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over a year ago
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"Fun, but often has a bit of an older crowd. Some guys can be a bit pushy/ follow you round. "
I was worried about that before I went to the greenhouse in Birmingham.
I was followed and pestered a few times but I just said sorry and no. They left me alone immediately.
I met and played with some really hot guys (I wasn't in girl mode).
Me and a lovely blonde guy put on a show and were offered lots of cocks to play with too..... Yes we did 
Only complaint was that I was quite sore for a week after  |
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"I'd love to go along and watch *sigh*"
Me too! I have a fantasy about dropping Adam off, waiting outside and collecting. 
Missing a trick..... Let us girls in to watch! Promise to be very quiet. 
Vx |
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"I'd love to go along and watch *sigh*
Me too! I have a fantasy about dropping Adam off, waiting outside and collecting.
Missing a trick..... Let us girls in to watch! Promise to be very quiet.
I'm up for that
Vx "
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"Possibly.... I get in dressed like a girl
I'd *love* to go to a gay sauna dressed as a guy. Totally afraid of violence though.  "
Violence? If they realised and got stressy?
I'm pretty sure you could manage to get in but you'd have to just watch so as not to give yourself away.
No one ever seems to speak much in saunas..... unless I'm there! I can't be doing with no one talking so I just start group chats or if I'm under a pile of guys I try to lighten things up a bit. It can all get a bit frantic otherwise. |
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"Possibly.... I get in dressed like a girl
I'd *love* to go to a gay sauna dressed as a guy. Totally afraid of violence though.
Violence? If they realised and got stressy?
I'm pretty sure you could manage to get in but you'd have to just watch so as not to give yourself away. "
I am trans/genderqueer so I'd like to play to some extent, but my experiences of the gay scene is that unfortunately it's not always very tolerant. |
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They're all different, a bit like swinging clubs. Some have special events, like tgirl nights. No always means no though.
You'll get different facilities in each. A sauna is standard, probably a steam room, a jacuzzi, chill out areas, bar/cafe and play spots/rooms.
There'll be a mixture of people who know each other, others who don't. Some gay, some bi and curious etc. You can go and enjoy the facilities and get to view the activities and behaviour of others and any fun can be a bonus: just as with swinging clubs. Who is there is pretty random, though some times of day/days of the week will be quieter than others.
If you fancy someone, make eye contact, smile and chat, or make physical gestures, to get away to somewhere more private. There will be safer sex materials there.
Many provincial ones are smaller and quieter than those in bigger towns, so research before planning a trip. |
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"Possibly.... I get in dressed like a girl
I'd *love* to go to a gay sauna dressed as a guy. Totally afraid of violence though.
Violence? If they realised and got stressy?
I'm pretty sure you could manage to get in but you'd have to just watch so as not to give yourself away.
I am trans/genderqueer so I'd like to play to some extent, but my experiences of the gay scene is that unfortunately it's not always very tolerant."
I already knew that. I'm afraid they're pretty strict on men only so unless you have a penis they wouldn't want you there. There are some nights when they open the doors to couples though. I've not been to one of those. I'm sure many of the usual guys would be there still so that might be an option. I don't know if this helps much. Sorry  |
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By *im himCouple (MM)
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We are regulars at the greenhouse in darleston . We know most of the staff by there names and we love to go just to chill out . Sometimes we can go and it's non stop then other times we don't get anything it's just luck of the draw . To us though it not a problem ether way . We just like going there . |
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"Possibly.... I get in dressed like a girl
I'd *love* to go to a gay sauna dressed as a guy. Totally afraid of violence though.
Violence? If they realised and got stressy?
I'm pretty sure you could manage to get in but you'd have to just watch so as not to give yourself away.
I am trans/genderqueer so I'd like to play to some extent, but my experiences of the gay scene is that unfortunately it's not always very tolerant.
I already knew that. I'm afraid they're pretty strict on men only so unless you have a penis they wouldn't want you there. There are some nights when they open the doors to couples though. I've not been to one of those. I'm sure many of the usual guys would be there still so that might be an option. I don't know if this helps much. Sorry "
Any idea if there are any midlands saunas that have couples nights? |
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"Possibly.... I get in dressed like a girl
I'd *love* to go to a gay sauna dressed as a guy. Totally afraid of violence though.
Violence? If they realised and got stressy?
I'm pretty sure you could manage to get in but you'd have to just watch so as not to give yourself away.
I am trans/genderqueer so I'd like to play to some extent, but my experiences of the gay scene is that unfortunately it's not always very tolerant.
I already knew that. I'm afraid they're pretty strict on men only so unless you have a penis they wouldn't want you there. There are some nights when they open the doors to couples though. I've not been to one of those. I'm sure many of the usual guys would be there still so that might be an option. I don't know if this helps much. Sorry
Any idea if there are any midlands saunas that have couples nights?"
i love the one in southampton and will happily take anyone there |
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