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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Brilliant sex with my ex but she would only orgasm the one time. To the extent that she would fall asleep afterwards. Like so many men are criticised for.
Is this a common thing for you ladies ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Noones ever tried to make me cum more than once so no idea if I can do it more than that, would love to lol!x"
What??  That's a terrible state of affairs and needs to be rectified as soon as possible!!!  |
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By *nfinity1Man
over a year ago
Near Bournemouth |
"Brilliant sex with my ex but she would only orgasm the one time. To the extent that she would fall asleep afterwards. Like so many men are criticised for.
Is this a common thing for you ladies ?"
Sounds like my wife lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends. I was with my fwb the other night, I came once with a toy, then he made me cum again with the toy, then he made me cum with his fingers and that was within 20 minutes. I was no where near done. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Noones ever tried to make me cum more than once so no idea if I can do it more than that, would love to lol!x
What?? That's a terrible state of affairs and needs to be rectified as soon as possible!!! "
Haha I know i do need someone who's attentive to my needs too lol! I can squirt all day but cumming just once lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've never cum more that once in a session but I don't fall to sleep after I still carry on 
if it's been a all nighters I have been known to cum again but only after a break and a few hours between rounds, but that's rare |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On the rare occasion a man can actually make me cum, he then does it over and over so no i've never just cum once. It's kinda sad that a man would only try and make someone cum once! Every guy i've ever met has been so turned on i can't generally stop him doing it again and again and why would i?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Brilliant sex with my ex but she would only orgasm the one time. To the extent that she would fall asleep afterwards. Like so many men are criticised for.
Is this a common thing for you ladies ?"
This is me down to a t xx i want to change but cant seem to xx |
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By *plpxp2Couple
over a year ago
Middlesbrough |
Met a couple where he told us she only came once, she was up to 10 when he started sulking and spoilt the night.
Have to confess that I just keep on coming when you have someone who knows the buttons to push. |
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By *qua vitaeWoman
over a year ago
Shropshire/Midlands |
Everybody is different. I used to only cum the once and when I did, my partner would finish himself off and that's it. No chance on whether to explore if I could cum again - the deed was done and that was it.
It wasn't until my late 30's and my fourth partner, that I discovered I could multiorgasm, sometimes several times a session (I usually loose count after 7 or 8). But sometimes I can only cum the once, or not at all. Depends on circumstances, partner, mood, arousal, etc. it doesn't bother me if I do or don't, but have had one or two partners complaining that I can sometimes take a while.. 
Who cares if someone can only cum the once or not sometimes?? As long as all is happy at the end of the day. |
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"Brilliant sex with my ex but she would only orgasm the one time. To the extent that she would fall asleep afterwards. Like so many men are criticised for.
Is this a common thing for you ladies ?"
It's normal for me. I've never found it a problem  |
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"Everybody is different. I used to only cum the once and when I did, my partner would finish himself off and that's it. No chance on whether to explore if I could cum again - the deed was done and that was it.
It wasn't until my late 30's and my fourth partner, that I discovered I could multiorgasm, sometimes several times a session (I usually loose count after 7 or 8). But sometimes I can only cum the once, or not at all. Depends on circumstances, partner, mood, arousal, etc. it doesn't bother me if I do or don't, but have had one or two partners complaining that I can sometimes take a while..
Who cares if someone can only cum the once or not sometimes?? As long as all is happy at the end of the day."
Some guys take it personal when I don't, but they don't get that I've had an amazing time regardless.
I don't feel there has to be a finale for me. It would be nice if there was but I'm just awkward.
Mrs x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think I come only the once very often. I don't like it when men ask how many times I came though,I don't count."
My answer to that is it depends how good you are |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
Vaginal orgasms I can do all night, but clitoral orgasms tend to be once only. My FB jokes that he leaves then til last because I tend to lose interest afterwards, way before he's finished |
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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago
Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you) |
I have been known to fall asleep after sex but it's usually a power nap after I have had a series of whole body orgasms.....I am good to go again after about 5-10 mins though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Brilliant sex with my ex but she would only orgasm the one time. To the extent that she would fall asleep afterwards. Like so many men are criticised for.
Is this a common thing for you ladies ?"
lol. That's terrible. Does reflect the males attitudes in Swansea or you just unlucky? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lol havn a great laugh here... Women can climax in 3+ different ways... Each way a few different levels!!.
1. the norm that all boys shud know....clit stimulation nomnom
2 deep front wall teaser...if she's a squirter wear your rain coat....soundproof the room...the kids will think your murdering mammy lol... Multiple orgasms possible here. The beautie of this one is if you have her up on the counter she will certainly need a zimmer frame afterward for jelly legs lol.
3 Anal climaxes... Whatever floats yer boat..some like the thoughts and sum Dont.... but carried out the correct way along with some toys in the right place ...prepair to blow yer top off girls as well as everything else....
There's my pennies worth gathered through the years and I'm sure there's many more ways but I keep them to myself for my Mr Grey days
Love to all and happy humping in the summer heat....yyyeee vitamin D at last!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Brilliant sex with my ex but she would only orgasm the one time. To the extent that she would fall asleep afterwards. Like so many men are criticised for.
Is this a common thing for you ladies ?"
95% of females ive been with cum multiple times at least 2 or 3. The other 5% just dont cum and they said thats how they are, can only make theirselves cum. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lol good man I do the exact same to my gf... Batteries drop outa her arse after clit pop he he ....but not funny when the roller coaster goes off track before the finish ....son of a.....lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i have a girl that i see and cant make her cum,,, whats the easiest way to bring her to an orgasm,,, she said she can but i cant find that magic button with her,,, help help |
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My first girlfriend used to cum over and over again.I assumed that all women were like that and had a rather rude awakening.I have a fb at the moment who can also cum repeatedly.I would love to think that it's down to my skill in bed but she says she is like that with every man she has sex with! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it depends on the intensity of the orgasm. Generally speaking if it's a normal clitoral orgasm then I can recover after about 20 minutes. However, there are some orgasms that totally wipe me out. Squirting really exhausts me because it's so intense (yes I know it's not an orgasm and yes I know it's wee). After repeatedly squirting until I can't take anymore i'm normally a quivering wreck and need a good sleep! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can have sex for hours and not orgasm , although I gush and gush "
Is squirting or gushing not cumming then? All the satisfied fucked feeling so surely that's a orgams? ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've found there are different levels of orgasm...with different ladies. My ex used to take ages to get there...but once she did it was whole body shaking, legs turn to jelly, like really could not stand, flushed over whole body, goosebumps the lot... She then became hyper sensitive and could take no more.
With others the orgasms are less intense but can repeat many times.... That includes those who squirt or gush multiple times.
The best has been with my best friend who combines both....multiple which can go on for hours if we have the time..... But always good to then go for the little trick that tips her over The edge into a shuddering trembling heap after which she is of use to neither man nor beast for next 15 mins.... Wobbly, tearful and gasping for breath.
I guess it is just that all women are different |
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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago
Nr Manchester |
I inadvertently trained myself to become multiorgasmic which means I can stay with the extremely sensitive stage post orgasm. The best way to train yourself to cum again and again is to use a vibrator.
After your first orgasm turn it to a low setting for about 10 seconds then raise it again to full power, breathe deeply, do not tense yourself and do not take the vibe away.
You can move it around but always return quickly to the spot you know makes you come (this is not always the clitoris... You may prefer it inside). Sometimes you may prefer to use two vibes... One inside and one on the outside. Relax and ride through the sensitivity to your next orgasm which should happen quite quickly after the first.
The trick is to keep stimulated before the tension drops below the plateau phase.
Enjoy! Repeat! Enjoy! Repeat! Enj......  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had this myself with the ex. It was like having a sexual relationship with a female Gene Hunt (life on Mars detective!) all she needed was an 80's Audi Quatrro to finish off the look! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My wife only comes once but she has very intense orgasms and toss around on the bed like she's fitting and she gets extremely wet. when she calms down and gets back to it she gets intense feelings in side her making her want more but she can dry up very quickly and go sore, she says its her age and the change |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me it depends on the intensity of the orgasm. Generally speaking if it's a normal clitoral orgasm then I can recover after about 20 minutes. However, there are some orgasms that totally wipe me out. Squirting really exhausts me because it's so intense (yes I know it's not an orgasm and yes I know it's wee). After repeatedly squirting until I can't take anymore i'm normally a quivering wreck and need a good sleep!"
Well last night hubby made me squirt so many times and it was so overwhelming I burst into tears haha. Then he immediately sucked and licked my clit which usually wouldn't do anything for me but I then had a clitoral orgasm! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm different every time. I think for me, it depends on things like tiredness, when I last had an orgasm, hormones, sex position, how long we are playing with, amount of foreplay.
I don't care. I don't care if I don't cum as long as I felt pleasure. If I cum lots during one session, I don't think it more of a success than a session when I've only cum once. I can feel sexually satisfied without an orgasm. Sometimes, orgasms just make me more horny. Most over a day period from morning til bedtime, 19. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Noones ever tried to make me cum more than once so no idea if I can do it more than that, would love to lol!x
What?? That's a terrible state of affairs and needs to be rectified as soon as possible!!! mmmmm sound.like you need to.be teased and have lots of attention payed to you juat a same your far away could.have said let's try and.make tou cum.more.then.once
Haha I know i do need someone who's attentive to my needs too lol! I can squirt all day but cumming just once lol x"
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By *tevelizCouple
over a year ago
northampton |
"Brilliant sex with my ex but she would only orgasm the one time. To the extent that she would fall asleep afterwards. Like so many men are criticised for.
Is this a common thing for you ladies ?
Sounds like my wife lol"
 same here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Brilliant sex with my ex but she would only orgasm the one time. To the extent that she would fall asleep afterwards. Like so many men are criticised for.
Is this a common thing for you ladies ?"
My ex wife was like that....it was very frustrating for me unfortunately 
My new partner hardly ever cums just once...very rare...she really only stops when we are exhausted. she says she's always been that way...multi-orgasmic lol....we are a great match...
Good thread I will be watching intently
IMHO it's very important to have similar sex drives. |
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Why is a big thing for men to make the women cum more then once? I very rarely cum at all let alone more then once. I have always found it to be the men that feel inadequate if they cannot make their woman orgasm. That is not the case and if men didn't put such an emphasis on making a woman cum; we would have a much better time when playing. I do not cum easily and stop trying to make me or asking me if I have. I have had much better encounters where I haven't cum then the 1% that has made me. It's not all about the cumming for us ladies but the fun that we have along the way! |
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It's not a massive thing for us, but my orgasms can last a long long time, especially if he's pushing the right spots for me. I don't know if you'd call it multiple orgasms but if you do then I simultaneously have a few when we have sex. It's what I love about my other half.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i have a friend and she is a gusher, fingered her and she squirted, so exciting so i got her to ride me over my boxers, thay were soaked and felt great then moved down and she rubbed her clit on my nose and gushed over my face,,, omg, i,m hard now just thinking about it,, wwwooowwwwww
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"Brilliant sex with my ex but she would only orgasm the one time. To the extent that she would fall asleep afterwards. Like so many men are criticised for.
Is this a common thing for you ladies ?"
Certainly not for me. At a really good party, I'm just cumming all the time!
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I come over and over again in different ways, clitoral stimulation, g spot, gushing versus not, and the latter makes me clench up and push him out. With my wand or on my own is different than it is with Mr .... enjoy it all |
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