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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Long story short, a lovely woman (TG) who I have spoken to briefly sent me an image. I responded in kind and sent one in return. I got an "ew" and told that my penis looks vile as it is circumcised.
I don't understand why some people on fab can be so mean? Really knocks my self esteem. I'd of thought that someone like a TG would have more sympathy for body issues. Being cut is something I can't help..
*weight off my mind*
Thanks for reading and letting me blow of steam! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"don't take it to heart 
good luck "
Thanks. It cut deep as my circumcision is something I feel deeply about (using stretching restoration methods as mentioned on the forum) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I guess she wasn't so lovely? Some women have confidence problems so they feel better by saying them things. Report her."
It was done on snapchat so I don't feel I can report? I wouldn't anyway I wouldn't want revenge.. |
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"don't take it to heart
good luck
Thanks. It cut deep as my circumcision is something I feel deeply about (using stretching restoration methods as mentioned on the forum) "
Many, many women will only meet circumcised men. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ah fuck 'em (not literally )
Block and move on. Twats exist in all forms, male, female, TS/TG etc.
Plenty more in the Fab ocean worthy of your time and effort  good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I guess she wasn't so lovely? Some women have confidence problems so they feel better by saying them things. Report her.
It was done on snapchat so I don't feel I can report? I wouldn't anyway I wouldn't want revenge.."
I see and that's good and no, don't think you can on snapchat. |
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I definitely prefer circumcised men, as do many other women. Don't see it as some kind of disfigurement but just as a difference - which is what it is. It's what makes life's great tapestry so interesting |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I definitely prefer circumcised men, as do many other women. Don't see it as some kind of disfigurement but just as a difference - which is what it is. It's what makes life's great tapestry so interesting "
Thank you! I do see it as a disfigurement (there is a scar after all) but when I already get rejected a personal comment doesn't aid my confidence x |
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"I definitely prefer circumcised men, as do many other women. Don't see it as some kind of disfigurement but just as a difference - which is what it is. It's what makes life's great tapestry so interesting
Thank you! I do see it as a disfigurement (there is a scar after all) but when I already get rejected a personal comment doesn't aid my confidence x"
You need cast iron self-esteem on here, try and realise that comments made by people from the safety of a keyboard are not necessarily the truth. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Long story short, a lovely woman (TG) who I have spoken to briefly sent me an image. I responded in kind and sent one in return. I got an "ew" and told that my penis looks vile as it is circumcised.
I don't understand why some people on fab can be so mean? Really knocks my self esteem. I'd of thought that someone like a TG would have more sympathy for body issues. Being cut is something I can't help..
*weight off my mind*
Thanks for reading and letting me blow of steam! "
Considering this is meant to be an adult site there's a hell of a lot of name calling that goes on!! Some of my insults have been so nasty they're funny lol say bollocks to them and carry on xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I definitely prefer circumcised men, as do many other women. Don't see it as some kind of disfigurement but just as a difference - which is what it is. It's what makes life's great tapestry so interesting
Thank you! I do see it as a disfigurement (there is a scar after all) but when I already get rejected a personal comment doesn't aid my confidence x
You need cast iron self-esteem on here, try and realise that comments made by people from the safety of a keyboard are not necessarily the truth."
Couldn't have put it better |
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Some people can't help themselves but to be rude. It's a slight on their personality not yours.
I, personally, MUCH prefer a circumcised cock. Met a guy recently who hadn't mentioned his. I was delighted, told him he should advertise it on his profile! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Long story short, a lovely woman (TG) who I have spoken to briefly sent me an image. I responded in kind and sent one in return. I got an "ew" and told that my penis looks vile as it is circumcised.
I don't understand why some people on fab can be so mean? Really knocks my self esteem. I'd of thought that someone like a TG would have more sympathy for body issues. Being cut is something I can't help..
*weight off my mind*
Thanks for reading and letting me blow of steam!
Considering this is meant to be an adult site there's a hell of a lot of name calling that goes on!! Some of my insults have been so nasty they're funny lol say bollocks to them and carry on xxx"
I wouldn't worry about it. There are plenty more people out there. I got called a cunt and fat old pig the other night because I said no to shagging someone in a toilet. Just block and move on |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"That's horrible. .what is wrong with some people?
Feel free to send me cock photo..am sure I can reassure you "
Hah thanks, I would but you'll have to message me first as your profile is restricted |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some people can't help themselves but to be rude. It's a slight on their personality not yours.
I, personally, MUCH prefer a circumcised cock. Met a guy recently who hadn't mentioned his. I was delighted, told him he should advertise it on his profile! "
That's a good outcome! I would love this to happen to me but maybe some of us cut men prefer a surprise haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had some brilliant insults thrown at me!  But yeah you do have to have a really thick (fore)skin on here (sorry I had to!!) don't be upset it's not even worth it, I saw a good quote earlier;
Just remember, you can't please everyone. You are not a jar of Nutella
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I've had some brilliant insults thrown at me! But yeah you do have to have a really thick (fore)skin on here (sorry I had to!!) don't be upset it's not even worth it, I saw a good quote earlier;
Just remember, you can't please everyone. You are not a jar of Nutella
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Haha thanks you! I still need to send you my restoration photos x |
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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago
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"don't take it to heart
good luck
Thanks. It cut deep as my circumcision is something I feel deeply about (using stretching restoration methods as mentioned on the forum)
Many, many women will only meet circumcised men. "
Luckily I've never met one. I think there are more in the US as circumcision is much more popular there. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"don't take it to heart
good luck
Thanks. It cut deep as my circumcision is something I feel deeply about (using stretching restoration methods as mentioned on the forum)
Many, many women will only meet circumcised men.
Luckily I've never met one. I think there are more in the US as circumcision is much more popular there. "
Inbox me? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it makes any difference, Marc is circumcised and I prefer circumcised men (though I honestly like them either way).
We once got blocked after sending face pics to a single woman.  You really need thick skin here....everyone, not just single men.
Just don't let it get to you. Say adios and move on. There is plenty of fun to be had with nice people.
-Courtney |
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"don't take it to heart
good luck
Thanks. It cut deep as my circumcision is something I feel deeply about (using stretching restoration methods as mentioned on the forum)
Many, many women will only meet circumcised men.
Luckily I've never met one. I think there are more in the US as circumcision is much more popular there. "
Nor us as we don't fit the criteria. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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"Long story short, a lovely woman (TG) who I have spoken to briefly sent me an image. I responded in kind and sent one in return. I got an "ew" and told that my penis looks vile as it is circumcised.
I don't understand why some people on fab can be so mean? Really knocks my self esteem. I'd of thought that someone like a TG would have more sympathy for body issues. Being cut is something I can't help..
*weight off my mind*
Thanks for reading and letting me blow of steam! "
I have been called a short, fat ugly pig and advised to get my snout out of the trough; so what
BTW, would you have been happier if a born-female instead of a trans-female would have insulted you? I am just curious |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Op, get over it and stop bitching. Take it and move on. Im circumsized as well and have never had a problem. "
Nice, really nice. Some people aren't as thick skinned to abuse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"don't take it to heart
good luck
Thanks. It cut deep as my circumcision is something I feel deeply about (using stretching restoration methods as mentioned on the forum) "
Cut and proud. Had mine done when I was a nipper. At 44 I'm not gonna worry about it now. And I'd advice you don't either.
Don't let one idiot get you down. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Suck it up sweet cheeks would you really want to meet someone that shallow anyway?
Some people get a kick out of suckering people in then being nasty for fun. Plenty of people on here who will meet you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Long story short, a lovely woman (TG) who I have spoken to briefly sent me an image. I responded in kind and sent one in return. I got an "ew" and told that my penis looks vile as it is circumcised.
I don't understand why some people on fab can be so mean? Really knocks my self esteem. I'd of thought that someone like a TG would have more sympathy for body issues. Being cut is something I can't help..
*weight off my mind*
Thanks for reading and letting me blow of steam! "
at least you've still got one. HE on the other hand is and always will be a bloke in a dress. |
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Circumcised here too for medical reasons when I was around four years old. I still remember the pain and sensitivity though! I've only ever had compliments so far so reckon you just got unlucky with who you were talking to. As all the others say just ignore said persons comment and don't take it personally. It's just a reflection of their personality and it's probably for the best not meeting up with someone like that.
Chin up bud |
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"Op, get over it and stop bitching. Take it and move on. Im circumsized as well and have never had a problem. "
Thanks for that - had my boys circumcised as they were born in the US and I was worried - what have I done, etc etc - it is what it is, surely |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love cut cock. Probably my preference. There is no accounting for tastes, preferences or ill manners. Just be thankful that you swerved having to meet someone as thoughtless as that. If they don't care enough about feelings/needs at the end of a message, surely they won't care in bed..... |
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I'd been chatting to a guy for a while and we were due to meet. A few hours before he messaged me to say that I was too fat (size 18/20) for him to fuck but that he'd let me give him head. Oh the honour! I politely declined. Don't lose faith. The good folk on here outweigh the less desirable x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ignorant....ignore em!
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Thanks! I'll try but it was very personal! "
Try being a Bbw on here 
Iv been called some real vile names and it used to get to me but it's gone to the stage now I jyst shrug the shoulders and block and move on
I had thought I had left the bullying behide in the school yard but apparently they never grew up 
Chin up move on and enjoy your time on fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'd been chatting to a guy for a while and we were due to meet. A few hours before he messaged me to say that I was too fat (size 18/20) for him to fuck but that he'd let me give him head. Oh the honour! I politely declined. Don't lose faith. The good folk on here outweigh the less desirable x"
Should have said yes and bit hard!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're not super models I'm not well endowed she's not toned and things are heading south, you'd proberley think being a couple is much easier but we've had our fair share of no thanks & your not for us. we know we're not for everyone and we're way past caring why. so don't get hung up on it, it's just one no closer to a yes so let it bounce off and keep plugging away and remain positive |
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"Ignorant....ignore em!
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Thanks! I'll try but it was very personal! "
I'm circumsized too, but I've had no bad reactions, in fact I've had the opposite, some ladies really love it, so don't let one bad episode get to you. |
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well that was bloody rude they ain't worth your worry no ones perfect and I personally thing the differences are quite sexy..an ex had peyronies and he had a lovely cock...worked for me. circumcision is quite normal and even if it wasn't there will be plenty of people who will love it |
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