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Does nobody else like to take risks wi local meets??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't worry about where they live. My only issues with local was the guy that decided to talk to me at the school or the other one that would send me daily updates about what I was wearing or what was on my washing line  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Seems like they don't!
We do and don't find it an issue if they are true singles or couples"
I'm guessing the local ones fae this part must be in a relationship aswell but not sayin on this! Personally I find it more exciting |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We don't worry about where they live. My only issues with local was the guy that decided to talk to me at the school or the other one that would send me daily updates about what I was wearing or what was on my washing line "
offtttt u mean a stalker type? Lol. Na it's just kinda funny ti think I'd pass her on the street and we'd give a wee wink. Lol |
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By *redrobCouple (MM)
over a year ago
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"We don't worry about where they live. My only issues with local was the guy that decided to talk to me at the school or the other one that would send me daily updates about what I was wearing or what was on my washing line "
The 2nd guy sounds a bit of a prick. We see local folk on here about town regularly. We tend to walk on as we don't want to cause issues but some say hey and some just pass and send a message when they get home. We meet local folk, either M or F. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We don't worry about where they live. My only issues with local was the guy that decided to talk to me at the school or the other one that would send me daily updates about what I was wearing or what was on my washing line
The 2nd guy sounds a bit of a prick. We see local folk on here about town regularly. We tend to walk on as we don't want to cause issues but some say hey and some just pass and send a message when they get home. We meet local folk, either M or F. "
see that's something to laugh at coz I've been seeing if any of the girls from ere are even up for a chat n point out its 100% discreet coz we're so close! Either they are scared to be found out or are just pure ignorant |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Seems like they don't!
I don't find anything risky about sleeping with someone who lives locally."
fair play, but the girls up ere don't share that enthusiasm lol |
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I think what the OP really means is he's been here two weeks with a one liner profile and no pictures and is wondering why nobody will meet him thinking it's fuckfest2015
No pictures, emphasis on discreet, can't accommodate... My bets are on married/attached trying to play away and thinks wewe're all stupid crazy people gagging for a shag. |
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By *redrobCouple (MM)
over a year ago
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"We don't worry about where they live. My only issues with local was the guy that decided to talk to me at the school or the other one that would send me daily updates about what I was wearing or what was on my washing line
The 2nd guy sounds a bit of a prick. We see local folk on here about town regularly. We tend to walk on as we don't want to cause issues but some say hey and some just pass and send a message when they get home. We meet local folk, either M or F. see that's something to laugh at coz I've been seeing if any of the girls from ere are even up for a chat n point out its 100% discreet coz we're so close! Either they are scared to be found out or are just pure ignorant "
I personally don't see a problem with it but if they chose not to meet locally? Just respect their decision not to. Why not branch out? We stayed in Hamilton until 2 years ago and a few nice ladies live all around that area. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think what the OP really means is he's been here two weeks with a one liner profile and no pictures and is wondering why nobody will meet him thinking it's fuckfest2015
No pictures, emphasis on discreet, can't accommodate... My bets are on married/attached trying to play away and thinks wewe're all stupid crazy people gagging for a shag. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think what the OP really means is he's been here two weeks with a one liner profile and no pictures and is wondering why nobody will meet him thinking it's fuckfest2015
No pictures, emphasis on discreet, can't accommodate... My bets are on married/attached trying to play away and thinks wewe're all stupid crazy people gagging for a shag. "
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"I think what the OP really means is he's been here two weeks with a one liner profile and no pictures and is wondering why nobody will meet him thinking it's fuckfest2015
No pictures, emphasis on discreet, can't accommodate... My bets are on married/attached trying to play away and thinks we're all stupid crazy people gagging for a shag.
correct"
You're in for a shocker then, with an average of ten men per woman your chances are low.
There are lots of single men, lots of one's with better profiles, lots who can accommodate, lots without betters bodies and bigger cocks.
In short you have nothing to offer, but good luck... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"With better bodies, Fucking spell check. "
loads of guys on here but tbh I'm no desperate for It! It's got to be as exciting as possible and I know I'll find a girl who want the exact same! No point in doing this for just sex! It's no about that! For me, I'm lookin to bring a buzz back in na life
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"With better bodies, Fucking spell check. loads of guys on here but tbh I'm no desperate for It! It's got to be as exciting as possible and I know I'll find a girl who want the exact same! No point in doing this for just sex! It's no about that! For me, I'm lookin to bring a buzz back in na life "
Maybe try actually talking to your partner and discussing your feelings, see if they're open to spicing things up a bit and see how it goes.
It's better to be open than to risk hurting anyone's feelings by sneaking about. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"With better bodies, Fucking spell check. loads of guys on here but tbh I'm no desperate for It! It's got to be as exciting as possible and I know I'll find a girl who want the exact same! No point in doing this for just sex! It's no about that! For me, I'm lookin to bring a buzz back in na life
Maybe try actually talking to your partner and discussing your feelings, see if they're open to spicing things up a bit and see how it goes.
It's better to be open than to risk hurting anyone's feelings by sneaking about. "
sound advice but takin tge risk is part of the buzz |
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If you're not even willing to try to talk to your partner then you're a terrible person and I hope you have no luck on here, get found out and spend the rest of your life alone.
The hell is wrong with you?
It's not a game, you clearly have no respect for your partner.
Doing it for the buzz, better idea, go play on the motorway that'll give you a buzz and hopefully remove you from your partners life before you destroy it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Location isn't an issue. Its not like we'd be fucking, in the local Supermarket.  "
The only problem comes with fuckwits who cant distinguish between fab and everyday life. I go further afield. No locals. |
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By *rSteve6Man
over a year ago
Bolton and Pattaya,Thailand |
I've met quite a few local people from Fab for meets and our paths have crossed away from Fab. However,if you're discrete and just chat as friends,I cannot see why there should be any problem!!!!???    |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you're not even willing to try to talk to your partner then you're a terrible person and I hope you have no luck on here, get found out and spend the rest of your life alone.
The hell is wrong with you?
It's not a game, you clearly have no respect for your partner.
Doing it for the buzz, better idea, go play on the motorway that'll give you a buzz and hopefully remove you from your partners life before you destroy it. "
who asked for ur opinion? Tried to no snap at u but ur doin my box in! See if u think I've not tried to get ma partner to explore new stuff, but she's not into it and I respect her for it, so won't push it! This is another option and ur opinion means feck all! So away n toll some1 ere |
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"If you're not even willing to try to talk to your partner then you're a terrible person and I hope you have no luck on here, get found out and spend the rest of your life alone.
The hell is wrong with you?
It's not a game, you clearly have no respect for your partner.
Doing it for the buzz, better idea, go play on the motorway that'll give you a buzz and hopefully remove you from your partners life before you destroy it. who asked for ur opinion? Tried to no snap at u but ur doin my box in! See if u think I've not tried to get ma partner to explore new stuff, but she's not into it and I respect her for it, so won't push it! This is another option and ur opinion means feck all! So away n toll some1 ere"
If you're trying to fuck people behind her back you don't have any respect for her can you not understand that you horrible little man. |
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living in a small rural town of only c.3000 people with a strong community bond, and bloody nosy at that, I have found people wont risk it, although I probably would, as its as much a risk for me as for them, and prepared to keep it that way. The trouble is being spotted when half the town knows you and your business, or wants to know. If they dont know, they tend to guess it! |
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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"Haw hull boy..... Away yi go n get yirsel laid! Ur boring me now! "
sounds pushy to me.
dont be nasty to people on here, it doesnt do you any favours.
hes entitled to tell you how he feels about your situation, just as you are entitled to ignore him..
however you are showing up your character, which isnt that attractive being honest x |
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"Haw hull boy..... Away yi go n get yirsel laid! Ur boring me now! "
I'm getting laid, and I'm on here, and my partner knows I am because we talked about it because I had the respect for her to tell her I was already on here but I'm not going to even consider meeting anyone without her consent given of her own free will without me pressuring her, alls good in my world. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So let me get this straight... you want to ruin your partners life because you think that'd be enjoyable for you... and you'd like to do it in your own back yard?!?!? Seems like you may be a few sandwiches short of a picnic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Location isn't an issue. Its not like we'd be fucking, in the local Supermarket.
The only problem comes with fuckwits who cant distinguish between fab and everyday life. I go further afield. No locals."
Fuckwits aren't just regional, so there's no escaping them. Its not choosing them, that helps...and, nobody would stalk me for long, as guys tend to value, their nut sacks  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Haw hull boy..... Away yi go n get yirsel laid! Ur boring me now!
sounds pushy to me.
dont be nasty to people on here, it doesnt do you any favours.
hes entitled to tell you how he feels about your situation, just as you are entitled to ignore him..
however you are showing up your character, which isnt that attractive being honest x"
I accept he has an opinion but I'm not here to take that from him! He has a problem he can pm me, but to attack me on this...... Out of order! |
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Doesn't bother me, I've met a girl a couple of times who's a mile away. But I've also been turned down for being too close by. They assumed I'd know the husband. I wouldn't. I barely know the people in my street nevermind those in the surrounding couple of miles. But each to their own. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Doesn't bother me, I've met a girl a couple of times who's a mile away. But I've also been turned down for being too close by. They assumed I'd know the husband. I wouldn't. I barely know the people in my street nevermind those in the surrounding couple of miles. But each to their own. "
as long as ur having fun bud
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"Haw hull boy..... Away yi go n get yirsel laid! Ur boring me now!
sounds pushy to me.
dont be nasty to people on here, it doesnt do you any favours.
hes entitled to tell you how he feels about your situation, just as you are entitled to ignore him..
however you are showing up your character, which isnt that attractive being honest xI accept he has an opinion but I'm not here to take that from him! He has a problem he can pm me, but to attack me on this...... Out of order! "
Where's your typed Scottish accent suddenly dissappeared off to? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Location isn't an issue. Its not like we'd be fucking, in the local Supermarket.
The only problem comes with fuckwits who cant distinguish between fab and everyday life. I go further afield. No locals."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The closest I have played with is a ten minute walk across the fields.
It wouldn't bother me how close, I respect peoples privacy and would like to think others would do likewise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think what the OP really means is he's been here two weeks with a one liner profile and no pictures and is wondering why nobody will meet him thinking it's fuckfest2015
No pictures, emphasis on discreet, can't accommodate... My bets are on married/attached trying to play away and thinks we're all stupid crazy people gagging for a shag.
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You're in for a shocker then, with an average of ten men per woman your chances are low.
There are lots of single men, lots of one's with better profiles, lots who can accommodate, lots without betters bodies and bigger cocks.
In short you have nothing to offer, but good luck... "
But judgemental ... Maybe a genuine guy....
Didn't realise you were Lord fab lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think what the OP really means is he's been here two weeks with a one liner profile and no pictures and is wondering why nobody will meet him thinking it's fuckfest2015
No pictures, emphasis on discreet, can't accommodate... My bets are on married/attached trying to play away and thinks we're all stupid crazy people gagging for a shag.
correct
You're in for a shocker then, with an average of ten men per woman your chances are low.
There are lots of single men, lots of one's with better profiles, lots who can accommodate, lots without betters bodies and bigger cocks.
In short you have nothing to offer, but good luck...
But judgemental ... Maybe a genuine guy....
Didn't realise you were Lord fab lol "
leave him to it. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Location isn't an issue. Its not like we'd be fucking, in the local Supermarket.
The only problem comes with fuckwits who cant distinguish between fab and everyday life. I go further afield. No locals."
I find Waitrose is better  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This thread appears to be all about the buzz which a guy thinks he would get by cheating on his wife under her nose. It doesn't seem to be enough for him to simply cheat on his wife... he thinks he'd get more of a buzz if it was really close to home and his wife was unaware of it. Perhaps with her best friend or with a neighbor. As there seems to be no added sexual thrill in keeping things so local, I can only interpret that the actual thrill he is seeking is in showing his wife up to be a fool, in sneaking around right under her nose, in purposefully demeaning and degrading her.
Apologies if that seems a bit heavy handed of me... but I can't see any other reason in it all  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't send face pics or play local area ,
We have teenager and don't want to risk them finding out their mum and dad are swinging lol
Very paranoid about being found out actually as I like having a secret life lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have only seen a hand full of local profiles who I would meet, But I'm not what they are looking for, So most if not all my meets will be out of town visits |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Haw hull boy..... Away yi go n get yirsel laid! Ur boring me now!
sounds pushy to me.
dont be nasty to people on here, it doesnt do you any favours.
hes entitled to tell you how he feels about your situation, just as you are entitled to ignore him..
however you are showing up your character, which isnt that attractive being honest x"
Did you read cheddars attack? And he's got form. He was even nastier on the last thread. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Haw hull boy..... Away yi go n get yirsel laid! Ur boring me now!
sounds pushy to me.
dont be nasty to people on here, it doesnt do you any favours.
hes entitled to tell you how he feels about your situation, just as you are entitled to ignore him..
however you are showing up your character, which isnt that attractive being honest x
Did you read cheddars attack? And he's got form. He was even nastier on the last thread."
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Since I don't cheat or sleep with women who are cheating, I have no issue with locals.
the wife and I did have a threesome with a guy who lived just 200 yards from us and perhaps that was a bit close. He came round a couple of times suggesting a repeat when we weren't really up for it. But to be fair the last time we saw him was one December when he popped over with a Christmas card. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We don't worry about where they live. My only issues with local was the guy that decided to talk to me at the school or the other one that would send me daily updates about what I was wearing or what was on my washing line "
That is scary almost physcho |
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Jerry (tomandjerry) as long as they are genuine swingers does it matter we are all looking for the same fun and frolics plus it's quite funny to meet people you know, who you didn't know were like minded as yourselves can make things so so much more relaxed and fun |
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Never again as one of the guys I met turned out to be a teacher at my sons school and text me as he was sitting on the table next to mine when I was having a very serious conversation about my son messing up his AS levels. Obviously not a parent himself, as my son is always more important than a meet .... very very annoying. |
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"Haw hull boy..... Away yi go n get yirsel laid! Ur boring me now!
I'm getting laid, and I'm on here, and my partner knows I am because we talked about it because I had the respect for her to tell her I was already on here but I'm not going to even consider meeting anyone without her consent given of her own free will without me pressuring her, alls good in my world. "
Gosh, have heard that a lot before from attached men apparently playing with their partner's permission. An interesting turn up for the books ... |
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"Haw hull boy..... Away yi go n get yirsel laid! Ur boring me now!
I'm getting laid, and I'm on here, and my partner knows I am because we talked about it because I had the respect for her to tell her I was already on here but I'm not going to even consider meeting anyone without her consent given of her own free will without me pressuring her, alls good in my world.
Gosh, have heard that a lot before from attached men apparently playing with their partner's permission. An interesting turn up for the books ..."
I'm not playing at all, where did you get the impression I was? |
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By *abel-30Woman
over a year ago
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I play local to myself. I play with someone on my street. I play with people further away.
All about disgression when playing with someone close by. I work with the public in my home town, if I tend to get a feeling that it wouldn't be kept between us then it's a no go.
I turn down local people for many reasons. Attached and partner don't know, being pushy, unattractive, not having same interests. I could go on.
For me location has little to do with it, it's more about the person than there postal code |
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"Haw hull boy..... Away yi go n get yirsel laid! Ur boring me now!
I'm getting laid, and I'm on here, and my partner knows I am because we talked about it because I had the respect for her to tell her I was already on here but I'm not going to even consider meeting anyone without her consent given of her own free will without me pressuring her, alls good in my world.
Gosh, have heard that a lot before from attached men apparently playing with their partner's permission. An interesting turn up for the books ...
I'm not playing at all, where did you get the impression I was? "
I suppose it is based on my assumption that when I was in a vanilla relationship I deleted my account, so would assume anyone in a committed relationship with someone they had met in the vanilla world to do the same or to have a couple account. I have read many posts on the forum basically blasting married guys for being on here, not necessarily meeting, saying that their wife knew, but no-one really believing them. On other words, blasted for being on here ..... For myself, and in terms of my own relationship, although we state we meet and both have single profiles, in practise we have found that our relationship is the priority and we very rarely get the urge. If and when we decide to give up on the lifestyle, we would delete the accounts, or suspend them as we have enough contacts through friends from the scene by whatsapp and text and no need to frequent the site. Seems a but weird to be blasting men in a relationship for being here and then profess to be one .... glass houses and all that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Seems like they don't!
We do and don't find it an issue if they are true singles or couples"
I feel the same way.. But I find it difficult to trust couples or singles, due to not wanting to send many photos and then the fact majority send one liners or don't reply x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why would it be a risk??? If anything its more of a bonus.
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we prefer local meets, less driving time, more play time! plus we don't particularly feel the need to hide our swinging side away, not ashamed of it at all, m x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's like today, weather is crap, tons of stuff I need to do but would really like a quick play. So a local buddy ready to play would be great but highly unlikely!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I play local to myself. I play with someone on my street. I play with people further away.
All about disgression when playing with someone close by. I work with the public in my home town, if I tend to get a feeling that it wouldn't be kept between us then it's a no go.
I turn down local people for many reasons. Attached and partner don't know, being pushy, unattractive, not having same interests. I could go on.
For me location has little to do with it, it's more about the person than there postal code "
yeah fair play. Must admit it goin me goin when a seen how close u were, but I think I'd have bottled out. Lol |
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