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Advice wanted safely fulfilling fantasy
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey all. Okay so basically I have a strong fantasy of being used and passed around by a group of guys. The typical group sex submissive stuff. 
I think that fabswingers represents my best chance of this happening.
Now I could just post a meet listing and see what happens, but I'm a small woman and there's naturally a lot of room to be abused and taken advantage of beyond the parameters of the meet and that prospect is very scary if not potentially dangerous.
So I guess I'm looking for advice on how I can make this happen safely and as risk free as possible. I pretty much don't know how to go about this, but I'm sure the right people are here somewhere.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey all. Okay so basically I have a strong fantasy of being used and passed around by a group of guys. The typical group sex submissive stuff.
I think that fabswingers represents my best chance of this happening.
Now I could just post a meet listing and see what happens, but I'm a small woman and there's naturally a lot of room to be abused and taken advantage of beyond the parameters of the meet and that prospect is very scary if not potentially dangerous.
So I guess I'm looking for advice on how I can make this happen safely and as risk free as possible. I pretty much don't know how to go about this, but I'm sure the right people are here somewhere. "
find a tv/ts friendly swingers club and try it out . |
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You need a guy who will keep an eye out for those whose condoms 'accidentally' slip off prior to penetration, to stop uninvited men getting in, to make sure they all know the ground rules and obey them. It's a challenge but also an exciting opportunity. Maybe a club and a private room and someone at the door? Then management can back your guard person up. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Okay cool so I need to get myself into clubs and find one person I can trust implicitly. Are there any swingers clubs around Manchester that are trans friendly (not the ones primarily trans really want a general one) none of them seem to advertise it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well I'm full time (10 years now) passing TS. I'm hoping that one of the standard ones would accept me. Maybe I should send some emails.
Basically I don't want to be treated as a walking personification of a tgirl fetish. Hard to explain. |
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By *otForSoftiesWoman
over a year ago
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Try finding a Mistress or Master who can arrange this for you and be in control. I'm currently organising this exact scenario for someone. You do need to know you can trust the person, as the guy with me will be blindfolded - clearly I've build up that trust with him for him to allow that situation to happen. It's very horny planning it!  |
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This is what I'd do, I would advertise for a friend, someone else who is looking to have fantasies fulfilled, get to know each other and visit clubs, you could help each other out finding what you want and look out for each other making sure your safe.
I've done many gangbangs that weren't in clubs and to be honest I would have struggled with the safety side, you have to have eyes in the back of your head |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would do as suggested above and find a TV friendly club and have a trusted friend looking out for you...LaChambre in Sheffield used to have a privately run event on the last Tuesday of the month which was well attended and run by a very experienced fem dom ZeanaWarrior and a lovely TV called SexySue...not sure if the event still runs but might be worth trying that or asking them for some advise on this as I think both of them are on fab xx |
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