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Do you really want to meet a couple?

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

We have been on this site a few weeks, had a few nice chats and cam sessions but no meets yet. Seems as though many women on here advertise as looking for a couple but are only interested in the woman? Also had people telling us they had some very intense feelings after one chat on skype. Anybody else dealt with this? Seems like a lot of people are wasting our time when we are genuinely looking for people to enhance our sex life.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We haven't found the same problem. We have found mostly couples that are lookong to meet other couples and even a good few single ladies too x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I got my popcorn

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes, it's an instant turn off when the male half of the couple is made to feel like a spare leg. I think a lot of guys like shagging other women but are less keen on their partner doing the same.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes, it's an instant turn off when the male half of the couple is made to feel like a spare leg. I think a lot of guys like shagging other women but are less keen on their partner doing the same."

We have found the opposite. Found loads of couples where the women want Mr deviant to give his all... ( which he happily does) yet if their partner should start to get to into me.... That's it... Hump and not in the way we were expecting ..

Finding the right couple is hard but possible x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We have been on this site a few weeks, had a few nice chats and cam sessions but no meets yet. Seems as though many women on here advertise as looking for a couple but are only interested in the woman? Also had people telling us they had some very intense feelings after one chat on skype. Anybody else dealt with this?

Seems like a lot of people are wasting our time when we are genuinely looking for people to enhance our sex life."

It's the same with us, either chat until a meet then disappear or just want you to send pics without them offering there's and if you ask them the same they disappear. Becoming really disappointed with people on here lately.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Meeting as couple with couple , should be shared equally as coupke both male and female on both sides should all have fun not one or other

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By *abloversCouple over a year ago

London

I'm never quite sure why a woman would want to feel like the spare part to a couple. You said yourself 'to enhance your sex lives'. What about hers?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I think you may have misunderstood slightly, we want to explore new experiences together and with other people. Apologies if the original post came across as selfish.

Our point was lots of ladies say they are interested in couples but when you delve deeper they are only interested in the woman. This was not a complaining post, just trying to see if any other couples had found the same. We understand we havent been on here long, waiting for the right person/people to have fun with. Would you recommend clubs and meets?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

lets just say that when you see couples only seeking couples..and a strong emphasis on bi-female play,you would probably find this..

now if a couple have a few single male verifies, or within the verifies theres some hint that the male half has been shown to be a player in the sex shenannigans..

I'd say these are possibly the people with an equal interest in both parties(ie the wife likes cock and pussy is a good giveaway)

There are couples where in my belief is that if the male half were single guys, some wouldnt do so well in the real world of fab single guys

I've been on either end of the spectrum as a couple...where I've felt excluded by the other party, or my partner didnt like the thought of me with another woman but was happy to have sex with other guys..

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By *roffGentlemanMan over a year ago

Bolton

"Yes, it's an instant turn off when the male half of the couple is made to feel like a spare leg. I think a lot of guys like shagging other women but are less keen on their partner doing the same."

This.

Though the shriek user name is warranted

Mr shrek x

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By *LCCCouple over a year ago

Cambridge

We we once approached by the male half of the couple that wanted to come round to play. His plan was he was going to play with my wife, me and his wife were going to sit and watch them, but not play together.

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By *adybee77Woman over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I like meeting couples, but like to play with both equally (well not clock watching to ensure its to the very second, but you get the idea)

I don't meet couples who talk about me enhancing their sex life... I'm not a toy. Its a 3 way deal for me.

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By *ohnkezCouple over a year ago

shefiield

I would play with both of you, but you are a bit to far away. Kez

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

lol seems the hubby wont have as much fun as the woman in the couple.

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By *uzy444Woman over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

hi cute couple, just a suggestion...on your profile you say

"loves to help Mrs fulfill her fantasies"

by your posting here, you really do explain what you want..a 3 way dynamic..which is what myself as a bi single ladies wants.

however, the wording of this part of your profile , it may come across that you are only looking for ff play..so try to make this clearer..i would have 'got it' if you'd have put

'everyone's fantasies' or 'i want to join in, sharing for equal experiences, where everyone is happy '

something like that

instead of just 'her'fantasies...

i think youll get people asking more about equal playing, if you change it xx

just another thing to bear in mind, i as a single female am very respectful of a couples boundaries...so if reading your profile i would have to ask you many questions in order to find out if indeed you did play, what was 'allowed' and what wasnt, you being new as well, i am even more cautious....and some might not want to spend the time in long dialogues finding out...i do, but if you can make, what you like clearer too, it might help those who don't ...

good luck and trust this helps you find wonderful times x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's the disparity that gets me; it's why I don't respond to couples that have blocked single guys; I'm not into lop-sided fun and I'm not getting involved with any couple that has hang-ups or paranoia about sex FFS!

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