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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wondering if I could get some advice. We went to a club and had a play with a couple (didn't swap fab names). The lady of the couple was squirting quite a lot over hubby's uncovered cock and in his mouth which he lapped up. They then fucked (protected) as did I with the other couples hubby (protected) and we enjoyed the night. However, I started getting worried about STDs from squirting and wasn't sure if hubby and I should have unprotected sex until he has his STD check in a couple of months?
Will probably go to the clinic and ask but would appreciate peoples thoughts in the meantime. |
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"Wondering if I could get some advice. We went to a club and had a play with a couple (didn't swap fab names). The lady of the couple was squirting quite a lot over hubby's uncovered cock and in his mouth which he lapped up. They then fucked (protected) as did I with the other couples hubby (protected) and we enjoyed the night. However, I started getting worried about STDs from squirting and wasn't sure if hubby and I should have unprotected sex until he has his STD check in a couple of months?
Will probably go to the clinic and ask but would appreciate peoples thoughts in the meantime."
he can catch thrush that will show up with a sore throat within 48 hours |
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Each can be passed on differently. But the way I understand it, for those that can be passed on through contact with bodily fluid alone, unless it is blood on an open wound it would have to be a lot of said fluid. But I'm not an expert by any means. Worth asking the question when you get tested |
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Mr has had lots of women squirt on him sometimes multiple ladies in a night and we haven't had an issue.
I'd have to question if it's the right choice for you if your going to worry if some bodily fluids are exchanged.
Also during was their much finger play as you can catch things from guys Playing with multiple ladies.
I really wouldn't worry to much though.
You could use dental dams or make sure a lady isn't a squirter if your worried.. but remember that if a guy plays with one lady and then another its a Risk to pass something over.
I was told by the clinics that its much more difficult for transmission for female to Male in most stds.
We all Occasionally worry even we still have flappy moments.. ( last one was when a guy didn't tell us the condom had come off and we found it later on.. but it was more that he pretended to take it off and put it in the Bin rather than tell us )
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you're that worried, I wouldn't wait a couple of months til the next test is due, go sooner for your own peace of mind.
I've played with many a squirter and been ok, but it's a risk I take. I just get tested more regularly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mr has had lots of women squirt on him sometimes multiple ladies in a night and we haven't had an issue.
I'd have to question if it's the right choice for you if your going to worry if some bodily fluids are exchanged.
Also during was their much finger play as you can catch things from guys Playing with multiple ladies.
I really wouldn't worry to much though.
You could use dental dams or make sure a lady isn't a squirter if your worried.. but remember that if a guy plays with one lady and then another its a Risk to pass something over.
I was told by the clinics that its much more difficult for transmission for female to Male in most stds.
We all Occasionally worry even we still have flappy moments.. ( last one was when a guy didn't tell us the condom had come off and we found it later on.. but it was more that he pretended to take it off and put it in the Bin rather than tell us )
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Good points. On the condom point. Remember, if you agree to sex on the grounds the guy will use a condom then if he removes it and still fucks you, then that is rape. If it happens with witnesses present tell him you will be going to the police. It may help stop these bastards who slip the condom off. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Appreciate all the replies - very helpful. For the STD checks, we understood we need to wait for an incubation period to pass which could be 1 to 3 months before we should get tested. Does that mean hubby and I should hold off unprotected sex with each other until then? |
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"Appreciate all the replies - very helpful. For the STD checks, we understood we need to wait for an incubation period to pass which could be 1 to 3 months before we should get tested. Does that mean hubby and I should hold off unprotected sex with each other until then?"
Up to you. If it was us this had happened to we would nip down to the clinic anyway. They really are best placed to tell you and give you an unbiased opinion. Well meaning advice from someone such as me whose job is very far removed from the medical profession isn't terribly reliable and potentially dangerous, you will presumably be having "protected" sex with others if you're concerned about this incident enough to consider protection between yourselves is it fair to expose other people to a similar risk from you? |
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"Appreciate all the replies - very helpful. For the STD checks, we understood we need to wait for an incubation period to pass which could be 1 to 3 months before we should get tested. Does that mean hubby and I should hold off unprotected sex with each other until then?"
If you're at all concerned then yes you should. Otherwise you're just going to be worrying about it. |
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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago
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As others have said, it's highly unlikely he's caught anything (a lot of viruses don't live for long outside of the body), but to ease your mind, go to a clinic. and use protection of it eases your mind. Although they'll probably suggest you get tested anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Sorry it's been bugging me since last night... But how did the lady squirt all over your husbands cock if he was protected.
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She squirted on his cock and mouth during foreplay then he slipped on a condom after for sex. Was quite memorable for all of us! |
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