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Advice on anal with a girl
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I've been seeing a girl on and off for a while now just for nsa but she said the other night she wants to try anal sex. I haven't a problem with that but she has a few piles around/on her bum hole. Will these cause a problem during anal sex?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks guys for the comments. I know to and it slow and use plenty of lube I wasn't thinking of going straight in haha maybe a finger or small you first. And what's the best ways or the girl to prepare for anal we don't have Douche. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks guys for the comments. I know to and it slow and use plenty of lube I wasn't thinking of going straight in haha maybe a finger or small you first. And what's the best ways or the girl to prepare for anal we don't have Douche. "
Then buy one, or things can get...messy... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If any piles rupture or tear you will jolly well know about it!
Piles are mostly a form of prolapse....anal sex will only make the situation worse.
But if you are both up for it then as others have said...go gently, plenty of lube and DO douche first guys! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Those lucosade sport bottles with the top that stops water leaking out make a cheap douche  "
 . Haha!
Just buy a douche. They only cost like £15! And a plug is a good choice too. Have fun 
-Courtney |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get her to do it to you first, with a big dildo - understanding what it's like to be on the receiving end makes you a much better lover when you're giving!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks everyone I will look at buying a douche and will tell her and see what she thinks. I will also go carful and sort of train her up. And as for her doing it to me she had two fingers up me before and the first time she did we didn't use any lube so was a bit painful so I know haha thanks again for your tips |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Are you sure they're piles and not just loose skin? Piles are painful and will make anal sore no matter how much lube you use though for some the pain is the attraction. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Those lucosade sport bottles with the top that stops water leaking out make a cheap douche
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Just buy a douche. They only cost like £15! And a plug is a good choice too. Have fun or get a turkey baster less than a fiver..
-Courtney"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks all and I'm just going off what she said they where. Don't think I could fist her she only small lol. She says it doesn't hurt her when we play with toys she had a small but plug up there before as have I but thanks all for the advice |
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"Get her to do it to you first, with a big dildo - understanding what it's like to be on the receiving end makes you a much better lover when you're giving!
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We have a very unambiquous rule - if you want to put anything up my bottom you must be willing to accept the same yourself!!  |
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"Thanks guys for the comments. I know to and it slow and use plenty of lube I wasn't thinking of going straight in haha maybe a finger or small you first. And what's the best ways or the girl to prepare for anal we don't have Douche. "
Perhaps when she suggested trying anal she didn't mean her? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This a wind up "
Why would you think that? I was just wanting advice. I didn't ask the girl about doing it she ask me to and I said I was unsure as I didn't want to hurt her. Think I've got all the advice now so thank you I will see how we get on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Those lucosade sport bottles with the top that stops water leaking out make a cheap douche
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Just buy a douche. They only cost like £15! And a plug is a good choice too. Have fun
-Courtney"
It might take a couple of weeks to arrive but they can be bought from China on a well known auction site for £1.99 posted |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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External piles can't just be 'treated' with some sort of medication, then expected to disappear.
If she has numerous external haemorrhoids that she's had for a while, she'd be very foolish to have anal sex, regardless of lube, being 'warmed up', or technique.
Haemorrhoidectomy or banding is the only thing that significantly reduces piles. And it's a pricey business.
C.
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