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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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My fb wanted me to fist her and for the very first time I nervously did it ...starting with 2 fingers, 3 and then gardually building up ...she wanted it right in to my wrist ...found it hard as did not want to hurt her but she said she loved it and did not hurt at all ...an amazing experience and sure to wnat to repeat again ....any others enjoy this ? I had only ever seen it in a porn movie |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never been fisted or would I want to be,but if she likes it and your comfortable doing it then go for it,she asked you remember and your both adults
she must have a great pain threshold lol |
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Fisting is a real turn on, but you both have to be really relaxed and trusting with each other. I love fisting and giving oral at the same time. mmmmmm
Good job I've got small hands! 
Shame it's called 'fisting' really - the name probably scares some ladies off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fisting is a real turn on, but you both have to be really relaxed and trusting with each other. I love fisting and giving oral at the same time. mmmmmm
Good job I've got small hands!
Shame it's called 'fisting' really - the name probably scares some ladies off. "
I agree have to be really relaxed and plenty of lube,does not mean you have a bucket if you can take a fist. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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my first fisting experience started with me licking her for a while and spanking her bum which she adores ...makes her really wet and I was amazed how quickly she opened up and my fingers found their way inside so easily ...she was really encouraging asking for more fingers and deeper and I certainly was turned on by seeing her face and clear enjoyment she was getting from it ...other lovers i have known due to their tightness and with my average size hands would not allow me to fist them I am sure .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i find fisting a 'pain in the arse', had a domme try to do it once but she stopped , never got much actual pleasure from it but loved the control she had , |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it was from newlook or the sex shop in ringwood x x x"
ive got that basque bought it from e bay around 6 years ago ..it is really nice ...still one of my faves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you both enjoyed it then don't worry.
ALways amazes me that people think they are to tight or that women that like it are slack.
It's an amazing experience but one I would not do with a playmate.
Katie x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've always wondered what you do with your fingers once you're up to your wrist.
Puts me in mind of a challenge on 'I'm a Celebrity, Get me out of here'"
im a big fan lots of the feeling is just the pleasure of knowing someone is in up to the wrist and that they are loving it too ...It takes a lot of care and lube its all about both being relaxed and happy.... but honestly feels fab if done correctly...and im normally very tight ,,,,my guy couldnt beleive it the first time we tried.... |
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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago
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"I've always wondered what you do with your fingers once you're up to your wrist.
Puts me in mind of a challenge on 'I'm a Celebrity, Get me out of here'
im a big fan lots of the feeling is just the pleasure of knowing someone is in up to the wrist and that they are loving it too ...It takes a lot of care and lube its all about both being relaxed and happy.... but honestly feels fab if done correctly...and im normally very tight ,,,,my guy couldnt beleive it the first time we tried...."
I'm adding this back on to my wish list |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"my pussy is to tight X X X
mine too. We tried it one night and I bled. Poor guy, put him right off..."
You have to relax... but as for bleeding.. That sounds more like it was forced in the wrong way or sharp nails.
I can not always manage it.. and I always find after a session like that I am like a virgin for a few days after. Like any muscle give it a good work out and it strengthens.
Katie. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fisting, if done with due care and attention, is the most amazing feeling. I absolutely love to be fisted but I must be totally relaxed and at ease with who I'm playing with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never been fisted or would I want to be,but if she likes it and your comfortable doing it then go for it,she asked you remember and your both adults
she must have a great pain threshold lol"
We can't read about it without thinking of All Creatures Great And Small!
"Nay, nay veterinary, tha's bein ower savage wi' thy fist!"  
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By *tefanCouple
over a year ago
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I met a couple off another site and all they were into was fisting. And yes they made me bleed alright, It was very embarrassing put them right off. They manage to disturb my contraceptive device(IUD)and i was in agony for days after. Im not doing that again  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I met a couple off another site and all they were into was fisting. And yes they made me bleed alright, It was very embarrassing put them right off. They manage to disturb my contraceptive device(IUD)and i was in agony for days after. Im not doing that again "
blimey this is why you should do this with people you know and trust...there is no place in any kind of relationship for someone really hurting you ..... |
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"Never been fisted or would I want to be,but if she likes it and your comfortable doing it then go for it,she asked you remember and your both adults
she must have a great pain threshold lol
We can't read about it without thinking of All Creatures Great And Small!
"Nay, nay veterinary, tha's bein ower savage wi' thy fist!"
XXXX"
When you fist a guys arse and it goes right in and opens up it feels like i imagine it would feel going into a cows stomach |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do enjoy doing this, but as has been said...plenty of lube, be relaxed, and trust is always needed. I'd never think of doing it without the lady being comfortable with being fisted. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had several meets with new playmates and despite being told I have a tight pussy,also feel very relaxed to being fisted by them when its their first time too. Lube is always good to use but not always necessary. Am very happy to teach in this area and in other areas too.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont fancy the thought of being fisted, it doesnt do anything for me, but lots of women say its brilliant and the sensation is fantastic so there must be something in it. Its certainly not something I would consider though.
I should imagine lots of lube is the way to go.
Women saying they are too tight is a bit of a myth I think and has more to do with vanity and wishful thinking than reality. We are designed to deliver babies which are bigger than a mans fist. Done delicately and expertly and slowly with lots of lube is how its done, men dont just shove their fist up.
But that said, I dont dont fancy the thought of it  |
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It is something I am into and enjoy immensely, but as others have said, key things are to listen to recipient, use lube/lots of it usually, recipient needs to be able to relax and trust you.
If it isn't happening, then stop and try another time, it isn't something to be rushed.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont fancy the thought of being fisted, it doesnt do anything for me, but lots of women say its brilliant and the sensation is fantastic so there must be something in it. Its certainly not something I would consider though.
I should imagine lots of lube is the way to go.
Women saying they are too tight is a bit of a myth I think and has more to do with vanity and wishful thinking than reality. We are designed to deliver babies which are bigger than a mans fist. Done delicately and expertly and slowly with lots of lube is how its done, men dont just shove their fist up.
But that said, I dont dont fancy the thought of it "
We know its not a myth that some women are too tight.
We've met several women with pussys like paper cuts, Jeremy Beadle couldn't have fisted them.
I only have slim hands and even with lube and after a couple of orgasms Trace struggles to get four of my closely bunched fingers anywhere near.
Mind you, we are proud of that fact.
We both find the thought of it off putting in truth.
Women's bodies go through lots of physical and hormonal changes to enable them to have babies.
Even then it doesn't always work and tearing can occur.
XXXX |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Women go through lots of changes to have a baby and then you go back to normal (ish, before any smart arse man says anything )"
Some go back a bit more normal(ish) than others though! R
XX
Sorry Rugby.......couldn't resist it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I havent had children naturally, so in effect I should be the tightest you could ever be. I dont know, Ive not done the studies, but I really dont think its true that women who enjoy fisting are slacker than those who dont.
All women should have smear tests and speculums open a woman up quite wide really. You can obviously get different sizes, but vaginas are quite elastic and do stretch.
I think a lot of it is to do with not being aroused enough. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh and when I said it was a myth that women were too tight, I meant on the forums I see a lot of posts saying, I have a really tight vagina, I cant take more than 2 fingers etc etc. Sometimes I think this is said to try and make themselves appear "better" somehow than those girls who will openly say they enjoy fisting or large cocks etc. If anyone really did have an exceptionally tight vagina, or had vaginismus etc, they certainly wouldnt be swinging - sex would be painful |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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me and my boyfriend recently discovered they joys of fisting i love it and it dont mean youve got a bucket when you think where babies come from and no lub needed it made me very wet squirted loads mabe we will find a couple to share this with happy fisting folks xxx |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Women go through lots of changes to have a baby and then you go back to normal (ish, before any smart arse man says anything )
Some go back a bit more normal(ish) than others though! R
XX
Sorry Rugby.......couldn't resist it! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its obviously a very intimate act and mutual trust is required.
As others have said the girl needs to relax, but for me, I also need plenty of encouragement as need to know that I'm giving pleasure and not hurting. Its important to know when she is satisfied too and its a finite thing in my experience and you need to we gentle coming out too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mart writing this, I am 6 foot 6 and have quite big hands so fisting often wont work, at least with most of the girls that have wanted to do it, I'm quite wide across the knuckles so its a bit difficult. on the other hand i have been fisted, once by a close female friend, it was definately an enjoyable experience and i was suprised just how elastic an arse can be, and its not like mine is "overused" it may be stretchy but its still tight.
and now im embarressed i wrote that, but i'm gonna leave it out there i think.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" you need to we gentle coming out too!
Does any other female think that it feels a bit like giving birth when the hand comes out.....? ...or is that just me.."
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I always thought I was too tight and that it was an impossibility but my partner now has shown me a lot about myself that I didn't know.... I didn't know I could squirt, I didn't even think I was capable of orgasm! Now, I know I can do both, I can be fisted both ends and when it's done carefully, slowly and with quite a lot of lube... my partner also likes it done to him, but I haven't managed it yet, but another woman we met did it to him and he was in heaven. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mart writing this, I am 6 foot 6 and have quite big hands so fisting often wont work, at least with most of the girls that have wanted to do it, I'm quite wide across the knuckles so its a bit difficult. on the other hand i have been fisted, once by a close female friend, it was definately an enjoyable experience and i was suprised just how elastic an arse can be, and its not like mine is "overused" it may be stretchy but its still tight.
and now im embarressed i wrote that, but i'm gonna leave it out there i think. "
good on you Mark for being honest and writing an interesting post, too many people worry about what others will think |
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Well, just to add in another 2 pence from me, I am also a big guy, and have fister and the fistee.
My solution for alot of this is ID Millenium lube.
It doesn't dry, it doesn't gloop, it's a film of slippy fun
I'm 6 foot 5, and managed to fist a partner (when shes been really in to it, and gone really slow building up) and also been fisted by an ex-partner, again, with lots of build up and "slow and steady wins the race".
Amazing feeling that blows the mind and quite unique from both my and my partners POV from both sides.
But for me, Millenium is the way to go for lube and the key to success! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No matter the size of fist, vagina or anus, if you don't want to do it well and truly and if you don't trust the fist then it is not going to be an enjoyable situation! If you think you're hole is too tight then you aren't relaxing either.
If on the other hand you have an interest and you can let yourself relax with someone you trust impeccably and want to try it - then go for it! The only thing that I would add to what has been said is lube does come in handy if you don't provide plenty naturally and the other thing is if you've just orgasmed it can take much longer to accept the fist vaginally!
Personally I find anal more an issue that fisting! I know how my vagina works and what it is capable of!
Stay safe!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have fisted one girl and thought it was an amazing experience..pity she was sleeping IM JOKING lol.Like others have mentioned i was quite nervous in case i was causing and discomfort but was assured all was fine and well.She was the one who had asked to me to do it to her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Last Summer I met a girl and we ended up trying this out, not really planned, neither of us had done it before but it seemed to develop for want of a better word whilst I was fingering her and licking her clit, she just seemed to open up and I just kept pushing in another finger. She really got into it and kept pushing against me, after a while my hand pushed past the knuckle. I have to say she was very wet though. I found it incredibly erotic, certainly loved doing it and seeing the reaction was one of the coolest things I've experienced. I don't think all women would take to it mind, my last partner just didn't like fingers inside her at all. |
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By *atineWoman
over a year ago
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Fisting is one of the most amazing experiences I've ever had. I find I don't need lube because as long as I've been turned on I'm soaking and ready to receive. The orgasms and squirting that happen as a result are unbelievable. It's also fab to see your partners face light up with glee!!!My top tip is to ensure you're doing your pelvic floor exercises to maintain those lovely muscles inside!
Happy fisting x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I totally agree, my other half is a master at it and iv been told im very tight so get your muscule working and have a go i can honestly say its a pleasure i would not go without xx  |
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Another fan here. It's not something we do often, nor can I manage it every time we try but when I do.....WOW!
I resent those saying they are 'too tight and proud of it' implying that those of us who can are bucket fannys! I can assure you, I am far from that!
*Her* |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Another fan here. It's not something we do often, nor can I manage it every time we try but when I do.....WOW!
I resent those saying they are 'too tight and proud of it' implying that those of us who can are bucket fannys! I can assure you, I am far from that!
Quite!
Don't knock it till you try it...
Bucket fannys R us! lol
*Her*"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i just adore being fisted it a real turn on makes me squirt like mad ...i have a real tight pussy but its all about being relaxed and lubbed up and taken slowly .....i have been anal fisted 2 but never again it did hurt cnt see point off it to be honest ...... |
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By *onyMad123Couple
over a year ago
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"Fisting is a real turn on, but you both have to be really relaxed and trusting with each other. I love fisting and giving oral at the same time. mmmmmm
Good job I've got small hands!
Shame it's called 'fisting' really - the name probably scares some ladies off.
I agree have to be really relaxed and plenty of lube,does not mean you have a bucket if you can take a fist."
Agreed, i can still crack a walnut yet do enjoy it when completley at ease :O and even build up the interior muscles if done properley making you even more tight :O |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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very new to being fisted but only by matt so far and i love every second of it, it does take a while to get up to the point of him being able to get fist in but its soooo worth it when he does, i squirt more than ever. xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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very new to being fisted but only by matt so far and i love every second of it, it does take a while to get up to the point of him being able to get fist in but its soooo worth it when he does, i squirt more than ever. xx |
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