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Don't seem to have much luck
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I don't seem to have much look on here it's a shame coz I am honest an clean an a reliable meet but I've been on here a while now an never had the chance. My be its coz I'm a single male I feel I've got a good profile with lots of good pic an I still not get any meets where am I going wrong could you please check me out an give me some advice please thankyou xxx |
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"I don't seem to have much look on here it's a shame coz I am honest an clean an a reliable meet but I've been on here a while now an never had the chance. My be its coz I'm a single male I feel I've got a good profile with lots of good pic an I still not get any meets where am I going wrong could you please check me out an give me some advice please thankyou xxx"
I would suggest that you read the advice on the oodles of similar threads, lose all the cock picks and check your spelling and grammar. If you're not good at the language side of things, ask a trusted person to check if for you.
Nita x |
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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago
London / Herts |
The way I see it, single males need at least one USP (unique selling point) to attract attention. For some guys, it's an abnormally large cock. Others may be in good shape, or really handsome. If you're charismatic, generous (sexually), open minded, intelligent, and/or well educated, that helps.
Then it's a matter of carefully crafting your profile so as to highlight what makes you desirable, and of course, what you're looking for. Contrary to what it says on your profile, you shouldn't be on here to be 'used' (unless you're a real sub
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
Profile is bland at best, really not a good one at all. It says nothing - and tells me even less.
A lot of cock pictures... really if we have seen it once, thats enough. Unless you are appealing for gay men - they seem to enjoy looking at them!
And has a D on the end of it, and a spell check would not go amiss... |
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Your pics aren't great at all the ones that aren't of your cock are out of focus so of poor quality
The profile text is very generic basically says your a nice guy and you want fun and that's about all it says |
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"Profile is bland at best, really not a good one at all. It says nothing - and tells me even less.
A lot of cock pictures... really if we have seen it once, thats enough. Unless you are appealing for gay men - they seem to enjoy looking at them!
And has a D on the end of it, and a spell check would not go amiss... "
All of this, plus the fact you can't accom and don't say why suggests you might be attached, you have been on over a year with no veri's, and you are straight but only have men on friends list and looking to meet TV/TS's, all these things will put many people off.
Good luck though and keep trying, hope the advice you get helps x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile text seems ok to me. It's clear about what you want from someone.
But yeah your pics are off putting. You started off good, your oldest 2 public pics are good, then it turned into a cock fest on your page.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My feedback would be:
- can't accommodate so many people on here will think you are cheating
- also the inability to accommodate generally limits your attraction to others
- Not my personal issue, but few spelling errors
- your profile suggest you are up for anything which I think to some comes across desperate
- not enough body shots
- the tape measure photo isn't great. Without wishing to be harsh you are not starting at the base of your penis |
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"Profile is bland at best, really not a good one at all. It says nothing - and tells me even less.
A lot of cock pictures... really if we have seen it once, thats enough. Unless you are appealing for gay men - they seem to enjoy looking at them!
And has a D on the end of it, and a spell check would not go amiss...
All of this, plus the fact you can't accom and don't say why suggests you might be attached, you have been on over a year with no veri's, and you are straight but only have men on friends list and looking to meet TV/TS's, all these things will put many people off.
Good luck though and keep trying, hope the advice you get helps x"
All very true and you list a number of things you'd like to do and places where you'd like to do it, but don't give any clear reason why anyone would want to do it with you,...especially not in a car.
The profile needs a major overhaul, and the fact you've been on here for a year with no apparent meets will work against you too... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do all men measure their cocks with the start of the tape measure under their balls? Your profile is just like every other cock pic profile on here. Use spellcheck with your text and have a look at your stats ie. your body type.
I wonder if any changes will be made. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah less cocks is good, one is fine imo. I don't think you need to put much on your profile text if you're messages are good and can get someones interest so they chat to you. |
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"Has his profile changed since the start of this thread, as to me it looks terrible. One sentence is an instant delete from me"
Yes but that one sentence was a slight improvement on the last one I saw |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has his profile changed since the start of this thread, as to me it looks terrible. One sentence is an instant delete from me
Yes but that one sentence was a slight improvement on the last one I saw "
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Profiles are a 'Through-The-Looking-Glass' affair.
The more someone goes on about something, the less genuine I feel it is. Just as people with shiny, happy avatars turn out to the miserable ones...
Bottom line; it's a bunch of pixels designed to promote interest. |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
Wembley |
"Profiles are a 'Through-The-Looking-Glass' affair.
The more someone goes on about something, the less genuine I feel it is. Just as people with shiny, happy avatars turn out to the miserable ones...
Bottom line; it's a bunch of pixels designed to promote interest. "
Gosh, you are depressing |
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