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"He isn't being offensive so I didn't think contacting admin would do anything but advise to ignore and block. If (when) he contacts me again from a new account, I'll contact admin. Thanks. " Use your filters to block newbies as well. Might help.  | |||
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"I keep blocking someone from my solo account and my couples account but every couple of weeks, he sets up a new profile. Then messages again, and I have to reblock. This has been going on for best part of a year. It's really doing my head in. I've tried not blocking but ignoring, I've tried replying. No combination works. This is someone I've previously played with and then told them I have no interest in communicating with them further. They've worked out who my best friend is and now do the same to her. Messaging her I think, in hope of me reacting. So she ignores or block. Then he messages off a new profile. I thought he would have been bored by now. Just having a moan. " he was enamored with you then you must have met him quite a few times or have been really off with him for him to be that persistent, can I ask you I looked at your pics and I really find pics wearing gas masks a little disturbing instantly puts me off anyone ,what is the fascination of masks that completely hide your face and also must be very chlostrephobic?  | |||
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"He isn't being offensive so I didn't think contacting admin would do anything but advise to ignore and block. If (when) he contacts me again from a new account, I'll contact admin. Thanks. Use your filters to block newbies as well. Might help. "That only works for a few days though, not sure exactly how many, then the profile is no longer classed as a new one and he'll be able to message then. I'd suggest blocking anyone who's unverified, or who's a site supporter. Hope you get this sorted out, there's no place for morons like that on fab. | |||
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"He isn't being offensive so I didn't think contacting admin would do anything but advise to ignore and block. If (when) he contacts me again from a new account, I'll contact admin. Thanks. Use your filters to block newbies as well. Might help.
That only works for a few days though, not sure exactly how many, then the profile is no longer classed as a new one and he'll be able to message then. I'd suggest blocking anyone who's unverified, or who's a site supporter. Hope you get this sorted out, there's no place for morons like that on fab. "Yip block unverified accounts from contacting you  | |||
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"He isn't being offensive so I didn't think contacting admin would do anything but advise to ignore and block. If (when) he contacts me again from a new account, I'll contact admin. Thanks. " The constant stalking is a form of abuse in itself so admin may do something? Would be best if admin could block his ip address? | |||
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"I've had the same thing except messages turning to abuse. He always deletes account and comes back with the same name to harrass me. I wish I could have a permanent block on that userneme! I always report and block but it leaves a nasty taste in my mouth "Turn it around in your head. He must find you very appealing indeed to go to such lengths. Think of it as compliments but he doesn't know how to use the correct words. Don't read the words when he mails. Just report and block and feel calm. Try not to let it bother you. A sort of grey haze of apathy. Then do something you do like to replace the crappy feeling. Same for the OP and anyone going through similar. X | |||
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"I've had the same thing except messages turning to abuse. He always deletes account and comes back with the same name to harrass me. I wish I could have a permanent block on that userneme! I always report and block but it leaves a nasty taste in my mouth
Turn it around in your head. He must find you very appealing indeed to go to such lengths. Think of it as compliments but he doesn't know how to use the correct words. Don't read the words when he mails. Just report and block and feel calm. Try not to let it bother you. A sort of grey haze of apathy. Then do something you do like to replace the crappy feeling.
Same for the OP and anyone going through similar. X"Great advice. | |||
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"I keep blocking someone from my solo account and my couples account but every couple of weeks, he sets up a new profile. Then messages again, and I have to reblock. This has been going on for best part of a year. It's really doing my head in. I've tried not blocking but ignoring, I've tried replying. No combination works. This is someone I've previously played with and then told them I have no interest in communicating with them further. They've worked out who my best friend is and now do the same to her. Messaging her I think, in hope of me reacting. So she ignores or block. Then he messages off a new profile. I thought he would have been bored by now. Just having a moan. he was enamored with you then you must have met him quite a few times or have been really off with him for him to be that persistent, can I ask you I looked at your pics and I really find pics wearing gas masks a little disturbing instantly puts me off anyone ,what is the fascination of masks that completely hide your face and also must be very chlostrephobic? "Just blame the victim then? I feel strongly that other people's kinks are not really anyone else's business unless they're being forced on someone. Enjoy your own fantasies and leave the OP to her own. | |||
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"I keep blocking someone from my solo account and my couples account but every couple of weeks, he sets up a new profile. Then messages again, and I have to reblock. This has been going on for best part of a year. It's really doing my head in. I've tried not blocking but ignoring, I've tried replying. No combination works. This is someone I've previously played with and then told them I have no interest in communicating with them further. They've worked out who my best friend is and now do the same to her. Messaging her I think, in hope of me reacting. So she ignores or block. Then he messages off a new profile. I thought he would have been bored by now. Just having a moan. he was enamored with you then you must have met him quite a few times or have been really off with him for him to be that persistent, can I ask you I looked at your pics and I really find pics wearing gas masks a little disturbing instantly puts me off anyone ,what is the fascination of masks that completely hide your face and also must be very chlostrephobic? "The mask is just one piece of kit I play with now and then. For sensory deprivation and yes it can be claustrophobic. I met him twice. Over a year ago. Then remained amicable. Without going into ins and outs. There was no argument, no insults, just disinterest. Then expression of annoyance of him persistently messaging or contacting my friends. That's it. | |||
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"I keep blocking someone from my solo account and my couples account but every couple of weeks, he sets up a new profile. Then messages again, and I have to reblock. This has been going on for best part of a year. It's really doing my head in. I've tried not blocking but ignoring, I've tried replying. No combination works. This is someone I've previously played with and then told them I have no interest in communicating with them further. They've worked out who my best friend is and now do the same to her. Messaging her I think, in hope of me reacting. So she ignores or block. Then he messages off a new profile. I thought he would have been bored by now. Just having a moan. he was enamored with you then you must have met him quite a few times or have been really off with him for him to be that persistent, can I ask you I looked at your pics and I really find pics wearing gas masks a little disturbing instantly puts me off anyone ,what is the fascination of masks that completely hide your face and also must be very chlostrephobic? "Err mate!! Can I just say your comments are really annoying and unhelpful! Wtf would you know about this creeps state of mind??? I've been online stalked by a couple of guys. One I met one time. And the other I didn't even meet. Youre not being helpful by attacking the OP. It can be very scary for a single fem to deal with shite! | |||
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"He isn't being offensive so I didn't think contacting admin would do anything but advise to ignore and block. If (when) he contacts me again from a new account, I'll contact admin. Thanks. Use your filters to block newbies as well. Might help.
That only works for a few days though, not sure exactly how many, then the profile is no longer classed as a new one and he'll be able to message then. I'd suggest blocking anyone who's unverified, or who's a site supporter. Hope you get this sorted out, there's no place for morons like that on fab. "wow, thats a bit extreme classifying unverified and site supporters morons  | |||
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"I've had the same thing except messages turning to abuse. He always deletes account and comes back with the same name to harrass me. I wish I could have a permanent block on that userneme! I always report and block but it leaves a nasty taste in my mouth
Turn it around in your head. He must find you very appealing indeed to go to such lengths. Think of it as compliments but he doesn't know how to use the correct words. Don't read the words when he mails. Just report and block and feel calm. Try not to let it bother you. A sort of grey haze of apathy. Then do something you do like to replace the crappy feeling.
Same for the OP and anyone going through similar. X"Thank you for the advice! The attacks are very personal. I was actually shaking from some of the things he said which sounds crazy. I normally brush things off pretty easily but its hard when certain things about my family are nentioned. | |||
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"I keep blocking someone from my solo account and my couples account but every couple of weeks, he sets up a new profile. Then messages again, and I have to reblock. This has been going on for best part of a year. It's really doing my head in. I've tried not blocking but ignoring, I've tried replying. No combination works. This is someone I've previously played with and then told them I have no interest in communicating with them further. They've worked out who my best friend is and now do the same to her. Messaging her I think, in hope of me reacting. So she ignores or block. Then he messages off a new profile. I thought he would have been bored by now. Just having a moan. he was enamored with you then you must have met him quite a few times or have been really off with him for him to be that persistent, can I ask you I looked at your pics and I really find pics wearing gas masks a little disturbing instantly puts me off anyone ,what is the fascination of masks that completely hide your face and also must be very chlostrephobic? "What you think of the OP's pics is irrelevant. You are making wild guesses as why he is persisting with his behaviour. I can't see why you contributed. | |||
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"Faerie queen you have had lots of fantastic advice. Set up your filters. Make all your photos private or friends only . Definitely report to admin. Although if he's messaging from a mobile app the. Blocking the IP address won't work. Finally if he's mentioning family then you might want to take it to the police. That can be very effective . Best of luck Xx" Thank you. I've never even met the guy but he knew I had kids from previous conversations. I'll adjust my filters I think. I like having public pics though and don't want to change everything just because of one person. I know this leaves me open to unwanted attention. I've reported and blocked. Thank you for all your help | |||
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"I've had the same thing except messages turning to abuse. He always deletes account and comes back with the same name to harrass me. I wish I could have a permanent block on that userneme! I always report and block but it leaves a nasty taste in my mouth
Turn it around in your head. He must find you very appealing indeed to go to such lengths. Think of it as compliments but he doesn't know how to use the correct words. Don't read the words when he mails. Just report and block and feel calm. Try not to let it bother you. A sort of grey haze of apathy. Then do something you do like to replace the crappy feeling.
Same for the OP and anyone going through similar. X
Thank you for the advice! The attacks are very personal. I was actually shaking from some of the things he said which sounds crazy.
I normally brush things off pretty easily but its hard when certain things about my family are nentioned."If he's mentioning things about your family then, to me, that's more than just annoying. I have once had to get the police involved because the wife of a couple went a bit nuts. They were much more helpful than I thought they'd be. They offered to just ring her and warn her off initially rather than logging a full on case and that seemed to work as I've never heard from her since... Might be worth considering if he won't go away and is upsetting you. Think if it was just grief towards me I'd have ignored till she gave up, but involving my family is another story | |||
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"I think they were referring to stalkers as the morons!! "I was, yes. Your apology will be appreciated aka-longman | |||
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"Have you reported it to admin. If he's repeatedly creating accounts and harassing you they could possibly block his I.P. address from the site." There was a guy doing this to a few of us in the Mids room. Fab sorted him. He got round it and then the police sorted it. | |||
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"I've had the same thing except messages turning to abuse. He always deletes account and comes back with the same name to harrass me. I wish I could have a permanent block on that userneme! I always report and block but it leaves a nasty taste in my mouth
Turn it around in your head. He must find you very appealing indeed to go to such lengths. Think of it as compliments but he doesn't know how to use the correct words. Don't read the words when he mails. Just report and block and feel calm. Try not to let it bother you. A sort of grey haze of apathy. Then do something you do like to replace the crappy feeling.
Same for the OP and anyone going through similar. X
Thank you for the advice! The attacks are very personal. I was actually shaking from some of the things he said which sounds crazy.
I normally brush things off pretty easily but its hard when certain things about my family are nentioned.
If he's mentioning things about your family then, to me, that's more than just annoying. I have once had to get the police involved because the wife of a couple went a bit nuts. They were much more helpful than I thought they'd be. They offered to just ring her and warn her off initially rather than logging a full on case and that seemed to work as I've never heard from her since... Might be worth considering if he won't go away and is upsetting you.
Think if it was just grief towards me I'd have ignored till she gave up, but involving my family is another story"I'm hesitant to involve the authorities but might consider it if it happens again. It's nice to know they were so helpful! | |||
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"I too had this problem on fab... And when I wouldn't put up with his abuse he would contact my friends and start on them... Unfortunately he work(ed) in the village I live and saw me return home one day... That was the second stage of stalking... I live in a cottage in an old boatyard... Over a period of weeks I would open my front door to bunches of flowers laying on my steps... What creeped me out was the thought of him being right outside my house without me knowing... It came to a head when he contacted me saying I thought you weren't meeting anyone... He was sitting down the end of my road watching to see if I had visitors... (a mate was round) That was enough and I contacted the police... All very scarey when you are a single woman living on your own... and not something you sign up for when you join fab !!!" Sorry to hear some people have had really unpleasant things happen. I'm not surprised others have involved the police, and rightly so. My situation is nothing more than an annoyance. The person I've mentioned is behaving rather desperately but hasn't said anything untoward or made contact outside of fab. | |||
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Plenty of people are desperate for sex on here, and they're manipulative when they want it. So long as you've warned your mate about him she should be ok. You could always go to the police together if you wanna see if anything can be done about him. He needs a reality check. | |||
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"I think they were referring to stalkers as the morons!!
I was, yes.
Your apology will be appreciated aka-longman"? Im sorry cutie pie, I wasnt insulting yo tho., i was only repeating what you said | |||
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"I think they were referring to stalkers as the morons!!
I was, yes.
Your apology will be appreciated aka-longman
? Im sorry cutie pie, I wasnt insulting yo tho., i was only repeating what you said "No, you weren't. You read my post and seen something totally different to what I posted. Try reading posts properly before you go off the deep end. | |||
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"I think they were referring to stalkers as the morons!!
I was, yes.
Your apology will be appreciated aka-longman
? Im sorry cutie pie, I wasnt insulting yo tho., i was only repeating what you said
No, you weren't. You read my post and seen something totally different to what I posted. Try reading posts properly before you go off the deep end. "??? Err i did check your post and you clearly suggested blockin anyone unverified, or whos a site supporter. Il help u out hun, il repost the post we are on about below | |||
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"He isn't being offensive so I didn't think contacting admin would do anything but advise to ignore and block. If (when) he contacts me again from a new account, I'll contact admin. Thanks. Use your filters to block newbies as well. Might help.
That only works for a few days though, not sure exactly how many, then the profile is no longer classed as a new one and he'll be able to message then. I'd suggest blocking anyone who's unverified, or who's a site supporter. Hope you get this sorted out, there's no place for morons like that on fab. "there hun, this is the post i was referrin to. Check the last 4 lines | |||
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"He isn't being offensive so I didn't think contacting admin would do anything but advise to ignore and block. If (when) he contacts me again from a new account, I'll contact admin. Thanks. Use your filters to block newbies as well. Might help.
That only works for a few days though, not sure exactly how many, then the profile is no longer classed as a new one and he'll be able to message then. I'd suggest blocking anyone who's unverified, or who's a site supporter. Hope you get this sorted out, there's no place for morons like that on fab.
there hun, this is the post i was referrin to. Check the last 4 lines"I read this as two different sentences = 1. Is a strategy that may help - to block certain categories. 2. Is a comment on the whole situation, it is terrible and he is a moron and should not be here. There was no link between the two thoughts - if there was, there would be a ; in between the sentences and that would in itself imply the link between unverified, site supporters and moons - the post does not do this. My own stalking incident stopped abruptly when I told the guy to fuck off - texting me at a parents evening at my son's school freaked me out. He was one of the teachers there and was sitting at the next table. I knew about his job when I was meeting him and it was okay when it was okay, but when I stopped meeting him, he persisted too much and it began to creep me out as he had moved close and is in my neighbourhood now. Thankfully all has gone quiet now. | |||
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"I think they were referring to stalkers as the morons!!
I was, yes.
Your apology will be appreciated aka-longman
? Im sorry cutie pie, I wasnt insulting yo tho., i was only repeating what you said
No, you weren't. You read my post and seen something totally different to what I posted. Try reading posts properly before you go off the deep end. "and i wasnt havin a dig, i was saving you the hassle of people wondering why you are recommending blocking people who are unverified seeing most people on here are unverified including you. Its a bit of an extreme and totally deflected response to the situation explained in the thread. The man in question could be a verified user or better still a site supporter, maybe rephrase your post hun | |||
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"He isn't being offensive so I didn't think contacting admin would do anything but advise to ignore and block. If (when) he contacts me again from a new account, I'll contact admin. Thanks. Use your filters to block newbies as well. Might help.
That only works for a few days though, not sure exactly how many, then the profile is no longer classed as a new one and he'll be able to message then. I'd suggest blocking anyone who's unverified, or who's a site supporter. Hope you get this sorted out, there's no place for morons like that on fab.
there hun, this is the post i was referrin to. Check the last 4 lines"Seems clear to me as an impartial observer. She was describing stalkers as morons. She mentioned a way to avoid them was to block certain sections of the site from contacting you. Then she started a new sentence and called the subject of her post (the stalkers) morons. This is not hard. Perhaps people look too hard for a reason to get upset on this forum. | |||
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"He isn't being offensive so I didn't think contacting admin would do anything but advise to ignore and block. If (when) he contacts me again from a new account, I'll contact admin. Thanks. Use your filters to block newbies as well. Might help.
That only works for a few days though, not sure exactly how many, then the profile is no longer classed as a new one and he'll be able to message then. I'd suggest blocking anyone who's unverified, or who's a site supporter. Hope you get this sorted out, there's no place for morons like that on fab.
there hun, this is the post i was referrin to. Check the last 4 lines
Seems clear to me as an impartial observer. She was describing stalkers as morons.
She mentioned a way to avoid them was to block certain sections of the site from contacting you. Then she started a new sentence and called the subject of her post (the stalkers) morons.
This is not hard. Perhaps people look too hard for a reason to get upset on this forum. "tell me about it, better still perhaps people look to start chaos out of order. You of all people should know what im talkin about init | |||
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"I think they were referring to stalkers as the morons!!
I was, yes.
Your apology will be appreciated aka-longman
? Im sorry cutie pie, I wasnt insulting yo tho., i was only repeating what you said
No, you weren't. You read my post and seen something totally different to what I posted. Try reading posts properly before you go off the deep end.
and i wasnt havin a dig, i was saving you the hassle of people wondering why you are recommending blocking people who are unverified seeing most people on here are unverified including you. Its a bit of an extreme and totally deflected response to the situation explained in the thread. The man in question could be a verified user or better still a site supporter, maybe rephrase your post hun"I am verified, the green tick on my profile indicates that, I just choose not to display them. Drinking and LawandOrder, thank you, it's refreshing to see there are still some intelligent people here who know how to interpret posts in the matter in which they were intended and typed. Aka, I am not your hun, nor am I a hun (it's often classed as a derogatory term here in Scotland), so please refrain from addressing me in such manner. To the OP, sorry someone has felt it necessary to hijack your post, and I sincerely hope Admin do something about this moron. | |||
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"He isn't being offensive so I didn't think contacting admin would do anything but advise to ignore and block. If (when) he contacts me again from a new account, I'll contact admin. Thanks. Use your filters to block newbies as well. Might help.
That only works for a few days though, not sure exactly how many, then the profile is no longer classed as a new one and he'll be able to message then. I'd suggest blocking anyone who's unverified, or who's a site supporter. Hope you get this sorted out, there's no place for morons like that on fab.
there hun, this is the post i was referrin to. Check the last 4 lines
Seems clear to me as an impartial observer. She was describing stalkers as morons.
She mentioned a way to avoid them was to block certain sections of the site from contacting you. Then she started a new sentence and called the subject of her post (the stalkers) morons.
This is not hard. Perhaps people look too hard for a reason to get upset on this forum.
tell me about it, better still perhaps people look to start chaos out of order. You of all people should know what im talkin about init"Oh. Ok. My bad.
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"He isn't being offensive so I didn't think contacting admin would do anything but advise to ignore and block. If (when) he contacts me again from a new account, I'll contact admin. Thanks. Use your filters to block newbies as well. Might help.
That only works for a few days though, not sure exactly how many, then the profile is no longer classed as a new one and he'll be able to message then. I'd suggest blocking anyone who's unverified, or who's a site supporter. Hope you get this sorted out, there's no place for morons like that on fab.
there hun, this is the post i was referrin to. Check the last 4 lines
Seems clear to me as an impartial observer. She was describing stalkers as morons.
She mentioned a way to avoid them was to block certain sections of the site from contacting you. Then she started a new sentence and called the subject of her post (the stalkers) morons.
This is not hard. Perhaps people look too hard for a reason to get upset on this forum. "I thought the full stop after supporter made it pretty clear the comments were about two different groups of people. | |||
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"I think they were referring to stalkers as the morons!!
I was, yes.
Your apology will be appreciated aka-longman
? Im sorry cutie pie, I wasnt insulting yo tho., i was only repeating what you said
No, you weren't. You read my post and seen something totally different to what I posted. Try reading posts properly before you go off the deep end.
and i wasnt havin a dig, i was saving you the hassle of people wondering why you are recommending blocking people who are unverified seeing most people on here are unverified including you. Its a bit of an extreme and totally deflected response to the situation explained in the thread. The man in question could be a verified user or better still a site supporter, maybe rephrase your post hun
I am verified, the green tick on my profile indicates that, I just choose not to display them.
Drinking and LawandOrder, thank you, it's refreshing to see there are still some intelligent people here who know how to interpret posts in the matter in which they were intended and typed.
Aka, I am not your hun, nor am I a hun (it's often classed as a derogatory term here in Scotland), so please refrain from addressing me in such manner.
To the OP, sorry someone has felt it necessary to hijack your post, and I sincerely hope Admin do something about this moron.
"lol, gd to know you not my hun.. im glad by the way. Anyway the point i was trying to put across is ..... what has being unverified got to do with the annoying personality described in the thread ? The guy could be a verified user for all you know. There is no correlation between unverified users and the character described in the thread is there ? It is a big slam on unverified user as it puts them in an awkward state . Be polite you and less of the grumpiness, i wasnt tryin to hijack the post, just pointing out the flaw in your comment. | |||
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"He isn't being offensive so I didn't think contacting admin would do anything but advise to ignore and block. If (when) he contacts me again from a new account, I'll contact admin. Thanks. Use your filters to block newbies as well. Might help.
That only works for a few days though, not sure exactly how many, then the profile is no longer classed as a new one and he'll be able to message then. I'd suggest blocking anyone who's unverified, or who's a site supporter. Hope you get this sorted out, there's no place for morons like that on fab.
there hun, this is the post i was referrin to. Check the last 4 lines
Seems clear to me as an impartial observer. She was describing stalkers as morons.
She mentioned a way to avoid them was to block certain sections of the site from contacting you. Then she started a new sentence and called the subject of her post (the stalkers) morons.
This is not hard. Perhaps people look too hard for a reason to get upset on this forum.
I thought the full stop after supporter made it pretty clear the comments were about two different groups of people.
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"I think they were referring to stalkers as the morons!!
I was, yes.
Your apology will be appreciated aka-longman
? Im sorry cutie pie, I wasnt insulting yo tho., i was only repeating what you said
No, you weren't. You read my post and seen something totally different to what I posted. Try reading posts properly before you go off the deep end.
and i wasnt havin a dig, i was saving you the hassle of people wondering why you are recommending blocking people who are unverified seeing most people on here are unverified including you. Its a bit of an extreme and totally deflected response to the situation explained in the thread. The man in question could be a verified user or better still a site supporter, maybe rephrase your post hun
I am verified, the green tick on my profile indicates that, I just choose not to display them.
Drinking and LawandOrder, thank you, it's refreshing to see there are still some intelligent people here who know how to interpret posts in the matter in which they were intended and typed.
Aka, I am not your hun, nor am I a hun (it's often classed as a derogatory term here in Scotland), so please refrain from addressing me in such manner.
To the OP, sorry someone has felt it necessary to hijack your post, and I sincerely hope Admin do something about this moron.
lol, gd to know you not my hun.. im glad by the way. Anyway the point i was trying to put across is ..... what has being unverified got to do with the annoying personality described in the thread ? The guy could be a verified user for all you know. There is no correlation between unverified users and the character described in the thread is there ? It is a big slam on unverified user as it puts them in an awkward state .
Be polite you and less of the grumpiness, i wasnt tryin to hijack the post, just pointing out the flaw in your comment.
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"He isn't being offensive so I didn't think contacting admin would do anything but advise to ignore and block. If (when) he contacts me again from a new account, I'll contact admin. Thanks. Use your filters to block newbies as well. Might help.
That only works for a few days though, not sure exactly how many, then the profile is no longer classed as a new one and he'll be able to message then. I'd suggest blocking anyone who's unverified, or who's a site supporter. Hope you get this sorted out, there's no place for morons like that on fab.
there hun, this is the post i was referrin to. Check the last 4 lines
Seems clear to me as an impartial observer. She was describing stalkers as morons.
She mentioned a way to avoid them was to block certain sections of the site from contacting you. Then she started a new sentence and called the subject of her post (the stalkers) morons.
This is not hard. Perhaps people look too hard for a reason to get upset on this forum.
tell me about it, better still perhaps people look to start chaos out of order. You of all people should know what im talkin about init
Oh. Ok. My bad.
Maybe do some good listening and less patronising."Okie dokie maybe do some good word comprehension and less selective reading. | |||
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"I think they were referring to stalkers as the morons!!
I was, yes.
Your apology will be appreciated aka-longman
? Im sorry cutie pie, I wasnt insulting yo tho., i was only repeating what you said
No, you weren't. You read my post and seen something totally different to what I posted. Try reading posts properly before you go off the deep end.
and i wasnt havin a dig, i was saving you the hassle of people wondering why you are recommending blocking people who are unverified seeing most people on here are unverified including you. Its a bit of an extreme and totally deflected response to the situation explained in the thread. The man in question could be a verified user or better still a site supporter, maybe rephrase your post hun
I am verified, the green tick on my profile indicates that, I just choose not to display them.
Drinking and LawandOrder, thank you, it's refreshing to see there are still some intelligent people here who know how to interpret posts in the matter in which they were intended and typed.
Aka, I am not your hun, nor am I a hun (it's often classed as a derogatory term here in Scotland), so please refrain from addressing me in such manner.
To the OP, sorry someone has felt it necessary to hijack your post, and I sincerely hope Admin do something about this moron.
lol, gd to know you not my hun.. im glad by the way. Anyway the point i was trying to put across is ..... what has being unverified got to do with the annoying personality described in the thread ? The guy could be a verified user for all you know. There is no correlation between unverified users and the character described in the thread is there ? It is a big slam on unverified user as it puts them in an awkward state .
Be polite you and less of the grumpiness, i wasnt tryin to hijack the post, just pointing out the flaw in your comment.
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"He isn't being offensive so I didn't think contacting admin would do anything but advise to ignore and block. If (when) he contacts me again from a new account, I'll contact admin. Thanks. Use your filters to block newbies as well. Might help.
That only works for a few days though, not sure exactly how many, then the profile is no longer classed as a new one and he'll be able to message then. I'd suggest blocking anyone who's unverified, or who's a site supporter. Hope you get this sorted out, there's no place for morons like that on fab.
there hun, this is the post i was referrin to. Check the last 4 lines
Seems clear to me as an impartial observer. She was describing stalkers as morons.
She mentioned a way to avoid them was to block certain sections of the site from contacting you. Then she started a new sentence and called the subject of her post (the stalkers) morons.
This is not hard. Perhaps people look too hard for a reason to get upset on this forum.
tell me about it, better still perhaps people look to start chaos out of order. You of all people should know what im talkin about init
Oh. Ok. My bad.
Maybe do some good listening and less patronising.
Okie dokie
maybe do some good word comprehension and less selective reading.
"Presumably you wrote that last bit as a note to yourself? Seriously though, this is a decent thread with a good point and the post you attacked was a good one and it seems the only person interpreting it as you have is you. Please look at what everyone who has commented on this little sub-discussion has said and realise that your original criticism was founded on a total mis-interpretation of a perfectly straightforward piece of writing, then let's give the OP her thread back. | |||
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"I think they were referring to stalkers as the morons!!
I was, yes.
Your apology will be appreciated aka-longman
? Im sorry cutie pie, I wasnt insulting yo tho., i was only repeating what you said
No, you weren't. You read my post and seen something totally different to what I posted. Try reading posts properly before you go off the deep end.
and i wasnt havin a dig, i was saving you the hassle of people wondering why you are recommending blocking people who are unverified seeing most people on here are unverified including you. Its a bit of an extreme and totally deflected response to the situation explained in the thread. The man in question could be a verified user or better still a site supporter, maybe rephrase your post hun
I am verified, the green tick on my profile indicates that, I just choose not to display them.
Drinking and LawandOrder, thank you, it's refreshing to see there are still some intelligent people here who know how to interpret posts in the matter in which they were intended and typed.
Aka, I am not your hun, nor am I a hun (it's often classed as a derogatory term here in Scotland), so please refrain from addressing me in such manner.
To the OP, sorry someone has felt it necessary to hijack your post, and I sincerely hope Admin do something about this moron.
lol, gd to know you not my hun.. im glad by the way. Anyway the point i was trying to put across is ..... what has being unverified got to do with the annoying personality described in the thread ? The guy could be a verified user for all you know. There is no correlation between unverified users and the character described in the thread is there ? It is a big slam on unverified user as it puts them in an awkward state .
Be polite you and less of the grumpiness, i wasnt tryin to hijack the post, just pointing out the flaw in your comment.
Are you intentionally being obtuse, or does it come naturally? "?? more like intentionally being myself, tho i was wondering the same about you too seeing the level of abuse i got from your above text but hey i never judge by first impression. i believe there is a softer side to everyone... whats your star sign tho | |||
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"He isn't being offensive so I didn't think contacting admin would do anything but advise to ignore and block. If (when) he contacts me again from a new account, I'll contact admin. Thanks. Use your filters to block newbies as well. Might help.
That only works for a few days though, not sure exactly how many, then the profile is no longer classed as a new one and he'll be able to message then. I'd suggest blocking anyone who's unverified, or who's a site supporter. Hope you get this sorted out, there's no place for morons like that on fab.
there hun, this is the post i was referrin to. Check the last 4 lines
Seems clear to me as an impartial observer. She was describing stalkers as morons.
She mentioned a way to avoid them was to block certain sections of the site from contacting you. Then she started a new sentence and called the subject of her post (the stalkers) morons.
This is not hard. Perhaps people look too hard for a reason to get upset on this forum.
tell me about it, better still perhaps people look to start chaos out of order. You of all people should know what im talkin about init
Oh. Ok. My bad.
Maybe do some good listening and less patronising.
Okie dokie
maybe do some good word comprehension and less selective reading.
Presumably you wrote that last bit as a note to yourself?
Seriously though, this is a decent thread with a good point and the post you attacked was a good one and it seems the only person interpreting it as you have is you. Please look at what everyone who has commented on this little sub-discussion has said and realise that your original criticism was founded on a total mis-interpretation of a perfectly straightforward piece of writing, then let's give the OP her thread back."will do your girl looks nice tho, you puttin her on cam ? | |||
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"He isn't being offensive so I didn't think contacting admin would do anything but advise to ignore and block. If (when) he contacts me again from a new account, I'll contact admin. Thanks. Use your filters to block newbies as well. Might help.
That only works for a few days though, not sure exactly how many, then the profile is no longer classed as a new one and he'll be able to message then. I'd suggest blocking anyone who's unverified, or who's a site supporter. Hope you get this sorted out, there's no place for morons like that on fab.
there hun, this is the post i was referrin to. Check the last 4 lines
Seems clear to me as an impartial observer. She was describing stalkers as morons.
She mentioned a way to avoid them was to block certain sections of the site from contacting you. Then she started a new sentence and called the subject of her post (the stalkers) morons.
This is not hard. Perhaps people look too hard for a reason to get upset on this forum.
tell me about it, better still perhaps people look to start chaos out of order. You of all people should know what im talkin about init
Oh. Ok. My bad.
Maybe do some good listening and less patronising.
Okie dokie
maybe do some good word comprehension and less selective reading.
Presumably you wrote that last bit as a note to yourself?
Seriously though, this is a decent thread with a good point and the post you attacked was a good one and it seems the only person interpreting it as you have is you. Please look at what everyone who has commented on this little sub-discussion has said and realise that your original criticism was founded on a total mis-interpretation of a perfectly straightforward piece of writing, then let's give the OP her thread back.
will do
your girl looks nice tho, you puttin her on cam ?"Start another new thread on star signs please .... | |||
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"He isn't being offensive so I didn't think contacting admin would do anything but advise to ignore and block. If (when) he contacts me again from a new account, I'll contact admin. Thanks. Use your filters to block newbies as well. Might help.
That only works for a few days though, not sure exactly how many, then the profile is no longer classed as a new one and he'll be able to message then. I'd suggest blocking anyone who's unverified, or who's a site supporter. Hope you get this sorted out, there's no place for morons like that on fab.
there hun, this is the post i was referrin to. Check the last 4 lines
Seems clear to me as an impartial observer. She was describing stalkers as morons.
She mentioned a way to avoid them was to block certain sections of the site from contacting you. Then she started a new sentence and called the subject of her post (the stalkers) morons.
This is not hard. Perhaps people look too hard for a reason to get upset on this forum.
tell me about it, better still perhaps people look to start chaos out of order. You of all people should know what im talkin about init
Oh. Ok. My bad.
Maybe do some good listening and less patronising.
Okie dokie
maybe do some good word comprehension and less selective reading.
Presumably you wrote that last bit as a note to yourself?
Seriously though, this is a decent thread with a good point and the post you attacked was a good one and it seems the only person interpreting it as you have is you. Please look at what everyone who has commented on this little sub-discussion has said and realise that your original criticism was founded on a total mis-interpretation of a perfectly straightforward piece of writing, then let's give the OP her thread back.
will do
your girl looks nice tho, you puttin her on cam ?"Thank you for complimenting. She isn't my possession to put on things. You will need to ask yourself. I will ask her read all this and see if she fancies getting naked for you. | |||
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"He isn't being offensive so I didn't think contacting admin would do anything but advise to ignore and block. If (when) he contacts me again from a new account, I'll contact admin. Thanks. Use your filters to block newbies as well. Might help.
That only works for a few days though, not sure exactly how many, then the profile is no longer classed as a new one and he'll be able to message then. I'd suggest blocking anyone who's unverified, or who's a site supporter. Hope you get this sorted out, there's no place for morons like that on fab.
there hun, this is the post i was referrin to. Check the last 4 lines
Seems clear to me as an impartial observer. She was describing stalkers as morons.
She mentioned a way to avoid them was to block certain sections of the site from contacting you. Then she started a new sentence and called the subject of her post (the stalkers) morons.
This is not hard. Perhaps people look too hard for a reason to get upset on this forum.
tell me about it, better still perhaps people look to start chaos out of order. You of all people should know what im talkin about init
Oh. Ok. My bad.
Maybe do some good listening and less patronising.
Okie dokie
maybe do some good word comprehension and less selective reading.
Presumably you wrote that last bit as a note to yourself?
Seriously though, this is a decent thread with a good point and the post you attacked was a good one and it seems the only person interpreting it as you have is you. Please look at what everyone who has commented on this little sub-discussion has said and realise that your original criticism was founded on a total mis-interpretation of a perfectly straightforward piece of writing, then let's give the OP her thread back.
will do
your girl looks nice tho, you puttin her on cam ?
Thank you for complimenting.
She isn't my possession to put on things. You will need to ask yourself. I will ask her read all this and see if she fancies getting naked for you."sorry, i meant... are you putting her online ( means gettin her to join in the conversation,, just thought i explain before you go intepreting it as putting her on things ), got no interest of perving on her on cam,, rather go for the real deal in flesh | |||
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"He isn't being offensive so I didn't think contacting admin would do anything but advise to ignore and block. If (when) he contacts me again from a new account, I'll contact admin. Thanks. Use your filters to block newbies as well. Might help.
That only works for a few days though, not sure exactly how many, then the profile is no longer classed as a new one and he'll be able to message then. I'd suggest blocking anyone who's unverified, or who's a site supporter. Hope you get this sorted out, there's no place for morons like that on fab.
there hun, this is the post i was referrin to. Check the last 4 lines
Seems clear to me as an impartial observer. She was describing stalkers as morons.
She mentioned a way to avoid them was to block certain sections of the site from contacting you. Then she started a new sentence and called the subject of her post (the stalkers) morons.
This is not hard. Perhaps people look too hard for a reason to get upset on this forum.
tell me about it, better still perhaps people look to start chaos out of order. You of all people should know what im talkin about init
Oh. Ok. My bad.
Maybe do some good listening and less patronising.
Okie dokie
maybe do some good word comprehension and less selective reading.
Presumably you wrote that last bit as a note to yourself?
Seriously though, this is a decent thread with a good point and the post you attacked was a good one and it seems the only person interpreting it as you have is you. Please look at what everyone who has commented on this little sub-discussion has said and realise that your original criticism was founded on a total mis-interpretation of a perfectly straightforward piece of writing, then let's give the OP her thread back.
will do
your girl looks nice tho, you puttin her on cam ?
Start another new thread on star signs please ...."sounds ike a good idea, what are you putting as the thread title ? | |||
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"I will leave that to you as you are the expert ... Mr Virgo" cheeky cheeky, how did you knowe my star sign ? you sure you not the stalker in the above thread ? just joking, dont do the sentence policing service on me now,, chill out. whats your starsign ? | |||
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"I will leave that to you as you are the expert ... Mr Virgo cheeky cheeky, how did you knowe my star sign ? you sure you not the stalker in the above thread ? just joking, dont do the sentence policing service on me now,, chill out. whats your starsign ?" Haha - I'm Virgo and I read it as he did | |||
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"It needs to go on another thread (sorry OP) - I have a memory for details and remember every post I read and who wrote it - sorry everyone, but there it is - I can't remember where I put my keys though. " okie dokie | |||
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"Ooh longman you're SUCH a hottie! I bet you have the ladies queueing around the block to meet you! You sound soooooo nice!!!!! and this thread makes me want to meet u immediately!!! Just finish me off with talking about women being on the blog I beg u!! "and you are so fuckable my darling, turns me on knowing you got a lovely body like yours. I would definitely shag you seeing you taking your time to judge the conversation rightly and not just following the crowd to dig the nail in. truth be told, there's nothing wrong in pointing out the fact that unverified people are not usually the baddies in every situation, suggesting blocking unverified people in response to a totally different case scenario is uncalled for. We were all unverified at one point, blocking everyone unverified will not only render the site partly disfunctional, it will make it hard to socialise and meet new potential fuck mates. you do look very fuckable btw | |||
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"Ooh longman you're SUCH a hottie! I bet you have the ladies queueing around the block to meet you! You sound soooooo nice!!!!! and this thread makes me want to meet u immediately!!! Just finish me off with talking about women being on the blog I beg u!!
and you are so fuckable my darling, turns me on knowing you got a lovely body like yours. I would definitely shag you seeing you taking your time to judge the conversation rightly and not just following the crowd to dig the nail in.
truth be told, there's nothing wrong in pointing out the fact that unverified people are not usually the baddies in every situation, suggesting blocking unverified people in response to a totally different case scenario is uncalled for. We were all unverified at one point, blocking everyone unverified will not only render the site partly disfunctional, it will make it hard to socialise and meet new potential fuck mates.
you do look very fuckable btw"No one at any point said unverified people were the baddies. Simply as a potential solution to this particular issue it was suggested that blocking unverified users would mean that this particular individual would not be able to continue to create new profiles and contact the OP. No more, no less. You seem singularly unable or unwilling to take this distinction on board. We have all been unverified and if no one ever spoke to unverified users no one would get anywhere. However that is not what is being spoken about here. A specific fix for a specific problem was given. Please, please, change the record. Or even better. Turn the record player off. | |||
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