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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I find it so difficult to meet women from here. It's almost as if once you have passed 50 you are on the scrapheap. Yes, I am married but sex has dried up at home and I have lots to offer for the right lady, I just need to find her. |
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We haven't found that being over 50 holds us back. It's entirely likely that if we'd signed up here in our 20s or 30s we would have had many more meets but we're not and the clock can't be turned back so we work with what we've got  .
You might find that organised socials or clubs are the way forward. |
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I don't think being older on it's own is an issue, but once you add in other factors such as in my case being a larger lady or in your case being married (without wifes consent or knowledge of your activities as far as I know) it gets more difficult. But hey, you had a relatively recent meet so not doing too bad. M |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of course it is your age. Nothing to do with you being a cheater.
How is he a cheater? "
My guess is they assume he is a cheater as he has admitted to being married.
Many will see that as cheating and are more likely to be put off by that,than the ops age. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of course it is your age. Nothing to do with you being a cheater.
How is he a cheater?
My guess is they assume he is a cheater as he has admitted to being married.
Many will see that as cheating and are more likely to be put off by that,than the ops age."
What a doughnut I am. Read the profile looking for it rather than the post on here. My bad!!!! |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
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I have just turned 60 and it hasn't been a hindrance for me; actually, the opposite in fact!
To the OP, looking at your profile, might it be an idea for those people you wish to potentially attract that you put up a face pic, as opposed to the one of you underwater in full diving kit where we can't see your face at all! |
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"I have just turned 60 and it hasn't been a hindrance for me; actually, the opposite in fact!
To the OP, looking at your profile, might it be an idea for those people you wish to potentially attract that you put up a face pic, as opposed to the one of you underwater in full diving kit where we can't see your face at all!"
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"Of course it is your age. Nothing to do with you being a cheater.
How is he a cheater?
My guess is they assume he is a cheater as he has admitted to being married.
Many will see that as cheating and are more likely to be put off by that,than the ops age."
Maybe it's his wife and she found out |
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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago
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"I find it so difficult to meet women from here. It's almost as if once you have passed 50 you are on the scrapheap. Yes, I am married but sex has dried up at home and I have lots to offer for the right lady, I just need to find her."
Go to Clubs. If you are fit and good looking, age will not be an issue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm in the same situation Pete, married but sex has well and truly dried up. Would love to chat with ladies who have no problem with my situation and see what happens |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok I feel sorry for you in some ways, however your profile says your 'looking for honesty, and you give respect to ladies,' does this not include your wife who your cheating on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok I feel sorry for you in some ways, however your profile says your 'looking for honesty, and you give respect to ladies,' does this not include your wife who your cheating on."
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I think people have their preferences and often for private reasons but nonetheless valid reasons, we have a specific age band requested and we'd never explain the reasons for this but it very much works for us - it's certainly not being awkward and excluding people out of spite |
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We didn't start swinging until we met, and we were both over 50 at the time. In the last 11 years we've had more fun sex with other people than we ever had in either of our lives before, so don't despair - there are lots of keen and enthusiastic over 50s swingers out there! |
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I agree it is more difficult but I will persevere. Had some meets last time I was here and was over 50 then but finding it difficult this time. Still the same person. Great chats and some nice online friends but don't develop into a meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is ridiculous to label 50+ as old or past, I actually find it quite insulting. Old and past it shouldn't happen if you're in the right mind frame anyway. Please stop, it's insulting and incredibly rude. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As I said in a similar thread
Age is just a number.
I still think the same as I did in my 20's.
But I now have the patience and experience to put it into effect.
There will always be those that prefer to play with their own age, as there will those that like older, even if only a little older. There will always be those that prefer to play with younger, for several reasons. They see them as more lithe, more stamina etc. And of course, both men and women still like the thought of being attractive to younger people. Good for the ego!
But surely the dynamics of fab aren't going to change? As we get older, so do those around us and surely, for most, at least, their age preference changes with them.
I play with one couple who actually changed their age preference as I'd reached my 50th this year. |
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I'm 51 going on 15.. hasn't stopped me. Growing olds is inevitable...Growing up is optional.. 
