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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Hey there everyone I was wondering if anyone would have and advise or tips with finding that elusive extra lady... It's easy enough to find a guy for Louise we have them queuing round the block lol but women are just not interested at all.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

That's right, women are next to impossible to find here, good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I guess it's the same for couples as it is for guys searching for that elusive female: stand out from the crowd!

Send them an enticing message with decent pictures, treat them with respect etc.

The standard advice is get to a club, introduce yourselves, be sociable etc.

You look a decent enough couple from what I can see from your pics so I'm sure you're attractive enough to pique their attention.

I know it sounds like teaching you to suck eggs and it's all bleedin' obvious but I think it's true!

All down to supply and demand, the unicorns ARE out there but you have to find them, then impress them!

Good luck! I hope you find what you're looking for

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By *urvymamaWoman  over a year ago

Doncaster

Well I wouldn't meet you for the following reasons;

1) your both evidently not straight so just be honest!

2) The pics are almost all play pics and I personally find that distasteful some will want to see them but I'd suggest just keep them private to send as requested, teasing pics that leave something to the imagination are the best

3) And the females shyness doesn't appeal to me personally as I'm quite confident and therefore drawn to confidence

4) The profile reads quite selfishly want, what do you have to really offer? If you'd have messaged me I want to know Why should I choose over the other hundred couples that have messaged me this week?

5) I get an underlying tone that this is more of what the male wants, as opposed to the female and in my experience of successfully meeting single fems as a couple, that is something that rarely appeals

6) you can't accommodate

Off course this is merely my opinion and I don't speak for every single fem in the site

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By *reenleavesCouple  over a year ago

North Wales

In addition to the above, try and stand out from the crowd in your prospective females news feed too. Interesting / enticing and or funny status updates definitely catch our eye as we're scrolling through the latest local updates. Negativity, vaguebooking or illiterate desperation are a major turn off.

Make her stop and want to check out your profile. Ideally make her giggle at work as she's looking through the news.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Never had a problem finding and playing with single ladies, check you're profile, check your reasons for chasing a single lady and get out and meet some at socials, clubs etc x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Get the female half to do all the communicating and also try to get a hotel room and accommodate. It's rare that a female will invite a couple into her home.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Thanks need to take another look at our profile we aren't used to bigging ourselves up so maybe we need to do bit more of that it's difficult for us to attend clubs ect as Louise dosent have any ID

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