"Hi I've messaged a few fine lady's on here but no reply what am I doing wrong ???"
Average of ten men per woman on here. Try something else or be patient.
Try sending messages that give something to talk about, your message needs to stand out from the other 99 she's received today. |
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"Hi I've messaged a few fine lady's on here but no reply what am I doing wrong ???
13 words in your profile and 16 more or less identical photos of your cock are not likely to encourage any reply"
Good point, also the profile is over a year old so needs updating unless you were on the site while in a relationship... |
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"a) she's not interested in you
b) yours is one of 200 she received that particular hour
c) all of the above
Choose 1.  "
Women get all the attention; I only had 27 messages in the last hour  |
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There are some very helpful threads about what makes a good profile, message, picture gallery on the forums already. Do a forum search. And good luck 
-Courtney |
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Welcome to the forums, fab and the world of swing!
May I take the opportunity to suggest adding some more content to your profile?
Also a few too many cock shots!
Inject a little humour, as mentioned previously, be patient!
Be polite
Never expect and use the forum to raise awareness and show your personality.
In the mean time you could attend socials or a club.
I hope you find this helpful and I wish you a very enjoyable Fab experience |
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"Hi I've messaged a few fine lady's on here but no reply what am I doing wrong ???
13 words in your profile and 16 more or less identical photos of your cock are not likely to encourage any reply"
Spot on! |
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Listen to their profile and reflect what they've said in your message. Make it different. Make it stand out. I explicitly state that I don't see guys who are unverified or can't accom, yet guys fitting those criteria message me nonetheless, suggesting they've just not read what I'm looking for. I have actually met a guy who wasn't verified as he made reference to that stipulation in his message and offered me reassurances and we did a social first. Take that time to make it bespoke and it will be rewarded. I also had a guy message me with the headline "Oi oi bread in!" which I read simply as it was so different and piqued my amusement. |
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"Hi I've messaged a few fine lady's on here but no reply what am I doing wrong ???
13 words in your profile and 16 more or less identical photos of your cock are not likely to encourage any reply"
17 words in the question..... |
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1 - Read their profile FULLY before sending a message
2 - Try and be imaginative and complimentary
3 - Sort your own profile and photos out
4 - accept most just won't be interested
We get *dozens* of messages that break rule in the very first line of our profile and our blocklist grows daily because some guys think its fine to not bother, so why would we?
Genuinely got a message from some random guy with no profile tetx, no pictures, nothing and his message was 'Hi'.
thats it! 'Hi'!?!
Of course we immediately set up a meeting with him and had great 3 way sex... NOT.
Its not rocket science dude - be respectful, sexy and imaginative and READ PROFILES and you may get some luck. |
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"1 - Read their profile FULLY before sending a message
2 - Try and be imaginative and complimentary
3 - Sort your own profile and photos out
4 - accept most just won't be interested
We get *dozens* of messages that break rule in the very first line of our profile and our blocklist grows daily because some guys think its fine to not bother, so why would we?
Genuinely got a message from some random guy with no profile tetx, no pictures, nothing and his message was 'Hi'.
thats it! 'Hi'!?!
Of course we immediately set up a meeting with him and had great 3 way sex... NOT.
Its not rocket science dude - be respectful, sexy and imaginative and READ PROFILES and you may get some luck."
Number 1 is almost impossible for most and have you ever replied to a "hi" message? If I'm bored I sometimes do and they always go pretty much the same way. I reply hi, they say how are you, I'm good thanks, you? I'm good. End of conversation!! |
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Go for quantity. 3 messages is not enough. Try 300, then you might get a response!
Guys are the lower class in here. Messages don't have to be long, but do read the profile and take that into account. And ditch the cock pics.
P.S. I am no expert!!!! |
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"Hi I've messaged a few fine lady's on here but no reply what am I doing wrong ???"
you're probably pressing "send" button with your finger. try closing your right eye, stand on your left leg and press the button using your nose.
different procedures apply if you're using a desktop pc.
works for me,I recommend emailing next to a wall to aid balance.
happy messaging, captain! |
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"Hi I've messaged a few fine lady's on here but no reply what am I doing wrong ???"
Probably nothing at all wrong. Females are in high demand and can afford to be choosy if they wish. |
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