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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She should make you try it on in the shop and call an assistant in for comment"
Personally, as someone that works in retail, this wouldn't embarrass me but if it's some poor 17/18 year old Saturday girl, or someone who's not very open minded etc etc, it could be very uncomfortable and potentially scary for the assistant.
Humiliation if uve bought into it, fine. Humiliating an innocent party, when they are just trying to earn minimum wage, not such a good idea. |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
"She should make you try it on in the shop and call an assistant in for comment
Personally, as someone that works in retail, this wouldn't embarrass me but if it's some poor 17/18 year old Saturday girl, or someone who's not very open minded etc etc, it could be very uncomfortable and potentially scary for the assistant.
Humiliation if uve bought into it, fine. Humiliating an innocent party, when they are just trying to earn minimum wage, not such a good idea. "
Definitely this. Why would you want to involve a non-consenting person into it? Also bearing in mind, most changing rooms are open to all ages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She should make you try it on in the shop and call an assistant in for comment
Personally, as someone that works in retail, this wouldn't embarrass me but if it's some poor 17/18 year old Saturday girl, or someone who's not very open minded etc etc, it could be very uncomfortable and potentially scary for the assistant.
Humiliation if uve bought into it, fine. Humiliating an innocent party, when they are just trying to earn minimum wage, not such a good idea. "
Totally agree with this. |
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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago
Cheshire |
"She should make you try it on in the shop and call an assistant in for comment
Personally, as someone that works in retail, this wouldn't embarrass me but if it's some poor 17/18 year old Saturday girl, or someone who's not very open minded etc etc, it could be very uncomfortable and potentially scary for the assistant.
Humiliation if uve bought into it, fine. Humiliating an innocent party, when they are just trying to earn minimum wage, not such a good idea.
Definitely this. Why would you want to involve a non-consenting person into it? "
I would advise against this.
Perhaps your mistress should be researching for ideas herself. Shes asking her sub of ways she can dominate him.
There have been previous threads on sub tasks if she needs ideas or on another site, there are lots of groups filled with ideas. Sounds a bit like lazy, half hearted domination. I've never been asked by a dominant to go and find tasks for him to give me. |
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I agree with the above messages about not involving people not involved, not only can it make people uncomfortable but some people can find it offensive to shove things into their face.
As for the point of asking a sub to find you tasks, yes in a lot of ways it is lazy but on the other hand it can be part of the domination ie You are not totally worthy of my time, so you must beg and look for ways to humiliate yourself for me and impress me...not for everyone but in the right dynamic perhaps it works.
It's difficult to give idea's without knowing your limits, how you two interact etc etc...your relationship might be purely distant and cyber or in person regularly... These differences will make a huge difference to the types of idea's that would be relevant.
TBH without a lot more information you'd do better doing a websearch for sexual humiliation ideas.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My mistress has requested i post here for new ideas?
She would like new ways to humiliate me. Please add to thread or better still PM me. Thank You"
Make you wear a buttplug while you go about your normal business such as work or visiting the family.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get your mistress to peg you while you make a normal phone call to a friend...they will be oblivious to the fact you may be dressed up and of course getting pegged while you have to talk normal as your ass gets destroyed |
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As for the point of asking a sub to find you tasks, yes in a lot of ways it is lazy but on the other hand it can be part of the domination ie You are not totally worthy of my time, so you must beg and look for ways to humiliate yourself for me and impress me...not for everyone but in the right dynamic perhaps it works.
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Exactly. Sometimes we can't be arsed seeking new punishments.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel it always pays to keep an open mind and we should all reserve judgement (easy to say)
However I 100% agree that pulling unsuspecting parties into your games is just not cool |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe you should look for a more imaginative Mistress  "
My two penneth worth.
What humiliates one sub/slave will be easy for another sub/slave to do. So like all play it is personal to the two people involved.
In this instance it appears that the Top is trying to find what your triggers are, and in what area of service.
My Master encourages me to play when we are apart, and to think of naughty things, and then to send a 'wank report' and to be totally open and honest, and not to 'sieve out' things I do or don't want, or things that we will NEVER do in a million years, but that can still be a naughty thought.
There are times when we can unearth desires, fears, limits, etc, but it's important that you are comfortable to do this, and it opens all sorts of new play opportunities.
It is not a weakness of the Top in question. It's a way of them finding out how you tick, and your inner thoughts. |
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"Maybe you should look for a more imaginative Mistress
My two penneth worth.
What humiliates one sub/slave will be easy for another sub/slave to do. So like all play it is personal to the two people involved.
In this instance it appears that the Top is trying to find what your triggers are, and in what area of service.
My Master encourages me to play when we are apart, and to think of naughty things, and then to send a 'wank report' and to be totally open and honest, and not to 'sieve out' things I do or don't want, or things that we will NEVER do in a million years, but that can still be a naughty thought.
There are times when we can unearth desires, fears, limits, etc, but it's important that you are comfortable to do this, and it opens all sorts of new play opportunities.
It is not a weakness of the Top in question. It's a way of them finding out how you tick, and your inner thoughts. "
Why would one even consider a sub if you had no idea of how their minds work, I always believe that a Mistress or a Master should have total control of events it is not for a slave to seek out what they enjoy but rather for their owner to seek out things they 'do not' enjoy.... however I agree there many ways to dominate and no rules to follow as such ...... |
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