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Singles - how did it start?
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Following on from the couples thread .... how about singles.
I was introduced to the site by a guy I was dating and it took me ages to get my head around it. Went along with it, meeting single guys and couples, enjoyed it in the moment, but ultimately it broke us up. Then I decided to take ownership of me and my sexuality and develop it on my own, for me. I saw it as cutting out the middle man. Over four years later and still going, on my terms .... now I also swing with my partner, as well as alone, met him on here, and certainly not a middle man but a man in his own right. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
I've been doing this sort of thing on my own for about 15 years. I started on Connections phone site, spoke to a couple of guys who introduced me to clubs and dogging, then joined AFF and had some excellent fun. I took a break for a couple of years, went back to AFF, then spoke to someone who recommended this site. I've been on here since.  |
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By *ummersun99Woman
over a year ago
North Yorkshire by the Sea |
A fem suggested it when I complained about being happy single aside from no sex and not being into random hook ups. She was attached but in an open relationship. Several socials later, found a fwb and had a great time. Pretty much how its been, between relationships, for me since then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My ex suggested we came on here as a couple but I find it uncomfortable being on here with him. He deleted our profile and said he didn't like the thought of being on here without me. Funnily enough I then found he had an account of his own which had been created long before he made our profile and was cheating so I ended the relationship now im on here and enjoying having my own profile and my own fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was browsing round the interwebby thing and found another site similar vein to this. Got in there, had some great times and a friend recommended this place |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I heard about the site at a party and wanted to know how sex felt after an abdominal hysterectomy. Sounds a bit cold and calculating put that way 
It's how I started on here as a single and met my now partner. |
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By *issyBWoman
over a year ago
Near Preston |
I found the site whilst swinging with my ex partner. We had a couples profile on a different site, but I soon realised he was flying solo most of the time. I ditched him, created my own profile on here and have been having fun for years now!! Very addictive so have left and rejoined a couple of times.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Following on from the couples thread .... how about singles.
I was introduced to the site by a guy I was dating and it took me ages to get my head around it. Went along with it, meeting single guys and couples, enjoyed it in the moment, but ultimately it broke us up. Then I decided to take ownership of me and my sexuality and develop it on my own, for me. I saw it as cutting out the middle man. Over four years later and still going, on my terms .... now I also swing with my partner, as well as alone, met him on here, and certainly not a middle man but a man in his own right."
I've been "swinging" for about 15 years, I just didn't call it that.
Then a few years ago I discovered that "swinging" wasn't just middle aged couples getting together to swap wives. So I started calling myself a swinger.
One of my partners is a swinger too, although we don't generally swing together. One of my partners is not a swinger. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Friend told me. I started as a single guy. then after a while i relised i was bi. I used to dress as a kid robbing my sisters clothes etc when she was out. Then when i joined here as a tv brought lots of clothes etc. Lots of meets later and a few profiles through the years im happy i found this place |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was rather curious about meeting with couples and wanted lots of fun with single ladies, so when on Google come across fab. No meets yet, but still hoping to have some success! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well, my ex enjoyed a bit of kink. Tying up, spanking etc. I likes some of that too and enjoy being exhibitionist, having had sex in public places a lot with an earlier ex. That's one part.
Another part is I'm now juggling college and work, next to zero free time means no relationships that come with strings attached.
Yet another part is overcoming my social anxieties, my misconceptions and Stigma's that I had, but had not realised, and managing my jealousy issues.
There's a lot I wanted to address, so I looked into clubs, found one I liked, and went along. |
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I'd just come out of my first long term relationship and I decided to stay single for a while and whilst I'm single why not experiment. I signed up to SwingingHeaven and the day I did I ended up in a car park in the New Forest with a husband and wife! Yes I got very lucky. This was about ten years ago now. I've not had masses of meets over the years as I've had other relationships since so I've only swung in between those. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A friend introduced me to this site a few years ago. At first I was a bit overwhelmed by it.
I've spent many years being the other woman and it was great in a lot of ways. He gave me confidence to explore and empowered me. Hes also on here. As a result though I saw fab as mainly a place for chat and a social.
However I've now come to the point of realising now is very much my time to do my own thing. Getting emotionally involved with someone is not going to be on my agenda for a very long time again.
As such my fab experience will be likely entering a new chapter. I'm scared but excited.
I hope it means his time here will also evolve and he too will enjoy new and exciting experiences.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A friend who I had met on POF convinced me to take a sneaky peek! I'd been in a long term relationship before that which had seriously knocked my confidence and I'd become very vanilla, prudish even.
It took me a while to get my head around fab and the whole lifestyle but after closing my eyes, diving in and hoping for the best...I've met some great people and have friends now that I never would have met otherwise.
Ali x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My friend was told she had a profile on here. It was clear from the profile that it was somebody that knew her. The police couldn't do anything so I signed up to try find out who it was.
I soon forgot what I originally signed up for, never did get round to finding who it was. That profile has gone now!
That was over 4 years ago and I've had some of the best times of my life! |
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I was in that limbo period after I had split with my partner but not moved out. Was dangerously horny and new that if I had sex with him I would never leave.
My fave porn was in his room, so tried googling to find it and up came fab, I joined and have loved it ever since.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was on aff then someone suggested here I was on here for 5 years the met up with my daughters dad (from here) gave up fab whilst pregnant came back 2 years later n I'm still here |
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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago
London / Herts |
I'd spent my entire adolescence and early twenties in what became a totally lacklustre, sexless relationship. The relationship eventually crumbled. After six months of getting over it, I decided to start experimenting with sex, and my sexuality. I can't remember how I stumbled across Fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I was a teen all my friends bought porn mags, I however liked reading about what people did as opposed to spread leg pics (I did LIKE them just more fascinated in stories). I often wondered what it would be like so after a disastrous relationship with a Bi woman who spoke of 'fun' but wasn't really up for it I decided to find out. a few weeks of research and a visit to my first club and there I was sharing a very sexy lady with her husband. Been doing this for 6 years ever since. Discovered a few things about myself I never knew through this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My best friend let me perv on her page one evening as I knew she was into clubs etc and As a single Kinky little sod I kinda wanted to know more soon as I got home I'd signed up and the rest is history although now we have a chit chat about it and we can openly talk about out kinks although we have to remember not to do share at work as have made a young lad very  by out chat haha xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I started about 17 years ago. Saw an advert for a quarterly magazine in the back of escort or club magazine. Sent off for it. Found a few couples and singles in my area. Wrote an sae to several, got a couple of replies, one from a single fem, had a meet and went from there.
Then they started publishing phone numbers. Sent in my own ad, had a few timewasters, before being text by a couple, met for a social, then a week later joined them and another guy for mfmm.
Joined a few small sites on the net, was invited to join S.H. as a founder member. Met a few from there, before a few years ago reading about fab on another site. Checked it out and here I am!
Fab has become my preferred choice of meeting people. |
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By *helbeeCouple
over a year ago
Nuneaton |
I started with nsa as id split from my ex husband. I didnt want a relationship far too complicated an i just wanted fun without the complications an wanted fun without commitment an relationship constraints that was 11 months ago
i havnt looked back an had great fun, i like my freedom an like the single life. Im a lot hapier in my life. Contented an find i dont want to be tied down being in a full on relationship.
Thats how i started a friend mentioned this site i thought i would give it a try an see what it was like an give it a go lol
an i certainly prefer nsa ....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to be sexually liberated in my 20's. Then had a disastrous marriage that left me with guilt, shame and feeling uptight about my past.
Years later after being celibate and alone for 4 years, I met a lovely kind guy who eventually showed me his kinky side which wasn't my thing.
However he helped me find myself again, and gave me confidence that having sexual feelings isn't dirty.
We started on AFF, but weren't compatible playing together.
But I went to a club on my own, met some lovely people who told me the best site to be on is Fab.
God bless em!
I've had a couple of breaks from here, but always come back xxx |
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I'd been running around having d*unk 1 night stands for years, when a near miss made me realise I needed to be a bit more sensible.
I joined Swinging Heaven, went from there to another site, found my spiritual home at another site, which got lost in cyber space, then ended up here. I've made some amazing friends, that I'm still in touch with today.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Know 2 couples and a single lady into it. The lady suggested fab. My first swinging experience happened 20 years ago purely by chance though. Full swap separate room with a couple that we had got chatting too. Was just getting down to it when the woman I was with came legging it out the bedroom because she had bottled it. Ah well lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was part of a swinging couple, broke up and carried on as a single bloke. I'll be honest that's a pattern that seems to repeat itself
That said I don't consider what I do as a single male as swinging |
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