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Do intelligent women stand a chance?
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Do mere men stand even the slightest chance of replies from such intelligent Women? 
Imagine saying," I dont understand my wife" - instead of " my wife doesnt understand me"
Love an intelligent lady it must be said.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or are they destined to always see through the hyperbole and rhetoric that is slung their way by lesser mortals?"
Naaah! They just see and hear what they want to. A lot like men.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well as hyperbole isn't meant to be taken literally then really there's nothing to see through... I would see it as an attempt to get your attention in an amusing way. So these people probably would have a chance with me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or are they destined to always see through the hyperbole and rhetoric that is slung their way by lesser mortals?"
Lesser mortals? - or those who simply haven't had the same educational opportunities as some?
in answer to your question though - like many (relatively) intelligent women I need a man with an intellect/personality along with muscles and a penis!
It's a tall order I know - but that's where the male:female ratio works in my favour!
I rarely have a bad meet! Lucky me!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends how they use their intellect. If it is to belittle others of lesser ability, then no. Otherwise yes, the brain is a great turn on and it gives you something to talk about between sex sessions.  |
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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago
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That depends on how one interprets intelligence; many so called intelligent people have no common sense and therefore let themselves down.
Others may be intelligent but are also repressed and fail to achieve their potential; others still are so conceited about their intellect that they are boring to others.
The truly intelligent amongst us have the ability to fit in to any situation and excel therefore not only do they stand a chance they succeed
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That depends on how one interprets intelligence; many so called intelligent people have no common sense and therefore let themselves down.
Others may be intelligent but are also repressed and fail to achieve their potential; others still are so conceited about their intellect that they are boring to others.
The truly intelligent amongst us have the ability to fit in to any situation and excel therefore not only do they stand a chance they succeed
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Oh so true....most don't know how intelligent I am as I deliberately hide it after years of abuse. Most just think I'm a dippy, bubbly women, but when needed I come out all gun blazing
Some think that spouting a few fancy words makes them loom intelligent but most are used in the wrong context and just makes me think they've been using Google or a thesaurus and selected words they think sound good!
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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago
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just not going to bother arguing with anyones perception of me...
you'll see what you want to see..
everyones entitled to their 'truth'
to seek a commonality is a greater feat, imo x |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
Ooh, lesser mortals, that made me shudder a little. A few degrees flying around the house but it's nice to be around those I/we've come from. Makes little difference to meets and they're plentiful too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"just not going to bother arguing with anyones perception of me...
you'll see what you want to see..
everyones entitled to their 'truth'
to seek a commonality is a greater feat, imo x"
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"to seek a commonality is a greater feat, imo x"
Like that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was realising that "lesser mortals" was tongue-in-cheek the intelligence test here? Christ some of you love to get indignant  "
Ooh, you must be REALLY intelligent to have worked that one out! |
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By *atEvolutionCouple
over a year ago
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"That depends on how one interprets intelligence; many so called intelligent people have no common sense and therefore let themselves down.
Others may be intelligent but are also repressed and fail to achieve their potential; others still are so conceited about their intellect that they are boring to others.
The truly intelligent amongst us have the ability to fit in to any situation and excel therefore not only do they stand a chance they succeed
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or are they destined to always see through the hyperbole and rhetoric that is slung their way by lesser mortals?
Lesser mortals? - or those who simply haven't had the same educational opportunities as some?
in answer to your question though - like many (relatively) intelligent women I need a man with an intellect/personality along with muscles and a penis!
It's a tall order I know - but that's where the male:female ratio works in my favour!
I rarely have a bad meet! Lucky me!! "
Interesting that you say that some haven't had the same educational opportunities. Everyone has similar opportunities in this country, don't confuse wealth and intelligence.
It's just that some choose not to apply themselves at school because as they might put it "bovvered".
In answer to the first question. You're obviously seeking out the wrong suitors. There are plenty of intellectual men and women on here from all walks of life. And that's just from observation.
Not that it's got me laid though. Although that's probably more about lack of trying. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or are they destined to always see through the hyperbole and rhetoric that is slung their way by lesser mortals?"
I'm unsure of your meaning OP. What exactly do you mean when you say 'stand a chance '?
Due to d ratio of men to women on here then all women are virtually guaranteed meets. If you mean is their intellect a barrier towards them meeting with men they may consider to be shallow or less intelligent ?....then perhaps, but isn't it the case that most women on here use their own decerning tastes and intuition to select meets rather than necessarily bringing intellectual compatibility / similarities into the forefront of their selection processes ? If the later question is closest to your intended meaning, then I'm sure as the vast vast majority of women on here are intelligent, their intelligence is probably only going to hinder the fun of a small minority of people who believe themselves to be of vastly superior wisdom and knowledge to most other fabbers.....thus leaving them little choice but to arrange a sub-group of FabMENSA......or go shag themselves !
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By *onyneMan
over a year ago
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There is nothing more of a turn on than intelligence in a woman. That and good common sense, and good attitude to life and the obvious sense of humour...all the other physical stuff is second to those. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends how you want to define intelligent. Are you intelligent because you have a high iq, or are you just good at solving puzzles and lateral thinking.
Are you intelligent because you got all the questions right in your specialist subject in mastermind,or are you just could at studying and retaining facts and figures.
To me being intelligent is being able to absorb the information around you and to be able to use this to adapt to situations you find yourself in. Alongside commonsense this is invaluable to get on in life... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just for the record... because some people have missed the sarcasm... yesterday there was a whole spate of threads of 'Do X people stand a chance'. This was just another one.
But watching the indignation has been amusing. |
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"It depends how they use their intellect. If it is to belittle others of lesser ability, then no. Otherwise yes, the brain is a great turn on and it gives you something to talk about between sex sessions. "
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"Just for the record... because some people have missed the sarcasm... yesterday there was a whole spate of threads of 'Do X people stand a chance'. This was just another one.
But watching the indignation has been amusing."
You mean non regular forum readers don't stand a chance?
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"Just for the record... because some people have missed the sarcasm... yesterday there was a whole spate of threads of 'Do X people stand a chance'. This was just another one.
But watching the indignation has been amusing."
You mean non regular forum readers don't stand a chance?
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"Just for the record... because some people have missed the sarcasm... yesterday there was a whole spate of threads of 'Do X people stand a chance'. This was just another one.
But watching the indignation has been amusing.
You mean non regular forum readers don't stand a chance?
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Oh don't you start |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is nothing more of a turn on than intelligence in a woman. That and good common sense, and good attitude to life and the obvious sense of humour...all the other physical stuff is second to those."
Ah! But the trouble with common sense is......it is not that common. |
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"watching the indignation has been amusing."
Using a judgemental put down in your OP is guaranteed to fire up the indignation, especially when each reader defines the question differently. I seen impassioned arguments for qualification-based intellect, that liberalism=intelligence, IQ wars, emotional intelligence etc etc etc.
Its a broad church. While I personally avoid the gullible/vulnerable/withdrawn, I find strong willed intelligence leads to people "knowing what they want" and narrowing their experience. Give me an enthusiastic, engaging, dithyrambic woman any day! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well it made me laugh anyway "
And me.
I think that makes me up myself, lacking self awareness, arrogant and the root of all evil. According to the vibes I'm picking up from this thread  |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"Well it made me laugh anyway
And me.
I think that makes me up myself, lacking self awareness, arrogant and the root of all evil. According to the vibes I'm picking up from this thread "
That's not due to your intelligence, it's because you're young and beautiful...
;-) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well it made me laugh anyway
And me.
I think that makes me up myself, lacking self awareness, arrogant and the root of all evil. According to the vibes I'm picking up from this thread
That's not due to your intelligence, it's because you're young and beautiful...
;-)"
Nice thread cross pollination |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
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"Well it made me laugh anyway
And me.
I think that makes me up myself, lacking self awareness, arrogant and the root of all evil. According to the vibes I'm picking up from this thread
That's not due to your intelligence, it's because you're young and beautiful...
;-)
Nice thread cross pollination "
Almost clever.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well it made me laugh anyway
And me.
I think that makes me up myself, lacking self awareness, arrogant and the root of all evil. According to the vibes I'm picking up from this thread
That's not due to your intelligence, it's because you're young and beautiful...
;-)
Nice thread cross pollination
Almost clever. "
Careful now  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well it made me laugh anyway
And me.
I think that makes me up myself, lacking self awareness, arrogant and the root of all evil. According to the vibes I'm picking up from this thread
That's not due to your intelligence, it's because you're young and beautiful...
;-)
Nice thread cross pollination
Almost clever. "
Almost...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"i would think an intelligent woman would already know the answer and not have to ask on a forum .... so youv probaby nothing to worry about  "
*Phew!* |
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"Well it made me laugh anyway
And me.
I think that makes me up myself, lacking self awareness, arrogant and the root of all evil. According to the vibes I'm picking up from this thread
That's not due to your intelligence, it's because you're young and beautiful...
;-)
Nice thread cross pollination
Almost clever.
Almost...
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Yep she stands a chance...almost
#notboredyet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or are they destined to always see through the hyperbole and rhetoric that is slung their way by lesser mortals?"
All I can say here is I long for an intelligent woman, such a turn on to be able to discuss real current affairs before, after or during a liason xx |
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"Or are they destined to always see through the hyperbole and rhetoric that is slung their way by lesser mortals?
All I can say here is I long for an intelligent woman, such a turn on to be able to discuss real current affairs before, after or during a liason xx"
I'm not sure even the most intelligent women is going to want to discuss Gideon Osbornes economic theories during a meet I'm afraid
At least I hope not |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Or are they destined to always see through the hyperbole and rhetoric that is slung their way by lesser mortals?
All I can say here is I long for an intelligent woman, such a turn on to be able to discuss real current affairs before, after or during a liason xx
I'm not sure even the most intelligent women is going to want to discuss Gideon Osbornes economic theories during a meet I'm afraid
At least I hope not "
Hey you never know? |
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Intelligence is great. Being a pretentious wanker who is clearly trying to appear better than others is tiresome.
Disclaimer: I am not referring to any particular post in this thread more just making a general point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Intellegent women clearly stand a chance...they may well see through... Lets call it bullshite... But thats a good thing...
And you never know there may even be Intellegent conversations to be had...once the bullshite filter has done its job...
So i fully support the cause for Intellegent women to be on this site...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just for the record... because some people have missed the sarcasm... yesterday there was a whole spate of threads of 'Do X people stand a chance'. This was just another one.
But watching the indignation has been amusing."
I suppose some peoples responses could also be based on the opening post.
The sarcasm vibe wasn't standing out for me tbh, maybe because I haven't been on here for a week..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just for the record... because some people have missed the sarcasm... yesterday there was a whole spate of threads of 'Do X people stand a chance'. This was just another one.
But watching the indignation has been amusing.
I suppose some peoples responses could also be based on the opening post.
The sarcasm vibe wasn't standing out for me tbh, maybe because I haven't been on here for a week....."
Even based solely on the opening post, I thought it was pretty obvious that "lesser mortals" wasn't serious.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just for the record... because some people have missed the sarcasm... yesterday there was a whole spate of threads of 'Do X people stand a chance'. This was just another one.
But watching the indignation has been amusing.
I suppose some peoples responses could also be based on the opening post.
The sarcasm vibe wasn't standing out for me tbh, maybe because I haven't been on here for a week.....
Even based solely on the opening post, I thought it was pretty obvious that "lesser mortals" wasn't serious...."
Again it depends..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or are they destined to always see through the hyperbole and rhetoric that is slung their way by lesser mortals?"
Are you suggesting that you reject compliments?
If so all I can say is that you are also rejecting the honest men that only say it if they mean it.
Is that intelligence |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like an intelligent woman, but to be honest, I'm not on fab to find someone interesting and who I can converse with. Because that means I might end up liking you, which means that I would get unnecessarily jealous over things once I start thinking about all the men you've shagged.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or are they destined to always see through the hyperbole and rhetoric that is slung their way by lesser mortals?"
I really enjoy meeting intelligent women.
As long as they don't have a rod up their arse and utterly full of themselves that is... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or are they destined to always see through the hyperbole and rhetoric that is slung their way by lesser mortals?
I really enjoy meeting intelligent women.
As long as they don't have a rod up their arse and utterly full of themselves that is..."
Rod = phallus = damn hard cock. Which means I'd not be full of myself but full of another  . Bring it on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I live buy 3 gold rules:-
1 Always listen (as silence can be deafening)
2 The lady is always right!
And if all else fails:-
3 And nobody expects the Spanish inquisition!"
No 3 - brilliant |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or are they destined to always see through the hyperbole and rhetoric that is slung their way by lesser mortals?"
No chance men like women less intelligent than them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or are they destined to always see through the hyperbole and rhetoric that is slung their way by lesser mortals?
No chance men like women less intelligent than them"
That fucks me right up then, but not in a good way |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Or are they destined to always see through the hyperbole and rhetoric that is slung their way by lesser mortals?
I really enjoy meeting intelligent women.
As long as they don't have a rod up their arse and utterly full of themselves that is..."
Who's Rod ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not sure how you measure the intelligence of anybody, I have a chemistry degree from Cambridge, hubby does not, I don't think I have a higher level of intelligence than him, so is this whole thread mute? Are we measuring and assuming levels of intelligence by what's posted on here, by the profiles, by the little time we may physically spend in the company of other swingers? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As long as the dumb ones are hot, I don't care. "
The dumb ones usually are hot the clever ones rely on their brains and personality as common sense ( to women only ) that men like that .
I blame East Enders and bianca Jackson men like quiet women not opiniated bossy shouting miserable ones . Men certainly don't like women who nag them into doing things or even worse the ones that think that suggestion they made to us is the mans idea ,
I am sure speaking a lot and constant attention is insecurity and even though it's flattering to start with its annoying. After 10 minutes
Women should stay at home look after the children and the old. They should hang around with other women and leave us men to go to the pub etc etc
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"Not sure how you measure the intelligence of anybody, I have a chemistry degree from Cambridge, hubby does not, I don't think I have a higher level of intelligence than him, so is this whole thread mute? Are we measuring and assuming levels of intelligence by what's posted on here, by the profiles, by the little time we may physically spend in the company of other swingers? "
Moot, not mute. |
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