We would like other people's opinions please. We have found out that the male of a couple we know and have met a few times at clubs and chatted loads on here too has also got another couple's profile. Neither female is aware of the other but since we found out we are uncomfortable as have become quite close to the lady and feel we should say something. He also has a single male profile too! Any thoughts/opinions welcomed. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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Are you sure neither knows about the other?
Have you asked them? Although I suppose that would give the game away!
Whether you say/do anything is entirely up to you of course - but be prepared for the fallout if things aren't as you see them.
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"We would like other people's opinions please. We have found out that the male of a couple we know and have met a few times at clubs and chatted loads on here too has also got another couple's profile. Neither female is aware of the other but since we found out we are uncomfortable as have become quite close to the lady and feel we should say something. He also has a single male profile too! Any thoughts/opinions welcomed."
A difficult situation in which you cannot win. Just keep your distance, no matter how much you wish to get involved. |
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I would keep out of it as at the end of the day it's really non of your business, and I don't mean that in a horrid way, if you do feel that you need to say something and as your on talking terms with the male in question perhaps speak to him! |
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"We would like other people's opinions please. We have found out that the male of a couple we know and have met a few times at clubs and chatted loads on here too has also got another couple's profile. Neither female is aware of the other but since we found out we are uncomfortable as have become quite close to the lady and feel we should say something. He also has a single male profile too! Any thoughts/opinions welcomed."
Not making any judgements here, but wouldn't that be a tad hypocritical? |
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"We would like other people's opinions please. We have found out that the male of a couple we know and have met a few times at clubs and chatted loads on here too has also got another couple's profile. Neither female is aware of the other but since we found out we are uncomfortable as have become quite close to the lady and feel we should say something. He also has a single male profile too! Any thoughts/opinions welcomed.
Not making any judgements here, but wouldn't that be a tad hypocritical?"
It would seem so. Best not get involved, his life, he's doing what he wants as are you. |
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"We would like other people's opinions please. We have found out that the male of a couple we know and have met a few times at clubs and chatted loads on here too has also got another couple's profile. Neither female is aware of the other but since we found out we are uncomfortable as have become quite close to the lady and feel we should say something. He also has a single male profile too! Any thoughts/opinions welcomed."
Unnecessary drama. Just walk away as they sound nothing more tgan casual acquaintances.
Intrigued how you know for certain that no one knows about his other profiles |
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