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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I don't just mean put some knickers on.
I never knew this was in me until I tried it. The first time I shaved everything, moisturised and felt my skin feel like silk I was 42.
I dressed up in the things I bought from the Internet. My wife guided me with the makeup. I felt I looked a twat and then I pulled the wig on and looked in the mirror..... 
If you haven't tried it. I mean properly tried it you'll not know how liberating it feels.
I know most of you guys never will and won't want to but if you do and can get past feeling self conscious, worrying what others will think, worrying if you're suddenly less of a man..... |
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"Any other late starters online today?
How was it for you when you first dressed up?"
I've been dressing for years one way or another, but a lady friend did it properly for the first time for me a few weeks ago: Make up, lingerie, wig, jewellery. I felt fantastic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Totally agree with that  tried it a while ago and was shocked. Look a lot better as a female then male lol but only tried it once or twice and my wife was the one who got me to try it. Also makes you appreciate what women go through day to day |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Love to give it a go....in fact you're on my hotlist...just a matter of taking the plunge...  "
My first time out in a vanilla environment was a new year fancy dress. To be fair I did play things down a bit. No boobs or cleavage creation. I wore a halterneck dress so I didn't display my tattoos either.
It still created a stir and I was asked why I'd shaved my legs and underarms. I just said I do everything I do properly.
Life is too short not to take the plunge and do what you want. Regret the things you do.
And thank you. Hot list? |
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"I don't just mean put some knickers on.
I never knew this was in me until I tried it. The first time I shaved everything, moisturised and felt my skin feel like silk I was 42.
I dressed up in the things I bought from the Internet. My wife guided me with the makeup. I felt I looked a twat and then I pulled the wig on and looked in the mirror.....
If you haven't tried it. I mean properly tried it you'll not know how liberating it feels.
I know most of you guys never will and won't want to but if you do and can get past feeling self conscious, worrying what others will think, worrying if you're suddenly less of a man....."
I'm sorry but no.
You must have felt at least partly androgynous or had urges before and you finally got the confidence to try dressing, good for you, really.
But don't assume other people all secretly want to do it too the majority of men are perfectly happy being men. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't just mean put some knickers on.
I never knew this was in me until I tried it. The first time I shaved everything, moisturised and felt my skin feel like silk I was 42.
I dressed up in the things I bought from the Internet. My wife guided me with the makeup. I felt I looked a twat and then I pulled the wig on and looked in the mirror.....
If you haven't tried it. I mean properly tried it you'll not know how liberating it feels.
I know most of you guys never will and won't want to but if you do and can get past feeling self conscious, worrying what others will think, worrying if you're suddenly less of a man.....
I'm sorry but no.
You must have felt at least partly androgynous or had urges before and you finally got the confidence to try dressing, good for you, really.
But don't assume other people all secretly want to do it too the majority of men are perfectly happy being men. "
Nope. Never had the urge or even considered it. I knew I was bi but not that I'd enjoy being dressed up.
As for assuming other people all secretly want to do it.... Like I said; I know most guys never will and won't want to. Sorry if that wasn't perfectly clear. |
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Responding to the original title of the thread - of course I love dressing as a girl! There are just so many more possibilities for having sexy fun and why should genetic girls have a monopoly on wearing lovely, sexy clothes anyway?
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I know most of you guys never will and won't want to but if you do and can get past feeling self conscious, worrying what others will think, worrying if you're suddenly less of a man....."
Right there.
That's you saying if we can get past our feelings we secretly want to. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know most of you guys never will and won't want to but if you do and can get past feeling self conscious, worrying what others will think, worrying if you're suddenly less of a man.....
Right there.
That's you saying if we can get past our feelings we secretly want to. "
Perhaps text without inflection causes confusion.
That was me saying most of you guys never will and won't want to.
But if they do want to and can get past the reasons they don't.....
Again. Sorry if I didn't make myself clear enough. I'm well aware this isn't for the majority. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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I know most of you guys never will and won't want to but if you do and can get past feeling self conscious, worrying what others will think, worrying if you're suddenly less of a man.....
Right there.
That's you saying if we can get past our feelings we secretly want to. "
I thought the 'but if you do' was pretty clear.
I see nothing that says all men secretly want to do anything.
Haven't been eye tested in years though so maybe I'm missing something? 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know most of you guys never will and won't want to but if you do and can get past feeling self conscious, worrying what others will think, worrying if you're suddenly less of a man.....
Right there.
That's you saying if we can get past our feelings we secretly want to.
I thought the 'but if you do' was pretty clear.
I see nothing that says all men secretly want to do anything.
Haven't been eye tested in years though so maybe I'm missing something?
A"
Perhaps my punctuation was lacking. Should I have slotted in another comma? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I know most of you guys never will and won't want to but if you do and can get past feeling self conscious, worrying what others will think, worrying if you're suddenly less of a man.....
Right there.
That's you saying if we can get past our feelings we secretly want to.
I thought the 'but if you do' was pretty clear.
I see nothing that says all men secretly want to do anything.
Haven't been eye tested in years though so maybe I'm missing something?
A
Perhaps my punctuation was lacking. Should I have slotted in another comma? "
I understood what you meant my lovely xxx
And I think you look bloody good as both a man & a woman  |
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I know most of you guys never will and won't want to but if you do and can get past feeling self conscious, worrying what others will think, worrying if you're suddenly less of a man.....
Right there.
That's you saying if we can get past our feelings we secretly want to.
Perhaps text without inflection causes confusion.
That was me saying most of you guys never will and won't want to.
But if they do want to and can get past the reasons they don't.....
Again. Sorry if I didn't make myself clear enough. I'm well aware this isn't for the majority. "
Ah yes I see now, my apologies. I must be cracking on eyes ain't what they used to be |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I know most of you guys never will and won't want to but if you do and can get past feeling self conscious, worrying what others will think, worrying if you're suddenly less of a man.....
Right there.
That's you saying if we can get past our feelings we secretly want to.
Perhaps text without inflection causes confusion.
That was me saying most of you guys never will and won't want to.
But if they do want to and can get past the reasons they don't.....
Again. Sorry if I didn't make myself clear enough. I'm well aware this isn't for the majority.
Ah yes I see now, my apologies. I must be cracking on eyes ain't what they used to be "
No worries and thank you.
For the record; I'm not one of those who thinks most guys are bi or that all the straight guys would play with me if no one found out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Tried it out a few yrs ago and in past year with backing from wife i am getting back into it.. and yes it feels amazing..and liberating and i know how damn good it feels for you ladies and cds to pull on stockings and adore the delicious lace and mesh etc.. am i any less a man ..no .. more in tune with all of me now.. as the op said.. go for it.. try it.. life is too short and precious not to feel good in lingerie |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Rachael, you could be me. I went through hell for years just because I had the desire deep down, but felt it was 'wrong'.
I was 41, and only in the last 3 months have I gone the whole way - corsets and stockings and heels and makeup and all shaved smooth.
I still think I look dreadful, but I feel wonderful.
I went from dreading anybody knowing about it, to happily click clicking down the street in my stilettos and have told most of my friends.
I work in an extremely macho industry, and yet the response of most of my friends and contacts is 'damn, you look hot as a chick!'
I find my personality changes when dressed. So much so that I had to name my female side.
In all of this, my greatest thing is the sense of love and acceptance and passion from my partner, Cass. She has embraced this side of me and drawn it out to be the best it can be.
I wish all men who want to dress where as lucky as I am.
Love
Jane
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Rachael, you could be me. I went through hell for years just because I had the desire deep down, but felt it was 'wrong'.
I was 41, and only in the last 3 months have I gone the whole way - corsets and stockings and heels and makeup and all shaved smooth.
I still think I look dreadful, but I feel wonderful.
I went from dreading anybody knowing about it, to happily click clicking down the street in my stilettos and have told most of my friends.
I work in an extremely macho industry, and yet the response of most of my friends and contacts is 'damn, you look hot as a chick!'
I find my personality changes when dressed. So much so that I had to name my female side.
In all of this, my greatest thing is the sense of love and acceptance and passion from my partner, Cass. She has embraced this side of me and drawn it out to be the best it can be.
I wish all men who want to dress where as lucky as I am.
Love
Jane
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That's so lovely to hear Jane. Thank you for sharing your experience. Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know a lot will find this and me strange but i see 'Samantha'as the girlfriend i dont have.
'She'dresses in the styles of ladies im attracted too.And gets treated to nice things like lingerie that a guy would buy for his lady.
And guys...i know its hard to understand but if you get turned on by your lady dressed in something slinky and sexy wheres the harm in you dressing a bit with her...and maybe shell help with make up and styling too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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My wife doesn't really enjoy the girly thing herself. She doesn't like shopping. Isn't into shoes, makeup, bags, clothes.
I am though. I often buy her clothes and she loves that she doesn't have to go and choose.
My best mate's girlfriend is a girly girl. She and I do makeovers together. She loves doing nails and she spray tans too. I had one of those before a night out recently. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd love to give this a go. Shell buys my sexy knickers to wear occasionally but to go the whole hog would be awesome. I've TOTALLY got the legs for it haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Question to those of you who started late then...
Do you wish you'd started expressing and exploring it earlier??"
Yes. I'm all wrinkly and middle age spread now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know its not really the same thing at all but you'll often find me in the women's section in charity shops because men's shirts are so bloomin boring and I like to dress distinctively so a fair few of my shirts are women's... but you wouldn't know... lol or at least that's the illusion I live under 
There have been a fair few times when I've taken shirts off to the changing room and been given a few odd looks. One old guy recently asked me "are you sure?" and then when I insisted he said "well it takes all sorts" and that was only to try on a bright green coat they'd stuck in the women's section because they'd assumed no bloke would dare wearing it lol A few years back I went through a new romantic phase which was fun because a bloke wearing a blouse seems to be almost radical again. We do seem to be living through one of the most conservative eras in male fashion imo.
Not really into the whole pretending to be a woman thing... I'm just plain old eccentric and non-conformist lol 
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(having said that, like most blokes, I do like the idea of wearing a sexy woman's wet knickers just for the kink of it  ) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have been made to dress up in women's clobber and then fucked like a little bitch, which is both degrading and hot"
I've never felt degraded. Empowered perhaps but we all have our own reasons.
It is very hot though  |
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By *osieWoman
over a year ago
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I know most of you guys never will and won't want to but if you do and can get past feeling self conscious, worrying what others will think, worrying if you're suddenly less of a man.....
Right there.
That's you saying if we can get past our feelings we secretly want to. "
do you feel lucky? well, do ya punk? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have been made to dress up in women's clobber and then fucked like a little bitch, which is both degrading and hot
I've never felt degraded. Empowered perhaps but we all have our own reasons.
It is very hot though "
Yes really hot, but I think degrading in the sense that u r other people's play thing and when they r coming in u whilst dressed in lingerie ur made to feel a little bit dirty |
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By *d871Man
over a year ago
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My trouble with cross dressing is that I still look male. I like the idea and feel of it but I just look like a "cock in a frock". Are convincing TVs more sexy than un-convincing ones? For me, yes, but I get the idea of being attracted to a "cock in a frock" |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My trouble with cross dressing is that I still look male. I like the idea and feel of it but I just look like a "cock in a frock". Are convincing TVs more sexy than un-convincing ones? For me, yes, but I get the idea of being attracted to a "cock in a frock""
It seems many people, make or female, who seek fun with tv's and Tgirls, like the mix of the sexes. If they wanted a girl they'd fuck a girl. The theory that it's only desperate men who play with us is an unfounded myth. Obviously there are always exceptions.
There are some who seek the "shemales" they see in porn but most like a cock in a frock |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Any other late starters online today?
How was it for you when you first dressed up?"
Didn't try it until in my 40's I found out I liked cock. Now single I am developing my second wardrobe! The Goatee is gonna have to go though... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My trouble with cross dressing is that I still look male. I like the idea and feel of it but I just look like a "cock in a frock". Are convincing TVs more sexy than un-convincing ones? For me, yes, but I get the idea of being attracted to a "cock in a frock"
It seems many people, make or female, who seek fun with tv's and Tgirls, like the mix of the sexes. If they wanted a girl they'd fuck a girl. The theory that it's only desperate men who play with us is an unfounded myth. Obviously there are always exceptions.
There are some who seek the "shemales" they see in porn but most like a cock in a frock  "
No they don't, you are looking in the wrong places!!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just waking up after a delicious late night spent with 3 other cds in a layby with hot blooded males driving around checking out our lingerie clad high heeled bodies in the warm half moon night..i had to deliciously help one gent who was ramming my cd friend over the bonnet of her car..oh more memories memories.. |
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I love being me...as for "him" I just send him out to work to earn money for me to spend!
I started dressing 'bout 20 years ago but even from a very early age I knew that this is who I really am.
I must confess it took some time for me to pluck up the courage to come out of the shadows but I've not looked back since
All I can say is....Roll on Sparkle! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you for the compliments.
I was invited to sparkle by my Domme but work commitments have put an end to that plan. Gutted as I would love to have gone. Have fun all those who are going to be there. |
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First went to a dressing service 20 years ago x
Was so liberating x
Sadly looked like Pauline Caff ( google it )
Since then dressed for lovers x friends x dates and meets x
Prefer dressing as PVC Dom - male mode at the mo x |
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First tried a few knickers and stockings around puberty. Then over the years managed to try various partners clothes on in secret. Married and forgot about cross dressing then supermarkets got self serve tills so built up my own sexy wardrobe to wear while away on business once a week. Once i started meeting cd tv as a man i knew i had to dress further and get men to meet me. Love dressing but stockings are my main thing. Love sexy legs and a nice hard cock in a pair of sexy knickers xx great thread xxxxxx |
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I visited a makeover a few years ago and that was amazing never had i done the wig and makeup before. Couldnt believe how good i looked. Need to have one again. Anyone recommed any rather like to try a makeover at someones home and have some fun after while dressed. X  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am an ugly male, I would be one fuck ugly woman.
Like a wookie with lipstick.
Am sure it would be very liberating if you have hidden feelings, that some guy's may not realise they have.
Happy with who I am, size, age and confidence issues aside.
However any guy who is brave enough to go for it, has our uttermost respect.
Chapeau.
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Done it with a v supportive lady friend before and would love to do it loads more.
The feeling of being smooth, make up on, hair and nails done is so liberating.
Dying to go to a club and play the slut for all the horny guys there who eye you up as you walk through teasing them x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Was a late bloomer as only started dressing within the last 5 years although was always 'different'. I don't do it as often as I'd like but sometimes hard to control the urge. As someone said roll on Sparkle |
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"First tried a few knickers and stockings around puberty. Then over the years managed to try various partners clothes on in secret. Married and forgot about cross dressing then supermarkets got self serve tills so built up my own sexy wardrobe to wear while away on business once a week. Once i started meeting cd tv as a man i knew i had to dress further and get men to meet me. Love dressing but stockings are my main thing. Love sexy legs and a nice hard cock in a pair of sexy knickers xx great thread xxxxxx"
I can relate to that, but I'm not too concerned about whether shops are self service or not. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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Sorry, but I know I definitely don't want to. I am not self conscious nor do I care what others think but for me the idea is a total turn off. Good for those that enjoy it, but for me it's about as sexy or liberating as sticking pins in my eyeballs! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sorry, but I know I definitely don't want to. I am not self conscious nor do I care what others think but for me the idea is a total turn off. Good for those that enjoy it, but for me it's about as sexy or liberating as sticking pins in my eyeballs! "
Fair enough |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Heading out tonite in my car cruising in female form..literally counting hours til i can slip into my lingerie,heels black blouse wig and leather skirt.. sundown is so so many hours away yet. ;-(.. |
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