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Wink but no reply to message?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi,
I am new to FS and have received winks. When I send them a message some do not reply Any advice? Thx"
No reply means not interested. Forget them and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've also found winks to be completely pointless and nothing has come from them. You just think to yourself, 'send a bloomin' message!'
At some point there's going to have to be a message exchange anyway, so might as well get straight to it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We've also found winks to be completely pointless and nothing has come from them. You just think to yourself, 'send a bloomin' message!'
At some point there's going to have to be a message exchange anyway, so might as well get straight to it."
How about you add a nudge to that wink?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi,
I am new to FS and have received winks. When I send them a message some do not reply Any advice? Thx"
If this is happening a lot maybe your messages are the issue? |
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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago
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"We've also found winks to be completely pointless and nothing has come from them. You just think to yourself, 'send a bloomin' message!'
At some point there's going to have to be a message exchange anyway, so might as well get straight to it."
That's not the case for us, we always Wink first. We wink if we like the pics and then go from there. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That's not the case for us, we always Wink first. We wink if we like the pics and then go from there. Xx"
Well you know what the reason behind your wink is. In your case if you like the pics. The people you're winking have no idea. If you were to wink us we'd delete it immediately as our first line of text says we delete winks without looking at who winked, so anyone winking has clearly either not read a single line of our text (and therefore we wouldn't be interested in them as it'd be a waste of time) or they read it and wink to be funny perhaps who knows.
Either way when you say 'go from there' you mean at some point you're gonna have to message lol, which was the point made.
Wink, then nudge, then a titter button, maybe a new flirt button too...could go on forever lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive sent winks before to men I like the look of, they reply by message, chat goes on for a bit then they ask to meet, so I say when Im free, usually able to give different dates too this time of year and they arent free on any of them. ie timewasters and little boys, just ignore it and find someone who is willing to message and meet |
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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago
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"That's not the case for us, we always Wink first. We wink if we like the pics and then go from there. Xx
Well you know what the reason behind your wink is. In your case if you like the pics. The people you're winking have no idea. If you were to wink us we'd delete it immediately as our first line of text says we delete winks without looking at who winked, so anyone winking has clearly either not read a single line of our text (and therefore we wouldn't be interested in them as it'd be a waste of time) or they read it and wink to be funny perhaps who knows.
Either way when you say 'go from there' you mean at some point you're gonna have to message lol, which was the point made.
Wink, then nudge, then a titter button, maybe a new flirt button too...could go on forever lol"
No, we wink, they wink/message and then we chat. There are thousands of profiles on here and if we read everyone that contacted us we'd never the leave the site to go to work lol
But as you've preblocked us we can't really interact with you xx |
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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago
Southend |
"Ive sent winks before to men I like the look of, they reply by message, chat goes on for a bit then they ask to meet, so I say when Im free, usually able to give different dates too this time of year and they arent free on any of them. ie timewasters and little boys, just ignore it and find someone who is willing to message and meet "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But as you've preblocked us we can't really interact with you xx"
Nope, you blocked us at some point. It'll say 'you blocked them 3 weeks ago' or something. It's fine though, probably some of our choices aren't for you and you blocked to save time (we do same).  |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"Hi,
I am new to FS and have received winks. When I send them a message some do not reply Any advice? Thx"
Happens fella, so many possible reasons. only they know why .. at least you're receiving some interest concentrate on those who's interest you keep.  |
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By *etzPlayCouple
over a year ago
Southend |
"But as you've preblocked us we can't really interact with you xx
Nope, you blocked us at some point. It'll say 'you blocked them 3 weeks ago' or something. It's fine though, probably some of our choices aren't for you and you blocked to save time (we do same). "
Oh ok, we share the account so maybe Em did, I'll ask her if your that fussed xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had a wink from a couple yesterday, messaged them, and they replied. Said they where into soft swing. I'm cool with that and told them that their the ones in the driving seat and I'd respect their wishes. If they want to set a date, then please let me know in advance if they'd like to meet up. That was the last I heard from them. LOL!
Guess that's just the way it goes. It's no biggy, and not worth worrying about.
But if they've seen your pic, sent you a wink and then got in touch, it's hard to say why they suddenly end things.
I think the moral of the story is, try not to take things personally. People change their minds. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hold a minute. If they send the wink, then they are interested. And how on earth can you send one by accident, you have to be on their profile page.
I just take the attitude that if they don't want to reply, even though they winked at you first, then leave it at that. I don't chase.
I reply to all winks and messages, even if it's to say no thanks. Politeness cost nothing.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do some use it as essentially a profile 'fab\like' button,
they liked your profile and wink was just meant as a profile fab but not necessarily expecting a message back,
Whilst others use it as an invitation to message or wink. Often with no indication to how it's meant of their profile, which is basically as cruel as pheromones not being in mens smell range,lol |
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"Or it could possibly be that they liked the look of you but didn't like your message"
This. It's better to simply not send a message back but be happy that you received a wink, many on here don't even get that 
Or just persevere like the rest of us |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Or it could possibly be that they liked the look of you but didn't like your message
This. It's better to simply not send a message back but be happy that you received a wink, many on here don't even get that
Or just persevere like the rest of us "
Perseverence is good on here |
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