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Grow up.

By *irthy OP Man over a year ago

outside banbury

jussyt

Al to comon on here. Directing rooms in chat are more like demanding rooms. with no mods there to boot or warn - some guys will just bang on and on and on and if they get no reply or pm they behave apallingly.

Would they behave like that in the real world ?? In most cases they would be too shit scared to approach a lady i bet.

Put it down to experience....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't get the guys who wanna fuck ugly fat pigs?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why don't they just hang around farms instead?

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By *radleyandRavenCouple over a year ago

Herts

I love it, it's like a magic switch.

Pre-rejection/ignore/lack of a speedy reply - You're a sexy, gorgeous, stunning vixen of a woman.

Post-rejection/ignore/lack of a speedy reply - You're a fat, ugly skank who they wouldn't touch with a barge pole.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well jessiet i think your gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think you are supposed to start threads about receiving nasty messages. Unfortunately it happens. Best to block and ignore. I do understand your frustration though OP it's not very nice at all and I don't think you are immature for starting a thread about it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't think you are supposed to start threads about receiving nasty messages. Unfortunately it happens. Best to block and ignore. I do understand your frustration though OP it's not very nice at all and I don't think you are immature for starting a thread about it. "

Is there a rule that says she can't? I thought it was just illegal activities and naming that were not allowed to be discussed. She's done neither.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is there a rule that says she can't? I thought it was just illegal activities and naming that were not allowed to be discussed. She's done neither."

Well a very similar thread about receiving nasty messages was closed on Sunday so I guess we'll see won't we. I don't make the rules

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Report then block xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Unfortunately this is the Internet and there are many trolls hiding behind the protection of a keyboard.

It's not nice and I hope he was reported and blocked.

I'm also sure that it's not just women who get the nasty messages.

Respect goes a long way. Sometimes it's really lacking on here so a thick skin is also often required

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is there a rule that says she can't? I thought it was just illegal activities and naming that were not allowed to be discussed. She's done neither."

Forgot about the rules. Think it's inbox messages you can't talk about?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well excuuuuuuse me!!!

I don't know all the site rules. I'm so shy and retiring, they rarely apply to me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well excuuuuuuse me!!!

I don't know all the site rules. I'm so shy and retiring, they rarely apply to me.

Might be you can't copy and paste them? Not sure exactly and i can never find the rules anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Love getting sent a message from a guy on here calling me a fat ugly pig because I didn't reply to his message after 10 seconds

Real Mature."

0 to horny in 5.2 seconds? Or horny & wanting seconds?

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By *ythenshawefredMan over a year ago

stockport

I get baffled by the abuse both from guys who don't get a reply and the women/couples who reply abusively to a message they didn't want, I either ignore or if I'm feeling sarcastic I might reply with 'ok I'll take that as a maybe then shall I?' Always seems to wind them up that I wasn't running off to cry in the corner but never enter in to a slanging match

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But she had not even given a clue as to the identity of the abusive messenger. She's just complaining about fuckwits in general. If we banned that topic, the forums might be half empty!

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By *ex_OnTheBeachCouple over a year ago

kent ( by the seaside )

I think, that you're not allowed to post private messages in the forum or discuss them,

Best to just ignore and block

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So confused now.. Haven't posted the name of the user? Il keep everything to myself next time.

Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But she had not even given a clue as to the identity of the abusive messenger. She's just complaining about fuckwits in general. If we banned that topic, the forums might be half empty!

the rule is not to share PMs. Which should surely be common sense?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

But there is no clue to who sent it, nor did she give us the message verbatim. Just the gist of it. The thread she started is no different to hundreds of others I've seen.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I posted briefly what they said not the entire message word for word but okay

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It might have been better just putting a status update that all fuckwits will be dealt with as quickly and ruthlessly as possible!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love this thread.

I love when I click on the forum menu on my phone it currently says:

Swingers Support and Advice

Grow Up.

It's proper made me chuckle.

Sorry you had a rubbish message OP. Block and try not to let it get to you.

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By *ythenshawefredMan over a year ago

stockport

I can't see this thread as a problem not like you've said FredBloggs123 sent me 'you are ugly and probably smell like poo!!' (Apologies if FredBloggs123 exists) so I can't see the harm

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can't see this thread as a problem not like you've said FredBloggs123 sent me 'you are ugly and probably smell like poo!!' (Apologies if FredBloggs123 exists) so I can't see the harm"

The clue is in the name. It's a private message the identity of the sender is irrelevant

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had one the other day , calling me an old trout, I don't even pout on photos, needless to say ,I deleted and blocked

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By *ythenshawefredMan over a year ago

stockport

"I can't see this thread as a problem not like you've said FredBloggs123 sent me 'you are ugly and probably smell like poo!!' (Apologies if FredBloggs123 exists) so I can't see the harm

The clue is in the name. It's a private message the identity of the sender is irrelevant"

But from what I can see it's not verbatim, if every thread that paraphrased the content or a snippet of a private message was banned then there would be many threads left open. Just think of the threads that discus why people send messages that are text speak 'how r u' banned or threads about a guys sending a cock pic and the word 'hi'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Love getting sent a message from a guy on here calling me a fat ugly pig because I didn't reply to his message after 10 seconds

Real Mature."

And they say chivalry is dead! It says more about him than it does about you. Block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can't see this thread as a problem not like you've said FredBloggs123 sent me 'you are ugly and probably smell like poo!!' (Apologies if FredBloggs123 exists) so I can't see the harm

The clue is in the name. It's a private message the identity of the sender is irrelevant"

The actual message AND the ID of the sender are not disclosed. Where's the problem?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can't see this thread as a problem not like you've said FredBloggs123 sent me 'you are ugly and probably smell like poo!!' (Apologies if FredBloggs123 exists) so I can't see the harm

The clue is in the name. It's a private message the identity of the sender is irrelevant

The actual message AND the ID of the sender are not disclosed. Where's the problem?"

From the rules

Private mail should stay private

Please don't post private mail to the forums no matter how idiotic/funny it may be. It is strictly against site rules

Don't be personal

Personal attacks against other site users aren't allowed, even if you don't name them

Dirty laundry

The forums aren't for airing your dirty laundry in public. If you've got a problem with another site user, please block them and/or report to admin via the report link on their profile.

But out of interest why do you think it is ok for the OP to share a message and slag off the sender on the forums?

What does it achieve?

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By *weet medicineWoman over a year ago

Kesgrave

"Love getting sent a message from a guy on here calling me a fat ugly pig because I didn't reply to his message after 10 seconds

Real Mature."

cant handle rejection just ignore it you should have seen the abuse i got of a class A prick last week

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can't see this thread as a problem not like you've said FredBloggs123 sent me 'you are ugly and probably smell like poo!!' (Apologies if FredBloggs123 exists) so I can't see the harm

The clue is in the name. It's a private message the identity of the sender is irrelevant

The actual message AND the ID of the sender are not disclosed. Where's the problem?

From the rules

Private mail should stay private

Please don't post private mail to the forums no matter how idiotic/funny it may be. It is strictly against site rules

Don't be personal

Personal attacks against other site users aren't allowed, even if you don't name them

Dirty laundry

The forums aren't for airing your dirty laundry in public. If you've got a problem with another site user, please block them and/or report to admin via the report link on their profile.

But out of interest why do you think it is ok for the OP to share a message and slag off the sender on the forums?

What does it achieve? "

Because she didn't share the message, nor the ID. She asked a question, why do people send abuse.

It doesn't achieve anything really. I. Didn't know threads had to have a purpose.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I can't see this thread as a problem not like you've said FredBloggs123 sent me 'you are ugly and probably smell like poo!!' (Apologies if FredBloggs123 exists) so I can't see the harm

The clue is in the name. It's a private message the identity of the sender is irrelevant

The actual message AND the ID of the sender are not disclosed. Where's the problem?

From the rules

Private mail should stay private

Please don't post private mail to the forums no matter how idiotic/funny it may be. It is strictly against site rules

Don't be personal

Personal attacks against other site users aren't allowed, even if you don't name them

Dirty laundry

The forums aren't for airing your dirty laundry in public. If you've got a problem with another site user, please block them and/or report to admin via the report link on their profile.

But out of interest why do you think it is ok for the OP to share a message and slag off the sender on the forums?

What does it achieve?

Because she didn't share the message, nor the ID. She asked a question, why do people send abuse.

It doesn't achieve anything really. I. Didn't know threads had to have a purpose."

Where is the question in the opening post?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OK, fine, no question put forward, just a moan. Nobody has had any harm done to them. The only one who got upset was the OP, because of the abusive message sent to her.

I fail to see why her gripe is any different from the hundreds of others that get put on here.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

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By *ezebelWoman over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Is there a rule that says she can't? I thought it was just illegal activities and naming that were not allowed to be discussed. She's done neither."

Its not allowed. You cant use the forums to bad-mouth /air dirty laundry about another member - even if you dont name them - so the OP has been removed and Im closing the thread now.

And for anyone looking for the forum rules - there is a link to them just above the text box every time you post in the forums

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