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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I am sending a first message I like to tell them a bit about ourselves, expand on our profile and I like to ask a question to - so that we can start a conversation.
When I am receiving a first message I am always impressed if the message refers to a photo/forum post/or item from our profile. I like the message to tell me something interesting about the person. I hate it when first message is one line and is text speak or badly spelt. ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By *P2903Couple
over a year ago
Rotherham |
Read the person's profile. Write something that is polite, funny and that references the content of the profile to show that you have bothered to read it. Attach a face, full body and cock shot if you can (men only obviously).
Don't be rude or say "fancy a fuck" unless they've specifically stated or implied that that is an appropriate manner in which to start a conversation. Check your spelling, check it again.
Just like you shouldn't shop when hungry, don't message whilst you're wanking.
If you're contacting a couple, remember there are two people and address your message accordingly.
That's for starters. The rest is pretty much all customisation based on the profile. |
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