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By *layalong OP Couple
over a year ago
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Maybe Im a tad self conscious This evening. I think because it will be our first time having some fun in the clubs and bars I just don't know what to expect. I don't wanna be the only one who can't pull if you get me? |
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"We had offers I'm just shy, I don't want to be the fat donkey some poor bloke has to fuck  "
if you honestly feel that way about yourself don't do this it will be bad for your self esteem and insulting to any potential meet. Many men on here genuinely want to meet larger women and I suspect you will soon find that out  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know the feeling. I have gained a lot of weight this year due to ill health and I don't feel as confident or sexy as usual.
You don't look big in your pics anyway.
Stick around the forums and you will soon see that plenty of people like the curvier look. There is something for everyone on here.
I doubt you will struggle to get meets.
The main thing is to enjoy yourself. Xx |
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"Maybe Im a tad self conscious This evening. I think because it will be our first time having some fun in the clubs and bars I just don't know what to expect. I don't wanna be the only one who can't pull if you get me?"
what does your partner say? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe Im a tad self conscious This evening. I think because it will be our first time having some fun in the clubs and bars I just don't know what to expect. I don't wanna be the only one who can't pull if you get me?"
Believe me if your female, in a club and want a shag you will get one |
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By *layalong OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Maybe Im a tad self conscious This evening. I think because it will be our first time having some fun in the clubs and bars I just don't know what to expect. I don't wanna be the only one who can't pull if you get me?
what does your partner say? "
He loves my ass and tits |
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"We had offers I'm just shy, I don't want to be the fat donkey some poor bloke has to fuck
Why would anybody have to fuck you? 
Nobody has to fuck me, I just don't want to be left out"
honestly it isn't like being last to be picked for a netball team  . If you go with this attitude I think you might end up doing something just so you aren't "left out" but it is actually ok to not have sex |
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"Maybe Im a tad self conscious This evening. I think because it will be our first time having some fun in the clubs and bars I just don't know what to expect. I don't wanna be the only one who can't pull if you get me?
what does your partner say?
He loves my ass and tits "
so why wouldn't other men? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We had offers I'm just shy, I don't want to be the fat donkey some poor bloke has to fuck
Why would anybody have to fuck you?
Nobody has to fuck me, I just don't want to be left out
honestly it isn't like being last to be picked for a netball team . If you go with this attitude I think you might end up doing something just so you aren't "left out" but it is actually ok to not have sex "
If you going feeling the way you do your less likely to mix and your negative feeling will show, people will be less likely to approach you and you are more likely to not play
The thing is you will then go home saying....see told you nobody would like me cause I'm fat when in actual fact it had nothing to do with your body but your lack of self confidence
Go, hold your head high and mix see what happens |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Constant reassurance will put people off
Most likely, but I'm only asking a question. Like I say we are brand new into all this, like you once were and I was just after some helpful info x"
I was giving advice... |
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"Constant reassurance will put people off
Most likely, but I'm only asking a question. Like I say we are brand new into all this, like you once were and I was just after some helpful info x"
with respect you don't seem to be acknowledging the positive input. Maybe that's part of the problem? |
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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago
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I had serious confidence issues regarding my size before coming on here, trust me, you're not going to be left on the side like the last kid waiting and hoping to be picked for the team. Swinging is very sociable and friendly, anyone who isn't you don't need to bother with.
I've always been pleasantly surprised by the response from guys, they love curves!!  |
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"Constant reassurance will put people off
Most likely, but I'm only asking a question. Like I say we are brand new into all this, like you once were and I was just after some helpful info x"
You look amazing, really amazing x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was very thin as a teenager, and if you check my profile I don't have a beer belly, but I still notice that little bit of fat I've put on over the years.
My motto is eat healthy exercise healthy and whatever body shape you are be happy with it.
I happen to like bbw's BTW! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Confidence can be an issue for everyone from time to time. From what I can see you look great and like some very astute people have pointed out being confident with what you have and what you can offer is a very sexy mindset indeed. I wish you both the very best of luck. |
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"Confidence can be an issue for everyone from time to time. From what I can see you look great and like some very astute people have pointed out being confident with what you have and what you can offer is a very sexy mindset indeed. I wish you both the very best of luck. "
Totally agree - you look lovely ; ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oooh yes I love a fatty. You'll do
*jumps up and down waving arms*
Oh oh pick me pick me  "
But I want to pick you
The larger woman is much sought after! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"very nearly holiday time, and me and my husband are looking for some fun. My only problem is I'm not super skinny. Is this going to put people off playin with us? "
crash diet..recommend the egg/marine diet...lose a stone in a week...don't listen to others
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe Im a tad self conscious This evening. I think because it will be our first time having some fun in the clubs and bars I just don't know what to expect. I don't wanna be the only one who can't pull if you get me?"
Women always pull regardless.....just look at the men  its not rocket science |
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There are so many women on here who think they are fat when they are only maybe a little over weight. You look nice in your pics and there will be plenty of guys who will want you.
Have fun, smile and enjoy yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Men are very visual creatures and curves are good.Motorways are long straight roads. They may get you there quicker but they are boring..B roads on the other hand may mean it takes you longer to get there but hell! The journey is a lot more fun...ask any biker on a sunny bank holiday Monday...... Curves all the way for me
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We had offers I'm just shy, I don't want to be the fat donkey some poor bloke has to fuck "
to be honest what would put me off is your lack of confidence |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"very nearly holiday time, and me and my husband are looking for some fun. My only problem is I'm not super skinny. Is this going to put people off playin with us? "
No. Your lack of confidence might tho, so strut your stuff and you will be fine! |
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I'm sure the way you feel isn't seen by other people and you'll find plenty of people who think you're gorgeous. Like previous post says just be confident and that will instantly make you a thousand times more appealing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP- no one has to shag anyone they don't want to. Same applies to you! I'm sure that I speak for the majority here when I say that yes, we all have preferences, but we're all here for a shared experience with Other human beings seeking the same.
Ideally, I'd like to be shagging slim ladies in their 30s (it's an ego thing, lol) but must unequivocally state that my last 2 long term partners were larger ladies and the sex was incredible! Don't diss yourself and go get what you want. If you're ever down norfolk way, I'd be please to hear from you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi,
I think you need to loose the self doubt and just enjoy yourself.
It can be difficult to get over your image of yourself as you will be your own biggest critic and see what you perceive as your flaws, others will see your best points and appreciate you as you are.
I have to admit to I appreciate peoples looks for all different reasons, skinny or curvy, but often find myself put off by thinner people as I've personally had more fun with curvier girls
Be confident and have fun,
Neil (& Clare)
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By *ngeluk69Woman
over a year ago
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OP clubs have specific nights just for us ladies who have embraced what Mother Nature wanted us to have, and more and more clubs are doing these nights because they want everyone to feel comfortable and happy in clubs, you seriously have nothing to worry about.
GUYS LOVE CURVY GIRLS!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"very nearly holiday time, and me and my husband are looking for some fun. My only problem is I'm not super skinny. Is this going to put people off playin with us? "
Your 12th June pic. Very inviting. I would quite happily play with you. Hope that helps lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not ire of you mean you actually want to shed a few a pounds or wonder if people won't play with you if you're bigger?
All I will say say though, is that would t life be boring if we all liked the same things?
If you're looking to shed a few a pounds ( I'm always doing it by the way) then I suggest you take a look at the Military Diet, it's o my three days a week and you can lose half a stone in this three days.
I hope I haven't overstepped the mark but I know we woman are always concerned about our weight. |
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