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Why don't I get reply

By *damashton OP Man over a year ago

ashton

Am am new to this and want to try new things and think ma profile is putting them of what can a put yo make more replies

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Try actually writing a profile for starters.

Also if your messages are getting no replies, maybe they're as poor as the profile.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You need to make your profile text a lot more and to tell about you and what you like. And also as a single guy we are amongst millions others so most of us all you need patience lol.

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By *damashton OP Man over a year ago

ashton

Thanks a will didn't no what to put

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Try 'I will'

'A' is not 'I'

That may make things easier for folks to read.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thanks a will didn't no what to put "

Have a look at some of the single guys that use the forums to get some ideas

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You have no profile

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By *damashton OP Man over a year ago

ashton

Ok thanks all changing it x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You would really meet someone 74 years older that yourself?

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By *damashton OP Man over a year ago

ashton

Changing it all now x

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By *reddy FazbearMan over a year ago

Crewe

"Am am new to this and want to try new things and think ma profile is putting them of what can a put yo make more replies "

People only reply if you get their attention and they are interested. Its much the same as leaflets through the door surely you don't expect everyone to reply just because you messaged them without them stating interest in you previously/

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You would really meet someone 74 years older that yourself? "

What's wrong with that? You benefit from all that experience

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Changing it all now x"

Is that the new profile then ? The old one must have been crap ! More replies doesn't necessarily equate to meets but its a good start.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Try 'I will'

'A' is not 'I'

That may make things easier for folks to read."
if you want to attract nice people dont use text speak

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is that even text speak?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is that even text speak?

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dont know what it is to be honest .. not helping the op in his quest for a meet though whatever it is

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oh well, there's clearly no helping some. Good luck OP, you'll need it.

I'm out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thanks a will didn't no what to put

Have a look at some of the single guys that use the forums to get some ideas"

Feel free to check mine......it seems to work!

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

"Am am new to this and want to try new things and think ma profile is putting them of what can a put yo make more replies "

I look at the profile before the message: I'd delete yours unopened as you're profile text is lacking. If you can't string a few words together to sell you, what of interest will your message say?

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By *osieWoman over a year ago

Wembley

"Am am new to this and want to try new things and think ma profile is putting them of what can a put yo make more replies "

Your profile text is far too long to read; shorten it, to:

"wanna f**k"

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

"Try 'I will'

'A' is not 'I'

That may make things easier for folks to read.if you want to attract nice people dont use text speak"

Take no notice

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By *harpDressed ManMan over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Changing it all now x

Is that the new profile then ? The old one must have been crap ! More replies doesn't necessarily equate to meets but its a good start."

No, it hasn't changed a day later. The horse has been led to water, but is still thirsty

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Changing it all now x

Is that the new profile then ? The old one must have been crap ! More replies doesn't necessarily equate to meets but its a good start.

No, it hasn't changed a day later. The horse has been led to water, but is still thirsty "

Usual scenario to be expected?

Complain about lack of success...ask for advice.

Fail to act on advice....continue to fail.

Ask for advice again.

Fail to act again.

UNLOS.

Thinking of opening a book on how long the process will take?

OP.....you have been given advice. If you don't act on it and make some changes then nothing will change.

This is a great site....even for single guys...but you need to make an effort as in all things in life.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Am am new to this and want to try new things and think ma profile is putting them of what can a put yo make more replies "

Your profile looks rushed, hurried, and selfish.

That tells people sex with you will be rushed, hurried, and selfish.

Don't expect your door knocked down with offers.

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By *qua vitaeWoman over a year ago

Shropshire/Midlands

Agreed with the above. A profile with just two lines and several face and a cock pic isn't enough to spark anyone's interest. If this is the new and improved profile, I dread to think what the previous one was...

Write more about yourself, such as what you like doing, what you expect from meet, your approach arranging a meets and how you can make a lady feel good without being too crude.

Before writing messages, read the profile, make sure your preferences correspond to theirs, don't write in text speak and don't send a cock pic unless asked to do so!

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By *dam_TinaCouple over a year ago

Hampshire

Try using the word 'things' a few more times

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Suck it up buttercup

one of those things being a single bloke on here..not right but you get used to it..

try to be polite and put alot of thought into your message make it stand out from the rest... if you put the work in it shows n youll get results

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

try not to ask for help you will get slated as most in the forums are experts at everything and no matter what you do it will be wrong lol

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By *othingButCocoChanelWoman over a year ago

Glasgow

"try not to ask for help you will get slated as most in the forums are experts at everything and no matter what you do it will be wrong lol

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Am am new to this and want to try new things and think ma profile is putting them of what can a put yo make more replies

pretty damn spot on. :P

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Started to reply and couldn't be bothered to finish. Profile needs rewriting first and foremost.

I do wonder what half of the profiles on here expect, I get the feeling people expect to just stick a few lines on their profile and hey presto, insta shag!

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