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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Make her come to my house and cook me a steak.
1st class idea though might I suggest mash and gravy as well ?"
Sweet potato fries, hand battered onion rings, butting mushrooms, peas and a mug of coffee to wash it down with. |
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"Make her come to my house and cook me a steak.
1st class idea though might I suggest mash and gravy as well ?
Sweet potato fries, hand battered onion rings, butting mushrooms, peas and a mug of coffee to wash it down with."
I like this guys style |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Make her come to my house and cook me a steak.
1st class idea though might I suggest mash and gravy as well ?
Sweet potato fries, hand battered onion rings, butting mushrooms, peas and a mug of coffee to wash it down with."
Mash and gravy with a steak???  |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
Send her out dressed in a manner of your choice to buy a few small risqué items. But don't allow her to use a carrier bag so she has to carry them on full view how the shop handed them over. |
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"Send her out dressed in a manner of your choice to buy a few small risqué items. But don't allow her to use a carrier bag so she has to carry them on full view how the shop handed them over."
I do like that idea although if I'm honest I am not sure it is testing enough for her but I can probably work more it to it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love the idea of 1950s housewife training. She is always on hand to cook dinner etc whilst looking glam, then she is decked out in sexy vintage underwear and treated as a man's plaything at night.
The whole idea of wearing no knickers etc seems a bit 80s page three for me. I like the glamour of the 50s housewife mixed with burlesque, just seems sexier. |
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FFS what kind of Dom are you if you have to come on a forum to ask this? To me, the role of a Dom is to take the time to get inside the sub's mind and find out what she wants...and then give it to her? Too many men watched 50 Shades and think they can call themselves Doms, I despair! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"FFS what kind of Dom are you if you have to come on a forum to ask this? To me, the role of a Dom is to take the time to get inside the sub's mind and find out what she wants...and then give it to her? Too many men watched 50 Shades and think they can call themselves Doms, I despair!"
I agree
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"FFS what kind of Dom are you if you have to come on a forum to ask this? To me, the role of a Dom is to take the time to get inside the sub's mind and find out what she wants...and then give it to her? Too many men watched 50 Shades and think they can call themselves Doms, I despair!"
The OP said they have decided to take suggestions, that's all.
You make quite a leap to get from there, to where you see things! |
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"FFS what kind of Dom are you if you have to come on a forum to ask this? To me, the role of a Dom is to take the time to get inside the sub's mind and find out what she wants...and then give it to her? Too many men watched 50 Shades and think they can call themselves Doms, I despair! I agree "
Read and re read can't see where he refers to himself as a Dom .... You start your phrase with 'to me..." Exactly this.... To you that's your view.
Next it will be the usual you're either Dom by nature or you're not...., the OP just asked for some ideas! |
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"Read 'The Loving Dominant' if you want some good ideas "
And Screw The Roses, Send Me Thorns
(I'll keep banging on about this book until every kinky minded person has read it...I'm not on commission) |
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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago
carrbrook stalybridge |
Send her to the shop heels shortskirt low cut top no undies
She is to buy
Condoms
Lube
Cucumber
Lads mag /erotic book
All must be on same till receipt and she is not allowed a bag to carry them
She must either walk to and from shop or use public transport no driving
This must be done at a time of day of your choice |
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"Read 'The Loving Dominant' if you want some good ideas
And Screw The Roses, Send Me Thorns
(I'll keep banging on about this book until every kinky minded person has read it...I'm not on commission)"
 love this book!!
Have you played with vaginal weights before, OP? With a sub of mine, I made her hold the heaviest one in and attached more weight to it while she stood naked. If the weight lowers then she was spanked or flogged on her ass/tits or thighs. Because she had to keep her pussy muscles tightly gripping it, she was constantly stimulated and begging for play at the end of the scene |
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"FFS what kind of Dom are you if you have to come on a forum to ask this? To me, the role of a Dom is to take the time to get inside the sub's mind and find out what she wants...and then give it to her? Too many men watched 50 Shades and think they can call themselves Doms, I despair!"
Absolutely! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"FFS what kind of Dom are you if you have to come on a forum to ask this? To me, the role of a Dom is to take the time to get inside the sub's mind and find out what she wants...and then give it to her? Too many men watched 50 Shades and think they can call themselves Doms, I despair!"
This!
I feel a bit sorry for the poor woman.
Maybe she loves it, who knows but it just seems so demeaning |
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By *afkaMan
over a year ago
Essex and London |
The biggest part of being a dom is mental. If you can find out her limits, her desires, her fears and her turn ons and use these.
A good dom could make a sub experience all of these emotions in a short space of time...the unpredictability and loss of control is why people enjoy it.
My advice is to learn your sub ro be the better dom. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Send her to the shop heels shortskirt low cut top no undies
She is to buy
Condoms
Lube
Cucumber
Lads mag /erotic book
All must be on same till receipt and she is not allowed a bag to carry them
She must either walk to and from shop or use public transport no driving
This must be done at a time of day of your choice "
Change shopping list to
Condoms
Pack of needles
Baby names book
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My submissive slut is due to have her training over the weekend and I've decided to take suggestions for ideas as to what training she should be given. May post the best photos from her training."
Asking for suggestions does not indicate a lack of ability , it just means they are looking to the forum for suggestions, chill a little
I'am male sub and useless at Dom role, plus without understanding of like\dislikes and what has\has not been done before any suggestions would be a stab in the dark and most likely already being done,
Do post the pics though, interested to see |
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"FFS what kind of Dom are you if you have to come on a forum to ask this? To me, the role of a Dom is to take the time to get inside the sub's mind and find out what she wants...and then give it to her? Too many men watched 50 Shades and think they can call themselves Doms, I despair!"
the main actor of 50 shades is crap, he has an arrogant approach at being a dom and shouldnt even be classed as one |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"FFS what kind of Dom are you if you have to come on a forum to ask this? To me, the role of a Dom is to take the time to get inside the sub's mind and find out what she wants...and then give it to her? Too many men watched 50 Shades and think they can call themselves Doms, I despair!
the main actor of 50 shades is crap, he has an arrogant approach at being a dom and shouldnt even be classed as one"
Just as well he was an actor then! |
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Good luck with your weekend x
I'm sure you will both have fun x
Slightly confused as to the training aspect - surely this is an ongoing process
Do you mean more about filthy and creative acts you can do together to enjoy and expand your relationship?
Can I suggest early in the weekend you do two things
One - cum into an ice tray and freeze it x you will need this later x
Two - fill a condom with water approx one and half times your cock x
May I suggest during play you have lubed up your partner x you tell her to suck your cum cube and you unwrap you icicle dildo and pleasure your sub x
On
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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FFS once again the fab forums fail to disappoint. OP asks a simple question and the judgemental flock to shout him down. He and his partner like to indulge in BDSM games, who cares whether or not that interest came from 50 shades of shite? I don't see where he claims to be a dom so why not cut him some slack and maybe give some advice. I know it goes against the grain for some to be helpful but it's the weekend so why not give it a go? |
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