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By *andK OP Couple
over a year ago
Norfolk |
Our picture of a nurse shark was accepted then declined with the comment 'does not appear to be of the poster!' think that was rather obvious lol and anyone who thought we might be doing kinky things with it should surely think again. |
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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago
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"Our picture of a nurse shark was accepted then declined with the comment 'does not appear to be of the poster!' think that was rather obvious lol and anyone who thought we might be doing kinky things with it should surely think again."
We put a picture of a horse made from snow,that was accepted then deleted 30 mins later because we were not on the pic  |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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1. The photo must be of you or your partner (you must have permission from your partner). Uploading web porn will get you banned.
2. Everyone on the photos must have been aged 18+ at time they were taken. Anyone uploading pics of under 18's will be reported.
3. It's OK to have other people in the photo too as long as they can't be identified.
4. The photo can't have another site's watermark on it.
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By *ytraCouple
over a year ago
Wrexham |
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We put a picture of a horse made from snow,that was accepted then deleted 30 mins later because we were not on the pic "
Well this is why, I mean the snow horse must have been underage
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2. Everyone on the photos must have been aged 18+ at time they were taken. Anyone uploading pics of under 18's will be reported.
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But how do the admins know that boob or willy IS yours?
And Ive seen pics of random body parts like hands accepted.I wanted to upload a sort of moody pic of my shadow to use soley as an avatar, but got it rejected as I wasnt in it.So just my ugly mug now |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
Livingston |
"3. It's OK to have other people in the photo too as long as they can't be identified.
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Sorry Rugby, but that is crap, a member put a full face pic of me on his profile (without my knowledge or permission). it was reported and nothing done. it was only removed when he left the site!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But how do the admins know that boob or willy IS yours?
And Ive seen pics of random body parts like hands accepted.I wanted to upload a sort of moody pic of my shadow to use soley as an avatar, but got it rejected as I wasnt in it.So just my ugly mug now "
I've often wondered how that works ... I've seen profiles with nothing else but torso, boob, arse and cock pics.
No way can they be traced back to their rightful owners  |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"3. It's OK to have other people in the photo too as long as they can't be identified.
Sorry Rugby, but that is crap, a member put a full face pic of me on his profile (without my knowledge or permission). it was reported and nothing done. it was only removed when he left the site!!"
I don't make the rules, I just pasted them, so it is Admin you need to tell it is crap.
I am very surprised that your pic didn't get taken off a mans profile though, I would say to anyone who's pics slip through the net, if you don't see it removed, report again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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in a similar vein we had some one who we had said no to message us by sending a verification worded as a meet request, reported to admin but its still there as is the guy still on the site, i thought incorect verifications were fround apon but maybe not  |
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By *andK OP Couple
over a year ago
Norfolk |
"1. The photo must be of you or your partner (you must have permission from your partner). Uploading web porn will get you banned.
2. Everyone on the photos must have been aged 18+ at time they were taken. Anyone uploading pics of under 18's will be reported.
3. It's OK to have other people in the photo too as long as they can't be identified.
4. The photo can't have another site's watermark on it.
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can't actually see anything in those rules that prevents posting a picture of a shark, and god knows there are a few on this site |
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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago
A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love |
"1. The photo must be of you or your partner (you must have permission from your partner). Uploading web porn will get you banned.
2. Everyone on the photos must have been aged 18+ at time they were taken. Anyone uploading pics of under 18's will be reported.
3. It's OK to have other people in the photo too as long as they can't be identified.
4. The photo can't have another site's watermark on it.
can't actually see anything in those rules that prevents posting a picture of a shark, and god knows there are a few on this site "
1. The photo must be of you or your partner not a shark thats why they deleted our horse made out of snow |
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By *andK OP Couple
over a year ago
Norfolk |
"1. The photo must be of you or your partner (you must have permission from your partner). Uploading web porn will get you banned.
2. Everyone on the photos must have been aged 18+ at time they were taken. Anyone uploading pics of under 18's will be reported.
3. It's OK to have other people in the photo too as long as they can't be identified.
4. The photo can't have another site's watermark on it.
can't actually see anything in those rules that prevents posting a picture of a shark, and god knows there are a few on this site
1. The photo must be of you or your partner not a shark thats why they deleted our horse made out of snow"
more likely we didn't ask his permission lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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there you go then all your fault you didnt ask his age and didnt ask if you could use his pic on a swinger site, it maybe he saw it on here and was horrified, worried that his mrs shark would see it so complained  |
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By *andK OP Couple
over a year ago
Norfolk |
"there you go then all your fault you didnt ask his age and didnt ask if you could use his pic on a swinger site, it maybe he saw it on here and was horrified, worried that his mrs shark would see it so complained "
Yeah guess it's all my fault afterall - if I see him tomorrow I must remember to appologise |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Our picture of a nurse shark was accepted then declined with the comment 'does not appear to be of the poster!' think that was rather obvious lol and anyone who thought we might be doing kinky things with it should surely think again."
so how do single guys get away with full body and face pics of women and only their cock in the pic? |
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By *andcCouple
over a year ago
London and Cheshire |
"1. The photo must be of you or your partner (you must have permission from your partner). Uploading web porn will get you banned.
2. Everyone on the photos must have been aged 18+ at time they were taken. Anyone uploading pics of under 18's will be reported.
3. It's OK to have other people in the photo too as long as they can't be identified.
4. The photo can't have another site's watermark on it.
can't actually see anything in those rules that prevents posting a picture of a shark, and god knows there are a few on this site "
You can not post pics with animals or pets in them.
You can also not post pics of cartoon characters, loads of shoes, knickers etc their must be a person in the picture.
Remember this is a swinging site an not Flickr, uploading pointless pictures uses up hard disk space and also costly bandwidth when people start to view those pics.
On the point of other people in pics, you cannot show other peoples faces they must be covered/blurred etc.. |
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By *andcCouple
over a year ago
London and Cheshire |
"Our picture of a nurse shark was accepted then declined with the comment 'does not appear to be of the poster!' think that was rather obvious lol and anyone who thought we might be doing kinky things with it should surely think again.
so how do single guys get away with full body and face pics of women and only their cock in the pic?"
Things like this should be reported to Admin.
Face pics can ONLY be of the owner of that profile. |
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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago
Livingston |
"3. It's OK to have other people in the photo too as long as they can't be identified.
Sorry Rugby, but that is crap, a member put a full face pic of me on his profile (without my knowledge or permission). it was reported and nothing done. it was only removed when he left the site!!
I don't make the rules, I just pasted them, so it is Admin you need to tell it is crap.
I am very surprised that your pic didn't get taken off a mans profile though, I would say to anyone who's pics slip through the net, if you don't see it removed, report again."
My apologies Rugby, that was not a personal dig at you xxxx |
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"1. The photo must be of you or your partner (you must have permission from your partner). Uploading web porn will get you banned.
2. Everyone on the photos must have been aged 18+ at time they were taken. Anyone uploading pics of under 18's will be reported.
3. It's OK to have other people in the photo too as long as they can't be identified.
4. The photo can't have another site's watermark on it.
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Doesn't rule 3 contradict rule 1  |
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By *andK OP Couple
over a year ago
Norfolk |
"there you go then all your fault you didnt ask his age and didnt ask if you could use his pic on a swinger site, it maybe he saw it on here and was horrified, worried that his mrs shark would see it so complained
Yeah guess it's all my fault afterall - if I see him tomorrow I must remember to appologise "
damn it didn't see Mr Shark today and the Turtle didn't know where he was |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
Tayside |
"1. The photo must be of you or your partner (you must have permission from your partner). Uploading web porn will get you banned.
2. Everyone on the photos must have been aged 18+ at time they were taken. Anyone uploading pics of under 18's will be reported.
3. It's OK to have other people in the photo too as long as they can't be identified.
4. The photo can't have another site's watermark on it.
Doesn't rule 3 contradict rule 1 "
No, because you must be in the photo with the "other people" as the word "too" is used in Rule 3. |
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"1. The photo must be of you or your partner (you must have permission from your partner). Uploading web porn will get you banned.
2. Everyone on the photos must have been aged 18+ at time they were taken. Anyone uploading pics of under 18's will be reported.
3. It's OK to have other people in the photo too as long as they can't be identified.
4. The photo can't have another site's watermark on it.
Doesn't rule 3 contradict rule 1
No, because you must be in the photo with the "other people" as the word "too" is used in Rule 3. "
I appreciate it is my own personal opinion.... however, I just think it would be much easier if there was no rule 3. But then again may be that's because I don't like photos where the profile owner only has a hand or penis in the shot, yet there's a full body of someone else.
Rule 1 states you must have permission to post a photo of your partner... yet I have lost count of the amount of single guys who have a photo of them (or more to the point 'a cock') clearly barebacking some woman and when asked they claim "it's my ex".... I doubt they have permission to use the photo, but they get around it with rule 3. |
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By *b430Man
over a year ago
Tayside |
"1. The photo must be of you or your partner (you must have permission from your partner). Uploading web porn will get you banned.
2. Everyone on the photos must have been aged 18+ at time they were taken. Anyone uploading pics of under 18's will be reported.
3. It's OK to have other people in the photo too as long as they can't be identified.
4. The photo can't have another site's watermark on it.
Doesn't rule 3 contradict rule 1
No, because you must be in the photo with the "other people" as the word "too" is used in Rule 3.
I appreciate it is my own personal opinion.... however, I just think it would be much easier if there was no rule 3. But then again may be that's because I don't like photos where the profile owner only has a hand or penis in the shot, yet there's a full body of someone else.
Rule 1 states you must have permission to post a photo of your partner... yet I have lost count of the amount of single guys who have a photo of them (or more to the point 'a cock') clearly barebacking some woman and when asked they claim "it's my ex".... I doubt they have permission to use the photo, but they get around it with rule 3."
Agreed and I also think that there is no way of checking if the folk that upload the pics (with others in them) have the permission of the other people to use them on their profile whether or not they can be identified.
An old member on here had previously used a picture with me and someone else in it (along with their partner at the time) and I was never asked permission for it to be used on their profile. Rule 3 did let them keep it there though!
So I would agree that Rule 3 shouldn't be there, but it is. |
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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago
Back of Beyond |
As with all things you will find moderators have different levels of what is acceptable. Some of them are really fatidious in following the rules to the letter, they can't actually make a self judgement. Then you have those like Rugby who use their worldly knowledge to make acceptable judgements.
Rugby doesn't immediately jump in and delete something just because it doesn't rigidly conform to site rules, they tend to see how things pan out first.
Which in our opinion is what makes a good moderator stand out from the mediocre, maybe some of the others could learn a thing or two from Rugby. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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This is a first, I normally only ever get told how crap I am !!lol
Thanks B and k
I do think the owners have a good mix of mods though, be that pic/chat or forum mods.
All of us have no doubt made wrong calls at times but thats to be expected as we are all human... but the mistakes can only be rectified if people report it. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"3. It's OK to have other people in the photo too as long as they can't be identified.
Sorry Rugby, but that is crap, a member put a full face pic of me on his profile (without my knowledge or permission). it was reported and nothing done. it was only removed when he left the site!!
I don't make the rules, I just pasted them, so it is Admin you need to tell it is crap.
I am very surprised that your pic didn't get taken off a mans profile though, I would say to anyone who's pics slip through the net, if you don't see it removed, report again.
My apologies Rugby, that was not a personal dig at you xxxx"
No need to apologies, I guessed you were just upset over the whole pic thing xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is a first, I normally only ever get told how crap I am !!lol
Thanks B and k
I do think the owners have a good mix of mods though, be that pic/chat or forum mods.
All of us have no doubt made wrong calls at times but thats to be expected as we are all human... but the mistakes can only be rectified if people report it."
You would know your one of them |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"This is a first, I normally only ever get told how crap I am !!lol
Thanks B and k
I do think the owners have a good mix of mods though, be that pic/chat or forum mods.
All of us have no doubt made wrong calls at times but thats to be expected as we are all human... but the mistakes can only be rectified if people report it.
You would know your one of them"
I did say ALL of us have made mistakes at some point.........BUT if you have a problem with anything I have done then make your feelings known in private.
Leave your issues away from the forums wether I have stopped your post /thread or not. |
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"what happens if a couple upload pics and one half of the couple actually is a shark?
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or a gerbil? "
A shark & a gerbil couple...cant see that lasting long.Who needs divorce when you can have lunch |
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"But how do the admins know that boob or willy IS yours?
And Ive seen pics of random body parts like hands accepted.I wanted to upload a sort of moody pic of my shadow to use soley as an avatar, but got it rejected as I wasnt in it.So just my ugly mug now
I've often wondered how that works ... I've seen profiles with nothing else but torso, boob, arse and cock pics.
No way can they be traced back to their rightful owners "
we use csi  |
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