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By *exyhanf OP Couple
over a year ago
YORK |
Hi can anyone help please, we are a couple that joins fab 9weeks ago at first we got loads of messages and people wanting to meet us, we had 4 meets that were great .. Sins then we been messed about and stood up and now we not getting anything much at all . We are trying to arrange meets but nothing !!!! Is it because we don't do full swop or should I say we haven't yet !!! Are we doing something wrong??? Please help is there something wrong with us lol ?? Xx |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Think we have but don't know where to look to see if we are on the list ,, we did message about it about a month ago xx"
https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/meets/414449
Yep, you're on there  |
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By *exyhanf OP Couple
over a year ago
YORK |
"Think we have but don't know where to look to see if we are on the list ,, we did message about it about a month ago xx
https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/meets/414449
Yep, you're on there "
thank you for that ,, take it you will be there ?? Xx |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Think we have but don't know where to look to see if we are on the list ,, we did message about it about a month ago xx
https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/meets/414449
Yep, you're on there thank you for that ,, take it you will be there ?? Xx"
Yes, me and my club buddy BlondeCaz. I know one of the couples who runs it well, so try and get along when I can. |
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By *exyhanf OP Couple
over a year ago
YORK |
"Stick to verified people, talk on the phone early on, there is no reason why you guys shouldn't be getting meets. Good luck "
thanks for the advise really thought we must be doing something wrong x |
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By *exyhanf OP Couple
over a year ago
YORK |
"Think we have but don't know where to look to see if we are on the list ,, we did message about it about a month ago xx
https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/meets/414449
Yep, you're on there thank you for that ,, take it you will be there ?? Xx
Yes, me and my club buddy BlondeCaz. I know one of the couples who runs it well, so try and get along when I can."
well hopefully we will see you there and say hello xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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to be honest, if we want a meet - we search the list of those people that have actually bothered to put a meet up in our area - you then tend to get about a 60% success rate. If you ever try to get a random meet just from looking at profiles that might suit and contacting - the success rate goes down to about 10% in our experience and it's just not worth the effort. Think we've all probably suffered from the 2 hours getting ready and then the 'last minute' cancellation because the aliens have landed etc.  |
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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago
shefiield |
"Thank you everyone for your help and advice we are wanting to try clubs but unsure where and when and how to go about it and wot is expected of us when we get there lol xx"
get to La Chambre I will look after you |
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By *exyhanf OP Couple
over a year ago
YORK |
"Thank you everyone for your help and advice we are wanting to try clubs but unsure where and when and how to go about it and wot is expected of us when we get there lol xxget to La Chambre I will look after you "
we are hoping to try it weekend after next is it Saturday nights for couples? Xx |
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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago
shefiield |
"Thank you everyone for your help and advice we are wanting to try clubs but unsure where and when and how to go about it and wot is expected of us when we get there lol xxget to La Chambre I will look after you we are hoping to try it weekend after next is it Saturday nights for couples? Xx"
It is couples night and single ladies on Saturdays 
Sods law that we won't be there that weekend (have been every weekend this year lol), we are off to Butlins for the Northern Soul Weekend from the 25th |
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"Hi can anyone help please, we are a couple that joins fab 9weeks ago at first we got loads of messages and people wanting to meet us, we had 4 meets that were great .. Sins then we been messed about and stood up and now we not getting anything much at all . We are trying to arrange meets but nothing !!!! Is it because we don't do full swop or should I say we haven't yet !!! Are we doing something wrong??? Please help is there something wrong with us lol ?? Xx"
. It might help if you had a more detailed profile . Yours is only two lines and does not tell potential meets a lot about yourselves . I tend to assume that any profile of less than fifteen lines is a fake or someone who cannot be bothered marketing themselves .
Good luck in your search . |
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By *exyhanf OP Couple
over a year ago
YORK |
"Hi can anyone help please, we are a couple that joins fab 9weeks ago at first we got loads of messages and people wanting to meet us, we had 4 meets that were great .. Sins then we been messed about and stood up and now we not getting anything much at all . We are trying to arrange meets but nothing !!!! Is it because we don't do full swop or should I say we haven't yet !!! Are we doing something wrong??? Please help is there something wrong with us lol ?? Xx. It might help if you had a more detailed profile . Yours is only two lines and does not tell potential meets a lot about yourselves . I tend to assume that any profile of less than fifteen lines is a fake or someone who cannot be bothered marketing themselves .
Good luck in your search ."
thanks for advice xx |
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By *exyhanf OP Couple
over a year ago
YORK |
"You should try this weekend lol, it's theme night on Saturday, naughty Dr's and Nurses . Should be a good night  "
cant do this weekend we are away but could just leave it until you are there??? Could really do with the help and someone to look after us lol xx |
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By *ohnkezCouple
over a year ago
shefiield |
"You should try this weekend lol, it's theme night on Saturday, naughty Dr's and Nurses . Should be a good night cant do this weekend we are away but could just leave it until you are there??? Could really do with the help and someone to look after us lol xx"
yes will do |
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"Hi can anyone help please, we are a couple that joins fab 9weeks ago at first we got loads of messages and people wanting to meet us, we had 4 meets that were great .. Sins then we been messed about and stood up and now we not getting anything much at all . We are trying to arrange meets but nothing !!!! Is it because we don't do full swop or should I say we haven't yet !!! Are we doing something wrong??? Please help is there something wrong with us lol ?? Xx"
Move to devon!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi can anyone help please, we are a couple that joins fab 9weeks ago at first we got loads of messages and people wanting to meet us, we had 4 meets that were great .. Sins then we been messed about and stood up and now we not getting anything much at all . We are trying to arrange meets but nothing !!!! Is it because we don't do full swop or should I say we haven't yet !!! Are we doing something wrong??? Please help is there something wrong with us lol ?? Xx"
it's not to do with your profile although not much write up and your pics wow very sexy just must be luck not messaging the right couples I guess |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
Wakefield |
"Hi can anyone help please, we are a couple that joins fab 9weeks ago at first we got loads of messages and people wanting to meet us, we had 4 meets that were great .. Sins then we been messed about and stood up and now we not getting anything much at all . We are trying to arrange meets but nothing !!!! Is it because we don't do full swop or should I say we haven't yet !!! Are we doing something wrong??? Please help is there something wrong with us lol ?? Xx"
We would not meet you for a few reasons but these are personal and would not stop other meeting you.
For example we are outside you age range you do not accomodate ( though we would suggest a club meet and also we prefer not to soft swing.
As we said or preferences but other will not be bothered by any of those items.
We cannot see anything in your profile to frighten people off so would suggest you browse your messages and see if anything seems to stop the responses.
Everyone is different here and we are sure you are just what some people are looking for, but don't expect results quickly or even constantly, people have lives outside of Fab (as we are sure you do) and it might simply be they are busy due to holidays and the start of the new term |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
Wakefield |
" I tend to assume that any profile of less than fifteen lines is a fake or someone who cannot be bothered marketing themselves .
Good luck in your search ."
Phew, just made it 15 lines on ours (well 14.5 really) |
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By *exyhanf OP Couple
over a year ago
YORK |
"Hi can anyone help please, we are a couple that joins fab 9weeks ago at first we got loads of messages and people wanting to meet us, we had 4 meets that were great .. Sins then we been messed about and stood up and now we not getting anything much at all . We are trying to arrange meets but nothing !!!! Is it because we don't do full swop or should I say we haven't yet !!! Are we doing something wrong??? Please help is there something wrong with us lol ?? Xx
We would not meet you for a few reasons but these are personal and would not stop other meeting you.
For example we are outside you age range you do not accomodate ( though we would suggest a club meet and also we prefer not to soft swing.
As we said or preferences but other will not be bothered by any of those items.
We cannot see anything in your profile to frighten people off so would suggest you browse your messages and see if anything seems to stop the responses.
Everyone is different here and we are sure you are just what some people are looking for, but don't expect results quickly or even constantly, people have lives outside of Fab (as we are sure you do) and it might simply be they are busy due to holidays and the start of the new term"
yhank you xx |
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