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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well, it's pretty forthright and maybe a bit officious but I'd not go as far as aggressive.
Guessing it would appeal to those who appreciate straight talk.
If it's worked for you up to now and helped filter people you wouldn't have wanted then that's good?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't say it was aggressive at all to be honest. Ignore him, if he's not interested because if it then why bother saying it?"
he was a bald man.not sure why he bothered to moan really.im not changing what i dont find attractive just for him |
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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago
London / Herts |
Perhaps aggressive is a strong word, but I do think it's quite cold  there isn't much joy in it, and quite a bit of negativity. Rather than listing what you don't like and don't do, why not put what your preferences are? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't say it was aggressive at all to be honest. Ignore him, if he's not interested because if it then why bother saying it?
he was a bald man.not sure why he bothered to moan really.im not changing what i dont find attractive just for him"
Ah well that's clear why he moaned as it excluded him and he took it as a personal insult. Your profile, if it works for you then great. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
Scotland - Aberdeen |
I think it can come across rather negative and I should know, as I kept adding to mine with all the crap I was being sent. Compared to what I wasn't looking for, it kind of out weighed the positive.
So now I have kind of lied and come across all warm and fuzzy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's a lot of negative statements and no positive statements xxx"
Not aggressive, but this. Needs more positives instead of dont's, but it is your right to point out what you want  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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IMO the profile is where you get your chance to sell yourself, why would someone pick you, and say what you want. If someone likes the sound of it and messages you, and you like the look of them, then you can say what your preferences or rules are. I've never understood why people put that they don't like cock pics, or people with certain features, or being called certain things, or certain terms etc. If someone sends you a message with any of these things in... just delete and move on. That's the way we see it anyway  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm cowering!
Buck buck buckaaah 
To be honest, I'm just shocked a single bloke read a profile.  "
see thats one of the reasons i didnt put too much on there.cos they really dont read it all.seems bluntness is all they understand.xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes its rather negative profile and as well the status is lol. Tell us more about you and all the fun things you wanna do, no need to put ethnic preference on a profile, just don't reply to them you don't want. |
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"Yes its rather negative profile and as well the status is lol. Tell us more about you and all the fun things you wanna do, no need to put ethnic preference on a profile, just don't reply to them you don't want."
Swedes make my turnips boil. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes its rather negative profile and as well the status is lol. Tell us more about you and all the fun things you wanna do, no need to put ethnic preference on a profile, just don't reply to them you don't want.
Swedes make my turnips boil. "
lol good one that. |
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It 's not aggressive and is very clear about what you want. However it does say very little about what you offer in return. I'm sure you are a fun person to be around but that doesn't come across in my profile. That said it's your profile and it's up to you what you write. I would suggest a capital 'I' though xxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've seen much more aggressive on here. If you wanted to change it (only if you want to, don't let what someone else thinks drive what you do with your profile) you could think about saying a bit more about what you do like as well as what you don't. |
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By *ilmisseCouple
over a year ago
leicestershire |
"see thats one of the reasons i didnt put too much on there.cos they really dont read it all.seems bluntness is all they understand.xx"
I don't think your profile or the use of the term "they" conveys you in a good way. Maybe if your profile and manner was better you would attract a better type of person on here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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well,i changed and deleted bits and pieces.not sure its any better.but what i did do,was to look and read other fem profiles.and low and behold there were some very aggy ones.lists of demands as long as my arm.so i think as it stands i will leave it for now.after all i am getting nice messages from alot of nice blokes.and i do still get meets.
thanks to all who took the time to help me.xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It makes you sound hard to please and that you are likely at any point in the meet to stop play quoting one of your plethora of "i don't likes". However, if this is you it is better to be honest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Your profile is an expression of yourself as a person and what you are looking for on here.
If you are happy that someone reading it would get a true sense of you and what you want then keep it as it is.
Change it if you want because you want.
The people who complain are those who don't meet your requiements! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a bit negative overall for me. But has plus points too.
Certainly not aggressive, I've seen loads that scream aggressive!
Wouldn't put me off if you messaged me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's much better than when I last looked. I'd suggest you lead with your positive points (general advice in any form of communication) i.e. put your last three paragraphs first. Also just say you can't travel and can't accommodate... no need to explain why
Of course, if something is really important info put that first... like we have at the top of our profile. Perhaps a simple "I can't accommodate and I can't travel" should be put at the top... followed by the nice stuff. Good luck |
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I think its positive OP ... youve gotta state exactly what you are looking for on here... else you get allsorts of cranks send you messages ...... saying that... my profile doesnt always get read ... and mines quite specific ..
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