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Bi Curious off putting to single females

By *juk69 OP Man over a year ago

Glossop

Hello I've seen a few posts about this in the past and they have been hijacked by spammers etc

On my profile I have myself down as Bi-Curious because I have never given or received anal with a guy. I have only so far tried oral and mutual masturbation.

Before I had Bi-Curious on my profile a lot of Bi Couples/TVs etc wouldn't talk to me because I didn't have Bi/BiCurious etc Now I have Bi-Curious its putting off straight females. I feel like I can't win.

Has anyone else experienced this?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why don't you just be honest regarding the real you then that way, people who contact you are attracted by the real you and not someone you're pretending to be?

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By *allipygousMan over a year ago

Leicester

"Hello I've seen a few posts about this in the past and they have been hijacked by spammers etc

On my profile I have myself down as Bi-Curious because I have never given or received anal with a guy. I have only so far tried oral and mutual masturbation.

Has anyone else experienced this?"

Have two profiles. Many couples have singles profiles, you can have a bi-curious and an arrow-straight one.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

all the bi curious as they put , that message me, want sex straight away on a meet. so i will doubt am the first cock they have had and not the last

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"Why don't you just be honest regarding the real you then that way, people who contact you are attracted by the real you and not someone you're pretending to be?"

Erm, I think that is exactly what he is doing; being honest

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hello I've seen a few posts about this in the past and they have been hijacked by spammers etc

On my profile I have myself down as Bi-Curious because I have never given or received anal with a guy. I have only so far tried oral and mutual masturbation.

Has anyone else experienced this?

Have two profiles. Many couples have singles profiles, you can have a bi-curious and an arrow-straight one."

Dont do that. You will be caught out eventually. Be yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why don't you just be honest regarding the real you then that way, people who contact you are attracted by the real you and not someone you're pretending to be?

Erm, I think that is exactly what he is doing; being honest"

I can see that now! My brain is frazzled after a long week!

OP - surely you would rather people contacted you after reading a profile that accurately reflected who you are rather than a profile which misleads?

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By *allipygousMan over a year ago

Leicester

"Hello I've seen a few posts about this in the past and they have been hijacked by spammers etc

On my profile I have myself down as Bi-Curious because I have never given or received anal with a guy. I have only so far tried oral and mutual masturbation.

Has anyone else experienced this?

Have two profiles. Many couples have singles profiles, you can have a bi-curious and an arrow-straight one.

Dont do that. You will be caught out eventually. Be yourself.

Do it!

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By *juk69 OP Man over a year ago

Glossop

As my sexuality has evolved I have tried to be completely honest, hence why I changed my profile to Bi-Curious after I had experimented with Oral and found that I really enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As my sexuality has evolved I have tried to be completely honest, hence why I changed my profile to Bi-Curious after I had experimented with Oral and found that I really enjoy it."
op[ if you have experimented then thats not bi curious

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By *juk69 OP Man over a year ago

Glossop

"As my sexuality has evolved I have tried to be completely honest, hence why I changed my profile to Bi-Curious after I had experimented with Oral and found that I really enjoy it. op[ if you have experimented then thats not bi curious "

I've not been further than oral though and their is no option for Orally Bi.

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By *dam_TinaCouple over a year ago

Hampshire

I've not been further than oral though and their is no option for Orally Bi."

For good reason. If you have sucked cock, enjoyed sucking cock, and continue to suck cock you are bisexual, not bi-curious.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Honesty definitely works for me

More then enough bi couples and singles on here who will appreciate the honesty!

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By *alandNitaCouple over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I've not been further than oral though and their is no option for Orally Bi.

For good reason. If you have sucked cock, enjoyed sucking cock, and continue to suck cock you are bisexual, not bi-curious.

I think some prefer bi-curious if they have only done oral as they feel it reflects how they feel better than bi sexual.

I think it is always best for a persons profile to accurately reflect how they feel rather than what others think it should be. As long as the profile clarifies things.

As the OP states orally bi isn't an option... though there seem to be many on here that would suit, so maybe it should be.

Nita

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Op,be honest,you are bisexual,and if some single women aren't interested in bisexual or bicurious men,then thats them being honest as well.it isn't all about you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've not been further than oral though and their is no option for Orally Bi.

For good reason. If you have sucked cock, enjoyed sucking cock, and continue to suck cock you are bisexual, not bi-curious.

I think some prefer bi-curious if they have only done oral as they feel it reflects how they feel better than bi sexual.

I think it is always best for a persons profile to accurately reflect how they feel rather than what others think it should be. As long as the profile clarifies things.

As the OP states orally bi isn't an option... though there seem to be many on here that would suit, so maybe it should be.

Nita"

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By *arry247Couple over a year ago

Wakefield

We know this is not going to be popular but the fact is there is more risk of catching a STI form bi-man than there is from a gay or straight man.

That is one reason why some couples and single women do not play with bi-men.

One reason is that anal sex is the riskiest form of sex when it comes to catching STIs

A secondary reason is that biphobia still keeping bisexual men from getting tested and therefore they run the risk of spreading STIs as they may not know if they have one or not.

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By *awandOrderCouple over a year ago

SW London

Myself and my bi partner get tested regularly - we don't see any biphobia at any of the clinics we have been to in recent years, far from it. I think it depends on the bi man or men in question, and the hairs they practise, surely. From what I hear, more risk of catching something from the forty somethings who think they are immune, whereas the younger generation are more clued up on these things.

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By *arry247Couple over a year ago

Wakefield

"Myself and my bi partner get tested regularly - we don't see any biphobia at any of the clinics we have been to in recent years, far from it. I think it depends on the bi man or men in question, and the hairs they practise, surely. From what I hear, more risk of catching something from the forty somethings who think they are immune, whereas the younger generation are more clued up on these things. "

Of course you don't that is the exact point the bi men who have a fear of biphobia are too scared to go and get tested. Those who do get tested do not have a fear of biphobia.

We obviously did not explain well enough

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By *juk69 OP Man over a year ago

Glossop

BiPhobia wouldn't stop me getting tested but again I think Sexuality isn't always as black and white as some people see it.

And some of you maybe right some people think that going with a Bi male may be hazardous to their sexual health.

I think I might need to spend a little more time in my profile writing about myself. If people arn't interested because of my sexuality and then I shouldn't worry about it. I guess I was taking it to heart.

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