can someone tell me why if you are arranging a meet would you not want to say a quick hi on FaceTime or Skype beforehand? So many fakes out there we just like to make sure people who they say they are when they have no verifications. Opinions please |
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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago
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Some people are not comfortable to cam and so never do, but it doesn't mean they're fakes. I've never cammed and never have been asked to. After a few messages, you can soon le out fakes without camming.
Camming with someone will only show that they're a real person and if they're maybe a genuine couple, but this can be faked to by a recording. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"can someone tell me why if you are arranging a meet would you not want to say a quick hi on FaceTime or Skype beforehand? So many fakes out there we just like to make sure people who they say they are when they have no verifications. Opinions please"
Because I trust people.
And I arrange to meet in places where I wouldn't mind hanging out anyway.
Inevitably in the past when I've just popped on to "prove" who I was, I've been asked to get naked and play, so I cancelled the meet anyway. I just don't do it anymore. If someone doesn't believe I'm real, then they don't have to meet me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just cam here in chat room, one to one, fairly simple and proves any pic you have on profile is genuine rather than a pic pinched from someones facebook,
best bet is to chat and cam, if both are willing to do that then a planned meet will go ahead |
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"can someone tell me why if you are arranging a meet would you not want to say a quick hi on FaceTime or Skype beforehand? So many fakes out there we just like to make sure people who they say they are when they have no verifications. Opinions please"
Because we find going on cam boring and we already have a verification (more on other sites). Plus we prefer long term arrangements with couples, we already have 3 regulars that we make effort to meet so we're not going to jump through hoops for new couples when we can just call one of our 3 for a booty call! That's just us though... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well each to their own that's what we say - we will continue our way and if people don't like it we can both move it along "
That's what you should do, keep to what you're happy with and whats worked for you in the past. Personally I would not have an issue if someone asked just to check I am the same person as the one in the photo. |
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"Well each to their own that's what we say - we will continue our way and if people don't like it we can both move it along
That's what you should do, keep to what you're happy with and whats worked for you in the past. Personally I would not have an issue if someone asked just to check I am the same person as the one in the photo. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well each to their own that's what we say - we will continue our way and if people don't like it we can both move it along "
No problem with your choices but just out of curiosity, why would your default assumption be that people with verifications need to authenticate themselves? I suppose a really dedicated time waster could setup multiple fake accounts to fake verifications - but is that your concern? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry should of explained better it's the ones with no verifications that wasn't to meet and won't say hi etc. I suppose you can spot a fake a mile anyway"
Oh right! Well I think it's reasonable to request a Skype appearance or phone call between the ladies if they don't have any verifications |
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I have someone I know and trust say she had her cam recorded when she did what she thought was a private cam (not a show, just to prove who she was). I never got to the bottom of how she found out, but the other person claimed it was so that they had a pic on their phone to recognise her when they met. It's certainly pretty easy to do technically.
For the first time, I actually hope she's fibbing to me! |
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