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By *e27she36 OP Couple
over a year ago
Brighton |
Hi everyone, this post is aimed mostly at single ladies that have already met up with couples on occasion.
Me and my partner are (like every couple on here) looking for a threesome with a single lady.
Un-surprisingly with not much luck so far.
Not entirely sure how to word the following but hopefully you will get what we are trying say...
We both live together in a sudio flat so dont have the best facilities for entertaining and hosting as we would like (a good sized bed is about the biggest feature).Its all very clean and tidy which we hope counts for alot.
What are the? or is there? things a single lady expects from a couple when agreeing to meet up?
Are single ladies looking for a straight to the point experience or do they expect more from the couples they meet?
We are happy to accommodate your needs in this search for the holy grail  |
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By *ouble CCouple
over a year ago
Gran Canaria |
When I was single and had couple meets at their place, I just wanted a big bed and if there was a place to sit and chat beforehand that was a bonus for me. Usually brought my own condoms and toys if need be. As I don't drive a lift there and home would have been good for me too, but not expected. Everyone joining in. Banter. Laughing. All part of the fun. Miss C. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course clean and tidy is lovely!
Personally, I've had odd experiences with couples. There's been a tendency for the lady, who is exploring her bi curiosity, to lie back and be pleasured by both her husband and the single female.
I felt as though I was performing for both parties, sometimes, which meant everyone had a great time except me!
A couple dynamic can be an awkward thing to enter. So I think the most important thing is being relaxed, welcoming and all parties getting fully involved.
I,m well aware that this is purely my take on this, and isn't indicative of everyone else's experiences.
Xxxx
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By *e27she36 OP Couple
over a year ago
Brighton |
Thank you all for the replies
Things like condoms and lube and things go without say for us, its always important to be as safe as possible 
Lifts to and from would not be an issue and we can just about manage space to sit and chat. Unfortunately we dont have a dinner table or proper sofa, we was worried as cooking dinner for all is quite an easy ice breaker not available to us.
We completely understand about things being equal too. We wouldnt want the 'lucky lady' to feel like a tool or being used. For us its all about an equally fulfilling experience |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of course clean and tidy is lovely!
Personally, I've had odd experiences with couples. There's been a tendency for the lady, who is exploring her bi curiosity, to lie back and be pleasured by both her husband and the single female.
I felt as though I was performing for both parties, sometimes, which meant everyone had a great time except me!
A couple dynamic can be an awkward thing to enter. So I think the most important thing is being relaxed, welcoming and all parties getting fully involved.
I,m well aware that this is purely my take on this, and isn't indicative of everyone else's experiences.
Xxxx
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This exactly
Good luck with your search xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you all for the replies
Things like condoms and lube and things go without say for us, its always important to be as safe as possible
Lifts to and from would not be an issue and we can just about manage space to sit and chat. Unfortunately we dont have a dinner table or proper sofa, we was worried as cooking dinner for all is quite an easy ice breaker not available to us.
We completely understand about things being equal too. We wouldnt want the 'lucky lady' to feel like a tool or being used. For us its all about an equally fulfilling experience "
Talk to her. Women like different things. Some would want a social somewhere in public first, others would be happy to go straight to yours. Some would like a fem to fem phone chat early on, others would never speak on the phone.
You sound respectful which I think is good.
Discuss your -and her- boundaries. Soft or full swing etc. Make sure everyone is happy equally.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP you sound like if your patient you will find the right lady. I wont actually meet a couple as a single female as personally I dont like the dynamics of a 3sum when I am the extra female
we have been quite successful in meeting a few bi females.. However most we met through parties, or club meets or knew from Mr's time on here as a single guy.
However we always take a lot more time getting to know a single lady and in most ways find out first if she likes similar things to us... but for us its as much about an enhanced experience for all.. and I adore for us both to enjoy another lady.. basically we spoil the other lady sexually and its great..
take your time and talk and you will find the right person.. We cant even accommodate and only meet in clubs or hotels.. and we do fine. so good luck. |
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By *e27she36 OP Couple
over a year ago
Brighton |
Thank you everyone for the advise, we will definitely try to take everything on board.
It feels like we are not doing anything particularly wrong its just a case of searching for the right woman for us (and us being right for her of course)
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