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Verified Single Men

By *LCC OP Couple over a year ago

Cambridge

I just saw a post by a single man asking how to get verified. Obviously verifications for single women and MF couples are important to prove that there really is a woman involved, but for those of you who look to play with single men, do you care about the verifications? If a single man is NOT verified, I doubt people are thinking "I wonder if its just a woman pretending to be man..."

So is it important for a single man to get verified?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Must be George in afrika wiring the profiles

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By *iSTARessWoman over a year ago

London

Hell yes, boys need real life (not cam) verifications to get in my under crackers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have met men with no verifications. I chat the same as ones with loads.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do 'hope' it helps prove that I'm genuine and not here to waste time.

That's one thing we could all do without!!!!

Even we (men) get a few time waters!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's easier to get meets and interest if we have actual verifications from meeting in person

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By *udistnorthantsMan over a year ago

Desborough

"It's easier to get meets and interest if we have actual verifications from meeting in person "

I'll second that

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By *etzPlayCouple over a year ago

Southend

We like everyone having Photo Verification, specially singles

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I meet non verified guys coz i webcam first. The problem isnt women posing as men, its the hundreds of men who use stolen pics on their profile. But they're the ones who wont come on cam so ing out the fakes is easy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Im always happy to go on Skyoe first to prove its me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Im always happy to go on Skyoe first to prove its me

No way is anyone from here getting my Skype name

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By *horltzMan over a year ago

heysham

"Im always happy to go on Skyoe first to prove its me

No way is anyone from here getting my Skype name

Aww go on , I double dare you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Im always happy to go on Skyoe first to prove its me

No way is anyone from here getting my Skype name

Have you made the mistake and included you name or is it just a really naughty or sexy username?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

its not important for any one to be verified. There are loads of fake verifications which makes the whole thing pointless.

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

Mine have helped me on here but I don't seek new ones any longer

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I go off the recommendations of other single ladies. In the North we talk -a lot lol.

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By *at69driveMan over a year ago

Hertford

"I just saw a post by a single man asking how to get verified. Obviously verifications for single women and MF couples are important to prove that there really is a woman involved, but for those of you who look to play with single men, do you care about the verifications? If a single man is NOT verified, I doubt people are thinking "I wonder if its just a woman pretending to be man..."

So is it important for a single man to get verified?"
. Verifications don't mean anything .I never read verifications as they all say the same thing. I read the content of the profile and look at the pictures. From that I make my own judgement . A two line profile will be ignored

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By *onnie and JohnCouple over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

We look for a written profile, verifications if any add a little, but its the first meet that counts.. connie x

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By *iss_tressWoman over a year ago

London

So is it important for a single man to get verified?"

I'm here to meet single men of my choosing. What other strangers have to say about them means absolutely nothing to me.

I met my other half on here and he didn't have any verifications.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Im always happy to go on Skyoe first to prove its me

No way is anyone from here getting my Skype name

This

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
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If a profile has been here a year and no effort has been made to verify it either with meeting or photo verifying then it's very unlikely that I'll be putting any effort into them

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By *ait88Man over a year ago

Plymouth

Some women even want to know who did the verifying. If it was the local bicycle, or this one, or that couple,they block you! Us single men have to jump through a lot of hoops. And rightly, so because we don't have a partner, and can't therefore be "swingers". By definition.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As a couple , if you are looking for a meet on a Wednesday night as you are unexpectedly free and you are both at work . When you get home the kids need bathing , feeding ,etc and you barely have time to put a meet up .who are you more likely to choose ?

The guy that's been on the site for over a year with no veris , or the guy who has a few ?

The opportunity to chat a while with an unverified member who hasn't met in over a year isn't there !

So we know who we would choose

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't feel the need to get verified as I am not desperate and also I don't need to prove I am genuine, as who else would type this? lol.

We all know a woman with no veris would have no problem as they just need to spread their legs so to speak lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not important to me as meet at partys, I've verified many men who have been here over a year, sometimes we chat here first or sometimes exchange profile names whilst at a party

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't feel the need to get verified as I am not desperate and also I don't need to prove I am genuine, as who else would type this? lol.

We all know a woman with no veris would have no problem as they just need to spread their legs so to speak lol

I'm guessing it would rather spoil the whole 'shag tonight' persona you have on here now if you were verified from a meeting in person .

Considering you have a meet now on your profile 24/7 , and are still on zero , nil , zilch . none , it could be argued that having none after a long time on the site validates my point ?

Or am I wrong ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
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"I don't feel the need to get verified as I am not desperate and also I don't need to prove I am genuine, as who else would type this? lol.

We all know a woman with no veris would have no problem as they just need to spread their legs so to speak lol

Stop acting like a bitter cock

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't feel the need to get verified as I am not desperate and also I don't need to prove I am genuine, as who else would type this? lol.

We all know a woman with no veris would have no problem as they just need to spread their legs so to speak lol

Stop acting like a bitter cock"
I don't actually ok.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago
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"I don't feel the need to get verified as I am not desperate and also I don't need to prove I am genuine, as who else would type this? lol.

We all know a woman with no veris would have no problem as they just need to spread their legs so to speak lol

Stop acting like a bitter cockI don't actually ok."

Ok ...hope you get your shagtonight

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't feel the need to get verified as I am not desperate and also I don't need to prove I am genuine, as who else would type this? lol.

We all know a woman with no veris would have no problem as they just need to spread their legs so to speak lol

I'm guessing it would rather spoil the whole 'shag tonight' persona you have on here now if you were verified from a meeting in person .

Considering you have a meet now on your profile 24/7 , and are still on zero , nil , zilch . none , it could be argued that having none after a long time on the site validates my point ?

Or am I wrong ?

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No your not wrong so I have to be a timewaster lol I just put them up for the fun of it really and as well I hardly do any searchers. I just don't put in the effort really.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't care if people are verified or not. I use my own methods for deciding whether to chat or meet. Profiles and photos mean nothing either. I have met some very nice unverified people with no public pics and just a one line profile.

Many people do use verifications as some sort of 'proof'. So verifications are important to some people.

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By *LCC OP Couple over a year ago

Cambridge

So it seems as though the single men think it's Very important, but the single women and couples seem to be split 50:50 on the matter

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So it seems as though the single men think it's Very important, but the single women and couples seem to be split 50:50 on the matter "

We think it's important. It's about whether they just talk the talk or actually have a personality & social skills when you meet them. How many forum threads are there about men claiming to be 'bulls' for cuckold couples and having no idea what a bull actually is other than a guy shagging your wife...

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By *at69driveMan over a year ago

Hertford

"As a couple , if you are looking for a meet on a Wednesday night as you are unexpectedly free and you are both at work . When you get home the kids need bathing , feeding ,etc and you barely have time to put a meet up .who are you more likely to choose ?

The guy that's been on the site for over a year with no veris , or the guy who has a few ?

The opportunity to chat a while with an unverified member who hasn't met in over a year isn't there !

So we know who we would choose

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Can you not make your decision from the content of the profile , profile pictures and a quick telephone call. ?. A good well written profile wins my attention every time . I cannot be bothered reading verifications , most of which appear to be completely meaningless . They all say the same thing.

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By *abioMan over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

does it help... sure...

is it a dealbreaker...... nope

i am not so bothered about the sexual aspects of verification because that is subjective and no two people will like the same things...

but as a social guide... the fact they are who they say they are, the fact they can have a normal conversation and be an all round person can be as important!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The guy that's been on the site for over a year with no veris , or the guy who has a few ?

The opportunity to chat a while with an unverified member who hasn't met in over a year isn't there !

So we know who we would choose

Can you not make your decision from the content of the profile , profile pictures and a quick telephone call. ?. A good well written profile wins my attention every time . I cannot be bothered reading verifications , most of which appear to be completely meaningless . They all say the same thing.

Agree. Its a stranger, verifying a stranger who is a stranger to you. I prefer to make my own decision about someone and not base it on what someone who probably only met them once says.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So it seems as though the single men think it's Very important, but the single women and couples seem to be split 50:50 on the matter "

Are they important? Yes, to an extent as part of a whole raft of other tools we use to make a decision...are they so important that we won't meet unverified people? No...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I go off the recommendations of other single ladies. In the North we talk -a lot lol."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've never seen one that says 'awful night unpleasant people stay well clear' so are they ever a true reflection on the person /people as no one would never show a bad verification.

should there be just a simple list saying met in person by ????? and maybe have another tab for anyone wanting to leave comments

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well. Thank goodness nowone agrees! That would be dull.

I got photo verified as I felt that was a safety issue for others. As for meet verifications. I park all over the south west. I have met a few members, some just for a natter (including some in this thread) and some for a lot more. Many of those members know each other and I am quite happy for them all NOT to know which members I get to know really well and which ones I just chat to when I bump into them. Mutual attraction is a two way street. Some places you visit.. The whole world is a fab member )especially around glos!). Other places.. Nowone you meet is a fab member. So for me it works having no meet verifications. Those who need to know.. Know! And those who don't yet.. Its the fun of finding out for ourselves.

suppose I should add that with some I know, I am actually outside their age spec, so fab is not the way we keep in touch let alone feel the need to verify a meet.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So is it important for a single man to get verified?"

No. Doesn't bother me. Other websites I use for casual sex don't have verifications of any kind.

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By *onyneMan over a year ago

Newcastle

"does it help... sure...

is it a dealbreaker...... nope

i am not so bothered about the sexual aspects of verification because that is subjective and no two people will like the same things...

but as a social guide... the fact they are who they say they are, the fact they can have a normal conversation and be an all round person can be as important!"

Absolutely agree...

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

"does it help... sure...

is it a dealbreaker...... nope

i am not so bothered about the sexual aspects of verification because that is subjective and no two people will like the same things...

but as a social guide... the fact they are who they say they are, the fact they can have a normal conversation and be an all round person can be as important!

Absolutely agree..."

I agree with this too.

If most of the veris for a single guy are consistent in their outline of character and non-sexual attributes, then I'm sure they can be helpful..

The sexual stuff is not the only aspect to be included nor necessarily regarded as the most important by some.

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By *oxy_minxWoman over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've met unverified men, I don't need other peoples opinions in order to make up my mind whether I want to meet them or not.

The fact I take the time to get to know them allows me to know if we will get on or not.

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By *aeBabeWoman over a year ago

London

So is it important for a single man to get verified?"

Yes I think so... I would only like to meet unverified men at a club, not specifically to meet them, but if I just so happen to be there that night... Weed out the fakes

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By *lighty1Woman over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

I agree that verifications for single women and MF couples are important, to prove that there really is a woman involved. Verifications for single males mean nothing to me, as no-one pretends to be a single male.

However, the filters section and the browse section both have just the ONE option to block/not browse 'unverified' profiles (regardless of type of profile). This is a bit of a blunt tool, and probably accounts for why so many single males think that they really need to get a verification.

It would probably be better to be able to make one choice for F/MF profiles and a different choice for M profiles. This might help single males see that getting a verification isn't really the most important thing.

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By *aeBabeWoman over a year ago

London

"I agree that verifications for single women and MF couples are important, to prove that there really is a woman involved. Verifications for single males mean nothing to me, as no-one pretends to be a single male.

Some men do pretend to be a single man... Just not them. Some have posed as someone else more attractive to get the attention that they would not normally get and then fantasise about meeting these girls then not actually showing up to meets

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Verifications are usually a good sign that their pics they have used are theirs and also they're not an axe murderer.

I have also met many men without any veris, ususally just choose to wing it in those situations or ask for specific types of pics to prove its really them.

Worked out for me so far.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

After reading through all these comments , I have to say , I agree with yours.

It's not a dealbreaker , I judge by the way the messages go, I think I have a good instinct , plus I have my preferences.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The guy that's been on the site for over a year with no veris , or the guy who has a few ?

The opportunity to chat a while with an unverified member who hasn't met in over a year isn't there !

So we know who we would choose

I know you wouldn't , but if you did , you would see we have met loads of unverified people . Men , women and couples .

So yes we can , and do .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The guy that's been on the site for over a year with no veris , or the guy who has a few ?

The opportunity to chat a while with an unverified member who hasn't met in over a year isn't there !

So we know who we would choose

I know you wouldn't , but if you did , you would see we have met loads of unverified people . Men , women and couples .

So yes we can , and do .

i wouldnt look back at my meets on my profile(or older profile)as 'meaningless',the person thinks I meant something to them..regardless of what others think..

I've met some of the same people for around 10 years, some just socially..obviously I dont need a new verification on each meet.

whether people like it or not, statistically everyone can be sure there are more verified people meeting than non verified.

while some like harping on about hearing a "strangers" words...I can most of the time feel at ease knowing someones met someone I know/met...and I vet quite harshly before going out the door for a meet if I'm unsure...the verification system provides a small tool to help too much hard work.

I also like to know that people are active, if no meets in a good few months(lets say a year then)..despite being verified..I'll question the validity of a meet progressing.

lastly..there are fucking lotta people complaining they get meets on other sites...but theres something wrong on this site..and they are the bees knees..shagged 20women one night etc etc...and 15 last week... *one year later..they still scream THIS sites shite...

we all know the most likely truth.

Its not just guys I'd aim this at...couples and fems can be just the same..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've met unverified guys. Tbh i don't even look at their page for verifications, i look for up to date pics to see if i fancy them and if they sound fun or are a miserable/misogynistic person who i wouldn't wanna meet.

I have a nosey a veris if they have any to show.

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By *uncpl2015Couple over a year ago

Bridgend Area

So is it important for a single man to get verified?"

Absolutely. Would never consider a guy who wasn't meet verified. Goes a little way to prove they are genuine and likely to turn up If a meet was arranged.

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