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By *ndymorecambe OP Man over a year ago

morecambe

hi I wonder if anyone has any advice for me.i joined the site years ago and used to get quite a few meets I have ms so I struggle to get out and about use a wheelchair outside but get about my flat ok.

the problem I have is that its a lot easier for me if people come to my flat for meets whereas most people who I manage to get interested in me either want me to meet at their house-pub-hotel-club

im a single respectful decent bloke and im sure anyone who meets me wont be disappointed

any advice anyone ?

andy

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Yes, you could mention in your profile what you just mentioned here and reassure people that everything works....

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By *ndymorecambe OP Man over a year ago

morecambe

yes steve I always thought id avoid any mention of a wheelchair as people might run a mile

but I might give it a go

andy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"yes steve I always thought id avoid any mention of a wheelchair as people might run a mile

but I might give it a go

andy "
They are going to know about the wheelchair sooner or later mate. So best been upfront and honest.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes, you could mention in your profile what you just mentioned here and reassure people that everything works...."

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By *ndymorecambe OP Man over a year ago

morecambe

its interesting to note that people see honesty as the best policy as ive always thought any mention of ms or using a wheelchair would discourage people from wanting to meet meits definatly given me food for thought

andy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just mention that's its more for motability over long distances you need to use for

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By *ndymorecambe OP Man over a year ago

morecambe

yes your right bigshaft I think the misconceptions about ms and disability in general are what I need to try to get past without appearing to be preaching or dwelling too much on the wheelchair

at the end of the day my cock and tounge,and rest of me apart from legs are functioning 100%

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By *onny-2008Man over a year ago

Manchester/ Lancaster

Hi Andrew

Good luck with the meets Mate

some people think just coz your in a wheelchair nothing else works

My Missus had a really bad ankle fracture I took her to the Trafford centre and we used a scooter and the number of people who asked me questions instead of talking to her was appalling

so tell people and let them make their minds up , but good luck

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some people get turned on by the whole wheelchair thing, not like having sex with someone disabled but using the wheelchair in sex

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