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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi. I am trying to set a meet with this guy. On first meet I usually just do oral see how we go and anal later.
He wants anal straight away what do people think
Katie |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yer my thinking. To be kindest it's a couple I really want to play with both but he won't less he can do anal with me.
Not been with a couple before
Katie |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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"Yer my thinking. To be kindest it's a couple I really want to play with both but he won't less he can do anal with me.
Not been with a couple before
Katie "
Just tell them how you are feeling, that you might want to play that way, you might not. If anyone said to us "we'll only play if you promise to do this", that would be the end of the conversation. They wouldnt be the right people for us. |
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"If you want to do it, then do it.
If you don't want to do it, then don't do it."
this totally.
both sides set their groundrules. even in D/s play.
If they cannot respect that one simple thing for a first meet then I cant imagine they will have any respect at all, do you want to meet someone in that state?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi. I am trying to set a meet with this guy. On first meet I usually just do oral see how we go and anal later.
He wants anal straight away what do people think
Katie "
It shouldn't really matter what we think, it's what you're comfortable with |
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"If you want to do it, then do it.
If you don't want to do it, then don't do it.
this totally.
both sides set their groundrules. even in D/s play.
If they cannot respect that one simple thing for a first meet then I cant imagine they will have any respect at all, do you want to meet someone in that state?
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Flip it - The guy of the couple is being honest by saying they'll only meet if he can fuck the CD up the arse. It's what they/he wants, why should they/he compromise? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you want to do it, then do it.
If you don't want to do it, then don't do it.
this totally.
both sides set their groundrules. even in D/s play.
If they cannot respect that one simple thing for a first meet then I cant imagine they will have any respect at all, do you want to meet someone in that state?
Flip it - The guy of the couple is being honest by saying they'll only meet if he can fuck the CD up the arse. It's what they/he wants, why should they/he compromise?"
Then maybe they shouldnt meet as both parties want different things and ahould find someone who would want to do what they want to do. But no one should be expected to do something they arent comfortable. I would suggest that you should both find someone more suitable to your needs. |
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"If you want to do it, then do it.
If you don't want to do it, then don't do it.
this totally.
both sides set their groundrules. even in D/s play.
If they cannot respect that one simple thing for a first meet then I cant imagine they will have any respect at all, do you want to meet someone in that state?
Flip it - The guy of the couple is being honest by saying they'll only meet if he can fuck the CD up the arse. It's what they/he wants, why should they/he compromise?
Then maybe they shouldnt meet as both parties want different things and ahould find someone who would want to do what they want to do. But no one should be expected to do something they arent comfortable. I would suggest that you should both find someone more suitable to your needs."
Exactly. No-one is wrong, no-one is right. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yer my thinking. To be kindest it's a couple I really want to play with both but he won't less he can do anal with me.
Not been with a couple before
Katie
Just tell them how you are feeling, that you might want to play that way, you might not. If anyone said to us "we'll only play if you promise to do this", that would be the end of the conversation. They wouldnt be the right people for us."
Exactly pushy demanding people male or female not interested straight out the door. (BTW this written by the male of this couple ) |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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"If you want to do it, then do it.
If you don't want to do it, then don't do it.
this totally.
both sides set their groundrules. even in D/s play.
If they cannot respect that one simple thing for a first meet then I cant imagine they will have any respect at all, do you want to meet someone in that state?
Flip it - The guy of the couple is being honest by saying they'll only meet if he can fuck the CD up the arse. It's what they/he wants, why should they/he compromise?"
But what if the guy changes his mind? |
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"If you want to do it, then do it.
If you don't want to do it, then don't do it.
this totally.
both sides set their groundrules. even in D/s play.
If they cannot respect that one simple thing for a first meet then I cant imagine they will have any respect at all, do you want to meet someone in that state?
Flip it - The guy of the couple is being honest by saying they'll only meet if he can fuck the CD up the arse. It's what they/he wants, why should they/he compromise?
But what if the guy changes his mind? "
Which guy? |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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"If you want to do it, then do it.
If you don't want to do it, then don't do it.
this totally.
both sides set their groundrules. even in D/s play.
If they cannot respect that one simple thing for a first meet then I cant imagine they will have any respect at all, do you want to meet someone in that state?
Flip it - The guy of the couple is being honest by saying they'll only meet if he can fuck the CD up the arse. It's what they/he wants, why should they/he compromise?
But what if the guy changes his mind?
Which guy?"
The guy in the couple who is being so demanding. |
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"If you want to do it, then do it.
If you don't want to do it, then don't do it.
this totally.
both sides set their groundrules. even in D/s play.
If they cannot respect that one simple thing for a first meet then I cant imagine they will have any respect at all, do you want to meet someone in that state?
Flip it - The guy of the couple is being honest by saying they'll only meet if he can fuck the CD up the arse. It's what they/he wants, why should they/he compromise?
But what if the guy changes his mind?
Which guy?
The guy in the couple who is being so demanding."
But what if the CD changes his mind?
And why is it demanding? He's merely saying he'll only meet if he gets to shag the CD up the arse. It's a condition, not a demand. |
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but i wouldnt meet someone who would only meet if i was to do a certain something - worries me does that - 