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Moths to a Flame or Hunting Them Down
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just wanted some advice, ideally from Ladies or Couples,
I seem to have a better success rate on here just looking at profiles and letting them come to me, i tried sending messages but it doesn't get me anywhere.
So in summary,
Is it best to let them hunt for you since there are 10 Gazillion guys on here already and its more like going to a shop and picking out what you like
Or
Hunt for your prey and use finely worded messages as your ammo and your pictures as the gun?
Any advice would be Awesome! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It was just a play on words, i do not consider anyone prey.....Except cyclists when i'm driving"
A mentality can still be sensed through initial messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wanted some advice, ideally from Ladies or Couples,
I seem to have a better success rate on here just looking at profiles and letting them come to me, i tried sending messages but it doesn't get me anywhere.
So in summary,
Is it best to let them hunt for you since there are 10 Gazillion guys on here already and its more like going to a shop and picking out what you like
Or
Hunt for your prey and use finely worded messages as your ammo and your pictures as the gun?
Any advice would be Awesome!"
Personally I would "hunt". I have a single profile and am on a couples profile and 98% of the guys I've met have messaged me first. I don't need to look, because everyone finds me. If you just sit and wait, I doubt you'll get anywhere because so many men are so proactive.
Just think through your first message, always read the profile and try and personalise it. Oh, and don't send a cock pic with your first message... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just wanted some advice, ideally from Ladies or Couples,
I seem to have a better success rate on here just looking at profiles and letting them come to me, i tried sending messages but it doesn't get me anywhere.
So in summary,
Is it best to let them hunt for you since there are 10 Gazillion guys on here already and its more like going to a shop and picking out what you like
Or
Hunt for your prey and use finely worded messages as your ammo and your pictures as the gun?
Any advice would be Awesome!
Personally I would "hunt". I have a single profile and am on a couples profile and 98% of the guys I've met have messaged me first. I don't need to look, because everyone finds me. If you just sit and wait, I doubt you'll get anywhere because so many men are so proactive.
Just think through your first message, always read the profile and try and personalise it. Oh, and don't send a cock pic with your first message..."
I usually just send a face pic with the first message, problem is the sheer quantity of messages you ladies get it makes it difficult trying to stand out, i do try to personalise every message......that being said some profiles have like 7 words, difficult to be personal with that small amount of information |
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"Just wanted some advice, ideally from Ladies or Couples,
I seem to have a better success rate on here just looking at profiles and letting them come to me, i tried sending messages but it doesn't get me anywhere.
So in summary,
Is it best to let them hunt for you since there are 10 Gazillion guys on here already and its more like going to a shop and picking out what you like
Or
Hunt for your prey and use finely worded messages as your ammo and your pictures as the gun?
Any advice would be Awesome!"
You answer your own question in your second paragraph.
Lots of women and couples do wait for people to message them thpugh so it's your choice  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just wanted some advice, ideally from Ladies or Couples,
I seem to have a better success rate on here just looking at profiles and letting them come to me, i tried sending messages but it doesn't get me anywhere.
So in summary,
Is it best to let them hunt for you since there are 10 Gazillion guys on here already and its more like going to a shop and picking out what you like
Or
Hunt for your prey and use finely worded messages as your ammo and your pictures as the gun?
Any advice would be Awesome!
You answer your own question in your second paragraph.
Lots of women and couples do wait for people to message them thpugh so it's your choice "
Sounds like its best just to do both, Thanks for the advice |
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"Just wanted some advice, ideally from Ladies or Couples,
I seem to have a better success rate on here just looking at profiles and letting them come to me, i tried sending messages but it doesn't get me anywhere.
So in summary,
Is it best to let them hunt for you since there are 10 Gazillion guys on here already and its more like going to a shop and picking out what you like
Or
Hunt for your prey and use finely worded messages as your ammo and your pictures as the gun?
Any advice would be Awesome!
You answer your own question in your second paragraph.
Lots of women and couples do wait for people to message them thpugh so it's your choice
Sounds like its best just to do both, Thanks for the advice"
I would say it is, yes. Covered from all angles then |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just wanted some advice, ideally from Ladies or Couples,
I seem to have a better success rate on here just looking at profiles and letting them come to me, i tried sending messages but it doesn't get me anywhere.
So in summary,
Is it best to let them hunt for you since there are 10 Gazillion guys on here already and its more like going to a shop and picking out what you like
Or
Hunt for your prey and use finely worded messages as your ammo and your pictures as the gun?
Any advice would be Awesome!"
This has been done to death
Read other posts
Or to sum it up in a few words
Go to clubs organised socials and gang bangs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I find the same thing. Tend to do much better if I just look at profiles, fab a few pics and let them come to me.
I've had lots of long chats with people I've messaged first, and lots of almost meets. There are also plenty of profiles where we have agreed to meet at some point, but just never had a time when we are both free.
All my actual meets have been from when I've just let them come to me. Those tend to go better. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I find the same thing. Tend to do much better if I just look at profiles, fab a few pics and let them come to me.
I've had lots of long chats with people I've messaged first, and lots of almost meets. There are also plenty of profiles where we have agreed to meet at some point, but just never had a time when we are both free.
All my actual meets have been from when I've just let them come to me. Those tend to go better."
Same with me..........Oh well, Now it means the lack of meets is down to me being just too damn Repulsive  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I used to get nowhere when messaging first. Quite often people who deleted my message unread, often went on to message me at a later date.
I do honestly think quality men are difficult to find, but if that's what you are, you actually have as much opportunity to meet as anyone else. |
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