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Hi, I am taking my partner for the 1st time to Townhouse and she is a little nervous as well.
Just remember, noone there is judging you, be yourself, smile, be friendly and most importantly, dont be afraid to say no |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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take your own supplies , condoms lube tissues , it will save you the problem of searching them out , thats if your out to play , if for social head for the kitchen and make tea , all will join you soon enough , lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you going alone or with friends?? as a single female don't go alone as it can be daunting x"
I go alone all the time and always have done, so not necessarily, depends on what type of person you are  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"Are you going alone or with friends?? as a single female don't go alone as it can be daunting x
I go alone all the time and always have done, so not necessarily, depends on what type of person you are "
glad you said that!!!!
I would just say to people it is all in the end common sense... no means no, only play if you are 110% happy.. and just go out there and be yourself.... |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"Are you going alone or with friends?? as a single female don't go alone as it can be daunting x"
okay now i have to ask why you say that...
it can be Daunting for Anyone walking into a club for the first time.... not just single women!!!
Actually I would say the opposite, once you walk thru the doors.... you will be absolutely fine....but just use basic common sense.. as I said in the post above..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I saw a guy in Chams who'd sewn a flannel on three sides onto the inside of a towel to form a 'pocket' for condoms and lube. I thought it was a great idea |
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By *ina909Woman
over a year ago
Sheldon |
Hi
Having recently joined Chams I know how you feel.
I was lucky that I was invited by friends as their guest. They showed me round and made sure I was comfortable before they left me.
I didn't take anything the first time but now take my own condoms, lube and a vibrator. I start off wearing matching lingerie and then once it's off, it stays off and I wrap a towel.
If you have your own boundaries, don't hesitate to tell people, they won't mind. If they do then move on to someone more accommodating.
Clubs are great. The best advice I was given was 'relax and chat to people'. The rest will follow.
Enjoy!! |
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Going to the right venue on the right night can be crucial and this largely depends what you want from the scene.
As your a single female I would persume that you want a venue where there will be some single guys, but ideally not over run with them and people that aren't going to follow you pillar to post all around the venue all night. Give us more of an idea of what you want from the night. Of course not everyone likes to wear a towel some people perfer to dress up, so this might also dictate what type of venue you want to visit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some clubs have taster sessions for people thinking of indulging in the lifestyle. Townhouse in the Wirral used to have Sunday afternoon's for new couples. That was a few years ago mind when I lived up that way.
Lots of forums today. You could hook up with a couple just to try it out, find your feet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I saw a guy in Chams who'd sewn a flannel on three sides onto the inside of a towel to form a 'pocket' for condoms and lube. I thought it was a great idea "
buy them in boots in the, "shag pile towel" section. |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
near kings lynn |
I would say do your homework on the club. Give them a call and ask anything you want to know before. Take your essentials like condoms and tissues etc. Wander round and have a perv as you widh. You said you may be going with a friend. Is it male or female? If you go as a single when its an eve when single men are there expect to get followed and then if your not then great. The bad single men Will often do that. The nicer ones wont. Chat with people and if you feel the need to move on to walk around or finish chatting with someone then just excuse yourself from them. Chattkng with someone does not mean you Will have sex with them. Say no thanks if you feel you need to. If anyone attempts tp touch without you inviting then make a point of telling them no clearly. Be you but be firm. Clubs are very exciting. Have a great time x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love the clubs and happily go on my own, I always find everyone very friendly and I feel very comfortable in them. The smoking area is a great place to meet people and have a chat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I go to socials and clubs on my own, and normally keep my supply of condoms in my locker.
Never had any issues with anyone trying to take advantage of me - I must give out some kind of "don't mess with me" aura/signals!  |
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I regularly go to clubs on my own. Have been now for over 7 years, never had any hassle with the single guys often the problem has been with a guy from a couple! Go enjoy yourself never been a more safe environment for meeting guys for NSA sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi
Having recently joined Chams I know how you feel.
I was lucky that I was invited by friends as their guest. They showed me round and made sure I was comfortable before they left me.
I didn't take anything the first time but now take my own condoms, lube and a vibrator. I start off wearing matching lingerie and then once it's off, it stays off and I wrap a towel.
If you have your own boundaries, don't hesitate to tell people, they won't mind. If they do then move on to someone more accommodating.
Clubs are great. The best advice I was given was 'relax and chat to people'. The rest will follow.
Enjoy!!"
ditto for me and I had a great time |
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