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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just a Tip for you single guys and wannabee hubbies out there who seem to think that we genuine swingers are a bit stupid and love our time wasting.
1) Photo verification takes just 2 mins and when youve joined several wks ago or longer and havnt bothered to photo verify..it sais a lot really!!
2) Getting verified by others is easy too. All you have to do is meet others and we will be kind enough to verify you. But again joining a year ago with no meets...sais it all!!
3) Having no pics what so ever in your profile...We might aswell look at the wall.
4) If your only pictures are of your wife and non of hubby or as a single guy, they are just of your cock. Cock look generally the same and as a cpl there are two of you that want to play so pictures of both are a help.
5) How many genuine profiles do you read that state "Pics of both, Full face pics, Not just cock pics" But do you listen in your mails? No..How hard is it?
6) When you mail. at least give some details about your self and not just hi how are you,etc Again..its not hard.
7) read a profile fully. It may be long, it may be short. But it will tell you most what you need to know or that key word that you may need to show you have.
No winks, mean NO WINKS! As does No friend requests before mails.
8) Get the above right and you may just have some meets rather than a wank!!!
ps: As for us its just a simple "BLOCK" takes seconds and your gone!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank goodness that's finally been cleared up!  "
Indeed!
We all know the time wasters etc will not do the above,and will waste someone's time.Us genuine folk are alright tho...  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Thank goodness that's finally been cleared up!
Indeed!
We all know the time wasters etc will not do the above,and will waste someone's time.Us genuine folk are alright tho... "
Genuine are fine. But so many people get it wrong and just dont realise that we know what to look for.
But from our eyes. If they cant be bothered to respect what we put in our profile, then they arn't going to respect our wishes at a meet. so they dont stand a chance. |
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Genuine swingers, what does that mean?
Im not photo verified.
I dont publish my meets
i wink at profiles because i find them attractive, amusing, interesting, it doesnt mean i want to play with them.
i feel your frustration at fake profiles and chancers who contact anyone with a pulse, but being on here a while makes it easy to spot them and one click blocks them.
dont let the few idiots spoil your fun and bring frustration. X
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thank goodness that's finally been cleared up!
Indeed!
We all know the time wasters etc will not do the above,and will waste someone's time.Us genuine folk are alright tho...
Genuine are fine. But so many people get it wrong and just dont realise that we know what to look for.
But from our eyes. If they cant be bothered to respect what we put in our profile, then they arn't going to respect our wishes at a meet. so they dont stand a chance."
There will always be chancers!
Us "genuine" swingers usually know what to look for,but occasionally we'll probably get caught out... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thank goodness that's finally been cleared up!
Indeed!
We all know the time wasters etc will not do the above,and will waste someone's time.Us genuine folk are alright tho...
Genuine are fine. But so many people get it wrong and just dont realise that we know what to look for.
But from our eyes. If they cant be bothered to respect what we put in our profile, then they arn't going to respect our wishes at a meet. so they dont stand a chance.
There will always be chancers!
Us "genuine" swingers usually know what to look for,but occasionally we'll probably get caught out..."
But as one of the points above states. "Get verified by others" (published or not) which you are. Makes a diffrence.
It dosnt spoil our fun in any way what so ever. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just a Tip for you single guys and wannabee hubbies out there who seem to think that we genuine swingers are a bit stupid and love our time wasting.
1) Photo verification takes just 2 mins and when youve joined several wks ago or longer and havnt bothered to photo verify..it sais a lot really!!
2) Getting verified by others is easy too. All you have to do is meet others and we will be kind enough to verify you. But again joining a year ago with no meets...sais it all!!
3) Having no pics what so ever in your profile...We might aswell look at the wall.
4) If your only pictures are of your wife and non of hubby or as a single guy, they are just of your cock. Cock look generally the same and as a cpl there are two of you that want to play so pictures of both are a help.
5) How many genuine profiles do you read that state "Pics of both, Full face pics, Not just cock pics" But do you listen in your mails? No..How hard is it?
6) When you mail. at least give some details about your self and not just hi how are you,etc Again..its not hard.
7) read a profile fully. It may be long, it may be short. But it will tell you most what you need to know or that key word that you may need to show you have.
No winks, mean NO WINKS! As does No friend requests before mails.
8) Get the above right and you may just have some meets rather than a wank!!!
ps: As for us its just a simple "BLOCK" takes seconds and your gone!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thank goodness that's finally been cleared up!
Indeed!
We all know the time wasters etc will not do the above,and will waste someone's time.Us genuine folk are alright tho...
Genuine are fine. But so many people get it wrong and just dont realise that we know what to look for.
But from our eyes. If they cant be bothered to respect what we put in our profile, then they arn't going to respect our wishes at a meet. so they dont stand a chance.
There will always be chancers!
Us "genuine" swingers usually know what to look for,but occasionally we'll probably get caught out...
But as one of the points above states. "Get verified by others" (published or not) which you are. Makes a diffrence.
It dosnt spoil our fun in any way what so ever."
I agree being photo verified and being verified by others makes a difference.
I don't see why the poster,lady?,wouldn't at least get photo verified?? It costs nothing and only admin ever see it!
On a personal level I would think twice about contacting someone who isn't at least photo verified!That's just a personal preference tho... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Can i just point out.
We are not seeking advice. we are offering it to wannabees  As for our filters they are set. block is used often. and we have no problems with meets. it just makes us laugh how stupid some people are THAT DONT READ PROPERLY!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thank goodness that's finally been cleared up!
Indeed!
We all know the time wasters etc will not do the above,and will waste someone's time.Us genuine folk are alright tho...
Genuine are fine. But so many people get it wrong and just dont realise that we know what to look for.
But from our eyes. If they cant be bothered to respect what we put in our profile, then they arn't going to respect our wishes at a meet. so they dont stand a chance.
There will always be chancers!
Us "genuine" swingers usually know what to look for,but occasionally we'll probably get caught out...
But as one of the points above states. "Get verified by others" (published or not) which you are. Makes a diffrence.
It dosnt spoil our fun in any way what so ever.
I agree being photo verified and being verified by others makes a difference.
I don't see why the poster,lady?,wouldn't at least get photo verified?? It costs nothing and only admin ever see it!
On a personal level I would think twice about contacting someone who isn't at least photo verified!That's just a personal preference tho... "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Even as a single guy I'm sketchy about profile's without pictures, verifications etc, sometimes I'll entertain a chat if I've not received any other mail, but meeting someone who isn't verified is not territory I'm stupid enough to get into |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Genuine swingers, what does that mean?
Im not photo verified.
I dont publish my meets
i wink at profiles because i find them attractive, amusing, interesting, it doesnt mean i want to play with them.
i feel your frustration at fake profiles and chancers who contact anyone with a pulse, but being on here a while makes it easy to spot them and one click blocks them.
dont let the few idiots spoil your fun and bring frustration. X "
Winking is fine...If its invited. We do. But some dont. And winking attracts their attention and if youve no intention of meeting or playing? why waste their time?? If you winked us we would write and you would have wasted ours!
Photo Verification? takes 2 mins
Verified by others..you are
Published is irrelivent. Been verified by others shows you are who you are.
Genuine swingers? Not time wasters..Obvious really!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just a Tip for you single guys and wannabee hubbies out there who seem to think that we genuine swingers are a bit stupid and love our time wasting.
1) Photo verification takes just 2 mins and when youve joined several wks ago or longer and havnt bothered to photo verify..it sais a lot really!!
2) Getting verified by others is easy too. All you have to do is meet others and we will be kind enough to verify you. But again joining a year ago with no meets...sais it all!!
3) Having no pics what so ever in your profile...We might aswell look at the wall.
4) If your only pictures are of your wife and non of hubby or as a single guy, they are just of your cock. Cock look generally the same and as a cpl there are two of you that want to play so pictures of both are a help.
5) How many genuine profiles do you read that state "Pics of both, Full face pics, Not just cock pics" But do you listen in your mails? No..How hard is it?
6) When you mail. at least give some details about your self and not just hi how are you,etc Again..its not hard.
7) read a profile fully. It may be long, it may be short. But it will tell you most what you need to know or that key word that you may need to show you have.
No winks, mean NO WINKS! As does No friend requests before mails.
8) Get the above right and you may just have some meets rather than a wank!!!
ps: As for us its just a simple "BLOCK" takes seconds and your gone!
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Do you ever message people first? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Even as a single guy I'm sketchy about profile's without pictures, verifications etc, sometimes I'll entertain a chat if I've not received any other mail, but meeting someone who isn't verified is not territory I'm stupid enough to get into"
I got suckered like that when I was first on the site-cue a frustrating late night in the middle of nowhere.Lesson learnt tho! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just a Tip for you single guys and wannabee hubbies out there who seem to think that we genuine swingers are a bit stupid and love our time wasting.
1) Photo verification takes just 2 mins and when youve joined several wks ago or longer and havnt bothered to photo verify..it sais a lot really!!
2) Getting verified by others is easy too. All you have to do is meet others and we will be kind enough to verify you. But again joining a year ago with no meets...sais it all!!
3) Having no pics what so ever in your profile...We might aswell look at the wall.
4) If your only pictures are of your wife and non of hubby or as a single guy, they are just of your cock. Cock look generally the same and as a cpl there are two of you that want to play so pictures of both are a help.
5) How many genuine profiles do you read that state "Pics of both, Full face pics, Not just cock pics" But do you listen in your mails? No..How hard is it?
6) When you mail. at least give some details about your self and not just hi how are you,etc Again..its not hard.
7) read a profile fully. It may be long, it may be short. But it will tell you most what you need to know or that key word that you may need to show you have.
No winks, mean NO WINKS! As does No friend requests before mails.
8) Get the above right and you may just have some meets rather than a wank!!!
ps: As for us its just a simple "BLOCK" takes seconds and your gone!
Do you ever message people first?"
Yes we do and there is no issue with that. We also say more than "Hi" we dont include pics cos ours are there to see. But if they wernt they would see both of us and before i message i read fully the profile and make sure we are at least compatible beforehand.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All good points, but you gotta take the rough with the smooth OP, maybe being barebackers attracts more of the fakes, chancers, wannabes and idiots, that's no way an inditement on you're choice and we are making no comment on that, just pointing that out x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just a Tip for you single guys and wannabee hubbies out there who seem to think that we genuine swingers are a bit stupid and love our time wasting.
1) Photo verification takes just 2 mins and when youve joined several wks ago or longer and havnt bothered to photo verify..it sais a lot really!!
2) Getting verified by others is easy too. All you have to do is meet others and we will be kind enough to verify you. But again joining a year ago with no meets...sais it all!!
3) Having no pics what so ever in your profile...We might aswell look at the wall.
4) If your only pictures are of your wife and non of hubby or as a single guy, they are just of your cock. Cock look generally the same and as a cpl there are two of you that want to play so pictures of both are a help.
5) How many genuine profiles do you read that state "Pics of both, Full face pics, Not just cock pics" But do you listen in your mails? No..How hard is it?
6) When you mail. at least give some details about your self and not just hi how are you,etc Again..its not hard.
7) read a profile fully. It may be long, it may be short. But it will tell you most what you need to know or that key word that you may need to show you have.
No winks, mean NO WINKS! As does No friend requests before mails.
8) Get the above right and you may just have some meets rather than a wank!!!
ps: As for us its just a simple "BLOCK" takes seconds and your gone!
Do you ever message people first?
Yes we do and there is no issue with that. We also say more than "Hi" we dont include pics cos ours are there to see. But if they wernt they would see both of us and before i message i read fully the profile and make sure we are at least compatible beforehand.
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Shame more don't do that isn't it xx
I've got that I'm not meeting but I still get messages asking to meet |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Shame more don't do that isn't it xx
I've got that I'm not meeting but I still get messages asking to meet "
So true. its frustrating. Weve had to block single guys because we were inundated with them which we didnt want to do. I know single guys take the chance. But they dont realise that they are just one of many that take the chance and it becomes annoying.
we'll wait till you are playing to message..lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All good points, but you gotta take the rough with the smooth OP, maybe being barebackers attracts more of the fakes, chancers, wannabes and idiots, that's no way an inditement on you're choice and we are making no comment on that, just pointing that out x"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Even as a single guy I'm sketchy about profile's without pictures, verifications etc, sometimes I'll entertain a chat if I've not received any other mail, but meeting someone who isn't verified is not territory I'm stupid enough to get into
I got suckered like that when I was first on the site-cue a frustrating late night in the middle of nowhere.Lesson learnt tho! "
At least it was only a late night in the middle of nowhere. I naturally think of the worst case scenarios, and while I can defend myself, I just don't see the point running the risk |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Shame more don't do that isn't it xx
I've got that I'm not meeting but I still get messages asking to meet
So true. its frustrating. Weve had to block single guys because we were inundated with them which we didnt want to do. I know single guys take the chance. But they dont realise that they are just one of many that take the chance and it becomes annoying.
we'll wait till you are playing to message..lol "
I think quite a few single ladies and females block single guys,which is frustrating for us genuine blokes!
I doubt that many of those ladies/couples would then message single guys,so potentially great,horny meets are lost,due to idiots...
But,it's the way it is on here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Even as a single guy I'm sketchy about profile's without pictures, verifications etc, sometimes I'll entertain a chat if I've not received any other mail, but meeting someone who isn't verified is not territory I'm stupid enough to get into
I got suckered like that when I was first on the site-cue a frustrating late night in the middle of nowhere.Lesson learnt tho!
At least it was only a late night in the middle of nowhere. I naturally think of the worst case scenarios, and while I can defend myself, I just don't see the point running the risk"
Well it was a mixture of being incredibly horny and wanting to get my first meet,and verification on here,that led to a bad decision being made.
Yea,could've been incredibly dodgy when I think about it...  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"All good points, but you gotta take the rough with the smooth OP, maybe being barebackers attracts more of the fakes, chancers, wannabes and idiots, that's no way an inditement on you're choice and we are making no comment on that, just pointing that out x "
Cant say we attract more or not. But speaking with our other friends it happens a lot to be honest and has for years.
I posted this topic not out of frustration in any way. just to pint out to time wasters that we aren't stupid.
Most of our meets are arranged away from fab nowadays and we hold exclusive free parties for people here. Though we do meet new friends through fab. we tend to only contact who we think we are compatible with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fair points but the people that do waste time and don't read profiles etc aren't likely to take a slight bit of notice to any of that so I'd save your energy and keep hitting the delete button.
Signed, a non authentic swinger as we aren't photo verified, it's like walking into a bar and pulling out my fake Armani wallet - the shame! |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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OP you do realise that 99% of the people you class as non genuine, time wasters and 'wannabes' won't ever see what you've just written as the forums are irrelevant to them! 
But hey - everyone's entitled to vent.
It won't make a jot of difference to how anyone uses the site though.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi follow all that advice never push myself on anyone respect their profile wishes etc although not a regular user of this site have had very few meets off here,elsewhere clubs etc no problem.
so doing all the right things isnt getting me anywhere it seems so can understand why other guys ignore the profiles send loads of messages etc and work on percentages chance of geeting meet.
If you are interested anyone my diarys free lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We're bareback only and from chats we have it bears zero relation to the amount of divs we get. The divs don't read the profiles and certainly won't read this thread. Par for the course unfortunately but easily and quickly dealt with using site tools. |
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Already been said. The idiots won't read your post. I dont know the exact figure but it's a small percentage who actually use the forums to start with. I've seen a fair few threads saying what you say. All not reaching the target audience. I see your post as being out of frustration despite you stating otherwise. And I understand why you are frustrated. Despite that I find it condescending. Your doing the usual thing of tarring a specific demographic with the same brush. Also so what if someone hasn't had a veri in so long. It says nothing. You say it says it all. I assume you mean timewaster. I took a year to get my first veri. It can happen like that. Some people just dont veri. That simple. Genuine swingers? What makes you more a genuine swinger than anyone else?
Please don't take this as a personal attack. Im just sick of hearing the same thing over and over again.
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Shame more don't do that isn't it xx
I've got that I'm not meeting but I still get messages asking to meet
So true. its frustrating. Weve had to block single guys because we were inundated with them which we didnt want to do. I know single guys take the chance. But they dont realise that they are just one of many that take the chance and it becomes annoying.
we'll wait till you are playing to message..lol "
Not all single guys are chancers I send very few messages and I do ok on here but then I do read profiles first |
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"Already been said. The idiots won't read your post. I dont know the exact figure but it's a small percentage who actually use the forums to start with. I've seen a fair few threads saying what you say. All not reaching the target audience. I see your post as being out of frustration despite you stating otherwise. And I understand why you are frustrated. Despite that I find it condescending. Your doing the usual thing of tarring a specific demographic with the same brush. Also so what if someone hasn't had a veri in so long. It says nothing. You say it says it all. I assume you mean timewaster. I took a year to get my first veri. It can happen like that. Some people just dont veri. That simple. Genuine swingers? What makes you more a genuine swinger than anyone else?
Please don't take this as a personal attack. Im just sick of hearing the same thing over and over again.
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The post proves my point that "People dont read properly"
Not frustrated in any way what so ever to be honest.
The thread (If read properly) is aimed at MEN pretending to be couples or fems and not been verified.
If you mailed us as a single guy without verification. Who gives a dam..your a single guy we know that.
Its cpls and sngle fems without any of the above.
jees!! No wonder some people get blocked.
The thread wasnt aimed at genuine people it was aimed at time wasters. But if people get upset by reading it. I would suggest reading it properly.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Time wasters in general can also be from single men, in some instances I have even found a single lady to be a complete time waster.
She opened a new account as a bloke, got 2 pathetic veri's from there and looks desperate!
Even told me she was a member of the club I go to. |
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Not frustrated in any way what so ever to be honest.
The thread (If read properly) is aimed at MEN pretending to be couples or fems and not been verified.
If you mailed us as a single guy without verification. Who gives a dam..your a single guy we know that.
Its cpls and sngle fems without any of the above.
jees!! No wonder some people get blocked.
The thread wasnt aimed at genuine people it was aimed at time wasters. But if people get upset by reading it. I would suggest reading it properly.
No offence "
People are suggesting that said time wasters etc won't bother to come in and read your post-which is probably true!
I don't think you'll ever stop the time wasters or the guys that are blatantly on as a couple,just one of those things that you have to deal with.
I'd message you about it,but you're not poking for guys...  If you need any for parties though... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Already been said. The idiots won't read your post. I dont know the exact figure but it's a small percentage who actually use the forums to start with. I've seen a fair few threads saying what you say. All not reaching the target audience. I see your post as being out of frustration despite you stating otherwise. And I understand why you are frustrated. Despite that I find it condescending. Your doing the usual thing of tarring a specific demographic with the same brush. Also so what if someone hasn't had a veri in so long. It says nothing. You say it says it all. I assume you mean timewaster. I took a year to get my first veri. It can happen like that. Some people just dont veri. That simple. Genuine swingers? What makes you more a genuine swinger than anyone else?
Please don't take this as a personal attack. Im just sick of hearing the same thing over and over again.
The post proves my point that "People dont read properly"
Not frustrated in any way what so ever to be honest.
The thread (If read properly) is aimed at MEN pretending to be couples or fems and not been verified.
If you mailed us as a single guy without verification. Who gives a dam..your a single guy we know that.
Its cpls and sngle fems without any of the above.
jees!! No wonder some people get blocked.
The thread wasnt aimed at genuine people it was aimed at time wasters. But if people get upset by reading it. I would suggest reading it properly.
No offence "
None taken. But you said single guys and wannabee hubbies. I dont see how I've misread that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All good points, but you gotta take the rough with the smooth OP, maybe being barebackers attracts more of the fakes, chancers, wannabes and idiots, that's no way an inditement on you're choice and we are making no comment on that, just pointing that out x
Cant say we attract more or not. But speaking with our other friends it happens a lot to be honest and has for years.
I posted this topic not out of frustration in any way. just to pint out to time wasters that we aren't stupid.
Most of our meets are arranged away from fab nowadays and we hold exclusive free parties for people here. Though we do meet new friends through fab. we tend to only contact who we think we are compatible with. "
We don't seem to attract hardly any fakes, time wasters or idiots and by rights we should as we run club nights for newbies and play quite a bit away from Tease so I don't know why you get loads... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Imagine if a single guy said they bareback then the std police would start lol."
Bareback police gonna say what they gonna say lol. Hope they enjoy their little outburst, be even better if they block us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Genuine swingers, what does that mean?
Im not photo verified.
I dont publish my meets
i wink at profiles because i find them attractive, amusing, interesting, it doesnt mean i want to play with them.
i feel your frustration at fake profiles and chancers who contact anyone with a pulse, but being on here a while makes it easy to spot them and one click blocks them.
dont let the few idiots spoil your fun and bring frustration. X
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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i wink at profiles because i find them attractive, amusing, interesting, it doesnt mean i want to play with them.
well said "
How is it well said? You wink at us. That sais i like what i see and im attracting your attention. We take the time to write and you had no intention of playing or what so ever in the first place? TIME WASTERS!
If you find a pic nice, amusing,etc. THEN FAB IT !
We do not get that many time wasters. as we are experienced and dont fall for idiots. It was advice. As for you single guys getting miffed about it.. Get a grip fer fuks sake! |
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over a year ago
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"Imagine if a single guy said they bareback then the std police would start lol.
Bareback police gonna say what they gonna say lol. Hope they enjoy their little outburst, be even better if they block us "
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over a year ago
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i wink at profiles because i find them attractive, amusing, interesting, it doesnt mean i want to play with them.
well said
How is it well said? You wink at us. That sais i like what i see and im attracting your attention. We take the time to write and you had no intention of playing or what so ever in the first place? TIME WASTERS!
If you find a pic nice, amusing,etc. THEN FAB IT !
We do not get that many time wasters. as we are experienced and dont fall for idiots. It was advice. As for you single guys getting miffed about it.. Get a grip fer fuks sake!"
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over a year ago
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i wink at profiles because i find them attractive, amusing, interesting, it doesnt mean i want to play with them.
well said
How is it well said? You wink at us. That sais i like what i see and im attracting your attention. We take the time to write and you had no intention of playing or what so ever in the first place? TIME WASTERS!
If you find a pic nice, amusing,etc. THEN FAB IT !
We do not get that many time wasters. as we are experienced and dont fall for idiots. It was advice. As for you single guys getting miffed about it.. Get a grip fer fuks sake!"
Return the wink and wait for them to message as they made first contact, seems logical and no time is wasted. |
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over a year ago
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"What exactly does not being photo verified say ?
It says you don't know how to use photoshop to fake a pic "
It's wonderful how many Darth Vader's have been photo verified |
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over a year ago
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"Thank goodness that's finally been cleared up!
Indeed!
We all know the time wasters etc will not do the above,and will waste someone's time.Us genuine folk are alright tho...
Genuine are fine. But so many people get it wrong and just dont realise that we know what to look for.
But from our eyes. If they cant be bothered to respect what we put in our profile, then they arn't going to respect our wishes at a meet. so they dont stand a chance.
There will always be chancers!
Us "genuine" swingers usually know what to look for,but occasionally we'll probably get caught out...
But as one of the points above states. "Get verified by others" (published or not) which you are. Makes a diffrence.
It dosnt spoil our fun in any way what so ever.
I agree being photo verified and being verified by others makes a difference.
I don't see why the poster,lady?,wouldn't at least get photo verified?? It costs nothing and only admin ever see it!
On a personal level I would think twice about contacting someone who isn't at least photo verified!That's just a personal preference tho... "
And your preference is fine!
I also am not photo verified though! I also choose not to display my verifications!
After about 12 months as an active forumite - and 18 months on the North West club and party scene - I think I've earned the right to keep my sex life private, and proved that I am indeed female and look exactly like my pictures, for better or worse!!
As the site is more, for me, about chatting on the forums and deciding which club/party to go to on my next free night - without sounding conceited I really don't mind whether people I don't know choose to contact me or not! I already know oodles of lovely people - but if more want to contact me then that's fine too!! My profile is intended to give a reflection of my wants and my character though - it isn't designed to attract the maximum possible number of messages! |
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"Just a Tip for you single guys and wannabee hubbies out there who seem to think that we genuine swingers are a bit stupid and love our time wasting.
1) Photo verification takes just 2 mins and when youve joined several wks ago or longer and havnt bothered to photo verify..it sais a lot really!!
2) Getting verified by others is easy too. All you have to do is meet others and we will be kind enough to verify you. But again joining a year ago with no meets...sais it all!!
3) Having no pics what so ever in your profile...We might aswell look at the wall.
4) If your only pictures are of your wife and non of hubby or as a single guy, they are just of your cock. Cock look generally the same and as a cpl there are two of you that want to play so pictures of both are a help.
5) How many genuine profiles do you read that state "Pics of both, Full face pics, Not just cock pics" But do you listen in your mails? No..How hard is it?
6) When you mail. at least give some details about your self and not just hi how are you,etc Again..its not hard.
7) read a profile fully. It may be long, it may be short. But it will tell you most what you need to know or that key word that you may need to show you have.
No winks, mean NO WINKS! As does No friend requests before mails.
8) Get the above right and you may just have some meets rather than a wank!!!
ps: As for us its just a simple "BLOCK" takes seconds and your gone!
How many people ask for face pics on their profile but never have their own available to view. Being in the public eye I am always cautious of whom I talking to so I can make sure they are not a colleague or business acquaintance.
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over a year ago
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"Just a Tip for you single guys and wannabee hubbies out there who seem to think that we genuine swingers are a bit stupid and love our time wasting.
1) Photo verification takes just 2 mins and when youve joined several wks ago or longer and havnt bothered to photo verify..it sais a lot really!!
2) Getting verified by others is easy too. All you have to do is meet others and we will be kind enough to verify you. But again joining a year ago with no meets...sais it all!!
3) Having no pics what so ever in your profile...We might aswell look at the wall.
4) If your only pictures are of your wife and non of hubby or as a single guy, they are just of your cock. Cock look generally the same and as a cpl there are two of you that want to play so pictures of both are a help.
5) How many genuine profiles do you read that state "Pics of both, Full face pics, Not just cock pics" But do you listen in your mails? No..How hard is it?
6) When you mail. at least give some details about your self and not just hi how are you,etc Again..its not hard.
7) read a profile fully. It may be long, it may be short. But it will tell you most what you need to know or that key word that you may need to show you have.
No winks, mean NO WINKS! As does No friend requests before mails.
8) Get the above right and you may just have some meets rather than a wank!!!
ps: As for us its just a simple "BLOCK" takes seconds and your gone!
How many people ask for face pics on their profile but never have their own available to view. Being in the public eye I am always cautious of whom I talking to so I can make sure they are not a colleague or business acquaintance.
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over a year ago
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"Just a Tip for you...."
A such genuine experienced swingers who have so much skill and acumen for this site
Did you not notice the mass of other threads in the same context spouting the same crap that have been circulating recently
Because the one thing that is guaranteed and fully applicable to this and every other of these time-wasting timewaster threads
IF THERE NOT READING YOUR PROFILE
THEY ARE NOT READING THE FORUM
So your audience is solely the non timewasters that are actually in the forum contributing,
which makes it very look at me
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"1) Photo verification takes just 2 mins and when youve joined several wks ago or longer and havnt bothered to photo verify..it sais a lot really!!"
Complete nonsense, and a waste of pixels, even a complete tech-newb like me could fake our profile name onto a fake picture.
I've said it before... the ONLY veri worth having is a "play" veri.  |
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over a year ago
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"even a complete tech-newb like me could fake our profile name onto a fake picture."
Never actually looked at photo verify like that, valid point though, wouldn't be difficult with decent photoshop skills |
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over a year ago
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Fuck me... I'm not photo verified, shoot me now I'm a time wasting twat.
I'll also go and get an egg to suck on in regards to your other tips!!!
I'm forever in your debt |
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over a year ago
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"Fuck me... I'm not photo verified, shoot me now I'm a time wasting twat.
I'll also go and get an egg to suck on in regards to your other tips!!!
I'm forever in your debt "
Verified by others though. Try reading it properly while ya suck yer egg!!! |
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over a year ago
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"Fuck me... I'm not photo verified, shoot me now I'm a time wasting twat.
I'll also go and get an egg to suck on in regards to your other tips!!!
I'm forever in your debt "
Verified by others though. Try reading it properly while ya suck yer egg!!! |
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over a year ago
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We did a similar guide for newbies and in the same day we posted it there was at least 6 posts up from guys complaining they couldn't get meets. They won't read this and even if they do your just giving hints to time wasters of how to waste even more of your time. |
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"Just a Tip for you single guys and wannabee hubbies out there who seem to think that we genuine swingers are a bit stupid and love our time wasting.
1) Photo verification takes just 2 mins and when youve joined several wks ago or longer and havnt bothered to photo verify..it sais a lot really!!
2) Getting verified by others is easy too. All you have to do is meet others and we will be kind enough to verify you. But again joining a year ago with no meets...sais it all!!
3) Having no pics what so ever in your profile...We might aswell look at the wall.
4) If your only pictures are of your wife and non of hubby or as a single guy, they are just of your cock. Cock look generally the same and as a cpl there are two of you that want to play so pictures of both are a help.
5) How many genuine profiles do you read that state "Pics of both, Full face pics, Not just cock pics" But do you listen in your mails? No..How hard is it?
6) When you mail. at least give some details about your self and not just hi how are you,etc Again..its not hard.
7) read a profile fully. It may be long, it may be short. But it will tell you most what you need to know or that key word that you may need to show you have.
No winks, mean NO WINKS! As does No friend requests before mails.
8) Get the above right and you may just have some meets rather than a wank!!!
ps: As for us its just a simple "BLOCK" takes seconds and your gone!
This ... "
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I am not a guy but I have been on here for nearly two years and I am still not photo verified (shock- horror). Does this mean I am a time waster??? As far as I am aware it is not compulsory to be photo verified and until it is then I will not get photo verified. I have had a couple of successful meets with guys and ohhh shock-horror they were not photo verified either. If being photo verified is one of your criteria then don't waste your time with them and just sit back and chill. |
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"I'm not photo verified and don't intend to be either. If people don't want to meet me because of that, then it's yet another self filtering mechanism to keep the twats away from me. "
I'm with you on that one I'm not intending to get photo verified either and if people are put off by that then that's my lucky escape. |
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"Even as a single guy I'm sketchy about profile's without pictures, verifications etc, sometimes I'll entertain a chat if I've not received any other mail, but meeting someone who isn't verified is not territory I'm stupid enough to get into
I got suckered like that when I was first on the site-cue a frustrating late night in the middle of nowhere.Lesson learnt tho! "
thing to do is let them come to you.. works. |
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over a year ago
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I disagree!!
It isn't easy for a single guy to meet at all!
Personally think I'm An alright looking lad that's polite and has a sense of humour, I can tie my own shoes and construct a sentence!!
I opened the account over a year ago an shortly after found myself in a relationship! No using fab...
Having left the relationship I started using fab again 2 months ago and consequently have no verifications but single women don't read my profile where this is explained or give me the time of day to explain myself!!
Women are too quick to assume genuine guys are time wasters here!!
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over a year ago
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Maybe you're not frustrated, but it certainly comes across that you have some serious attitude. Which I find very off putting and wouldn't want to contact you anyway.
LOL! Everyone's entitled to their own preferences, but quite often it seem's, the alleged self confessed hardened swingers, all too often come across as being some not very nice people and extremely self righteous.
Okay, so you might get a lot of unwanted attention, but that's par for the cause when operating on an open forum. That's just the nature of things.
Obviously I don't agree with all of your 8 commandments, and it does seem that there are a fair few people who aren't as happy and open as you are - hence why some may not be comfortable with pics on their profiles or photo veri's. That's personal choice, accept it.
Same for when it comes to posting veri's - again, it's personal choice for the individual. Not being very tolerant or accepting of other peoples choices say's it all really. LOL!
Sure you may have posted this as a bit of a dig at time wasters etc... But it's highly generic and no doubt rubs an awful lot of people up the wrong way. It does you no favours at all - the same goes for a lot other posters who've written pretty much the same thing.
Like you say " a block takes seconds, and you're gone". It's your go to fail safe and your prerogative to use as and when it suits. That's all you need really.
LOL! I guess this means that I'm blocked now too. Too late, I've already wanked over your pics. |
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over a year ago
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"Thank goodness that's finally been cleared up!
Indeed!
We all know the time wasters etc will not do the above,and will waste someone's time.Us genuine folk are alright tho... "
Surely you mean time waisters ? |
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"I am not a guy but I have been on here for nearly two years and I am still not photo verified (shock- horror). Does this mean I am a time waster??? As far as I am aware it is not compulsory to be photo verified and until it is then I will not get photo verified. I have had a couple of successful meets with guys and ohhh shock-horror they were not photo verified either. If being photo verified is one of your criteria then don't waste your time with them and just sit back and chill. "
Ive been wondering for a while whether to get myself photo-verified. Whether it would actually make a difference to how im doing on here, I have no idea |
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9) Bad spelling and grammar are a massive turn off
10) Spouting off a list of things supposedly only timewasters do is arrogant and narrow minded and reall unappealing
11) Some people meet others who are non verified by meet too. Everyone has to start somewhere and even you, OP, were unverified as meeting at some point. Don't be so assuming and up your own arses as to not give a moment to those who are in a position you once were too. |
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I don't think time wasters set out to be timewasters, best way is to say ok 'let's have a phone call?' That will scare off most. If they won't speak in the phone they sure as hell ain't turning up. It can be handy as a lady I spoke to on the phone had a shrill voice much like the witch fron wizard of Oz.. I didn't want to hear that at higher octaves |
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"Thank goodness that's finally been cleared up!
Indeed!
We all know the time wasters etc will not do the above,and will waste someone's time.Us genuine folk are alright tho...
Genuine are fine. But so many people get it wrong and just dont realise that we know what to look for.
But from our eyes. If they cant be bothered to respect what we put in our profile, then they arn't going to respect our wishes at a meet. so they dont stand a chance.
There will always be chancers!
Us "genuine" swingers usually know what to look for,but occasionally we'll probably get caught out...
But as one of the points above states. "Get verified by others" (published or not) which you are. Makes a diffrence.
It dosnt spoil our fun in any way what so ever.
I agree being photo verified and being verified by others makes a difference.
I don't see why the poster,lady?,wouldn't at least get photo verified?? It costs nothing and only admin ever see it!
On a personal level I would think twice about contacting someone who isn't at least photo verified!That's just a personal preference tho... "
In seven years on this site I've NEVER had my time wasted. During that time I've NEVER encountered a fake. The majority of the men I've met were unverified: it was their message and interaction with me that got a meet.
Why would I take into account what a total stranger thinks about another stranger? The only opinion that matters is my own and I take 100% responsibility in deciding who comes into my home and body.
The last unverified man I met moved in a year ago. |
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"Even as a single guy I'm sketchy about profile's without pictures, verifications etc, sometimes I'll entertain a chat if I've not received any other mail, but meeting someone who isn't verified is not territory I'm stupid enough to get into
I got suckered like that when I was first on the site-cue a frustrating late night in the middle of nowhere.Lesson learnt tho! "
You've simply learnt to use your big head to override the little one! |
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"I don't think time wasters set out to be timewasters, best way is to say ok 'let's have a phone call?' That will scare off most. If they won't speak in the phone they sure as hell ain't turning up. It can be handy as a lady I spoke to on the phone had a shrill voice much like the witch fron wizard of Oz.. I didn't want to hear that at higher octaves "
Oopsy. I guess I'm a time waster too. Phone calls and cams I just don't like. Don't even call family regularly. I'd rather face to face meet somewhere neutral. |
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"Maybe you're not frustrated, but it certainly comes across that you have some serious attitude. Which I find very off putting and wouldn't want to contact you anyway.
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this... see it all the time, not pleasant to read, I can understand peoples' frustration, but this sort of thing especially on a profile, means there's no way I would consider sending a message. But no loss as I'm sure they still get hundreds per day. |
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"I don't think time wasters set out to be timewasters, best way is to say ok 'let's have a phone call?' That will scare off most. If they won't speak in the phone they sure as hell ain't turning up. It can be handy as a lady I spoke to on the phone had a shrill voice much like the witch fron wizard of Oz.. I didn't want to hear that at higher octaves
Oopsy. I guess I'm a time waster too. Phone calls and cams I just don't like. Don't even call family regularly. I'd rather face to face meet somewhere neutral."
I will do cams but cant talk on the phone as im rarely alone at home. Plus have given out my number before only for it to fizzle out. |
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"I don't think time wasters set out to be timewasters, best way is to say ok 'let's have a phone call?' That will scare off most. If they won't speak in the phone they sure as hell ain't turning up. It can be handy as a lady I spoke to on the phone had a shrill voice much like the witch fron wizard of Oz.. I didn't want to hear that at higher octaves
Oopsy. I guess I'm a time waster too. Phone calls and cams I just don't like. Don't even call family regularly. I'd rather face to face meet somewhere neutral.
I will do cams but cant talk on the phone as im rarely alone at home. Plus have given out my number before only for it to fizzle out. "
Choose guys that are not busy , and don't have jobs. Have someone at your beck and call
I found this in my single days , single women that did not work would be constant texting during the day , meet at lunch etc etc too needy for me
When I used to date those that worked was a text usually at night or even better for me once a week .
I did date a girl a while ago , she told me she worked nights at tesco and could not answer phone , and only see me during the day , told her husband that she worked days so she could be at home when he was .
One girl I went out was married saw her for 2 or so years , I was a single dad had a very little one. My washing machine broke , she said she had a spare and if I bid on it on eBay she would make sure I would get it . I told her ok , when it came to getting it I was told " just pretend to my husband this is first time we met " that was her way of telling me she was married about a year into our relationship . I did ask her about it next time we met and she said I did tell you, I said I thought it was a joke
Anyway keep looking and either go for a guy that is secure enough to go for weeks without a message
You have to be realistic busy secure guys , who have stuff in their lives , like demanding jobs kids etc etc usually only date women who chase them , as we generally don't need to chase women ourselves
or look for a needy guy to be on your beck and call that does not work or have anything apart from you .
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"I don't think time wasters set out to be timewasters, best way is to say ok 'let's have a phone call?' That will scare off most. If they won't speak in the phone they sure as hell ain't turning up. It can be handy as a lady I spoke to on the phone had a shrill voice much like the witch fron wizard of Oz.. I didn't want to hear that at higher octaves
Oopsy. I guess I'm a time waster too. Phone calls and cams I just don't like. Don't even call family regularly. I'd rather face to face meet somewhere neutral.
I will do cams but cant talk on the phone as im rarely alone at home. Plus have given out my number before only for it to fizzle out.
Choose guys that are not busy , and don't have jobs. Have someone at your beck and call
I found this in my single days , single women that did not work would be constant texting during the day , meet at lunch etc etc too needy for me
When I used to date those that worked was a text usually at night or even better for me once a week .
I did date a girl a while ago , she told me she worked nights at tesco and could not answer phone , and only see me during the day , told her husband that she worked days so she could be at home when he was .
One girl I went out was married saw her for 2 or so years , I was a single dad had a very little one. My washing machine broke , she said she had a spare and if I bid on it on eBay she would make sure I would get it . I told her ok , when it came to getting it I was told " just pretend to my husband this is first time we met " that was her way of telling me she was married about a year into our relationship . I did ask her about it next time we met and she said I did tell you, I said I thought it was a joke
Anyway keep looking and either go for a guy that is secure enough to go for weeks without a message
You have to be realistic busy secure guys , who have stuff in their lives , like demanding jobs kids etc etc usually only date women who chase them , as we generally don't need to chase women ourselves
or look for a needy guy to be on your beck and call that does not work or have anything apart from you .
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I don't want a needy guy
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"Can i just point out.
We are not seeking advice. we are offering it to wannabees As for our filters they are set. block is used often. and we have no problems with meets. it just makes us laugh how stupid some people are THAT DONT READ PROPERLY!!"
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Thanks for posting this forum, I am now photo verified and have been open to what I am looking for. I don't see any need to put a pic of my cock as we all know what one looks like. I don't get many messages, is there anything else I could do? |
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"Thanks for posting this forum, I am now photo verified and have been open to what I am looking for. I don't see any need to put a pic of my cock as we all know what one looks like. I don't get many messages, is there anything else I could do?"
Well your wasting your time with the meet you put up
Look in the clubs section change
Your username to something easier to remember
And go to that club people you meet at clubs and socials add them to your friend Lizt or hotlist them
Less that 1 in 100 we have met have verified us
The way forward is clubs clubs and clubs
If you think that your the exception and going to get a new girl every Saturday night from messaging on fab you wil be seriously disappointed
When you get known you will get the details of meets And events and will get asked to parties dogging etc
At the moment you are just another All talk no walk
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Thankyou for your message,
I think of I went to a club I would actually be quite nervous, but I guess that's natural. I would be curious to watch what would be going on at first.
I think I will change my name. It's not the best. |
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"Just a Tip for you single guys and wannabee hubbies out there who seem to think that we genuine swingers are a bit stupid and love our time wasting.
1) Photo verification takes just 2 mins and when youve joined several wks ago or longer and havnt bothered to photo verify..it sais a lot really!!
2) Getting verified by others is easy too. All you have to do is meet others and we will be kind enough to verify you. But again joining a year ago with no meets...sais it all!!
3) Having no pics what so ever in your profile...We might aswell look at the wall.
4) If your only pictures are of your wife and non of hubby or as a single guy, they are just of your cock. Cock look generally the same and as a cpl there are two of you that want to play so pictures of both are a help.
5) How many genuine profiles do you read that state "Pics of both, Full face pics, Not just cock pics" But do you listen in your mails? No..How hard is it?
6) When you mail. at least give some details about your self and not just hi how are you,etc Again..its not hard.
7) read a profile fully. It may be long, it may be short. But it will tell you most what you need to know or that key word that you may need to show you have.
No winks, mean NO WINKS! As does No friend requests before mails.
8) Get the above right and you may just have some meets rather than a wank!!!
ps: As for us its just a simple "BLOCK" takes seconds and your gone!
Do you ever message people first?
Yes we do and there is no issue with that. We also say more than "Hi" we dont include pics cos ours are there to see. But if they wernt they would see both of us and before i message i read fully the profile and make sure we are at least compatible beforehand.
Shame more don't do that isn't it xx
I've got that I'm not meeting but I still get messages asking to meet "
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going to be the Mr Pedantic of the post and say , #2 and #8 contradict each other 
Gents if you want meets you need to get proper verification's through meets.
otherwise sounds like good advice, but considering most guys complain about either not getting meets or Verification's, i imagine we'll be seeing a continued influx of ''How do i get meets?'' posts.
and for the guy reading this anting to say patience....
'' You've got to have patience.''
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