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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi im a single guy who's finding that im sending messages to couples always with a face pic, not getting a lot replied to.
but the couples are not deleting them. should i leave it a bit and message again.or just leave it?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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wait.
it is best not to pester or that will put people off you.
if a mail is deleted without reply just block them.
inconsiderate people are not worthy of your time.
move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Leave it a while, say a couple of weeks and if you've heard nothing back after that, assume that you probably won't, then if you do get a response after that, it's a bonus 
One of the worst things you can do (in our opinion) is to send another message along the lines of "I messaged you a few weeks ago and just wondered ......"
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Then take it that they are not interested. We very rarely delete mail so that if we get another message from the same person we can check to see if its the same as the first message i.e. copy and paste. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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personal speaking as a single woman
i read messages and sometimes i don't get straight back that's as could be busy or cant think of a reply
i sometimes send messages out and get no reply etc so its not just single men  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi thanks, but i'm talking Days Weeks even."
If they dont reply then chances are they not interested,but also could be that one half of couple reads it and waits for the other like already been said.
If you go pestering then chances are you will blow it completely,if they are interested they will get back to you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"wait.
it is best not to pester or that will put people off you.
if a mail is deleted without reply just block them.
inconsiderate people are not worthy of your time.
move on."
I'm sorry but we don't think we are being inconsiderate if we don't reply to every message ,we used to try and get back even if it was just a thanks but no thanks but just got sick of all the abusive messages that we got sent back
And couples and esp single girls can get sent loads of messages a day and to reply to all can be hard I've heard people say it only takes 20 seconds to reply but it only takes 1 second to delete
While I have been typing this we have received 12 messages and I think today we must have had over 40 so there are a lot of reasons why people don't reply
But for us it was all the grief we got by a lot of others when we did reply that put a stop to it for us.
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"wait.
it is best not to pester or that will put people off you.
if a mail is deleted without reply just block them.
inconsiderate people are not worthy of your time.
move on."
i find that some mail is deleted without reply
so i block them and move on  |
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By *emjoCouple
over a year ago
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Reply rate is less than 1 in 10 for couples so I'm amazed that single guys get any replies at all.
This site has the lowest reply site of any we have been on. The price you've got to pay for being a free site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Our reply rate is about 50/50. It happens to everybody but don't worry because sometimes they get back in touch with you forgetting they deleted your message without replying to it in the first place. |
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We get between 10-60 msgs a day. Some I read and want to reply to but need more time than I've got. Some show as read because I've pressed 'delete go to next unread' without thinking and can see more than a 1 line response is needed. Some I delete without replying because they're 'fancy a fuck' type msgs with no pics on profile and no words other than something like 'looking for fun' - nothing there to spark an interest.
I had a mail and read it a couple of weeks ago but didn't reply straight off, as I was reading messages whilst doing something else. Less than 15 minutes later(!) I had another mail accusing me of being rude and having no manners in not replying and they'd blocked me - stupidly I'd have given a positive response if they'd only waited another 10 mins or so.. their loss.
I have a clear out of mail every few days and reply to most unreplied ones then. I sometimes save them for hubby to look at (he works away in the week) before replying too
I've had messages of mine not replied to - it's no biggie in the scheme of things. I generally delete all sent mail whether it's read or not now - big deal  |
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"Reply rate is less than 1 in 10 for couples so I'm amazed that single guys get any replies at all.
This site has the lowest reply site of any we have been on. The price you've got to pay for being a free site."
Got naff all to do with it being a free site.
On another site I'm a member off, I pay, but still don't reply to messages if they don't interest me.
Why should I? If you've sent me a message I didn't ask for, why should I? |
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