
...but you know I'm playing with you though? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There is a place near me that has a GG event on & Ive been told by several people it's like a free for all with guys lining up.....if that's what floats your boat & you call that respectful then that's your choice. I personally think being passed around is disrespectful & I have more respect for myself so get off your backs & step down from your soapbox Greedy Girls & lighten up."
It is never a free for all. And if it's not your thing then don't do it but don't disrespect others choice by getting your knickers in a twist.. some love the guys to line up... Some crowd around but the thrill is varied for each gg. Personally for me its the thrill of my partner watching me take on the guys and for me the guys lining up and seeing them all lustful and wanting to do as I please... Note that it's on my terms... Not being passed around... I have a lot of respect for myself and others. I actually get annoyed with some gg that feeling the need to belittle guys that struggle at events...as it must be hard.
But op if you didn't want people to have their say... Why make such a statement
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There is a place near me that has a GG event on & Ive been told by several people it's like a free for all with guys lining up.....if that's what floats your boat & you call that respectful then that's your choice. I personally think being passed around is disrespectful & I have more respect for myself so get off your backs & step down from your soapbox Greedy Girls & lighten up."
Even better, you are going by hearsay......you've never actually witnessed an event, or an occasion where one woman is having pleasure with 2 or more guys!!!!!!!! Very narrow minded, bet you're one of the "quality over quantity" brigade too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There is a place near me that has a GG event on & Ive been told by several people it's like a free for all with guys lining up.....if that's what floats your boat & you call that respectful then that's your choice. I personally think being passed around is disrespectful & I have more respect for myself so get off your backs & step down from your soapbox Greedy Girls & lighten up.
Even better, you are going by hearsay......you've never actually witnessed an event, or an occasion where one woman is having pleasure with 2 or more guys!!!!!!!! Very narrow minded, bet you're one of the "quality over quantity" brigade too. "
Nothing wrong with quality over quantity or even better a quantity of quality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There is a place near me that has a GG event on & Ive been told by several people it's like a free for all with guys lining up.....if that's what floats your boat & you call that respectful then that's your choice. I personally think being passed around is disrespectful & I have more respect for myself so get off your backs & step down from your soapbox Greedy Girls & lighten up.
Even better, you are going by hearsay......you've never actually witnessed an event, or an occasion where one woman is having pleasure with 2 or more guys!!!!!!!! Very narrow minded, bet you're one of the "quality over quantity" brigade too.
Nothing wrong with quality over quantity or even better a quantity of quality. "
I'm a fully paid member of the quality over quantity brigade....it's not meant to be a slur on anyone else's likes and dislikes though, and I wouldn't say Greedy Girls lack self respect as a result of theirs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Seems to me there is a lot of hypocrisy coming from the anti-Greedy Girls group on this thread...
If you don't want people to get upset, don't make generalize, insulting comments like equating a specific act with a lack of self respect. I think it would be interesting to be a Greedy Girl, even though I've never done it.
Having said that, I can count the number of guys I've had sex with on one hand...so 14 sex meets would seem a bit much by comparison. Would I say you have no respect for yourself because you're willing to fuck that many people? No. It is what turns you on and has nothing at all to do with self-respect.
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seems to me there is a lot of hypocrisy coming from the anti-Greedy Girls group on this thread...
If you don't want people to get upset, don't make generalize, insulting comments like equating a specific act with a lack of self respect. I think it would be interesting to be a Greedy Girl, even though I've never done it.
Having said that, I can count the number of guys I've had sex with on one hand...so 14 sex meets would seem a bit much by comparison. Would I say you have no respect for yourself because you're willing to fuck that many people? No. It is what turns you on and has nothing at all to do with self-respect.
-Courtney "
I never said they had no self-respect as ive already stated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Seems to me there is a lot of hypocrisy coming from the anti-Greedy Girls group on this thread...
If you don't want people to get upset, don't make generalize, insulting comments like equating a specific act with a lack of self respect. I think it would be interesting to be a Greedy Girl, even though I've never done it.
Having said that, I can count the number of guys I've had sex with on one hand...so 14 sex meets would seem a bit much by comparison. Would I say you have no respect for yourself because you're willing to fuck that many people? No. It is what turns you on and has nothing at all to do with self-respect.
-Courtney
I never said they had no self-respect as ive already stated."
Your original post was a bit misleading...and I didn't mean to single you out. Just trying to show that there are different interests for different people. Regardless of self-respect |
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By (user no longer on site)
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OP I think that your dislike for greedy girls is very sexist.
You equate women who choose to have multiple partners in quick succession with lack of self respect and use the expression "free for all" as if women still had to "play hard to get".
Is it lack of self respect for men to allows themselves to be treated as a "human dildo" at a gg event? No! Nobody ever judges the men.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP I think that your dislike for greedy girls is very sexist.
You equate women who choose to have multiple partners in quick succession with lack of self respect and use the expression "free for all" as if women still had to "play hard to get".
Is it lack of self respect for men to allows themselves to be treated as a "human dildo" at a gg event? No! Nobody ever judges the men.
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"nobody ever judges the men".
Really? Maybe not in this thread, but I can assure you there has been plenty posted in the past about men happy to have a couple of minutes pump and go. |
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"There is a place near me that has a GG event on & Ive been told by several people it's like a free for all with guys lining up.....if that's what floats your boat & you call that respectful then that's your choice. I personally think being passed around is disrespectful & I have more respect for myself so get off your backs & step down from your soapbox Greedy Girls & lighten up."
But in your OP you were asking for clarification on what a greedy girl is.. Now you're saying you've heard all about it.
Is it respectful in your eyes to meet a different guy every night for a week? Or every week for a year? What difference does it make if it's in one night?
And no, it's not a free for all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I like the idea of going to a greedy girls event.
Conversely from the comments about it being for people with a lack of self esteem, I think it empowering for people to get involved in such a way and get their needs satisfied |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like the idea of going to a greedy girls event.
Conversely from the comments about it being for people with a lack of self esteem, I think it empowering for people to get involved in such a way and get their needs satisfied"
Exactly.. my self confidence and self esteem is currently lacking and I can't do it as it is something I do when I feel at my best... Its very empowering... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like the idea of going to a greedy girls event.
Conversely from the comments about it being for people with a lack of self esteem, I think it empowering for people to get involved in such a way and get their needs satisfied"
That's how I feel about it. Someone having a fantasy and feeling confident enough to act on it. Not my fantasy either, I'm a one on one sort of woman, but respect to those who do what they enjoy! |
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"I like the idea of going to a greedy girls event.
Conversely from the comments about it being for people with a lack of self esteem, I think it empowering for people to get involved in such a way and get their needs satisfied
Exactly.. my self confidence and self esteem is currently lacking and I can't do it as it is something I do when I feel at my best... Its very empowering..."
Yes, I think most things to do with swinging are empowering.
I get what you mean about not being able to when your self esteem and confidence are low, I also think that if you want to do it, then feelings like that don't really play a part. However, that's easier said than done by a long way |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
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if we call ladies who likes the attention of multiple males.. Greedy girls...
What would be the name for a guy who likes multiple female s....
I'm going with a lucky bastard........ |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"if we call ladies who likes the attention of multiple males.. Greedy girls...
What would be the name for a guy who likes multiple female s....
I'm going with a lucky bastard........ "
Greedy guys |
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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago
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"I'm a greedy girl.. Ate a full Chinese alllll to myself last night..
Should've had more self respect for my body but what the hell. It was Friday
Katie "
I think that you would find a Jamaican more filling... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm with the OP on this one. I find greedy girl parties a bit grim and the opposite to horny. The idea of fucking 4+ men at same time is gross(to me) and not at all sexy."
I too don't wish to have sex with lots of met at once - but to insinuate that those who do have no self respect is rude and downright inflammatory! - although reading the op's equally rude profile her comments don't surprise me!
This is a sex site - not a relationship site (unless that's what people are looking for - in which case good look to them!) - and unless people are willing to accept and respect other people's (legal) wants/desires/preferences without rudeness and criticism then perhaps they shouldn't be on here!
Let's not forget that according to the majority of society the mere fact that we admit to wanting sex without love makes us disgusting outcasts - so trying to take the moral high-ground on here is silly and pointless imho! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There is a place near me that has a GG event on & Ive been told by several people it's like a free for all with guys lining up.....if that's what floats your boat & you call that respectful then that's your choice. I personally think being passed around is disrespectful & I have more respect for myself so get off your backs & step down from your soapbox Greedy Girls & lighten up.
Even better, you are going by hearsay......you've never actually witnessed an event, or an occasion where one woman is having pleasure with 2 or more guys!!!!!!!! Very narrow minded, bet you're one of the "quality over quantity" brigade too.
Nothing wrong with quality over quantity or even better a quantity of quality.
I'm a fully paid member of the quality over quantity brigade....it's not meant to be a slur on anyone else's likes and dislikes though, and I wouldn't say Greedy Girls lack self respect as a result of theirs "
yes I'm with you on that one xx |
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By *onyneMan
over a year ago
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Liking something does not mean you lack respect for yourself...In fact it can be a sign that you respect your decision making, desires, fantasies, and ability to enjoy and take responsibility for the decisions you make...whatever they may be. There doesn't seem more respect to oneself than that. |
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