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Why do some cpls not comunicate?
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"Hi I've noticed that some cpls do not comunicate with you, like they don't answer messages why would that be even if you have had a good meet?"
to most couples or even singles for that matter , meeting is about sex not friendship (despite what it may on their profile ). people have lives to live . lust fueled sex contact with strangers is just one small part of it . next time they get the urge for swinging they'll be all over you again . no harm meant , its just folk . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If they had just said they didn't want to meet again even when they were back home i wouldn't be bothered!"
Why are you bothered?you are meeting people for NSA not looking to have a relationship with them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think for many couples this is about variety and they move on to the next meet, it's not Facebook where everyone wants to chat and keep in touch with people.
It doesn't necessarily mean that they don't like you and that they won't contact you again in the future. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why do people in general fail to communicate ?
It's certainly isn't limited to couples that's for sure
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Why does it worry you.? If you've had a good meet and they don't message you back, so what ? You got your shag ... what mpre do you want ?
In all honesty if we have a meet, no matter how good it was, we don't have any real wish for continued dialogue day in / day out.
We have lots of other things in our lives to be getting on with, other things to worry about and swinging isn't one of them .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hate being left in the dark thats all, they didn't want sex any how!"
You may not have been what they were looking for and didnt want to hurt your feelings. I'd just move on |
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"Don't see why you can't have sex and friendship, whats the problem?"
Sorry if this is a bit blunt but you didnt have sex did you? If they didnt want sex with you, they may not have found you attractive for whatever reason.
This may be why they are not responding, let it go and move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hate being left in the dark thats all, they didn't want sex any how!"
Well if we met a single guy on a swingers site and did'nt want to have sex with them,baring in mind we only really play with single guys then it would'nt be a good meet for us
I think you should take the non communication as a sign they don't want to meet again and are'nt really interested in maintaining a friendship,it happens and im sure you'll meet up with people that you can have both fun and friendship with
good luck
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't see why you can't have sex and friendship, whats the problem?"
If sex and friendship is what you are looking for on here a dating site might be better for you? x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Youv'e got me wrong they didn't want full sex with anyone they just wanted soft fun, I think maybe the female found me very attractive and wanted sex with me thats the problem!! |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"Youv'e got me wrong they didn't want full sex with anyone they just wanted soft fun, I think maybe the female found me very attractive and wanted sex with me thats the problem!!"
well if you think that there may be issues... I would back right off.
start a fresh with others... good luck |
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"Youv'e got me wrong they didn't want full sex with anyone they just wanted soft fun, I think maybe the female found me very attractive and wanted sex with me thats the problem!!"
Must have been a terrible temptation for her.....you have to applaud her ability to keep her hands to herself. |
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"Youv'e got me wrong they didn't want full sex with anyone they just wanted soft fun, I think maybe the female found me very attractive and wanted sex with me thats the problem!!
Must have been a terrible temptation for her.....you have to applaud her ability to keep her hands to herself."
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"Youv'e got me wrong they didn't want full sex with anyone they just wanted soft fun, I think maybe the female found me very attractive and wanted sex with me thats the problem!!"
I've really got to applaud this post - well done that man - hubby will have banned her from contacting you no doubt as you will have left him filled with intense jealousy. Z |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi I've noticed that some cpls do not comunicate with you, like they don't answer messages why would that be even if you have had a good meet?"
because they dont want too lol
ive met guys before and not mailed them after even if its been a good met
not everyones after a penpal and regular meets  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi I've noticed that some cpls do not comunicate with you, like they don't answer messages why would that be even if you have had a good meet?
because they dont want too lol
ive met guys before and not mailed them after even if its been a good met
not everyones after a penpal and regular meets "
I think that point is lost on some people!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Youv'e got me wrong they didn't want full sex with anyone they just wanted soft fun, I think maybe the female found me very attractive and wanted sex with me thats the problem!!"
Or maybe they just wanted some fun and don't require a third person in their marriage on a day to day basis? Jeez, get over yourself  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Listen dont get hung up on that, this is not a dating site, its a sex site plain an simple.if you get laid well done . An dont think be seeing her or them again, for plenty its about seeing new people, an having fun thats there BUZZ thats it.Of course if your a hit say at party sure you will be invited again, if not stay home an play with yourself  |
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