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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm a genuine young guy with a very Dom side I would love to find a genuine submissive girl to train and go further in body and mind in this, anyone know anyone or anywhere else I could search? Any help greatly appreciated thank you |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
If your profile is your proof of a dominant side, then I wish any submissive lady luck - they may well need it.
My submission is gifted to my current lover, but not how I meet via fab anyway as its too much about trust and knowing someone well enough. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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It's very easy for everyone on this post to slag me off and not help, if anyone has any real help that would be great. I realise that a face pic would help and I have one in my friend folder. And as far as my text goes I will try to rewrite it in a more informative manner thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a genuine young guy with a very Dom side I would love to find a genuine submissive girl to train and go further in body and mind in this, anyone know anyone or anywhere else I could search? Any help greatly appreciated thank you "
They find you, not the other way round. If you have to look for a submissive , then your not really very Dom, |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Maybe I didn't explain myself properly, whereabouts am I more likely to speak to submissive women? I understand that submissive girls will find me and that trust is earned etc... Thanks for your help tho x |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
If you have a dominant side, other people helping you re-write your profile will not reflect that.
your profile is very selfish - its all about your fantasies... D/S to work is about a mutual relationship.
The use of the term "dirty whore" will alienate many females - submissive or not. My dominant lover is allowed to use terms that others would find distasteful - but he has earned that right, and we have worked out our boundaries and what works for us.
Ownership is a similar situation - trust, boundaries, mutual respect.
Are you aware of the true power dynamics of dom/sub and where it lies? Or did you watch 50 shades, and think oh that looks fun?
I've now had 3 long term male dominants in my life, and each have been so very different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's very easy for everyone on this post to slag me off and not help, if anyone has any real help that would be great. I realise that a face pic would help and I have one in my friend folder. And as far as my text goes I will try to rewrite it in a more informative manner thanks"
Put whatever you want for your text, it's your profile, don't let this site wind you up either.
You'll probably find someone but i doubt it'd be on here, maybe look for fetish sites? And not just d/s sites either, any type of fetish sites will have people enjoying other things along with their submission.
I gave up looking for a submissive on here ages ago and only do vanilla meets now. |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
"Maybe I didn't explain myself properly, whereabouts am I more likely to speak to submissive women? I understand that submissive girls will find me and that trust is earned etc... Thanks for your help tho x"
Submissive women don't wear neon signs... you likely speak to a number of submissive women daily.
Each time for me, with the 3 males, I have been attracted to the spark in their nature - its like the polar opposites of a magnet attracting, and the relationship has developed and bloomed. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Sorry I don't want anyone to help me re write anything I just asked for a place to look or any help in meeting the right type of people I understand that I have to earn trust etc. I have had a bit of a taste of being a Dom but I want some help to get in the right circles. It is hard to get my point across on my profile I am very shy and would like to talk in person and discuss it withy the person if she would like etc... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe I didn't explain myself properly, whereabouts am I more likely to speak to submissive women? I understand that submissive girls will find me and that trust is earned etc... Thanks for your help tho x"
i think the ankle bracelet upside down means submissive , look for that op |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im 52 we didnt have computers when i went to school. you are 27 so the internet has been available to you for all of your life. You could try searching it for sites , clubs and probably a lot of information because you sound pretty clueless.
This doesnt actually look like you are asking people for help. More of a see if any Females take the bait and mail you. Please explain to me why you havnt already looked for answers to your question across the WWW ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Once again thanks to people for helping and the others just being stupid, I asked for advice as obviously I am a novice so wanted help not getting into slagging match |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm a genuine young guy with a very Dom side I would love to find a genuine submissive girl to train and go further in body and mind in this, anyone know anyone or anywhere else I could search? Any help greatly appreciated thank you
They find you, not the other way round. If you have to look for a submissive , then your not really very Dom,"
That's the craziest thing I've read today.
Yes, us subs having a homing device that locate Doms.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Once again thanks to people for helping and the others just being stupid, I asked for advice as obviously I am a novice so wanted help not getting into slagging match "
Maybe have a think about what type of dominant you think you are and what kind of sub you're looking for. Read about kinks and see which take your fancy. There are plenty of subs on here. Sexual subs and BDSM subs. There are other sites too.
You can also attend a fetish night at a club or go to a munch, which is a bit of a social gathering for people to chat that are into fet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Once again thanks to people for helping and the others just being stupid, I asked for advice as obviously I am a novice so wanted help not getting into slagging match "
I'd be honest about being a novice amd wanting to learn. I'd go to munches get involved in your local fet scene, get to know people in real life |
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By *ndykinkyMan
over a year ago
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You really need to try another website but Fab doesn't like other website names.
Try the first three letters of FETish+LIFE. Look out for local clubs, Munches and events.
You should have more luck than on a Swingers website if submissive and help/advice is what you are looking for |
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You have already written your profile txt so that means it reflects who you are (You thought about it and you wrote it!)It's not a good idea to change it now so as to effectively make it 'fit' with what others think might attract a submissive woman - that would be rather false and not a good way to start any relationship. Be who you are and be honest there is no other way ultimately. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Welcome to the forums, fab and the world of swing!
May I take the opportunity to suggest adding some more content to your profile?
Inject a little humour
Change your profile picture and as mentioned previously,be patient!
Be polite
Never expect and use the forum to raise awareness and show your personality.
In the mean time you could attend socials or a club.
I hope you find this helpful and I wish you a very enjoyable Fab experience |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Once again thanks to people for helping and the others just being stupid, I asked for advice as obviously I am a novice so wanted help not getting into slagging match
Maybe have a think about what type of dominant you think you are and what kind of sub you're looking for. Read about kinks and see which take your fancy. There are plenty of subs on here. Sexual subs and BDSM subs. There are other sites too.
You can also attend a fetish night at a club or go to a munch, which is a bit of a social gathering for people to chat that are into fet. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Once again thanks to people for helping and the others just being stupid, I asked for advice as obviously I am a novice so wanted help not getting into slagging match "
you need to chill your way to sensitive
Go to clubs and watch and learn |
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